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Solution to a general life situation/problem. Advice on taking important decision in life. And guidance on practicing Rajyog to empower from within and emerging Soul's original virtues. Original Email Received I am a 16 year old my name i Shreyanshi . In my 11 th class my parents and sisters send me to kota for my further studies but after coming here i realise that i don't want to live here this was my first time coming away from home without my family i told them pls let me live with you or my any sisters for my 11th and after that i will live wherever you say,i tell them i can't live here but they tell me after time pass you will like to live here they totally ignored me. I was never be able tell what I want to anyone but when I saw your online videos I think I can tell you comfotably pls solve my problem tell me to what to do I don't want to go there. I want to study a lot a get into IIT's and return the money I have wasted, and I want to show them that in order to live a good life you don't need large money if your soul is pure and good you will be able to live happy. Please tell me a way to overcome my mistakes and to realise money can't buy happiness. Our Email Response To: Shweta & Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) Topic: advice to progress, make life better ( save this email. This is advice for your life journey) Topic source: Law of Karma: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/karma Dear Divine Sister We take care of every soul who once raise their hand towards God. Late because we have many other services to do + many emails come daily. Now to advice you that nothing needs to be done externally. The only way to change something in your life is to change your karma. Because our karma creates and shapes our future. Once the future is created, no one can change it. Hence it is always said that human beings should do each karma carefully. Use your intellect. God has given you mind and intellect to think, decide and hence create your own life. Do not be influenced by other's thoughts about you. Refer: Original 7 virtues of Soul -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/7-virtues-of-soul You must know yourself. You must know what you want to do in life. Your intention is good that you wish to firstly return the money your parents has spent on education. Then you wish to stay with your parents. Everyone is unique. So you ask yourself - ''will i study better staying with my parents OR should i stay away?''. It is your will and your parents should support you. They also wants good for you. So if you are 100% sure that you will perform beter if you stay with parents, then try convincing them. Remain positive. Do your best and leave the result. Result is NOT in our hands. Simply enjoy the life. Only be aware that Whatever you will do, will be returned to you,,. Why be sad? God is with us. Always remember - the only thing - 'Never Give sorrow to anyone. Never take sorrow from anyone'. Make this your slogan. ~~~ Some tips for Study ~~~ 1. Practice Swamaan - Swamaan will uplift your mental stage and empower from within. This practice has helped many many souls. Here are commentaries you listen DAILY MORNING and before sleep. Save this link -> http://bit.ly/Swamaan 2. Meditation. Learn meditation -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation 3. Listen Relaxing Music in background while studying -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/relaxation-music-nature-sounds Hope you will folow. This will definitely help you. Know about us. About Us -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Namaste In Godly World Service 00

How to overcome feeling of being inferior and comparing the self with others? A spiritual guide and princles in life that matter the most. How to think? What is the right path to walk in life? Original email we received from Vaishali Sharma on 28 Sep 2018 Om Shanti! My name is Vaishali Sharma and I am a first year MBBS Student. The problem that I am facing currently is related to comparing my life with a girl who lives in my colony. She's a BA Graduate and gives home tution as a part time course and has an average income. She doesn't have a very strong financial background and her family doesn't give her financial support. But despite all this she's able to afford to travel here and there almost every day and that too in a car ;eat at expensive restaurants ; drinks expensive beer; wears branded clothes and makeup. And a huge credit goes to her boyfriend for the kind of lavish lifestyle she lives. Her mother and brother despite knowing all this don't scold her, rather they promote her for doing this. I on the other hand have never betrayed my parent's trust and I have always been a sincere girl. But for the past 1.5 to 2 years I have been comparing my life with hers. And during this time I was actually viewing her Instagram account almost regularly which further destroyed my self esteem because I was able to see that she was having fun in her life. I struggled a lot just to earn my MBBS seat and the journey was never like a cakewalk but I couldn't help comparing my life with hers because she was always chilling around with her friends and boyfriend. Whereas I faced tremendous pressure, criticism, failures, disappointments and a wave of conflicting emotions. I still feel sometimes that God has been unfair to me and has been kind to her for he didn't gave her a struggling life. My teachers and parents used to say that after passing 10th one should work hard and focus on career and studies or else you will have to live a struggling life for the next 50-60 years. She didn't work hard but still she's enjoying and happy. I know that I have so much to be grateful to God but I'm just not able to appreciate the things and people he has blessed me with. How to deal with this? Please help. THANK U VAISHALI SHARMA Our Response Vaishali Your message is received and read. Read with attention. Very strange to see how India, a country of culture and religion, the most ancient and important land has changed in few years. Before, good life was considered to be the one in which we get peace of mind, in which we stay away from all bad, in which we fulfill our responsibilities and then we struggle, work hard, but at last get the real success. This is called ''life''. Going here and there, drinking, etc. is a task of a human beings who has lost the way of life. There is no real happiness in this. Person may only look happy. Real happiness lies in doing what is not against the Dharma. Always remember Vaishali, in your life, at every single point, you will have 2 choice. One of those 2 is right and better. Mostly the right choice looks difficult. A wise person should not be attracted in temporary pleasures. And see, it is not your bad fortune, that you are safe and away from such a life, but it is a better fortune. This you should know that one who walks on right path, does not indulge in bad karma, shall definitely get everything that life has to offer. Hard work is best for this. Hard work is dharma. Celibacy is your dharma. Helping to the needy, serving parents and thanking God is our Dharma. Cleanliness, not harming anyone (non voilence) is our Dharma If you walk on this path, there shall be temporary pain, sacrifices. After this, is bright light, which is great reward. We wish to know - ''How did you come to know about Prajapita Brahma Kumaris''? - Say in detail. Here are some very useful pages you should visit. About Us: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Celibacy: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/celibacy-is-raja-yoga-way-of-Life Do visit both pages. What do you think now? Accha namaste 00

Question /Problem of a wife who lives away from husband and in-laws, who keeps away from her and wants divorce. Sister needs advice on how to go forward in life. Original Question asked via Email : Nister , I am 29 years old married since 3 years.right from marriage there been many disturbances in our relationship.2 years ago we were about to separate but compromised. now again we are in the same situation.i am ready to compromise but my in-laws are not in a position to understand me.due to some of my health conditions I am living near to my office as I can't do journey daily.visiting my inlaws in holidays and weekends. My husband is not ready to live with me as that is little far from his office.but my in laws have made that as a point to give me divorce from my husband.they are creating rumours also that I have extra marital affairs and so I am living separate. They are believing a horoscope written by a pandit that I will have extra marrital affiar with someone after having a child with my husband. They have strong feeling that I should give birth to only a male child not at all a girl child. I am struggling from weeks with this, not able to dare to take divorce as how my life will be after divorce? What my colleagues think of me? How to go forward in life? Our Email Response (Answer) Dear Sister, your letter about - ''Family, husband and in-laws..'' is received and read. Here is our response. Now what is the state to your relationship with wife and family? It is better? 1. You are living alone and that is also a good thing. You can use this as in your benefit. Self awareness, Introversion and meditation are divine aspects of ife which are more easily experienced in solitude. 2. Why? No matter what difficulty in life one have, if one makes the self powerful then obstacles will be finished. 3. How? Try and wake up little early in morning - sit in silence and practice 'Swamaan'. If you are connected to Brahma Kumari Ishwariya Vidhyalay, then you would know the meaning of this word, otherwise also it is easy. You can practice this Swamaan - Swamaan means self respect. Our Swamaan are - I am a peaceful soul, Pure soul, Powerful soul, Loveful Soul.. (Pavitra Atma, Shanti Swaroop Atma, Shakti swaroop Atma...) Swamaan commentaries (playlist): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 * Every morning - wake up early (around 5 am) and listen these above commentaries. Here are more Raja Yog music & guided commentaries: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary What is Raja Yoga?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation (save above links) Shiv baba is always with you till you chose to be Pure (celibacy). Pluse we always are with you, to guide you. ok? Awakening episodes in Audio: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/awakening-bk-audio-episodes (( Awakening episodes speially helped MANY families to solve relationship problems..)) How to handle and sustain family and family life, is all explained in the Awakening with Brahma Kumaris TV program by Sister Shivani. Awakening Website (for TV program times): http://awakening.in/ Fo general guidance on Husband-Wife relationship, visit here: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers Accha namaste In God Fatherly World Service 00

In present time, there is lot of burden of education in schools and colleges in India. A student writes to us to seek advice upon this. How to give exams without fear? How to get success in exams? Here is our response and guidance to Overcome exam fear. Original Email Received in Feb 2019 I am preparing for govt sector. Therefore giving several exams. But the result is not in favour. Everytime the result announced my parents says like- 'what kind of study u doing,not clearing any exam' ,'others child how they do' etc etc.. After hearing these comments I get demoralized. And now I suspect myself to be a fail... What to do? Our Email Response TO: Ankit & Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay Topic: Exam, success, overcome fear Dear Divine Brother/Sister It is explained also in Shrimat Geeta that - ''Human being should only focus on karma (work) and leave everything else upon fortune and God.'' What it means for you is - ''Do your best. Put 100% effort in writing the exam. Study and rest do not worry about results. This result does not represent your ability to understand. It only represent your ability to 'remember.'' Learn in an intellectual manner - revise everything once and then focus on individual chapters. The best way to learn is to 'see' it. Visual explanation is useful. Moreover, it depends on the memory power of brain. Guidance How can you Develop memory power? Answer: Learn meditation. On our website, you can not only ''learn'' Raja Yog meditation, but also we have music and guided commentaries to support to learning. Plus listen below given 'Nature Relaxing Sounds' while you study. 1. What is Raja YOg meditation? https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation 2. RajYoga music + Commentaries (to Learn) (Wake up early morning and listen these guided commentaries.) https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary 3. Nature Relaxing Sounds (while studying) https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/relaxation-music-nature-sounds * Related Article /post * How to focus and enjoy study?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/how-to-focus-and-enjoy-study Hope you will follow the given guidance and walk the path to divinity in Life. Also then visit 7 virtues of Soul On Godfatherly World Service 00

How can I live a life of a Brahma Kumar while living with my family? How to convince my family that I don't want to marry. This is our guidance on Purity/celibacy or Brahmacharya. A way to live the life as great in the line of Shiv baba's Shrimat. Guidelines for Brahma Kumari or Kumari living with their loukik family Original Email we Received Dear Sir, My Body name is Bhaveesh Kumar. My body is 28 years old, I am working as a computer engineer in a company of Gurugram, I am very fortunate to write this letter, because I am writing a letter where God Himself Come and give knowledge. I have a very complex problem. I believe that the correct answer can be found only from you, so I am writing the letter directly to you. My problem is that I do not want to get married because I want to live my life in the spiritual path in celibacy and I am insisted by family to marry, but I do not want to marry in any condition.Sir My request is to guide me - that I should not even get married and the family is also happy. And also tell me how live a life of a Brahma Kumar Thank you Our Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone reading who have similar question From: On behalf of Shiv baba It is very nice that you are aware and know the greatness of Celibacy / Purity / Brahmcharya in life. Hence you wish to remain a kumar. Is it your strong feeling? The answer is simple and direct - Shiv baba has said - ''You must not have even a little wish to marry.'' To marry, means to invite and challenge Maya (5 vikar). In this great time of Sangam yug, a soul marries with the Supreme soul (Shiv baba). This is called 'Sangam' This is also a Sangam (confluence) of Kaliyug (old world) and Satyug (new world). God comes in this time to re-create the new world. We are his children. Till the end of this email, you shall understand how you can become a Brahma Kumari. So focus and read. Brahma Kumari means a Kumar of Prajapita Brahma, through whom Shiv baba gives us the inheritance of heaven. ''Brahma dwara Satyug ki sthapana'' Shiv baba gives the knowledge (speaks the Murli) through the medium of Brahmababa and adopts us and hence we are called Brahma Kumari or Kumar. Hence, as you follow the shrimat given in murli by Shiv baba, you are a Brahma Kumar. Shrimat is also simple - Purity and RajYog - ''Pavitra bano, RaajYogi bano'' - ''Become pure, Become a RajYogi''. So can you become pure and follow the shrimat while living with family and fulfilling all your duties? It is difficult according to the karma accounts one has with their family. But when we connect our buddhi (intellect) with Shiv baba, this becomes easy. With time, the path to victory will be cleared. This is the best way. The aim of this last Sangam yug birth is to become like a deity (Lakshmi and Narayan) and service to the world - to establish the religion of peace in entire world. How to become a BK - Guidelines: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/how-to-join-bk Celibacy - A way of Life: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/celibacy-is-raja-yoga-way-of-Life About Us: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us If your intention is strong towards Purity, then automatically obstacles will finish and family will also agree that yes purity is the way of life and shrimat of God. You should explain the Gyaan to your family also. Videos: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/videos Need anything? Contact us. Accha namaste In Godly World Service 00

Dealing with in-LAWS is sometimes difficult because they are new to you. You are new to them. There lacks an understanding or acceptance. There can occur a difference in opinion. Thus here is our advice on How to deal with everyone of your New family with love and patience. Do listen till end. Original Email Received OM SHANTI! I am listening to BK Shivani from long back. I am facing some problem to which I am requesting a solution. I am married (arrange marriage) since 3 years, me and my husband's job is also in chandigarh now from last 1.5 years. My parents and in laws are not sharing a good relationship which is affecting my personal life with my husband and my stress level. My mother in law is having some problem with depression so we have to ask each and everything before doing anything, i.e. we cant do anything of our own. I am not able to think what to do? how to do? How to handle situations tactfully without hurting anybody and without letting do whatever only my mother in law wants. Please provide me solution of this. Many thanks. Our Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) Dear Divine Sister, Your email is received and read. Here is our answer. Become light. You are a light. Soul is a point of light. YOU ARE A SOUL. So let us begin. Your situation is fairly sensitive and it needs you to become very 'sensible' to stablise the life. So if you explain your mother in law about that you need to go to your family, if you can convince them with your extra good behavior and some smile. See this works. If they are sensible and give respect to your thoughts, then there is no reason to stop you. OK? You seem to be in a position which feels like it is suffocating you. As you cannot discuss your situation with anyone, it is the right time to make the real connection with God. He will listen to you and you can share all your problems with him. He hears you and even gives you solution, provided you are ready to listen to it. Meaning that, your mind must be silent, not in turmoil to hear what he has to say. He will start guiding you as to how you should handle this situation at home in the right way. You are carrying a soul (child) within you. Not only what you eat affects the child, but your thoughts and the atmosphere at home will have a deep impact on the child. So it is upto you to create positive thoughts and vibrations in the house so that everyone is benefited from that. Practice to be detached to whatever is happening around and make a promise to yourself that whatever happens I will be light and happy (at least for the sake of the child). It might seem difficult, even impossible now, but if you practice Rajyog (connection with god) in small steps regularly, it will help you immensely. ~~ What you need to do ~~ Start practising Rajyog. But before that you need to take 7 days course online from here: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course OR visit your nearest BK Rajyog center (Recommended) 2. Rajyog guided commentaries + music https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary 3. Listen to Swaman commentaries early in the morning https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 ~~ Links on Mother Baby care~~ Divine Mother Baby http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Divine%20Mother%20Baby.htm Watch all episodes in this series ''Virtue Baby'' when you get time during the day -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y07fjkn7_LY&list=PLjzCBUU9MVAqd7aYJBEDM0CSx7TdxQvkY ~~ Useful Links ~~ About Us: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Who am I?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/who-am-i-the-soul Hope this helps. Do email and let us know of your progress. Namaste In God Fatherly service 00

Clarification is given on some points from Gyan Murli on Paramdham, Satyug, Krishna, Yog stage and more. To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) About: Clarification on Murli points 1. Vishnupuri Is the coming new world where the 2 forms of Vishnu (Shri Lakshmi & Shri Narayan) will rule the divine kingdom. Satyug is called Vishnupuri or Swarg (heaven). Puri - means a place. Vishnupuri - a place where Vishnu rules. Paramdham The Soul world. Our original residence is paramdham (Supreme abode) where we souls live before coming in the corporeal world to play our part. Soul is a tiniest point of light or consciousness. Scientifically, the Soul world is zero dimensional. There is no sound, no motions and no time. This is what the seekers (sansayis/sages) call - the Ultimate truth or Nirwana. Paramdham is our supreme home and the permanent residence of the Supreme soul (God). References: Three World and Satyug Golden age 2. Krishna and Radha - Are childhood names of Lakhmi and Narayan. It is explained in Murlis. Krishna is the first child born in the age of Satyug (first child born with the power of Yog). Radha follows. After their marriage, their names changes to Lakshmi and Narayan and they are the King and the Queen of Golden age in Bharat. Their Kingdom is still remembered as the ''Perfect world''. 3. Karma-Ateet Meaning: Ateet (away/above) from the results of our own Karma. One who below aloof (above) of experiencing the result of karma. This is the highest stage of Soul. Closest to the supreme soul - Karmateet sthiti. This stage can only come when the soul is in complete knowledge of Drama and Yog power is at its peak. There is no worldly attraction. In such way the soul joins its intellect with Shiv baba. 4. God is the Father, Teacher and Guide Father: Gives us the inheritance of new world (heaven), loves us and gives sustenance. Teacher: Teach us the knowledge of truth (of Soul, Supreme Soul and World drama) Guide: Takes us back to our the supreme home (home of eternal peace and light - Paramdham /Nirwana) Read Articles -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/articles Revelations from Murli (advance): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/revelations Save above links * Mobile apps * For Android: http://bit.ly/BkAndroidApps For iPhone: http://bit.ly/iPhoneAppsBk Accha namaste On Godfatherly Service 00

It is very important to remain POSITIVE during a setback in life (eg: illness or a disease). While you have to care for your body, also give positive vibrations so that the body is healed quickly. Here is our guidance on this. Do read and SHARE to those who need it. Email received on 31 August 2019: My mom is in cancer. And I am unable to take this setback. All thoughts of sometimes disobeying her as children come to my mind. She is the most purest soul ever. Can't get a hold of myself nor sleep. Our Guided Response We at BK RajYog centres, daily give sakash (vibrations) to all souls of world. ''Let good happen to all'' Dear divine Sister/Brother, You are observing such thoughts as a 'cause'. This is caused by the underlying thought that - 'I am going to lose my mother now'. To love someone means to have only and ONLY POSITIVE thoughts for them. So in love, only think that whatever will happen will happen for our good. This is the best way to live. In fact, even if you think that mother will survive from cancer, you are 'expecting' that to happen. But what if it doesn't happen? All happens for good for the soul. This is the nature of world drama. Also be aware that by giving her POSITIVE vibrations, you are helping in recovery. Do NOT and never create sorrow or negative thoughts. If such thoughts come, counter them with help of a 5 mins setback meditation. ''Your good thoughts have power to do wonders'' Raja Yog meditation has given wings to the souls of world. Through this Yog, we get a mental connection with GOD, our spiritual father, the Supreme soul. Thus receive peace, purity, love and powers from him. Please learn here -> What is Raja Yoga meditation? ----------- Also, we have a TV series called ''Awakening with Brahma Kumaris''. Sit with family to watch. VERY beneficial for your life. Here are ALL episodes -> http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Shivani.htm or Watch on YouTube -> https://www.youtube.com/bkshivani * Useful links for you * Our Videos -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/video Articles in English & Hindi-> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/articles Explore Sitemap -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/sitemap Need anything else? Use BK Google - bkgoogle.com (Our search engine) namaste oo Signature: On Godfatherly (Godly) Service to the World Souls BKGU (BrahmaKumaris Godly University) www.bkgsu.com Mount Abu, Rajasthan, India 00

I am 21 years old and in the last year of my college....... My mother has always complained that my father does not care for her and has total disdain for her; he prefers to be more outside the house than inside the house. But to me, my father has always been quite loving and caring. My mother was waiting for the past 20 years, that once my son is able to stand on his own feet, then I will take a decision. As I will sit for placements this year, and most probably land a job, my mother is losing her patience that she kept for so many years. During the lockdown, I have been home for the past few months and have witnessed fights happening between my parents at an interval of every 4-5 days. These days, even my father does not seem to think about what words he is saying to my mother, in front of me. In midst of all this, I have to prepare for my exams and placements too. Now, how do I deal with this situation and how do I support my parents emotionally and spiritually? Pranaam.....

Love begins with a good friendship. But how to differentiate between true ''made for each other'' love and a good friendship? In this case the parents were against their marriage and they also didn't intend to hurt their parents or go against their will. So the Kumari (unmarried girl) asks advice to deal with this - Should I marry? and How to convince our Parents? Original Email Received Dear sister shivani, I am Misba 25 yrs old, from my childhood I feel i am never happy in my life. When ever I try to be happy something happens. Now, when I was in UK for studies I cried everyday thinking this is not for me. I wanna go back home. There I met my classmate Faizan and we really became close in short amount of time, that time I thought he is just my close friend and we used to fight alot, so I was thinking I don't want a partner like him. Now my parents got me engaged in Oct 2018. I was never interested in this proposal. When I told my parents they said " accept this because ye dua ka rishta hai", should marry a man whom parents have chose. But no I don't want this. They say if i marry someone else i will never be happy. I feel now m missing faizan and want to spend my life with him, but my parents are not agreeing neither his parents , the reason they say is society. I don't wanna hurt my parents nor I wanna leave faizan. Please guide me what shall I do? Regards. Our Email Guidance To: Anyone who needs this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godfatherly University) About: Decision making on a Relationship Dear Divine Sister This is about your feelings, isn't it? Have you not observed that your own feelings are not constant? Sometimes you feel that one person is good for you and in second moment you feel the opposite? 1. The reason why you may are not feeling touched by anyone even when surrounded by many is - that you soul is not fitting, you are not fitting into that atmosphere. You the soul desire something else deeply, while the body lives. You sometimes wish to have another way of living. Do you feel like that? Recognise and Love the self: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FF7KnU5uEHw and Feeling Depressed?: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xY2Ha_HqHR0 2. To make a decision, first, our mind needs to DECIDE the better choice among 2 or more choices. And for this, we must understand clearly all the choices we have. It is YOU who are making a choice and hence you must know YOURSELF first. What is my inner desire? What do i wish to do in this life? Remember that life is s precious gift. You are the painter/designer. 'Marriage' is a great value. One cannot and should not go in the flow of feelings and get married to a stranger. The word ''stranger'' is for anyone whom you don't know completely. In today's time you also know that it is very difficult to judge. Your parents must have thought more about this. Family's support is VERY important for ''after-marriage life''. Isn't it? Even the boy's parents have to accept you. CONCLUSION (PRACTICAL ADVICE) Seeing this all, you should consider what to do. You have always seen 'faizan' as a 'friend'. Right? So you can still remain a friend. If you still believe that you have a deeper connection with that soul (Faizan) then go ahead and talk with your parents. Explain them calmly about your feelings for him. Apply every good way to convince and see the result. If they are convinced for your this relationship, then know that you both are really ''made for each other''. If not, then conclude that this all was only a play of our ''Past life karmas''. Refer: Law of Karma & Living It is assured that if you follow sincerely it will forever change your life, as it did for many. You have come in connection with us and hence it is our prime responsibility to give you the God's message - that God has come. Come and know more about us -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us To do anything in life, one needs one or more of our 8 powers (Refer: 8 powers of Soul). So how to develop these 8 powers? - Through RajaYog or Rajyog meditation. Also that it is God's shrimat to live as in purity (celibacy). This purity is the mother of peace, love and spiritual powers. * Celibacy (article): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/celibacy Do visit all given links to learn more. This may and should change your life forever. Take this opportunity. Flowers of fragrance. On Godfatherly World Service 00

Overthinking is cause of many problems. Some people create a mountain out of a small thing. Difficulties arrise in everyone's life. This is a test - how we deal and overcome. Some not only overcomes their own difficulty but also support others. Become a great soul. Here is an email received who is troubled by their own thoughts, while there is nothing like a problem outside. Here is our detail guidance. Script of Original Email Received What is the importance of all that my life ,career,future when my love is not with me? My parents loves me soo much but I can do nothing for them....they have expectations from me but I can't bear myself anymore...I am always missing someone. He was the only way for me to come out from all this negativety. But he left me alone.... in some position when I m in badly need for him....why..now what I will do. I have just nothing to be with, my confidence is almost in a minimum level..... Why I m the most unlucky girl who have just nothing without her horrible overthinking. Our Email Response To: Shreya From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vidhwa Vidhyalay (Godly University) The permanent solution is - Make yourself powerful, from within. Soul is all powerful, peaceful, pure and all loving. This is self realisation. Do take our 7 days course in which all knowledge is covered. 7 days course online Then saying that - ''A wise one will make a mountain like situation look like a tiny dust particle. And a fool makes a tiny dust into a mountain like problem.'' 1. Realise that it is only your ''thinking'' which is causing trouble to you. Do you REALLY think there exist any problem? No. Certainly no. Make you mind, your friend, otherwise it becomes a great enemy. You are an experienced soul. Now come on, get up and sit on the seat of Soul consciousness and control over your thoughts, your mind and senses. Soul you are very powerful. How can any small matter influence you?? Think about this. When there is wisdom is our mind, it remains stable. Naturally. Hence in present time divine wisdom is needed. Most important, do take the 7 days course -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course 2. Many souls are benefitted by practice of Swamaan - swaman means 'Self respects' of soul - which are: I am a Peaceful soul, I am a Pure soul, I am a loveful soul, and 'I am a Powerful soul'. This can be done with guided commentary already well resented here below. Do practice this EVERYDAY or whenever get time. Swamaan commentaries -> http://bit.ly/Swamaan 3. To guide your journey, with the 7 day course & Swamaan abhyas (practice), please also watch below videos by BK Shivani Reason of Overthinking -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xp4yFJTvhjI Healing the Self -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lt83hOCJSQY Heal emotional hurt -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2BJFSHSx9Ns Empowering your mind (Hindi): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PyTWVjo5PHg With all this, also know that the permanent solution is to Make your mind your Friend. Become stable. Do not get influenced by emotions. Widely there is nothing to worry here. All is fine. Need anything? Search on BK Google - our Search engine -> www.bkgoogle.com namaste In Godly World Service 00

Email letter received from Kavita (Australia) who wish advice upon how to ulift her nature so well that no one should physical attract to her and how to imbibe the virtue of Purity (celibacy) in life? Original Question asked via Email: Namaste, I am living in Australia right now and arrived just 3 months ago. I am married for ten years and 29 years old and also have two lovely kids. I was only 19 when got married and faced many ups and down in my married life, even many times I decided to commit suicide and my in-laws want me to get divorced from my husband and whenever I talked to any boy in relatives they started to question on my character just because I have a smiley face. In Australia, we are not financially strong and live in a house share and our owner also attracted to me after a small informal chat and always cared for me. Four days ago, he told like me that he like me, and tried to hold my hands forcefully. I denied because I know it is a big sin. He is also a married and a very nice man even his wife is also a friendly lady and they have a kid. I managed to convince him that I don't have any wrong intention about him. I don't understand why people misunderstand me if I talk to them with a smile. Is really my character is not good? Because internally for the first time I also feel attracted to him but I always stay away from him and stop talking to him. I don't want to cheat my husband. But I still think about my identity and character, attracted to another man is not a sign of a good woman. Is I gave them any signal that attracts them to me? Our Email Response (Answer) From: Prajapita Brahma Kumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay To: unknown soul -- YOUR PERSONAL RESPONSE -- You are cheerful and that is a virtue. If you create such thought for someone - definitely that thoughts will reach them and they will react if that soul is not powerful enough. This is how thoughts can influence. Second - this all can be overcomed. A powerful tree is not shaken even in midst of tsunami. Because its roots are deep and trunk is strong. Similarly - if Soul's pure sanskars are deep and the mind is made powerful, then stabilty is seen in practical life. HOW? Advice: Start Swaman Abhyas (practice of self respect). DAILY - wake up early in morning around 5 am, sit in silence and listen these commentaries and follow. Swaman in Hindi: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=2 Swaman in English: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fhr4ChV3EEM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtEe4C2MOHQT_tMLu0AuPJot Save above playlist. Here are Guided Raja Yog commentaries in Hindi & English: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary --------------------- * Conclusion * Practice given advice for atlleast 21 days and see the results in yourself. You have 2 children. Mother has natural feeling of belongingness to someone - for you - you should focus only on YOUR family or children. Do not even try to make any happy. JUST BE YOURSELF at your best. Always remember - Lust is the greatest enemy of human being. NEVER you should surrender to any feeling that is risen by this lust. Read this article on Purity - as a way of Life: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/celibacy-is-raja-yoga-way-of-Life This is our advice. Waiting for your response and progress. Accha In Godly World Service 00