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Dealing with in-LAWS is sometimes difficult because they are new to you. You are new to them. There lacks an understanding or acceptance. There can occur a difference in opinion. Thus here is our advice on How to deal with everyone of your New family with love and patience. Do listen till end. Original Email Received OM SHANTI! I am listening to BK Shivani from long back. I am facing some problem to which I am requesting a solution. I am married (arrange marriage) since 3 years, me and my husband's job is also in chandigarh now from last 1.5 years. My parents and in laws are not sharing a good relationship which is affecting my personal life with my husband and my stress level. My mother in law is having some problem with depression so we have to ask each and everything before doing anything, i.e. we cant do anything of our own. I am not able to think what to do? how to do? How to handle situations tactfully without hurting anybody and without letting do whatever only my mother in law wants. Please provide me solution of this. Many thanks. Our Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) Dear Divine Sister, Your email is received and read. Here is our answer. Become light. You are a light. Soul is a point of light. YOU ARE A SOUL. So let us begin. Your situation is fairly sensitive and it needs you to become very 'sensible' to stablise the life. So if you explain your mother in law about that you need to go to your family, if you can convince them with your extra good behavior and some smile. See this works. If they are sensible and give respect to your thoughts, then there is no reason to stop you. OK? You seem to be in a position which feels like it is suffocating you. As you cannot discuss your situation with anyone, it is the right time to make the real connection with God. He will listen to you and you can share all your problems with him. He hears you and even gives you solution, provided you are ready to listen to it. Meaning that, your mind must be silent, not in turmoil to hear what he has to say. He will start guiding you as to how you should handle this situation at home in the right way. You are carrying a soul (child) within you. Not only what you eat affects the child, but your thoughts and the atmosphere at home will have a deep impact on the child. So it is upto you to create positive thoughts and vibrations in the house so that everyone is benefited from that. Practice to be detached to whatever is happening around and make a promise to yourself that whatever happens I will be light and happy (at least for the sake of the child). It might seem difficult, even impossible now, but if you practice Rajyog (connection with god) in small steps regularly, it will help you immensely. ~~ What you need to do ~~ Start practising Rajyog. But before that you need to take 7 days course online from here: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course OR visit your nearest BK Rajyog center (Recommended) 2. Rajyog guided commentaries + music https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary 3. Listen to Swaman commentaries early in the morning https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 ~~ Links on Mother Baby care~~ Divine Mother Baby http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Divine%20Mother%20Baby.htm Watch all episodes in this series ''Virtue Baby'' when you get time during the day -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y07fjkn7_LY&list=PLjzCBUU9MVAqd7aYJBEDM0CSx7TdxQvkY ~~ Useful Links ~~ About Us: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Who am I?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/who-am-i-the-soul Hope this helps. Do email and let us know of your progress. Namaste In God Fatherly service 00

Clarification is given on some points from Gyan Murli on Paramdham, Satyug, Krishna, Yog stage and more. To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) About: Clarification on Murli points 1. Vishnupuri Is the coming new world where the 2 forms of Vishnu (Shri Lakshmi & Shri Narayan) will rule the divine kingdom. Satyug is called Vishnupuri or Swarg (heaven). Puri - means a place. Vishnupuri - a place where Vishnu rules. Paramdham The Soul world. Our original residence is paramdham (Supreme abode) where we souls live before coming in the corporeal world to play our part. Soul is a tiniest point of light or consciousness. Scientifically, the Soul world is zero dimensional. There is no sound, no motions and no time. This is what the seekers (sansayis/sages) call - the Ultimate truth or Nirwana. Paramdham is our supreme home and the permanent residence of the Supreme soul (God). References: Three World and Satyug Golden age 2. Krishna and Radha - Are childhood names of Lakhmi and Narayan. It is explained in Murlis. Krishna is the first child born in the age of Satyug (first child born with the power of Yog). Radha follows. After their marriage, their names changes to Lakshmi and Narayan and they are the King and the Queen of Golden age in Bharat. Their Kingdom is still remembered as the ''Perfect world''. 3. Karma-Ateet Meaning: Ateet (away/above) from the results of our own Karma. One who below aloof (above) of experiencing the result of karma. This is the highest stage of Soul. Closest to the supreme soul - Karmateet sthiti. This stage can only come when the soul is in complete knowledge of Drama and Yog power is at its peak. There is no worldly attraction. In such way the soul joins its intellect with Shiv baba. 4. God is the Father, Teacher and Guide Father: Gives us the inheritance of new world (heaven), loves us and gives sustenance. Teacher: Teach us the knowledge of truth (of Soul, Supreme Soul and World drama) Guide: Takes us back to our the supreme home (home of eternal peace and light - Paramdham /Nirwana) Read Articles -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/articles Revelations from Murli (advance): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/revelations Save above links * Mobile apps * For Android: http://bit.ly/BkAndroidApps For iPhone: http://bit.ly/iPhoneAppsBk Accha namaste On Godfatherly Service 00

It is very important to remain POSITIVE during a setback in life (eg: illness or a disease). While you have to care for your body, also give positive vibrations so that the body is healed quickly. Here is our guidance on this. Do read and SHARE to those who need it. Email received on 31 August 2019: My mom is in cancer. And I am unable to take this setback. All thoughts of sometimes disobeying her as children come to my mind. She is the most purest soul ever. Can't get a hold of myself nor sleep. Our Guided Response We at BK RajYog centres, daily give sakash (vibrations) to all souls of world. ''Let good happen to all'' Dear divine Sister/Brother, You are observing such thoughts as a 'cause'. This is caused by the underlying thought that - 'I am going to lose my mother now'. To love someone means to have only and ONLY POSITIVE thoughts for them. So in love, only think that whatever will happen will happen for our good. This is the best way to live. In fact, even if you think that mother will survive from cancer, you are 'expecting' that to happen. But what if it doesn't happen? All happens for good for the soul. This is the nature of world drama. Also be aware that by giving her POSITIVE vibrations, you are helping in recovery. Do NOT and never create sorrow or negative thoughts. If such thoughts come, counter them with help of a 5 mins setback meditation. ''Your good thoughts have power to do wonders'' Raja Yog meditation has given wings to the souls of world. Through this Yog, we get a mental connection with GOD, our spiritual father, the Supreme soul. Thus receive peace, purity, love and powers from him. Please learn here -> What is Raja Yoga meditation? ----------- Also, we have a TV series called ''Awakening with Brahma Kumaris''. Sit with family to watch. VERY beneficial for your life. Here are ALL episodes -> http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Shivani.htm or Watch on YouTube -> https://www.youtube.com/bkshivani * Useful links for you * Our Videos -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/video Articles in English & Hindi-> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/articles Explore Sitemap -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/sitemap Need anything else? Use BK Google - bkgoogle.com (Our search engine) namaste oo Signature: On Godfatherly (Godly) Service to the World Souls BKGU (BrahmaKumaris Godly University) www.bkgsu.com Mount Abu, Rajasthan, India 00

Question was asked via Email about - 'How to stop overthinking and complaining about life?' and follow a positive aproach with enthusiasm. Original Question via Email: Dear mam Namaste myself kashish...from past many many years there has been problem of being suffering from overthinking. So i would give th e problems list...i am not able to decide which one of these is the major cause. -- overly critical, compalining, never happy, eating is the pure joy easily bored easily give up feels down , irritated people say i need to rectif..i also feel in some way..although i consciously apply some rules...but not able to sustain for longer...easily hurt. I dont know where i actually stand mainintaing discipline is a problem for me.. if u receive the mail please revert back. mam please tell the main cause root of the problem..or let me know any no on which i can call u keeping the faith i am writing the mail. hoping for solution thanks yours sincerely - 'anonymous' Response from BK Shivani: From: BK Shivani, Prajapita Brahma Kumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay To: Kashish You have described your insight about your nature. You asked for the reason or the root cause of this feelings. If you think deeply, the root of this is 'laziness'. See, you make rules, and then could not follow. When you critize situation, etc, then this means you had no clue that this can happen in future. If I have a clue, that this can happen, then I would definitely take precautions to avoid.. How to avoid? - Far sight is needed. When you take an important decision, you should think of future. 2. Why can you not follow the rules you made for yourself? For example, we BK (brahmins) are to folow a spiritual law - wake up early in monring no late than 4 am. BUT many of us cannot follow. Why? Reason: We know that this is most important for self transformation. 4 am is called as Amritvela time (best time). In this time, we sit in Raja Yog (meditation). In early morning, everyone is sleeping and all minds are at rest. Hence the atmosphere is pure and peaceful. This is the best time to do any productive work. Best for self insight. BUT, even when we know this all, we have not realised this. We do not give importance. We may think - even if i wake up late, i feel okay. Nothing more is needed. Same for you - If you take a decision - you should first completely understanding the IMPORTANCE of that decision (rule) for your benefit. Then you should take steps: 1. Understand the IMPORTANCE 2. Prepare the timetable for yourself (Sunday to Saturday) 3. Wake up early morning if possible. Site for meditation (with guided commentaries- Visit this page) 4. Sincerely observe yourself for atleast 1 DAY. See that you follow ALL the princles set by you. 5. Encourage yourself. And yes, when you wake up early, after guided meditation, practice this Swaman (Hindi): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=2 Swaman is extreme benefit to the mind. Swaman means true self respect. Listen swaman commentaries for about 15 mins daily morning. Doing all this is important. All 5 steps. Tell us your progress via this email after 14 days of practice. ---------------------------------------- You are welcome to our main website for all services: www.brahma-kumaris.com :) Do save some time for God and self realisation and watch this life transforming and knowledgefull videos: Here are special gifts: Videos gallery: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/videos Get Mobile Apps (Android): https://play.google.com/store/apps/developer?id=Shiv+Baba+Brahma+Kumaris Search anything you want on www.bkgoogle.com (a personal search engine for BKs) Accha Namaste In Godly World Service BK Shivani 00

Love begins with a good friendship. But how to differentiate between true ''made for each other'' love and a good friendship? In this case the parents were against their marriage and they also didn't intend to hurt their parents or go against their will. So the Kumari (unmarried girl) asks advice to deal with this - Should I marry? and How to convince our Parents? Original Email Received Dear sister shivani, I am Misba 25 yrs old, from my childhood I feel i am never happy in my life. When ever I try to be happy something happens. Now, when I was in UK for studies I cried everyday thinking this is not for me. I wanna go back home. There I met my classmate Faizan and we really became close in short amount of time, that time I thought he is just my close friend and we used to fight alot, so I was thinking I don't want a partner like him. Now my parents got me engaged in Oct 2018. I was never interested in this proposal. When I told my parents they said " accept this because ye dua ka rishta hai", should marry a man whom parents have chose. But no I don't want this. They say if i marry someone else i will never be happy. I feel now m missing faizan and want to spend my life with him, but my parents are not agreeing neither his parents , the reason they say is society. I don't wanna hurt my parents nor I wanna leave faizan. Please guide me what shall I do? Regards. Our Email Guidance To: Anyone who needs this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godfatherly University) About: Decision making on a Relationship Dear Divine Sister This is about your feelings, isn't it? Have you not observed that your own feelings are not constant? Sometimes you feel that one person is good for you and in second moment you feel the opposite? 1. The reason why you may are not feeling touched by anyone even when surrounded by many is - that you soul is not fitting, you are not fitting into that atmosphere. You the soul desire something else deeply, while the body lives. You sometimes wish to have another way of living. Do you feel like that? Recognise and Love the self: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FF7KnU5uEHw and Feeling Depressed?: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xY2Ha_HqHR0 2. To make a decision, first, our mind needs to DECIDE the better choice among 2 or more choices. And for this, we must understand clearly all the choices we have. It is YOU who are making a choice and hence you must know YOURSELF first. What is my inner desire? What do i wish to do in this life? Remember that life is s precious gift. You are the painter/designer. 'Marriage' is a great value. One cannot and should not go in the flow of feelings and get married to a stranger. The word ''stranger'' is for anyone whom you don't know completely. In today's time you also know that it is very difficult to judge. Your parents must have thought more about this. Family's support is VERY important for ''after-marriage life''. Isn't it? Even the boy's parents have to accept you. CONCLUSION (PRACTICAL ADVICE) Seeing this all, you should consider what to do. You have always seen 'faizan' as a 'friend'. Right? So you can still remain a friend. If you still believe that you have a deeper connection with that soul (Faizan) then go ahead and talk with your parents. Explain them calmly about your feelings for him. Apply every good way to convince and see the result. If they are convinced for your this relationship, then know that you both are really ''made for each other''. If not, then conclude that this all was only a play of our ''Past life karmas''. Refer: Law of Karma & Living It is assured that if you follow sincerely it will forever change your life, as it did for many. You have come in connection with us and hence it is our prime responsibility to give you the God's message - that God has come. Come and know more about us -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us To do anything in life, one needs one or more of our 8 powers (Refer: 8 powers of Soul). So how to develop these 8 powers? - Through RajaYog or Rajyog meditation. Also that it is God's shrimat to live as in purity (celibacy). This purity is the mother of peace, love and spiritual powers. * Celibacy (article): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/celibacy Do visit all given links to learn more. This may and should change your life forever. Take this opportunity. Flowers of fragrance. On Godfatherly World Service 00

Email letter received from Kavita (Australia) who wish advice upon how to ulift her nature so well that no one should physical attract to her and how to imbibe the virtue of Purity (celibacy) in life? Original Question asked via Email: Namaste, I am living in Australia right now and arrived just 3 months ago. I am married for ten years and 29 years old and also have two lovely kids. I was only 19 when got married and faced many ups and down in my married life, even many times I decided to commit suicide and my in-laws want me to get divorced from my husband and whenever I talked to any boy in relatives they started to question on my character just because I have a smiley face. In Australia, we are not financially strong and live in a house share and our owner also attracted to me after a small informal chat and always cared for me. Four days ago, he told like me that he like me, and tried to hold my hands forcefully. I denied because I know it is a big sin. He is also a married and a very nice man even his wife is also a friendly lady and they have a kid. I managed to convince him that I don't have any wrong intention about him. I don't understand why people misunderstand me if I talk to them with a smile. Is really my character is not good? Because internally for the first time I also feel attracted to him but I always stay away from him and stop talking to him. I don't want to cheat my husband. But I still think about my identity and character, attracted to another man is not a sign of a good woman. Is I gave them any signal that attracts them to me? Our Email Response (Answer) From: Prajapita Brahma Kumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay To: unknown soul -- YOUR PERSONAL RESPONSE -- You are cheerful and that is a virtue. If you create such thought for someone - definitely that thoughts will reach them and they will react if that soul is not powerful enough. This is how thoughts can influence. Second - this all can be overcomed. A powerful tree is not shaken even in midst of tsunami. Because its roots are deep and trunk is strong. Similarly - if Soul's pure sanskars are deep and the mind is made powerful, then stabilty is seen in practical life. HOW? Advice: Start Swaman Abhyas (practice of self respect). DAILY - wake up early in morning around 5 am, sit in silence and listen these commentaries and follow. Swaman in Hindi: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=2 Swaman in English: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fhr4ChV3EEM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtEe4C2MOHQT_tMLu0AuPJot Save above playlist. Here are Guided Raja Yog commentaries in Hindi & English: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary --------------------- * Conclusion * Practice given advice for atlleast 21 days and see the results in yourself. You have 2 children. Mother has natural feeling of belongingness to someone - for you - you should focus only on YOUR family or children. Do not even try to make any happy. JUST BE YOURSELF at your best. Always remember - Lust is the greatest enemy of human being. NEVER you should surrender to any feeling that is risen by this lust. Read this article on Purity - as a way of Life: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/celibacy-is-raja-yoga-way-of-Life This is our advice. Waiting for your response and progress. Accha In Godly World Service 00

Nowadays it has become common for students to feel depressed due to failure. This is our guidance on how to overcome such thoughts and come out winning with flying colors. Original Email Received Om shanti Mera naam vimlesh hai. me aap se Apne jiwan related Kuch poochna chati hoon. abhi kuch same se Me bahht udaas hoon. me medical ki student hoon aur abhi Maine apni higher studies ke liye exam Diya tha jo ke clear Nahi hua aur pehle bhi me do Baar kabhi ek marks se shortlist ho ke bhi select Nahi hui. MERI maa ke Saath bhi Mera Kisi Baat ko leke ladayi ho gayi jis vajah se me bahht udaas rehti hoon. kitni Baar to Mera Mann suicide Karne ko bhi Kiya. Aap mujhe batayenge me in sab se kaise niklu. Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly University) Dear divine Sister, "Success and failure are the part and parcels of life." However one should never get demotivated with these hurdles but take failure as a lesson and move ahead. If something is not working out according to your plan then its definitely as per God's plan. Watch this~ solution to student's life 1. Sister, don't get upset or saddened. This way you'll lose two things, first your concentration towards studies and second mental peace. And loss of both can cause even more hurdles in your life. This is the reason of increasing tensions between you and your mother. The more you will keep yourself 'झमेलामुक्त' i.e free from confusions, more you will be effective and efficient in every sphere, be it studies or relationship with your mother. 2. Also causing the thoughts of suicide are the lowest and meanest level of thoughts. Suicide is never a solution to any problem but an accumulation of past life problems to the next one. In next life, this life's issue will be carry forwarded. So there's no Escape. Dealing is the only solution now.. (see point 3 for solution) 3. Your and your mother must Attend 7 days Rajyoga meditation course online or at your nearest center. ~ You must practice Swamans. This will help you transform your thoughts- > http://bit.ly/Swamaan (save the link) * Below are articles for you and your parents to read * Role of Parents during exams: https://bkarticles.blog/2019/02/25/exam-fear-role-of-parents/ Duty of parents and the child: https://bkarticles.blog/2018/12/28/guidance-student-parents/  study with concentration:  https://bkarticles.blog/2019/02/19/guidance-to-overcome-depression-and-focus-on-study/ * EXTRA GUIDANCE * Listen the music & guided meditation commentaries to feel relaxed -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary Nature's relaxing sounds -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/relaxation-music-nature-sounds (listen during study and study with concentration) Watch/listen: suicidal thoughts (bk suraj) - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7J8wF4OLZYpy1yPQN08nzA Watch; improve concentration power - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2wqpq3mVZ64 Follow these into your practical life and share your experience with us. On Godly World Service 00

Question was asked by Raja Kilpakkam (parent) on 27 July 2018 on ''Guidance for a 10th standard student who is unable to progress and is slow in studies.'' Original Question: Dear sister shivani, I have a daughter ( single child) and she is in her 10th std and writing her board exams. both parents are working. she is very slow and unable to cope up with studies. we have tried all our best hard way as well as soft way. nothing seems to be working. we feel that the child has great potential,but is not interested or taking it light. need your guidance and support thanks , looking forward to hear from you Our Answer To: Every parent and Every child or students Your letter is received and read. You are a mother . Your daughter is studying.  You are trying and wish that your daughter passes exams/ Certainly, that is what you or many parents wants.  But you need understanding. Understand that every child is unique. Some are good in somethings that others are not. This is a naturally gift of God. For example, a child is naturally good at arts (drawing) by birth  this is a God's gift . Now if his parents forces him to become a doctor, then how would he? There is a need of everyone in this world. Without 1 soul, the World Drama does not run . Parents are the creator of this physical body, but that the soul is immortal. Soul is the child of the Supreme soul  It is a duty of parents to give a few things to their creation: 1. Give them love and nurture  2. Support and guidance 3. Give freedom and well wishes With these 3 thing only, you can become an ideal parent. Now a child has a duty . 1. To respect and be honest with his parents. 2. To listen and think on what their parents advice 3. Become a valuable and loved child. Do good for the world and bring the name of parents and the family .  4. In return of the sustenance given by parents, you must do something for them. Make them happy and never give sorrow.  Everything is now explained. To make a best decision, one need patience and peace of mind. A good decision should benefit and satisfy everyone.  Make a decision which not only make you happy, but the daughter also. ---- Useful Links ---- Daily Swamaan Pratice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=2 Biography of Great souls: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/biography RajYog course online: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course Accha Namaste 00

Dear brother, I'm confused about everything. As my memory I was keeping myself under fear, doubt,strain always.. I was not sure what to do or not. I was borned as poor and so that feeling guilt about it. I'm artistic in the way am I and working as an art teacher;send out of the job recently!! I want to be a successful artist.. But I'm not confident. The family is depending upon me now.. we don't have money... But baba is keeping me always secured..safe.I can feel it. But I am filled with all the vices rather than virtues. I'm wishing for money from lottery couldn't find any other way and want to pursue the career But feeling always doesn't know anything else.. not so courageous doesn't have the feeling that I am worth for anything especially, for Baba's sewa. Can't do the yoga well and feel my soul stage ..anything.. What to do..I don't want to live like this.. being nothing.. When I heard baba said free from your vaibhav.... everything.... feeling I can't do anything else.. Please help me.. I couldn't do the yoga well.. I'm waiting for the reply

This is advise given to solve various problems arising between family after marriages.. Original Email Received Gud eve  I m 9 month married girl myself komal.my husband is in defence force.i m living with his family . In our family there is only my husband who is the source of proper income. My father in law nd brother in law also doing jobs but overall family depends on my husband. On our marriage my husband took loan and now he is not able to afford to pay for whole family.because its financial crisis.       This issue is disturbing my life.they put blame on me for this. That i m refusing to give money at home.they neglected me.their behaviour towards me was not good. For their comfort i left my job nd served at home.but they dont care.my husband said they are my parents i dnt do anything.now i m 4 month pregnant nd i m living with my own parents.      Kindly give me solutions  Our Email Response + Guidance To:  Komal Satish ji and Everyone reading this From: Prajapati Brahma kumaris Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalaya (Godly Spiritual University) Dear Divine Brother/ Sister, Your email is received and thoroughly read. Here is our suggested solution to your problem. Omshanti,  For in-laws and husband- It seems a lot of misunderstandings have arisen between you and your in-laws. If possible then you and your family should verbally try to sort out. And at the thought level, you must be positive. Don't create negative thought or don't send the negative energy and vibes to your in-laws and husband..  Try this- Consider yourself and themselves as Souls, a point of light . Close your eyes and send them good wishes.. Keep God (incorporeal God Shiva, sweetly called as Shivbaba) with you. And tell him everything you want to. Keep giving them water of healing vibrations.. This will help you clear your Bad Karmic Debts with your in-laws. Watch this video : 1. . Faith in God (Bk Suraj bhai): https://youtu.be/Xc9dyb7rK4E 2. Settle Karmic Accounts (Bk Shivani) https://youtu.be/SPY1-biTzhs For financial matters-  To overcome financial problem then you should join back your job, if possible and help your family.. If this is not possible then do 21 days yog bhatti (https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/why-21-days-yog-bhatti ).. but before 21 day bhatti, you must attend Rajyoga Course at your nearest center or online.. then only you'll be able to do bhatti. For unborn child- You are carrying a soul (child) within you. Not only what you eat affects the child, but your thoughts and the atmosphere at home will have a deep impact on the child. So it is upto you to create positive thoughts and vibrations in the house so that everyone is benefited from that. Practice to be detached to whatever is happening around and make a promise to yourself that whatever happens I will be light and happy (at least for the sake of the child). It might seem difficult, even impossible now, but if you practice Rajyog (connection with god) in small steps regularly, it will help you immensely. ~~ What you need to do ~~ 1. Start practising Rajyog. But before that you need to take 7 days course online from here: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course OR visit your nearest BK Rajyog center (Recommended) 2. Listen to Swaman commentaries early in the morning https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 ~~ Links on Mother Baby care~~ Divine Mother Baby http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Divine%20Mother%20Baby.htm Watch all episodes in this series ''Virtue Baby'' when you get time during the day -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y07fjkn7_LY&list=PLjzCBUU9MVAqd7aYJBEDM0CSx7TdxQvkY ~~ Useful Links ~~ About Us: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Who am I?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/who-am-i-the-soul Hope this helps. Do email and let us know of your progress. Namaste In God Fatherly service 00

A sister writes to us asking if she and her husband should try to have another child - since they already have one child, while they also wrote that they had 2 miscarriages after being pregnant. Since they asked us, we responded with God's message of pure living (celibacy) and guidance on how to sustain their 7-year-old child. Original Message/Email from You I have been married for 11 years and we have a 6.5 year old son. We have been trying for another baby for almost 3 years. We had a miscarriage 2.5 years ago. After much persuasion, my husband agreed to 3 rounds of fertility treatment. We got pregnant in out second round and are miscarrying right now. My husband does not want to try anymore and is telling me to accept it as God's will. I am 37 currently and my husband is 41. My brain wants to agree with him, but my heart still wants to try 1 last time. Please help us to take the best decision. --- "We at Prajapati Brahma Kumaris daily do collective Yog/meditation for the world souls. Let good happen to all" Our Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone Reading This From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly University) Good morning Dear Divine Sister 1. You have contacted us and thus we believe that you must know about us. Please visit this page to learn more. 2. You want our advise whether you should try to have a second baby or not. We ONLY SAY THAT - God himself has commanded us to remain pure for this life. In common words we can call it celibacy or Brahmacharya. This means - one should NOT indulge in physical relationship with ANYONE. Because this LUST is our greatest enemy. It is the root cause of all evil.  You MUST understand this wisdom. See also that 2 miscarriage also mean 2 deaths - so why do you want to go against the will of nature? THUS, please be patient and live a HAPPY life with one child as gifted to you. Give all your love and sustenance. If you follow celibacy for rest of your life, you wills see your spiritual energy growing and making you powerful from within. This pure living re-energize the soul and cleanses the past life sanskaras. ✤ CHILD ✤ You already have a child. So as a parent it is also your duty to make sure he/she gets a good personality and moral values right from the childhood. Parents are everything for a child - a role model, teacher and a friend. Here is a help ✦ Please Watch below given videos to understand the spiritual significance behind right parenting. Give RIGHT vibrations to your CHILD : BK Shivani Change HABITS in children : BK Shivani Develop Personality of your CHILD : BK Shivani Please do follow the videos to get valuable guidance from Sister Shivani. Namaste On Godly World Service The "Shiv Baba Service Team" BKGSU, Madhuban

Question was asked by Madhuri Chauhan on 20 July 2018. Om Shanti. I have a long story to tell so please be patient because i really need your help..My father and mother were following gyan and baba for more than 15 years and we have geetapaathshala in our home. They have two daughters, me and my elder sister. My father wished me and my sister to become brahmakumaris. Though he never forced us to go to ashram or to do anything. He left the decision on us. My sister got married in 2010. In 2016, i told my father that i want to marry a boy and that boy does not belong to our caste. My father was very upset with my decision, still he supported me and advised me to do court marriage. Only I and my parents knew about my marriage and i came to canada after marriage. Our relatives had no idea about my marriage. But my father shared his pain with brahmakumari sister of the ashram which we used to visit. He was very upset at that time but very soon he realised that the boy i married is really a good boy and my father and mother were happy for me. We used to talk daily on phone. Then on 21st may 2018 my parents passed away in a car accident. People who were at that place where accident happened told that it was the truck driver’s fault who came from wrong side and hit my parents car. It took me 24hrs to reach india but by that time their antim yatra had already been done and i could not even see them for the last time. Two days later, the brahmakumari sister from the same ashram came to meet me and in front of all my relatives blamed me for sudden death of my parents. She started shouting at me that because of me my father was depressed. The way that sister was talking to me was like i am responsible for that car accident that took my parents lives. I know initially my parents were upset about my love marriage but now they were really happy with my husband and me. My father himself said to me that initially we felt bad but now we are glad with your decision. I just want to know should i believe my father’s words that he said to me or i should believe that brahmakumari sister. Am i really responsible for my parents death?  Our Answer: To: Madhuri Sweet divine Sister This is a response to your question and also a Godly sandesh (message). First of all, your father was not upset because of the person with whom you married, but because of that  you decided to marry instead of becoming a brahma kumari . Father was in Gyaan and knew that God has directed to us of complete purity . This is our last birth. World is changing. You can see. But Shiv baba has told never to force your children to not to marry. Hence you father made a correct decision. All is good. You were also happy after marriage.  Secondly, the one who can go against the Shrimat given in Murli and perform a wrong action (shout in anger), cannot be called a Brahma Kumari.  No one is called a bk only because they live in center away from their family. No. Instead a BK is one soul who follows the godly advice completely and do purusharth of self upliftment and do world service. One who has left all 5 vices forever (lust,anger,ego,greed,attachment). Only those are BK.  Third: You are not responsible for anyone other than yourself. Forget the past is past. Whatever happens, is for good only. You will soon get the answer - why was it for good. Trust the World Drama. This is a drama . We all are actors. This has happened 5000 years ago and it is just repeating. Nothing New.. So dear Madhuri, live with your family, with husband, but now you do 1 thing. You parents were a true BK and have followed the shrimat. They wished you to take you inheritance from Shiv baba. So will you not fulfil their dream?? You have to take a vow of purity in rest of your life. Living with husband with purity and see each other as a child of same parent (our supreme father, supreme soul) - this is a challenge. Can you take?? Here are guidelines for you: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/how-to-join-bk About Us: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us What is Raja Yog: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation Do visit all above pages . This was a Godly sandesh (message) to you.  *Relief. You are not responsible for anything. You are just an actor. And most important, your parents souls take received the knowledge. Wherever they will go and take their next birth, it will be a very good place. This is for sure. Accha Namase 00