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Question was asked by Raja Kilpakkam (parent) on 27 July 2018 on ''Guidance for a 10th standard student who is unable to progress and is slow in studies.'' Original Question: Dear sister shivani, I have a daughter ( single child) and she is in her 10th std and writing her board exams. both parents are working. she is very slow and unable to cope up with studies. we have tried all our best hard way as well as soft way. nothing seems to be working. we feel that the child has great potential,but is not interested or taking it light. need your guidance and support thanks , looking forward to hear from you Our Answer To: Every parent and Every child or students Your letter is received and read. You are a mother . Your daughter is studying.  You are trying and wish that your daughter passes exams/ Certainly, that is what you or many parents wants.  But you need understanding. Understand that every child is unique. Some are good in somethings that others are not. This is a naturally gift of God. For example, a child is naturally good at arts (drawing) by birth  this is a God's gift . Now if his parents forces him to become a doctor, then how would he? There is a need of everyone in this world. Without 1 soul, the World Drama does not run . Parents are the creator of this physical body, but that the soul is immortal. Soul is the child of the Supreme soul  It is a duty of parents to give a few things to their creation: 1. Give them love and nurture  2. Support and guidance 3. Give freedom and well wishes With these 3 thing only, you can become an ideal parent. Now a child has a duty . 1. To respect and be honest with his parents. 2. To listen and think on what their parents advice 3. Become a valuable and loved child. Do good for the world and bring the name of parents and the family .  4. In return of the sustenance given by parents, you must do something for them. Make them happy and never give sorrow.  Everything is now explained. To make a best decision, one need patience and peace of mind. A good decision should benefit and satisfy everyone.  Make a decision which not only make you happy, but the daughter also. ---- Useful Links ---- Daily Swamaan Pratice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=2 Biography of Great souls: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/biography RajYog course online: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course Accha Namaste 00

Dear brother, I'm confused about everything. As my memory I was keeping myself under fear, doubt,strain always.. I was not sure what to do or not. I was borned as poor and so that feeling guilt about it. I'm artistic in the way am I and working as an art teacher;send out of the job recently!! I want to be a successful artist.. But I'm not confident. The family is depending upon me now.. we don't have money... But baba is keeping me always secured..safe.I can feel it. But I am filled with all the vices rather than virtues. I'm wishing for money from lottery couldn't find any other way and want to pursue the career But feeling always doesn't know anything else.. not so courageous doesn't have the feeling that I am worth for anything especially, for Baba's sewa. Can't do the yoga well and feel my soul stage ..anything.. What to do..I don't want to live like this.. being nothing.. When I heard baba said free from your vaibhav.... everything.... feeling I can't do anything else.. Please help me.. I couldn't do the yoga well.. I'm waiting for the reply

This is advise given to solve various problems arising between family after marriages.. Original Email Received Gud eve  I m 9 month married girl myself komal.my husband is in defence force.i m living with his family . In our family there is only my husband who is the source of proper income. My father in law nd brother in law also doing jobs but overall family depends on my husband. On our marriage my husband took loan and now he is not able to afford to pay for whole family.because its financial crisis.       This issue is disturbing my life.they put blame on me for this. That i m refusing to give money at home.they neglected me.their behaviour towards me was not good. For their comfort i left my job nd served at home.but they dont care.my husband said they are my parents i dnt do anything.now i m 4 month pregnant nd i m living with my own parents.      Kindly give me solutions  Our Email Response + Guidance To:  Komal Satish ji and Everyone reading this From: Prajapati Brahma kumaris Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalaya (Godly Spiritual University) Dear Divine Brother/ Sister, Your email is received and thoroughly read. Here is our suggested solution to your problem. Omshanti,  For in-laws and husband- It seems a lot of misunderstandings have arisen between you and your in-laws. If possible then you and your family should verbally try to sort out. And at the thought level, you must be positive. Don't create negative thought or don't send the negative energy and vibes to your in-laws and husband..  Try this- Consider yourself and themselves as Souls, a point of light . Close your eyes and send them good wishes.. Keep God (incorporeal God Shiva, sweetly called as Shivbaba) with you. And tell him everything you want to. Keep giving them water of healing vibrations.. This will help you clear your Bad Karmic Debts with your in-laws. Watch this video : 1. . Faith in God (Bk Suraj bhai): https://youtu.be/Xc9dyb7rK4E 2. Settle Karmic Accounts (Bk Shivani) https://youtu.be/SPY1-biTzhs For financial matters-  To overcome financial problem then you should join back your job, if possible and help your family.. If this is not possible then do 21 days yog bhatti (https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/why-21-days-yog-bhatti ).. but before 21 day bhatti, you must attend Rajyoga Course at your nearest center or online.. then only you'll be able to do bhatti. For unborn child- You are carrying a soul (child) within you. Not only what you eat affects the child, but your thoughts and the atmosphere at home will have a deep impact on the child. So it is upto you to create positive thoughts and vibrations in the house so that everyone is benefited from that. Practice to be detached to whatever is happening around and make a promise to yourself that whatever happens I will be light and happy (at least for the sake of the child). It might seem difficult, even impossible now, but if you practice Rajyog (connection with god) in small steps regularly, it will help you immensely. ~~ What you need to do ~~ 1. Start practising Rajyog. But before that you need to take 7 days course online from here: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course OR visit your nearest BK Rajyog center (Recommended) 2. Listen to Swaman commentaries early in the morning https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 ~~ Links on Mother Baby care~~ Divine Mother Baby http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Divine%20Mother%20Baby.htm Watch all episodes in this series ''Virtue Baby'' when you get time during the day -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y07fjkn7_LY&list=PLjzCBUU9MVAqd7aYJBEDM0CSx7TdxQvkY ~~ Useful Links ~~ About Us: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Who am I?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/who-am-i-the-soul Hope this helps. Do email and let us know of your progress. Namaste In God Fatherly service 00

A sister writes to us asking if she and her husband should try to have another child - since they already have one child, while they also wrote that they had 2 miscarriages after being pregnant. Since they asked us, we responded with God's message of pure living (celibacy) and guidance on how to sustain their 7-year-old child. Original Message/Email from You I have been married for 11 years and we have a 6.5 year old son. We have been trying for another baby for almost 3 years. We had a miscarriage 2.5 years ago. After much persuasion, my husband agreed to 3 rounds of fertility treatment. We got pregnant in out second round and are miscarrying right now. My husband does not want to try anymore and is telling me to accept it as God's will. I am 37 currently and my husband is 41. My brain wants to agree with him, but my heart still wants to try 1 last time. Please help us to take the best decision. --- "We at Prajapati Brahma Kumaris daily do collective Yog/meditation for the world souls. Let good happen to all" Our Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone Reading This From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly University) Good morning Dear Divine Sister 1. You have contacted us and thus we believe that you must know about us. Please visit this page to learn more. 2. You want our advise whether you should try to have a second baby or not. We ONLY SAY THAT - God himself has commanded us to remain pure for this life. In common words we can call it celibacy or Brahmacharya. This means - one should NOT indulge in physical relationship with ANYONE. Because this LUST is our greatest enemy. It is the root cause of all evil.  You MUST understand this wisdom. See also that 2 miscarriage also mean 2 deaths - so why do you want to go against the will of nature? THUS, please be patient and live a HAPPY life with one child as gifted to you. Give all your love and sustenance. If you follow celibacy for rest of your life, you wills see your spiritual energy growing and making you powerful from within. This pure living re-energize the soul and cleanses the past life sanskaras. ✤ CHILD ✤ You already have a child. So as a parent it is also your duty to make sure he/she gets a good personality and moral values right from the childhood. Parents are everything for a child - a role model, teacher and a friend. Here is a help ✦ Please Watch below given videos to understand the spiritual significance behind right parenting. Give RIGHT vibrations to your CHILD : BK Shivani Change HABITS in children : BK Shivani Develop Personality of your CHILD : BK Shivani Please do follow the videos to get valuable guidance from Sister Shivani. Namaste On Godly World Service The "Shiv Baba Service Team" BKGSU, Madhuban

Question was asked by Madhuri Chauhan on 20 July 2018. Om Shanti. I have a long story to tell so please be patient because i really need your help..My father and mother were following gyan and baba for more than 15 years and we have geetapaathshala in our home. They have two daughters, me and my elder sister. My father wished me and my sister to become brahmakumaris. Though he never forced us to go to ashram or to do anything. He left the decision on us. My sister got married in 2010. In 2016, i told my father that i want to marry a boy and that boy does not belong to our caste. My father was very upset with my decision, still he supported me and advised me to do court marriage. Only I and my parents knew about my marriage and i came to canada after marriage. Our relatives had no idea about my marriage. But my father shared his pain with brahmakumari sister of the ashram which we used to visit. He was very upset at that time but very soon he realised that the boy i married is really a good boy and my father and mother were happy for me. We used to talk daily on phone. Then on 21st may 2018 my parents passed away in a car accident. People who were at that place where accident happened told that it was the truck driver’s fault who came from wrong side and hit my parents car. It took me 24hrs to reach india but by that time their antim yatra had already been done and i could not even see them for the last time. Two days later, the brahmakumari sister from the same ashram came to meet me and in front of all my relatives blamed me for sudden death of my parents. She started shouting at me that because of me my father was depressed. The way that sister was talking to me was like i am responsible for that car accident that took my parents lives. I know initially my parents were upset about my love marriage but now they were really happy with my husband and me. My father himself said to me that initially we felt bad but now we are glad with your decision. I just want to know should i believe my father’s words that he said to me or i should believe that brahmakumari sister. Am i really responsible for my parents death?  Our Answer: To: Madhuri Sweet divine Sister This is a response to your question and also a Godly sandesh (message). First of all, your father was not upset because of the person with whom you married, but because of that  you decided to marry instead of becoming a brahma kumari . Father was in Gyaan and knew that God has directed to us of complete purity . This is our last birth. World is changing. You can see. But Shiv baba has told never to force your children to not to marry. Hence you father made a correct decision. All is good. You were also happy after marriage.  Secondly, the one who can go against the Shrimat given in Murli and perform a wrong action (shout in anger), cannot be called a Brahma Kumari.  No one is called a bk only because they live in center away from their family. No. Instead a BK is one soul who follows the godly advice completely and do purusharth of self upliftment and do world service. One who has left all 5 vices forever (lust,anger,ego,greed,attachment). Only those are BK.  Third: You are not responsible for anyone other than yourself. Forget the past is past. Whatever happens, is for good only. You will soon get the answer - why was it for good. Trust the World Drama. This is a drama . We all are actors. This has happened 5000 years ago and it is just repeating. Nothing New.. So dear Madhuri, live with your family, with husband, but now you do 1 thing. You parents were a true BK and have followed the shrimat. They wished you to take you inheritance from Shiv baba. So will you not fulfil their dream?? You have to take a vow of purity in rest of your life. Living with husband with purity and see each other as a child of same parent (our supreme father, supreme soul) - this is a challenge. Can you take?? Here are guidelines for you: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/how-to-join-bk About Us: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us What is Raja Yog: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation Do visit all above pages . This was a Godly sandesh (message) to you.  *Relief. You are not responsible for anything. You are just an actor. And most important, your parents souls take received the knowledge. Wherever they will go and take their next birth, it will be a very good place. This is for sure. Accha Namase 00

God is the supreme surgeon who not only can treat diseases of soul (five vices) but also of body. This is our advise on how to recover from disease with the help of God (Shivbaba). Your Original Email Received Mujhe CKD stage 5 bimari hai .. operation hoga. AAP Baba Ko bolkar mujhe thik kar dijiye na .. please please... Email Response + Guidance To: Puja ji and everyone reading From: Prajapita Brahma Kumaris Ishwariya Vishwavidhalya Dear Divine Sister, You seem to be Gyani already, so you must be aware of karmic accounts. Only you can settle your own karmic accounts and no one else. So we cannot tell baba to treat your disease. But good news is that you can ! Follows the following steps- 1. What you should do? Wake up early in the morning (3am or 4am) and practice giving SAKASH to your body. Create powerful thought-Mai atma master sarvashaktiman hoon and mai atma master roohani surgeon hoon. And then go to Sooksham Vatan, imerge your body and tell baba to give healing vibrations. Read our Hindi article - Sakash Dene ki Vidhi to know how to give sakash to heal our body. ~ Commentaries ~ Healing through rajayoga: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wUkfBB1xd4M Healing commentary: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wo3cpKk2MJc disease free body: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=krHO83wTXrg 2. charge Water everyday during amritvela and drink it. Do this for 21 days. It has shown magical results. (Most recommend) ~ Related videos ~ Effect of drinking charged water- https://youtu.be/IDn1s8J4hXM Pani kese charge kare- https://youtu.be/N8t9ATgybOk , https://youtu.be/XKFCg-l7qoA 3. don't skip on medical treatment, take proper medicines and health care.. Gyan - yog is 60% and medicines - 40% Always Remember Baba, He is supreme surgeon. Take baba with you in operation theatre, be combined with Him.. Everything will be okay. ~ Related Links ~ Guidance on solving health problem Improving health how to finish karmic accounts contact again to ask more and share your progress. On Godly World Service 00

Health of the family has always been a major concern for most of us. This is a guidance to a sister who shares regarding her daughters illness and depression, feeling helpless and left alone in times of need. She also wishes to know how to stay strong and not get affected by people's behavior. This is our advise on how to cope up with similar situations, overcome loneliness and find peace. Original Message/Email Received in Aug 2020 Good evening , Om shanti. I am just saddened by so many little things. I have been constantly trying to listen to videos for guidance. Distressed about my daughters health issues , autism , hyperactivity and depression. People around me. My friends have let me down. They have used me. Betrayed me. Hurt me. Completely changed their behavior. I am just so fed up. I wish I was not affected by people. Can you please show me a way for peace. Email Response + Guidance Divine Sister, I would ask you to immediately consult a psychiatrist for your daughter if her situation is serious. Because sometimes when brain is low on certain chemicals such disorders arise and which can be treated with medicines. And moreover along with Medicine, Meditation will work great for her. So ask her to sit in silence and start meditating. You seem to be in a better condition, but still when the mind is weak , we are easily disturbed and affected by someone`s behavior. The solution is to Empower the Mind. How do we do that ? ➤ Answer Mind is like a small child. It has certain needs , demands and cravings too. Now you need to take care of this child with love. Give it what it actually needs but not everything it demands or crave for. Discipline it. So next time whenever your Mind is crying like a child next time tell him with love " No my dear child, they cannot hurt me , it is me who is taking their words seriously". Also we need to understand that if the appreciation uplifts us their criticism will destroy us. So we should not be attached to someone's perspective about us. And start meditating seriously to gain extraordinary results. Meditation is something that has overtaken this generation as a mandatory routine in the life of most of the people. It is helping the souls around the world to transform themselves into a being of Pure Love, Purity, Bliss and Power. We at the Brahma Kumaris practice Raj Yoga Meditation daily and radiate the vibrations of Peace , Purity and Love for all the worldly souls. Raj Yoga Meditation is simple and an easy to do meditation which can be practiced anywhere and anytime. It is full of Spiritual Wisdom about the subjects like Soul, God, Cycle of World, Secrets of Self transformation etc. which shall definitely help you both to transform yourselves. ◈ Sharing a few important links below. Please do follow them for the best results:- Video ➣ Raj Yoga Meditation : BK Sister Jayanti Article ➣ Raj Yoga Meditation - 7 Days Course online Video ➣ Stop getting affected by Other people : BK Shivani Video ➣ Empower the Mind : BK Shivani Video ➣ One thought to finish Depression : BK Shivani ⍟ Thank You! ⍟ -- On Godly World Service The 'Shiv Baba Service Initiative' team BKGSU

Healing a Soul physically, mentally and spiritually. Here is an email letter we responded. How to heal disease using the Swamaan and Power of Sakash? Original Email Received Om Shanti My Brother stays in Amritsar and I am married in Pune. Manish (my brother). He is 37 Years old . From past 13 - 14 Years he is completely at home . He was diagnosed with Muscular Dystrophy at the age of 24 - 25 . His confidence became very low to face people in his surrounding as he looked weak and use to fall down on road while walking. He started having imbalance while walking, trouble while climbing a stair. So he decided to stay back at home to keep himself away from people. My father was not able to take it that his son has incurable disease. My Father suffered from Liver disease and died in 2012. Now he stays with my mother . He feels sad and restless to see my mother working for him whole day and taking care of all day needs. Whenever I speak to him I feel stressed as he just has complains to discuss. Whole day he watch spiritual channel . Do some chanting and keep sitting on a bed. He listen to Gyan but not able to implement even begin willing to implement . I feel compassion for his condition He is not on any medication. if he follows something its only for few days . Some where deep inside I feel sad for his situation no matter after understanding the law of karma. I go to BK center for Murli tries to give him positive vibes and energy. Pls Guide and What to do I want him to be alright mentally physically and spiritually. Thanks Om Shanti Our Email Response To: Unknown From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) Dear Divine Brother, Your letter is read and here comes our response. Your love and concern for your brother shows you are a kind-hearted person. What he is facing today is the result of his past karma. Since he is already suffering from a physical disease it has made his mind further weak and that is why he is showing bitterness in his behaviour. As a family member is can be difficult to see him in such a condition, be compassionate towards him but you must remain detached in order to help him better. Like a good doctor who remain detached while treating the patients. If you remain detached and send him good vibrations, he will surely receive it and some day he might also be attracted towards baba and change himself. You can wake up early in the morning and give sakash to him to heal him from this disease. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5C4_a03BSSM Commentary to give sakash https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-6dahIHAK_o It is good that you are in gyan. Is your mother also in gyan? If so, she could also follow the same and create a beautiful spiritual atmosphere at home. But remember one thing, in spite of all your true efforts, if your brother remains the same, then you must understand that this is the result of his karmic account and no one can change it. You have to become strong to accept it. ~~ USEFUL LINKS ~~ Karma Philosophy - Law of Karma: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/karma * Related Post * Healing Disease with Power of sakash -> https://bkarticles.blog/2019/02/11/healing-disease-with-power-of-sakash/ Hope it helps. All the best. Namaste In Godly World Service 00

Overthinking is cause of many problems. Some people create a mountain out of a small thing. Difficulties arrise in everyone's life. This is a test - how we deal and overcome. Some not only overcomes their own difficulty but also support others. Become a great soul. Here is an email received who is troubled by their own thoughts, while there is nothing like a problem outside. Here is our detail guidance. Script of Original Email Received What is the importance of all that my life ,career,future when my love is not with me? My parents loves me soo much but I can do nothing for them....they have expectations from me but I can't bear myself anymore...I am always missing someone. He was the only way for me to come out from all this negativety. But he left me alone.... in some position when I m in badly need for him....why..now what I will do. I have just nothing to be with, my confidence is almost in a minimum level..... Why I m the most unlucky girl who have just nothing without her horrible overthinking. Our Email Response To: Shreya From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vidhwa Vidhyalay (Godly University) The permanent solution is - Make yourself powerful, from within. Soul is all powerful, peaceful, pure and all loving. This is self realisation. Do take our 7 days course in which all knowledge is covered. 7 days course online Then saying that - ''A wise one will make a mountain like situation look like a tiny dust particle. And a fool makes a tiny dust into a mountain like problem.'' 1. Realise that it is only your ''thinking'' which is causing trouble to you. Do you REALLY think there exist any problem? No. Certainly no. Make you mind, your friend, otherwise it becomes a great enemy. You are an experienced soul. Now come on, get up and sit on the seat of Soul consciousness and control over your thoughts, your mind and senses. Soul you are very powerful. How can any small matter influence you?? Think about this. When there is wisdom is our mind, it remains stable. Naturally. Hence in present time divine wisdom is needed. Most important, do take the 7 days course -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course 2. Many souls are benefitted by practice of Swamaan - swaman means 'Self respects' of soul - which are: I am a Peaceful soul, I am a Pure soul, I am a loveful soul, and 'I am a Powerful soul'. This can be done with guided commentary already well resented here below. Do practice this EVERYDAY or whenever get time. Swamaan commentaries -> http://bit.ly/Swamaan 3. To guide your journey, with the 7 day course & Swamaan abhyas (practice), please also watch below videos by BK Shivani Reason of Overthinking -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xp4yFJTvhjI Healing the Self -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lt83hOCJSQY Heal emotional hurt -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2BJFSHSx9Ns Empowering your mind (Hindi): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PyTWVjo5PHg With all this, also know that the permanent solution is to Make your mind your Friend. Become stable. Do not get influenced by emotions. Widely there is nothing to worry here. All is fine. Need anything? Search on BK Google - our Search engine -> www.bkgoogle.com namaste In Godly World Service 00

Brother's death upon a health issue which left the family in shock. Sister writes to us asking for guidance on How to take this and understand anything? So we explain them that whatever happens is always for a good purpose. And also explain How. This is for everyone who has similar situation/question - This is how we practically understand the meaning of Law of Karma and World Drama. Original Question via Email: Respected Sister Shivani, I lost my 41 years old brother on 26th nov’18 due to brain haemorrhage. It was sudden as he was fit n healthy. My Bhabhi n my Parents are left in a state of shock & depression seeking answer from God for so many questions . Is there any way if you can enlighten them . Please it’s my humble request if you can guide our family. Regards, Shweta Chamaria Our Email Response + Guidance To: Shweta Dear Divine Sister Your letter is received and read. We hope now is better. Definitely, if a soul suddenly leaves the body, leaving the family and children, they will worry. But what you NEED to understand is the Universal Law which is called KARMA As this law shapes our entire life - where shall we take the birth, how will be our new family, etc.. This all depends of the KARMA that souls did in the previous life. Hence in this situation, both understanding (knowledge) and fruitful detachment are needed. Knowledge - We all are Souls, actors in this BIG world drama - So wherever the call arises, the soul has to go. In order to GO, need to leave the present body. Reasons may be health problem, etc. but the purpose is ALWAYS GOOD. (GOD) Shiv baba says: ''What happened yesterday is good, what is happening now is BETTER and what shall happen tomorrow would be even better..'' There is a reason why God himself say such sentence. The reason is that this very time is ELEVATED. This is Sangam (confluence age). Shiv baba has come and is with us now. God is called as the world benefactor (one who does good to all) - Hence seeing such a broad view, you must not sorrow. Plus al this brought you and your family a step closer to God - as you now ask questions. This brought your attention to Shiv baba, our eternal Godfather. Time is a great healer after all. Even true knowledge is a great healer. Because with this divine understanding of Karma and World Drama, one establishes blissful stage within and our virtues are then reflected in our practical life. Murli is the source of this godly knowledge. What is Murli?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/what-is-murli ~~ ADVICE ~~ Whatever happened had happened. Now decide - you and your family stay with peace, having love for God and at last, you shall know that EVERYTHING HAPPENED FOR GOOD. Listen Gyan Murli every day on this website: babamurli.com in Hindi OR SoundCloud channel: https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk Visit -> About Us: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us OR EXPLORE THE SITEMAP: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/sitemap Our mobile apps: http://bit.ly/BkAndroidApps Need anything? Contact us. Accha namaste In Godly World Service 00

Breakup in love relationship lead to hurt. Here is our help and guidance to spiritual understand and to overcome from the pain created. Also the direction to connect with God (our spiritual father) to enjoy the true and unconditional love and acceptance. Original Email Received om shanti i have a request that i want my email to be answered my sister shivani if possible Sister i am hardika 21 years old . I want to talk to you about a heavy past that i am not able to overcome . it haunts me like anything i cant explain . So 1.5 years ago i was in a relationship with a guy for 2.5 years .. we had a beautiful relationship ... like a fairy tale .. just like every girl imagines in our childhood .. but then he and his family threatened me that they will come at my place and my fathers office and tell everyone what ive done to their child .. i swear sister.. I have never done anything wrong that wold turn down my parents head..neither have ever done anything wrong with that guy ... i am a strong girl .. i have been following you sister since 4-5 years .. but at that time i was sitting crying on a road when he called and threatened me.. i was so scared shocked and heartbroken that i wanted to die. he and his family tried their every best to prove that i posses i wrong character infront of my parents the reason why i am not able to get over this is because he and his mother used to love me alot .. they used to care for me alot .. the the amount of attention and love that guy has given me .. ive never received it in my entire life ..all of this was a lie ? i want to move on .. im trying to .. what should i do sister ? Our Response + Guidance To: Hardika From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) Dear Divine Sister, Your email is received and read. Here is our response. You are hurt and still very emotionally attached to your old friend. That is why you are very often reminded of the way you were treated by him. It is good to love someone truly and purely. But attachment always causes pain and a dependency on the other person to feel good. This is not healthy and everlasting. Every soul craves for pure love in form of acceptance. It is the basic nature of the soul. The source of love is God. Such as the source of peace and joy is also God. What we receive from God is unconditional. But when we cannot get such 'unconditional' love from humans, we feel hurt. Simply because God is perfect. No one else is perfect. To tell you that we lived with God in his company at a time that we NOW feel a LACK of that true love. Hence it becomes soul's basic nature (to live or to seek to live around peace and love) Everyone comes with a package of sankars from their past birth/s, both negative and positive. It would be unfair to compare two people with different sanskars. What you are perceiving to be lacking in your relationship is due to the expectation of a particular kind of treatment that your mind was used to. Now if the other person is not providing that then you are deeply disappointed. You would need to reprogram your mind and strengthen from within. What he and his mother did to you was because of your karma from past births. Firstly they gave you love, then they rejected. This means that there was such a karmic account between you. Knowing this, there should be no pain for you. Now you know that the karmic account is resolved. What you can now do to create a right karma is to accept it and not create any more sorrow out of that relationship. To really leave the past behind, send pure love to everyone around you and move on. However not to indulge in such bodily relationships which are always short longing. Souls are not perfect. But God is perfect. If you connect and have a relationship with God, experience you will must - the true peace, love and joy. Just like we do. For this, learn 'Raja Yog meditation' Learn RajaYog -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation Having a Direct relationship with GOD -> https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/a-relationship-with-god-awakening-with-brahma-kumaris ----- Watch below videos ------ (video) LOVE Settles Past Karma -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fXxTHfABruE AND (Video) Love yourself, Release the hurt -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2yW156x7mEw To give and receive unconditional love, you should understand that you are a soul. Body consciousness is the root cause of all sorrow. See in this case also, becuase How to recover from past relationship? - Articles Q and A https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/how-to-overcome-regret ~~ To empower yourself ~~ 1. Practice Self-affirmation (Swaman) -> http://bit.ly/Swamaan 2. We invite you to know more about us and take up the 7 days course for your benefit https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course Do visit all the above links and you are anytime welcome to contact us again about your progress. Namaste On Godfatherly service 00

Here is our advice (Baba's Shrimat) related to the very recent Covid-19 Lockdown situation. The brother explains losing his job during the lockdown and facing difficulty in carrying out his responsibilities of family and other proceedings. He seems to be following spiritual knowledge for keep himself motivated but wishes to dig deeper to help him get out of the situation. Original email we received in September 2020 I'm Badal Singh, and I wanted to know some thoughts to overcome my problems. Actually, I lost my job in MAY 2020, and in-fact my company deliberately done this. It was unlawful termination and I filed court case also along with other colleagues in the high court but they have instructed us to file individual case which I can't afford as I don't have any income since MAY 2020 and I have responsibility of family and I have debts of 35 lacs, also not getting any job. During these days I have gone through your videos which motivates me, but can you specifically provide me some positive powerful thoughts for my job and debts problems, I'll be very obliged. Om Shanti. Our Helping Response + Guidance To: Everyone Reading This From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly University) Dear Divine Brother You have asked us to guide you to overcome the current situation in your life. We know that due to an unproper and unplanned sudden lockdown in India, many people have lost their jobs as small and medium-sized companies also have suffered. It is general. We also understand that money is very important in the present time to even survive. But the good thing is, money can be earned in many ways.... you will definitely get a good job. Till then, here is our guidance, and we advise you to keep finding a good job which is nearby your home. You asked us to provide you 'Swamaan Abhyas' (affirmative thoughts) to practice during RajaYog (meditation) so that to get a job or attract better opportunities in life. Right. First ✦ We will show you the way on which many souls have attained a better life through Swamaan Abhyas. It is simply realising our inner, original virtues and bringing in our 'consciousness' again and again, until it reflects in our day to day life. Understand this first. Wake up early in morning (before 5am) and listen to these guided commentaries and self reflect. Do this every day. Second ✦ By this practice, we elevate our spiritual stage, and hence to say, our mind power increases, which indirectly helps us to achieve success in any desired field. Third ✦ It will only work if you personally make constant effort to find a good job. One is making our mind powerful, and second is, to TRY to get to where you want to go or be, and third is, to have complete faith. ✤ Useful Videos and Links ✤ How to be Successful: BK Shivani Law of Attraction: BK Shivani Jobless? BK Suraj Bhai ~ must watch~  Get a job -Giving interview : BK Suraj (specially for you) We also welcome you to take the Online RajYoga Course (7 days course). (This course is the 'essence' of all Godly knowledge. When you will receive this knowledge, life will be transformed) Namaste On Godly World Service The 'Shiv Baba Service' Initiative BKGSU, Madhuban.