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Prayag (a brother) asks for spiritual guidance for his sister who seems to be lost in her own world and have some emotional or mental problems. Here is our guidance and advice given via email. Original Email we received Om shanti !!! I am Prayag currently from mumbai maharashtra sister/ brother I need spiritual help to recover my 30 year old unmarried sister ( currently from satara Maharashtra) having a bit mental disturbance in her life & she has no awareness about it ( as I have taken Professional help) she is not ready to take Professional help & so whole family is in pain. As per my view from last 6 to 7 years she has difference in opinions with mother & father from last few years she uses wrong words for father and mother also she is not ready to leave village and using repeated thoughts about father and mother about abuse thoughts are same from last few years about abuse (according to her perspectives) she is not ready to let it go. Can you will help me ( spiritual help) in group meditation. I used to think positive for her but i think collective vibrations can help to her to out from all issues. I know that if one Person in family change whole family changes & I am ready to be that one. Hope for your ans as early as Possible. Regards, Prayag Pawar Our Response with Guidance From: Prajapita Brahma Kumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly University) Dear Divine Brother Your letter is received and read. Here is our response. You have a noble purpose of learning Raja Yog (that is: to heal your family's present situation). And you will certainly transform yourself. But you are a new born child and needs to know few truths. 1. Everything that happens is for a reason - it happens as a result of something. If one decides to change his future, he can - by taking right decisions in present Karma. 2. You wish that your sister should become like before. More than that can happen. Sister can become better than ever (spiritually). "Knowledge is the source of Self-transformation". Hence you mst first take the godly knowledge. We all study the gyan murli everyday. Murli is not only the source of entire spiritual knowledge, but also a source of joy and enlightenment. Shiv baba becomes my Father and loves me like no one. Then becomes my teacher and speaks the knowledge to me. Then becomes my Guru and takes me where he lives (praramdham) HOW? Take your sister and whole family to visit the nearby RajYoga centre for our introductory 7 day RajYog course. This course is the essence of all knowledge of murli. Or you can now also take this 7 day course online Also, if needed - convince your family or only sister to visit the Retreat centre (email us if you want the address of a Retreat centre near you) We welcome you to visit our About Us page to know the coming of God (our supreme father) and the establishment of the BK godly university. About Us - Introduction What is Gyan Murli? namaste On Godly Service SBSI team

Letter email was received in Oct 2018 from Sneha. About: How to overcome jealousy and how to build healthy husband wife relationship? Original Question: Hello sister, I am following you from last 3-4 months. I have practically experienced the change. I had a past. I was betrayed by a person. I created a lot of pain. It has been years now and I am with other person from 3 years who truly loves me. Past experience has changed me, I am suffering from strong insecurity and jealousy whenever it comes about his female friends. It has been the major reason for our fights till now. I try to control each and every situation according to me so that no bad repeats. I get offended for small scenes wherever I feel neglected even if it may not be the reality. I don't want any female friend of his to be close to him. He knows my past and sufferings. He hear me out when I feel low again, but now he decides what he wants and leave it a choice for me to accept. I feel alone when he leaves me to deal with it. Most importantly I am not able to trust him even if I want to. I have created hurt, cried a lot. Sometimes I really feel it would have been better if I was alone. I don't want to be dependent on him emotionally. I want to stay away from him so that I can focus on myself instead of expecting love and attention. I know these are very basics of life but I find it difficult to let go without hurting myself. Can you please help me out to overcome these negative feelings of insecurity and jealousy? Do you think staying away will help? Please guide me a way so that I stop hitting on myself weakening my soul. Waiting for you reply. Our Response (Answer) To: Sneha (and Everyone Reading) From: Prajapita Brahma Kumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay Your letter is received and read. Here is the response. You discussed that you are married since some 3 years, and you feel they love you. Then you also created jealousy and hurt. Then you felt that it was better to be alone. OK. Now the most important is: You have realised that you made a mistake by depending on other soul for love and happiness. We daily study and experience through Raja Yog, that I the soul is peace, is love and is power myself. I AM EVERYTHING THAT I NEED. 1. You will see that peace and love is our identity, our own inner nature. But as time has passed, body consciousnes has come and we forgot ourself as the Soul. Hence we also forgot our own nature. Then we began to search outside. There are 8 powers within Soul: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/8-powers-of-soul and There are 7 virtues of Soul: www.brahma-kumaris.com/7-virtues-of-soul (do visit to read above pages, then come back here) 2. When you experience yourself, then there is NO doubt. Right now you are searching for love, acceptance, etc. These you DO NOT NEED. You just need Self realisation. That is the key to unlimited: Soul - Who am i?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/who-am-i-the-soul ADVICE Practice Raja Yog meditation for only 21 days and see the difference. Learn Raja Yog here: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation Hope you follow all steps as given. Go and read the knowledge, and then learn meditation. You do this for yourself. Just 21 days of sincere surrender to God. Need anything?, just search on www.bkgoogle.com OR email us. Accha namaste 00

A question was asked by 'unknown' on our website's chat service box on 8 Oct 2018: 'How to be detached? How can one not be attached to their children or parents? What is meaning of detachment?' Our Response From: Prajapita Brahma Kumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly University) To: Everyone who are reading Now your question is: Attachment and Love There is one thing - attachment to someone. Second is love. They are not same. When there is attachment, there is feeling of receiving something from others, getting their love, acceptance, support and time. One will feel as a dependent on them for happiness. Second is love. Love means to give and JUST TO GIVE. Not to accept any returns. Nor a feeling of pain when someone else is in pain. Who is a good doctor? 1. Doctor who feels pains and injury of their patient and become a patient himself. 2. Doctor who heals the pain while remaining stable. Attachment can be with many and even with non-living things. But love can only be with living BEING. That itself clarifies the difference. Love is when two beings find a feeling of being more complete when they both are together. But when separated, they will not feel pain, because they are connected from inside, in their deep feeling and thoughts. This is love and purely a love in which there is no vice or weakness. Hope your doubt is clarified. Essence: 1. Love > A natural feeling of belongingness, to sacrifice for the other, to always support and empower. Love means TO GIVE without expecting any return. 2. Attachment -> A human made feeling of possessiveness for someone (person) or something (a thing), where there is always an uncontrolled fear or happiness, or both. Attachment is when there is expecting of love from others. Understand more on this Awakening episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IPUMUcaBIxE (BK Shivani will explain) Now you are welcome to our website for all service: www.brahma-kumaris.com :) Do save some time for God and self realisation daily and watch this life transforming videos: This is a special gift from your Godfather (Shiv baba): RESOURCES section: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/resources Videos Gallery: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/videos Search anything you want on www.bkgoogle.com (a personal search engine for BKs) Accha Namaste 00

Here is a spiritual understanding and a way to heal a friendship if the relationship bond was broken due to some misunderstanding. Original Email Received Unintentionally, I have hurt my best friend and have betrayed her trust by telling wrong about her to one of his friend (gosipping). I tried a lot to say her sorry in many different ways but still she is not talking to me from last 3 months. I don't want to lose my best friend as she is also my soul sister please help me. Our Email Response To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidhyalay (Godly Unversity) Good morning We hope you would have found a way to heal your friendship. This happens and time heals. A good relationship only means - you share good memories, have good feelings and we have good intentions. If all 3 things are right - then the relationship will stay and last. Such events happens and good vision is that this helps you to better know each other. Anyway, more focus is on having such good relationship with EVERYONE that remains stable even after a conflict... * Watch * What makes a relationship (BkShivani): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v7MUA0N00mM How to understand people?: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjUe_6jFwW0 How to finish conflict -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-aHoCJ-PGWI Also listen - GOD friend -> https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/aaj-ka-purusharth-21022018-god-friend Our Relationship with GOD (article): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/2019/01/14/Our-Relationship-with-God-the-Supreme-Soul If you are happy for this service, we welcome you to come and know ABOUT US -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Namaste On Godly World Service 00

Rajyoga is taught directly by God, the supreme surgeon. This has the power to solve any type of health problems. This is our step by step advice here. Original Email Received My brother(18 years old) is suffering from Schizophrenia. Please explain what my parents should do in this kind of situation. They are turning old and we don’t want them and my brother to suffer. Our Email Response + Guidance To: Nikita arora  From: Prajapita Brahma Kumaris Ishwariya Vishwavidhalaya Dear Divine Sister, Your love and concern for your brother shows you are a kind-hearted person. What he is facing today is the result of his past karma. Our past bad karma are destined to result into Bad outcomes.. While reading your email, it was easy to make out the reason.. It is the rule of nature 'as you sow, so shall you reap'. As a family member is can be difficult to see him in such a condition. Be compassionate towards him but you must remain detached in order to help him better. Through Rajyoga, as taught by God, we can solve this issue. 1. Whatever BK Shivani teaches are the direct versions of God. So it is most recommended for your whole family (including your brother) to attend 7 days Rajyoga course at your nearest center and connect to God, the supreme surgeon. Center finder-> https://www.brahmakumaris.com/centers/ (India) Facility of online course is also available. 2. You said you all are giving him good vibes but no improvement is seen. This is because alone good vibes are not enough. To send REAL good vibes it is important to create an environment of purity around.. God told that Purity is the highest virtue - Purity of food- Satvik bhojan (vegetarian diet excluding tamsik vegetables onion and garlic) + Offer this food to GOD (Bhog) purity of water- charge water (most recommended, magical results) Purity of Body- bk suraj bhai class + bk shivani behn class Refer to our Article on Yogi Diet -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/Yogi-Diet-and-Brahma-Bhojan3. Take good vibration to next level, i.e give sakash. You can wake up early in the morning and give sakash to him to heal from this disease-> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5C4_a03BSSM.  Commentary to give sakash -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-6dahIHAK_o 4. Take Help from the hospital of Brahma Kumaris at headquarters. There are many surrendered doctors in Yagya who has given their lives for service. Two such names are BK Dr. Sachin Bhai and Dr Satish Gupta. They will treat your brother through both medical + Rajyoga. Contact the hospital here-> http://www.ghrc-abu.com/ 5. Swaman meaning self respect through soul consiousness. This practice has helped many to come out of worse situations. Make your brother and parents do this.  Guided Commentaries to listen daily ->  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 6. Don't skip on medical treatment. Gyan Yog is 70% and medical treatment is 30% ~~ USEFUL LINKS ~~   Karma Philosophy - Law of Karma Healing disease Healing though rajyoga and swaman Improving Health Guidance on solving health problems Do follow all guidance and contact again to ask more On Godly World Service 00

How to overcome feeling of being inferior and comparing the self with others? A spiritual guide and princles in life that matter the most. How to think? What is the right path to walk in life? Original email we received from Vaishali Sharma on 28 Sep 2018 Om Shanti! My name is Vaishali Sharma and I am a first year MBBS Student. The problem that I am facing currently is related to comparing my life with a girl who lives in my colony. She's a BA Graduate and gives home tution as a part time course and has an average income. She doesn't have a very strong financial background and her family doesn't give her financial support. But despite all this she's able to afford to travel here and there almost every day and that too in a car ;eat at expensive restaurants ; drinks expensive beer; wears branded clothes and makeup. And a huge credit goes to her boyfriend for the kind of lavish lifestyle she lives. Her mother and brother despite knowing all this don't scold her, rather they promote her for doing this. I on the other hand have never betrayed my parent's trust and I have always been a sincere girl. But for the past 1.5 to 2 years I have been comparing my life with hers. And during this time I was actually viewing her Instagram account almost regularly which further destroyed my self esteem because I was able to see that she was having fun in her life. I struggled a lot just to earn my MBBS seat and the journey was never like a cakewalk but I couldn't help comparing my life with hers because she was always chilling around with her friends and boyfriend. Whereas I faced tremendous pressure, criticism, failures, disappointments and a wave of conflicting emotions. I still feel sometimes that God has been unfair to me and has been kind to her for he didn't gave her a struggling life. My teachers and parents used to say that after passing 10th one should work hard and focus on career and studies or else you will have to live a struggling life for the next 50-60 years. She didn't work hard but still she's enjoying and happy. I know that I have so much to be grateful to God but I'm just not able to appreciate the things and people he has blessed me with. How to deal with this? Please help. THANK U VAISHALI SHARMA Our Response Vaishali Your message is received and read. Read with attention. Very strange to see how India, a country of culture and religion, the most ancient and important land has changed in few years. Before, good life was considered to be the one in which we get peace of mind, in which we stay away from all bad, in which we fulfill our responsibilities and then we struggle, work hard, but at last get the real success. This is called ''life''. Going here and there, drinking, etc. is a task of a human beings who has lost the way of life. There is no real happiness in this. Person may only look happy. Real happiness lies in doing what is not against the Dharma. Always remember Vaishali, in your life, at every single point, you will have 2 choice. One of those 2 is right and better. Mostly the right choice looks difficult. A wise person should not be attracted in temporary pleasures. And see, it is not your bad fortune, that you are safe and away from such a life, but it is a better fortune. This you should know that one who walks on right path, does not indulge in bad karma, shall definitely get everything that life has to offer. Hard work is best for this. Hard work is dharma. Celibacy is your dharma. Helping to the needy, serving parents and thanking God is our Dharma. Cleanliness, not harming anyone (non voilence) is our Dharma If you walk on this path, there shall be temporary pain, sacrifices. After this, is bright light, which is great reward. We wish to know - ''How did you come to know about Prajapita Brahma Kumaris''? - Say in detail. Here are some very useful pages you should visit. About Us: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Celibacy: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/celibacy-is-raja-yoga-way-of-Life Do visit both pages. What do you think now? Accha namaste 00

A mother writes to us asking for guidance to help her son gain concentration power for studies. Adopting a Meditative lifestyle in the house raises the vibration of the place & lifts up the mental powers of those living in the house. Rajyog Meditation helps to think right & re-program the old & wrong belief systems/habits, helping us to be on the right track. From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidhylay (Godly University) To:   Sujata Ji Original Email My son very intelligent but don't concentrate in studies. Tell lies always and since last 3 years not appearing in class 12 exams... ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- "We at Prajapati Brahma kumaris daily do collective Yog/meditation for the world souls & send to them vibrations of peace, purity, love, and power. Let good happen to all" Our Email Response + Guidance Namaste Sujata Ji, Hope you and your family are fine. We received your question a few days ago. Please find below as our guidance. We're sure your son also knows that he should study. He too wants to focus on the studies and do well academically, and he certainly must have tried to do so. But when mind's power is low, it faces problems to concentrate or focus. Just the "knowledge" is not enough, that "I should concentrate"; but to implement it he needs the power. The vibration of our world is getting low day by day. Fear, hurt, jealousy, stress, anxiety, depression, regression, rejection, criticism, comparison, competition, hatred all these negativities are increasing. If we get a machine to check the frequency of the vibration at a particular place, we would be surprised by seeing the result. We need to protect ourselves and our families from these negativities. For that, we need to raise our own vibration and energies our family and the home. Energies Your Home To protect ourselves from negativities, we should simply adopt only what is positive: - Read, watch, listen to only positive information Information that has fear, lust, attachment, ego, hatred (be it world news or TV serials or gossips) must be replaced with positive content, positive talks. You can subscribe to our YouTube channels to find very useful videos on daily basis. (BK Shivani, Awakening, Brahmakumaris). Peace of Mind TV channel and Awakening TV channel provide self empowering content for 24×7. - Energies your food and water "Jaisa man vaisa ann & Jaisa ann vaisa man". If the mind is overthinking, is worried about the child's future, is in some fear... the food being cooked absorbs the energy and it affects them who consumes the food. Practice meditation on daily basis and cook in a peaceful state of mind. Use the power of your positive thoughts while cooking and see the miracles happening! - Your morning should begin with an hour for yourself - "Me Time" when you study spirituality or listen to some motivation videos followed by half an hour of meditation to churn what you just learned. When even one person starts elevating his/her lifestyle, his/her pure & powerful vibrations elevates the home's energy. A mother also has an opportunity to meditate and cook with peaceful & powerful mind. The high energy food (prasad) helps to raise the energy of the souls who consume it. Thought Power To Transform Your Son "Sankalp Se Siddhi". Think only what you want should happen. Think and visualize that your son has become so peaceful and powerful. Visualize him studying with full focus and enjoying studying. If you create thoughts according to what you're seeing at present and since the present is negative, your negative thinking unfolds negative future. To transform the current situation, you should think what you wish to see. Moreover, thought like "you're not studying, you're just not focusing on studies" "you have wasted so many years, what will you do in your future?" "God knows what will happen to this child" all this negative thoughts depletes you son's energy. Every single thought that we create for anybody reaches him right then and based on the quality of the thought is either increases his power or depletes it. More than our advice, he needs power. So help him increase his soul power, by thinking only good for him. Rajyog Meditation To Increase Concentration Power Visit a nearby BrahmaKumaris center along with your son to learn Rajyog Meditation. It's a 7 days course based on deep spiritual knowledge about self-awareness. One learns the true potential of the self and learns how to emerge the same. This will definitely help him as he will get an elevated atmosphere to re-design his belief systems and thinking. Spending even half an hour daily at such an elevated place increases the power of the mind. We heartily welcome you to learn Rajyog and benefit yourselves like millions of other people who have transformed their lives just by taking one step closer to the Supreme Power's knowledge (Godly Knowledge). Feel free to contact us in case you have any further questions or need any kind of help in this journey... Don't hesitate, we're a family! :) ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- * Useful Links * Nearby BrahmaKumaris Center:  https://www.brahmakumaris.com/centers/ Rajyog Course Online:  https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course * Useful Videos * How To Improve Concentration Power: https://youtu.be/1ZcY04uctm8 https://youtu.be/2wqpq3mVZ64 Energies Your Home: https://youtu.be/ap4TvzO1lNw Your Vibes Transform Them: https://youtu.be/7HGvGG1B3mA Energies Your Food:  https://youtu.be/5SIpVdKaCPw Water For Emotional Strength: https://youtu.be/a_OySuuXTlg Desires + Vibrations = Reality:  https://youtu.be/NM00KBf5ruA God's Revelations:  https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLbkt6AalPAuV5WNXMa2VHfdodnZ86rJx9 ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- This is God's creation for the New World (Heaven). We welcome you to learn ABOUT US -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Here is our Further advice -> You should do 'Swamaan Abhyas' Swamaan = Self true respect of the soul which is Peaceful, Pure, Loveful and Powerful. HOW TO DO? Early morning - wake up around 5:00 am and focus your mind and listen to these commentaries -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 (FULL Playlist) While you listen to these guided commentaries above, you should focus the attention to the middle of the forehead, where me THE SOUL reside. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- On Godfatherly (Godly) World Service www.bkgsu.com (The Shiv Baba Service Initiative) oo

Dear brother, I'm confused about everything. As my memory I was keeping myself under fear, doubt,strain always.. I was not sure what to do or not. I was borned as poor and so that feeling guilt about it. I'm artistic in the way am I and working as an art teacher;send out of the job recently!! I want to be a successful artist.. But I'm not confident. The family is depending upon me now.. we don't have money... But baba is keeping me always secured..safe.I can feel it. But I am filled with all the vices rather than virtues. I'm wishing for money from lottery couldn't find any other way and want to pursue the career But feeling always doesn't know anything else.. not so courageous doesn't have the feeling that I am worth for anything especially, for Baba's sewa. Can't do the yoga well and feel my soul stage ..anything.. What to do..I don't want to live like this.. being nothing.. When I heard baba said free from your vaibhav.... everything.... feeling I can't do anything else.. Please help me.. I couldn't do the yoga well.. I'm waiting for the reply

Overthinking is cause of many problems. Some people create a mountain out of a small thing. Difficulties arrise in everyone's life. This is a test - how we deal and overcome. Some not only overcomes their own difficulty but also support others. Become a great soul. Here is an email received who is troubled by their own thoughts, while there is nothing like a problem outside. Here is our detail guidance. Script of Original Email Received What is the importance of all that my life ,career,future when my love is not with me? My parents loves me soo much but I can do nothing for them....they have expectations from me but I can't bear myself anymore...I am always missing someone. He was the only way for me to come out from all this negativety. But he left me alone.... in some position when I m in badly need for him....why..now what I will do. I have just nothing to be with, my confidence is almost in a minimum level..... Why I m the most unlucky girl who have just nothing without her horrible overthinking. Our Email Response To: Shreya From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vidhwa Vidhyalay (Godly University) The permanent solution is - Make yourself powerful, from within. Soul is all powerful, peaceful, pure and all loving. This is self realisation. Do take our 7 days course in which all knowledge is covered. 7 days course online Then saying that - ''A wise one will make a mountain like situation look like a tiny dust particle. And a fool makes a tiny dust into a mountain like problem.'' 1. Realise that it is only your ''thinking'' which is causing trouble to you. Do you REALLY think there exist any problem? No. Certainly no. Make you mind, your friend, otherwise it becomes a great enemy. You are an experienced soul. Now come on, get up and sit on the seat of Soul consciousness and control over your thoughts, your mind and senses. Soul you are very powerful. How can any small matter influence you?? Think about this. When there is wisdom is our mind, it remains stable. Naturally. Hence in present time divine wisdom is needed. Most important, do take the 7 days course -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course 2. Many souls are benefitted by practice of Swamaan - swaman means 'Self respects' of soul - which are: I am a Peaceful soul, I am a Pure soul, I am a loveful soul, and 'I am a Powerful soul'. This can be done with guided commentary already well resented here below. Do practice this EVERYDAY or whenever get time. Swamaan commentaries -> http://bit.ly/Swamaan 3. To guide your journey, with the 7 day course & Swamaan abhyas (practice), please also watch below videos by BK Shivani Reason of Overthinking -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xp4yFJTvhjI Healing the Self -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lt83hOCJSQY Heal emotional hurt -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2BJFSHSx9Ns Empowering your mind (Hindi): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PyTWVjo5PHg With all this, also know that the permanent solution is to Make your mind your Friend. Become stable. Do not get influenced by emotions. Widely there is nothing to worry here. All is fine. Need anything? Search on BK Google - our Search engine -> www.bkgoogle.com namaste In Godly World Service 00

This is advise given to solve various problems arising between family after marriages.. Original Email Received Gud eve  I m 9 month married girl myself komal.my husband is in defence force.i m living with his family . In our family there is only my husband who is the source of proper income. My father in law nd brother in law also doing jobs but overall family depends on my husband. On our marriage my husband took loan and now he is not able to afford to pay for whole family.because its financial crisis.       This issue is disturbing my life.they put blame on me for this. That i m refusing to give money at home.they neglected me.their behaviour towards me was not good. For their comfort i left my job nd served at home.but they dont care.my husband said they are my parents i dnt do anything.now i m 4 month pregnant nd i m living with my own parents.      Kindly give me solutions  Our Email Response + Guidance To:  Komal Satish ji and Everyone reading this From: Prajapati Brahma kumaris Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalaya (Godly Spiritual University) Dear Divine Brother/ Sister, Your email is received and thoroughly read. Here is our suggested solution to your problem. Omshanti,  For in-laws and husband- It seems a lot of misunderstandings have arisen between you and your in-laws. If possible then you and your family should verbally try to sort out. And at the thought level, you must be positive. Don't create negative thought or don't send the negative energy and vibes to your in-laws and husband..  Try this- Consider yourself and themselves as Souls, a point of light . Close your eyes and send them good wishes.. Keep God (incorporeal God Shiva, sweetly called as Shivbaba) with you. And tell him everything you want to. Keep giving them water of healing vibrations.. This will help you clear your Bad Karmic Debts with your in-laws. Watch this video : 1. . Faith in God (Bk Suraj bhai): https://youtu.be/Xc9dyb7rK4E 2. Settle Karmic Accounts (Bk Shivani) https://youtu.be/SPY1-biTzhs For financial matters-  To overcome financial problem then you should join back your job, if possible and help your family.. If this is not possible then do 21 days yog bhatti (https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/why-21-days-yog-bhatti ).. but before 21 day bhatti, you must attend Rajyoga Course at your nearest center or online.. then only you'll be able to do bhatti. For unborn child- You are carrying a soul (child) within you. Not only what you eat affects the child, but your thoughts and the atmosphere at home will have a deep impact on the child. So it is upto you to create positive thoughts and vibrations in the house so that everyone is benefited from that. Practice to be detached to whatever is happening around and make a promise to yourself that whatever happens I will be light and happy (at least for the sake of the child). It might seem difficult, even impossible now, but if you practice Rajyog (connection with god) in small steps regularly, it will help you immensely. ~~ What you need to do ~~ 1. Start practising Rajyog. But before that you need to take 7 days course online from here: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course OR visit your nearest BK Rajyog center (Recommended) 2. Listen to Swaman commentaries early in the morning https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 ~~ Links on Mother Baby care~~ Divine Mother Baby http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Divine%20Mother%20Baby.htm Watch all episodes in this series ''Virtue Baby'' when you get time during the day -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y07fjkn7_LY&list=PLjzCBUU9MVAqd7aYJBEDM0CSx7TdxQvkY ~~ Useful Links ~~ About Us: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Who am I?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/who-am-i-the-soul Hope this helps. Do email and let us know of your progress. Namaste In God Fatherly service 00

Question /Problem of a wife who lives away from husband and in-laws, who keeps away from her and wants divorce. Sister needs advice on how to go forward in life. Original Question asked via Email : Nister , I am 29 years old married since 3 years.right from marriage there been many disturbances in our relationship.2 years ago we were about to separate but compromised. now again we are in the same situation.i am ready to compromise but my in-laws are not in a position to understand me.due to some of my health conditions I am living near to my office as I can't do journey daily.visiting my inlaws in holidays and weekends. My husband is not ready to live with me as that is little far from his office.but my in laws have made that as a point to give me divorce from my husband.they are creating rumours also that I have extra marital affairs and so I am living separate. They are believing a horoscope written by a pandit that I will have extra marrital affiar with someone after having a child with my husband. They have strong feeling that I should give birth to only a male child not at all a girl child. I am struggling from weeks with this, not able to dare to take divorce as how my life will be after divorce? What my colleagues think of me? How to go forward in life? Our Email Response (Answer) Dear Sister, your letter about - ''Family, husband and in-laws..'' is received and read. Here is our response. Now what is the state to your relationship with wife and family? It is better? 1. You are living alone and that is also a good thing. You can use this as in your benefit. Self awareness, Introversion and meditation are divine aspects of ife which are more easily experienced in solitude. 2. Why? No matter what difficulty in life one have, if one makes the self powerful then obstacles will be finished. 3. How? Try and wake up little early in morning - sit in silence and practice 'Swamaan'. If you are connected to Brahma Kumari Ishwariya Vidhyalay, then you would know the meaning of this word, otherwise also it is easy. You can practice this Swamaan - Swamaan means self respect. Our Swamaan are - I am a peaceful soul, Pure soul, Powerful soul, Loveful Soul.. (Pavitra Atma, Shanti Swaroop Atma, Shakti swaroop Atma...) Swamaan commentaries (playlist): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 * Every morning - wake up early (around 5 am) and listen these above commentaries. Here are more Raja Yog music & guided commentaries: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary What is Raja Yoga?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation (save above links) Shiv baba is always with you till you chose to be Pure (celibacy). Pluse we always are with you, to guide you. ok? Awakening episodes in Audio: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/awakening-bk-audio-episodes (( Awakening episodes speially helped MANY families to solve relationship problems..)) How to handle and sustain family and family life, is all explained in the Awakening with Brahma Kumaris TV program by Sister Shivani. Awakening Website (for TV program times): http://awakening.in/ Fo general guidance on Husband-Wife relationship, visit here: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers Accha namaste In God Fatherly World Service 00

In present time, there is lot of burden of education in schools and colleges in India. A student writes to us to seek advice upon this. How to give exams without fear? How to get success in exams? Here is our response and guidance to Overcome exam fear. Original Email Received in Feb 2019 I am preparing for govt sector. Therefore giving several exams. But the result is not in favour. Everytime the result announced my parents says like- 'what kind of study u doing,not clearing any exam' ,'others child how they do' etc etc.. After hearing these comments I get demoralized. And now I suspect myself to be a fail... What to do? Our Email Response TO: Ankit & Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay Topic: Exam, success, overcome fear Dear Divine Brother/Sister It is explained also in Shrimat Geeta that - ''Human being should only focus on karma (work) and leave everything else upon fortune and God.'' What it means for you is - ''Do your best. Put 100% effort in writing the exam. Study and rest do not worry about results. This result does not represent your ability to understand. It only represent your ability to 'remember.'' Learn in an intellectual manner - revise everything once and then focus on individual chapters. The best way to learn is to 'see' it. Visual explanation is useful. Moreover, it depends on the memory power of brain. Guidance How can you Develop memory power? Answer: Learn meditation. On our website, you can not only ''learn'' Raja Yog meditation, but also we have music and guided commentaries to support to learning. Plus listen below given 'Nature Relaxing Sounds' while you study. 1. What is Raja YOg meditation? https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation 2. RajYoga music + Commentaries (to Learn) (Wake up early morning and listen these guided commentaries.) https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary 3. Nature Relaxing Sounds (while studying) https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/relaxation-music-nature-sounds * Related Article /post * How to focus and enjoy study?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/how-to-focus-and-enjoy-study Hope you will follow the given guidance and walk the path to divinity in Life. Also then visit 7 virtues of Soul On Godfatherly World Service 00