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This our advice on how to approach for sewa which involve support from headquarters as well. Here is our step by step advice. Original Email received I have been following brahmakumaris practices since the past 8 years. I am a Chartered Accountant. I have recently started my own venture in the field of children's publications. One of the offerings is a digital platform for daily current affairs in which only positive news will be reported for children. I do believe that the teachings of Shiv Baba will greatly benefit children. I wanted to connect with the relevant person in your organisation who could possibly understand my offering and see we can collaborate to take the teachings of Shiv Baba to children on a daily basis. Email response + Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapati BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidhalaya Dear Divine Sister, Good to know about your plans for sewa. It's a wonderful and appreciable effort. God (Shivbaba) feels proud of serviceable souls like you. First of all congratulations for your new venture. If children are taught Gyan Yog right from the beginning, it helps in framing their mindset spiritual and stronger will power. 1. Firstly it is important to remember Shiv baba and discuss your plans for seva with Shivbaba. Baba says, ' महावीर बच्चों की विशेषता यह है कि पहले याद को रखते फिर सेवा को रखते '. This will ensure success in sewa. 2. You must discuss your plans for this seva with the sister/brother incharge of your nearest brahma kumaris center (sub center/ Main center/ zone center). They shall assist you further.  Center finder-> https://www.brahmakumaris.com/centers/ 3. Wings of brahma kumaris are established to target a particular sect of society. You shall become member and discuss your plans with in-charge of relevant wing as you like. We recommend you should approach Business wing, Media wing, Education wing or Youth wing. See here->  Sites of each wing->   http://bk.ooo/all-wings/ Contact details of each wing (pdf)->   http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-Database/All%20Wings%20Details.pdf ~~ ADVICE ~~ You are in Gyan since few years and would hence know the importance of murli in our brahman life. Murli is the only medium where God father (Shiv baba) speak to us directly. Hence to make us equal to himself. Do you realise this? There are many places where Murli is served on internet. So here are selected good sources to listen/read daily Murli: 1. Hindi murli -> babamurli.com 2. Audio murli daily on SoundCloud -> https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk (follow this channel) 3. Madhuban murli -> madhubanmurli. org 4. On YouTube -> https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCY0tVDjHZ7F1zHu2Jj9uDTQ 5. Get mobile apps For Android: http://bit.ly/BkAndroidApps For iPhone: http://bit.ly/iPhoneAppsBk Contact again to ask more. In Godly World Service 00

Positive thinking does attract the desired result. Plus it feels good even while thinking positive. In this case, a student wants to go to USA to complete Post Graduation (degree). Here is our advice and the right approach of thinking and doing to get success and peace of mind. Original Email Received My name is Shivkumar. I am a post graduate in Computer Science graduated from TamilNadu,India.  I am a Senior Software Test Automation Solutions Architect and a free lance Global Corporate Consultant. Couple of Years back, I was doing my Post Graduation in Computer Science  (M.S. in Computer Science) in an University based at Harrisburg, capital of Pennsylvania, US. Completed 8 subjects and came back to India for some personal reasons, however when I have to return back to US to continue and complete all of my remaining 4 subjects, my Visa stamping was rejected, now all of money and time invested is really at stake, however now I am at India, but my ambition is to complete remaining 4 subjects and get the post graduation.This very thought is really in my Mind back ground and I am also quite eager to complete the post graduate degree. Is there a way, I could attract positive energies which could get me back to US and complete my Post Graduation. Thanks and With Best Regards Our Email Response To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidhyalay (Godly University) Dear Divine Brother ''Is there a way, I could attract positive energies which could get me back to US and complete my Post Graduation.'' Answer: The simple and direct way is ''positive thinking'' or ''think what you want to happen''. For example, if you want that you can complete the studies, then develop a constant and powerful wave (of thoughts) that this WILL HAPPEN. Watch both video->  1. Affirmation to Attract what you want -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uP7Ez-R7rXM 2. Four simple habits to develop -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aDIrnR9y-j8 Have you tried all ways to get the visa? Is yes, then now you should relax, wait and watch what happen next. Just as today Science teaches that every action has an equal and opposite reaction - Spirituality teaches and shows that our karma will be paid in the future. Hence whatever will happen is to happen and will be for good. Did you realise that many times in life, we think that something didn't happen very well. But as time passes, after we realise that it happened for good. Right? Maybe your not going to US has a good reason. Morever this connected you with us. What better could happen... If you are a new, please do visit our About Us page to know about the story of how God created this Yagya for ''world transformation.'' Rest to know our 4 subjects, visit ->  https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/four-subjects Hope this will guide you ahead. MUST visit our about us page and 4 subjects. Have any question? Contact again. namaste On Godly World Service 00

In a husband-wife relationship sometimes problems arise due to lack of trust/honesty/loyalty. What should one do when s/he finds the spouse to be cheating? Feeling hurt/taking revenge depletes the soul's power. To realize the mistake & chose the right path, the soul needs power, He needs forgiveness, trust, unconditional love & acceptance. From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidhylay (Godly University) To: Everyone reading this Original Email I am married for the last 6 years. I have a very happy married life. I have a 4-year-old daughter. My husband is very loving and caring. But I have proof of phone recordings that my husband goes to prostitutes. He was talking to his close friends about it And after listening to those recordings I am almost in depression that how can he go for such things. I am unable to concentrate on anything. Not even in my work. Please help me on how can I handle this situation and how can I stop him from doing such things. -------------------------- "We at Prajapati Brahma kumaris daily do collective Yog/meditation for the world souls & send to them vibrations of peace, purity, love, and power. Let good happen to all" Our Email Response + Guidance Good Morning Devine Sister, Any person originally is full of purity, peace, happiness, bliss, joy, knowledge and powers. To highlight the main thing here - Purity, any person originally is completely pure i.e. s/he would not even create a single impure thought about any other being! These innate virtues and powers have nothing to do with physical senses i.e. the true nature of any person is to remain in this supersensuous joy. But gradually we have drifted away from our original nature and have been trapped under the influence of vices (lust, anger, greed, attachment, ego). [Please refer Our 7 innate Virtues to understand this clearly] [Also, The 8 Powers Of Us] HELP SOMEONE EMERGE HIS VIRTUES We have the power to help someone bring back his/her innate nature of Purity & Honesty (in this case) and also the power to discern between right & wrong & the power to do the right. For that, you first need to experiment to empower yourself with complete peace & positivity. Because to empower someone firstly we ourselves need to elevate ourselves. You cannot help him until you heal yourself... Detach yourself from whatever is happening around you... Leave behind all the thoughts related to the situation, because self-care is the top priority, everything else is secondary... You have the right to feel great irrespective of the circumstances... He may have lied to you, he could have even hurt you physically, but he cannot hurt you emotionally. The hurt is the creation of yours, by seeing his deeds the thoughts you create are the cause behind the hurt. The point here is - once I realize that it's nobody else but 'me' who created the hurt, I stop blaming people for making me feel how I'm feeling. And most importantly I stop expecting them to do something to heal my hurt. I take the responsibility to heal myself. Once this understanding is clear, I also find the ways How to heal myself! THE HEALER WITHIN How we feel is completely dependent on what thoughts we create. (Yes, it doesn't depend on the people/situations) (Moreover, thoughts just don't come up, I AM the creator. Based on my knowledge, belief systems and experiences I create the thoughts.) This means if I create the right thoughts always, I would feel happy always. The only thing that I need to do is cleansing the wrong knowledge/belief systems, and train my mind to think in the right direction whenever I find it thinking wrong. - You're a peaceful & powerful being... You've forgiven your husband for his mistake and trusting him again... - You're full of love... You need just one person to love you - you yourself! - You're full of trust, you trust your husband irrespective of his behavior/actions... Your unconditional acceptance and trust empower him... - Your every single high frequency thought about your husband increases his honesty & purity... With increased energy, he realizes the quality of his Karma... If you haven't learned RajYoga Meditation, please visit a nearby BrahmaKumaris center and learn the meditation for free. You'll surely be able to increase your stability, peace of mind and powers. With this high mental power, spare at least an hour early in the morning to sit in meditation and radiate high energy to your husband (by creating elevated thoughts). You can create a miracle by doing this consequently at least for 21 days, meditate for yourself & for him, also visualizes in your meditation that absolutely everything is (not 'will be') perfect between you two. Things have fallen in place! You can use your own creativity& mind power to think the best for your relationship, not just during meditation, but from now every single moment. * Useful Videos * Forgive And Trust Again: https://youtu.be/r9p8garDIgM Soul Reflection - Betrayal And Forgiveness: https://youtu.be/4lc0e3IEwok Extra-Marital Affair - What To Do About It?: https://youtu.be/J-AIx6ra1t4 Feeling Great No Matter What: https://youtu.be/7UiuI7qrLRU Need Only One Person To Love You: https://youtu.be/AuUMU4JREgk Healer Within - a wonderful video series: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL6mmKavEt551EU5-eIR0UiqPYMWZbhwh9 Manifest Desires Into Reality: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E_A0XAWwO8Y ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- This is God's creation for the New World (Heaven). We welcome you to learn ABOUT US -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Here is our Further advice -> You should do 'Swamaan Abhyas' Swamaan = Self true respect of the soul which is Peaceful, Pure, Loveful and Powerful. HOW TO DO? Early morning - wake up around 5:00 am and focus your mind and listen to these commentaries -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 (FULL Playlist) While you listen to these guided commentaries above, you should focus the attention to the middle of the forehead, where me THE SOUL reside. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- On Godfatherly (Godly) World Service www.bkgsu.com (The Shiv Baba Service Initiative) oo

How do I finish Karmic account with someone? Question for BK Shivani is answered with guidance on living Brahman (BK) life and following the Shrimat of Shiv baba in Murli. Original Question via Email: Dear Didi, I have heard many videos of Sister Shivani. I just want to know, even if I am giving positive energy to the person who has issues with me then also I am getting negative energy from that person. I have tried to say sorry to that person through my thoughts.. but nothing is working out.. instead situation is getting worst day by day.. Please guide me how to complete all the karmic accounts with that person.. My life is getting worst day by day.. even verbally I have tried to say sorry to that person but by doing that she is behaving worst with me.. I am keeping myself motivated by saying that this is the part of drama.. Please help me didi.. just let me know how can I finish my all karmic account with that person.. coz I don’t want to carry forward.. Thanks. Our Email Response (on behalf of BkShivani) From: BK Shivani, Prajapita Brahma Kumaris Ishwariya Vishwa Vidyalaya (Godly Spiritual University) To: Ami (and everyone reading) Dear Sister Your letter is received and read. You discussed that you have karmic account with someone. You may be are following the Awakening episodes (on Karma, being bliss, happiness unlimited, etc) which are based on your life situation. Firstly, will tell you to listen them: Audio episodes: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/awakening-bk-audio-episodes Video episodes: https://www.youtube.com/user/tvpeaceofmind/playlists?sort=dd&view=50&shelf_id=6 2. Karmic account develops slowly-slowly birth by birth. One soul may have a relationship with another soul since many births. Hence, in this last birth we all have to finish our accounts. So Shiv baba comes and teach us Raja Yog (Yog with Shiv baba). Raja Yog has 2 words Yog means 'Connection' or 'Relationship'. Here the relationship is not bodily, but intellectual. We know that Shiv is the name of 'Supreme soul', who is my father. We are one world family. Then we know that he is an Ocean of knowledge, of peace, purity and love. Thus when a soul remembers the supreme soul as the father, teacher, friend and Satguru, & knows the World drama and its Laws, the soul is awakened. Now you know why the TV series is named 'Awakening'. 3. Practice Swamaan (swaman means to emerge and use our original qualities). HOW? : With help of these commentaries: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 4. Personal advice: Do not think about ''I have to finish my karma account with this person''. No. Instead think: ''I am a completely free soul. My all karma bondages are finished. Now i am with my father Shiv baba.'' Clear ? #Slogan: With faith and patience, with purusharth and will, you shall also cross the ocean of sorrow and the new world is awaiting across this ocean. God has come to re-create the new world (heaven/satyug). Need anything? Visit and explore our main website's Sitemap: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/sitemap Learn Raja Yog through guided commentaries: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary When you know, understand then you tell and explain others. Do service. In God Fatherly World Service 00

Received an email about love from an 18 year old girl from India. She fell in love with someone and then had a break up in their relationship. She was a regular listener of BK Shivani's spiritual lectures and hence writes to us for a solution as she is feeling down. Original Email received: I am Nilanjana Das. I live in Kolkata and i am of 18 years, a student. I recently had a bad break up and this was my first relationship. Though it was the guy who first professed his love to me, at last he ended the relationship by saying that he does not love me at all and blamed me for no reason. Maybe, i did not come up to his expectations but i really loved him and tried to make him happy. But i failed. I am a regular follower of sister Shivani's youtube videos and trying to come out of the situation but i am not able to forget him. His words and promises are ringing in my ears. Please help me. What must i do to come out of this situation. And one more question is, are good deeds really rewarded? Our Email Answer Nilanjana You are a regular listener of Brahma Kumari (BK) Shivani and hence you would have watched Awakening episodes. It is seen that today's young children having disinterest in life after failing in love (called break up). When they don't get what they want, they believe it is the end. This is because of not knowing what ''love'' means. You need understanding of What love is and what love means. Here is a nice explanation by Sandeep Maheshwari: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s_1bFkC2tRY and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u6gEkCp0f08 Watch both videos and you will understand the true meaning of love. Now that you know, Do you think such a relationship exist between you and anyone else? Of course, a parent has immense love for their children. But can you think of anyone like this who can love you unconditional and yet you need not to even see him? What is love? - Love means to become one with someone and there is NO separation - there is unconditional acceptance and always there for each other. Only one GOD can love you like this. He is the ocean of knowledge, an ocean of love. Know about God (the Supreme soul)> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/god-the-supreme-soul-shiv-baba Our invitation to Marry to God: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/marry-to-god-shiv-baba-a-message-for-kumaris ---- Useful videos ---- Attachment is not love - BK shivani: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IPUMUcaBIxE Spiritual in Life - FULL playlist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KHupP3idhQ0&index=4&list=PL6mmKavEt550gQnky1pg88MKiX9cZSz2L Do watch all provided videos and the last playlist given of 'Spirituality in life' to learn the way of living. We hope you will get the aim of this great human life through services given like Awakening, PMTV, Website and more. PMTV live: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/pmtv-live Awakening Audio episodes: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/awakening-bk-audio-episodes Do save above links to visit when you get free time. Need anything? Email us. Accha namaste In Godly World Service 00

Should i marry for the sake of family dignity? or what should i do in this situation? What is the middle way through which everything becomes calm? Here is our given response. The Shiv Baba Service. Original Email Received in Feb 2019 Om Shanti, At present I am finding myself in a crucial mode that I really so confused how to deal with the situation. Fortunately or unfortunately my marriage has been fixed in the last months of this year. I love someone else. But his family was ready on that time so I have to say yes to arrange marriage. But at present the person to whom I get marry his family members are ready to accept me. now I am in confusion what should I do. Should I tell my family members about the real situation. Should I opt arrange marriage for the sake of family reputation ? I am so much worried that if I would say no to arrange marriage that it would not for my family members. I wouldn't able to face them. Is it morally right or wrong ?? How should I deal with this situation ?? Would you please guide me there if it is possible for you? Even I am feeling bad for that family too to whom my marriage has been fixed. They are not people they are too good .. but may be I am not right person for them. Please tell me should I go against for myself,my happiness or should I not ?? What would be right decision this time ? Our Email Response To: Kumari Anjali & all Kumaris From: On behalf of Shiv baba, your spiritual father You described the life story is short. Saying that your maternal uncle and aunty brought you up. You are confused if should accept the arranged marriage or not. Heart or mind? There is equal shrimat (God's advice) upon marriage in this time. You have to escape from this matters. Aim must be clear in your calm mind. Shiv baba asks us children: ''This is your final birth. Now it is the time to return home, from where you all Souls initially came.. So become and stay pure for this birth and i shall give you the fortune of heaven for many many births..'' In your situation, you should apply the Balance or the ''middle way''. Neither should you marry to them, nor you say no. Them means arranged marriage. Also to tell you that according to the godly knowledge we received, whatever happens, it happens for a reason. Nothing is just happening. It was pre-planned and well organised. Shortly speaking, our Karma decides our future. Hence to think that arranged marriage much have a link to your past life karmic accounts. Maybe that's why all came in your life. So to solve the accounts, you need to walk step by step. Very carefully, like an angel. Follow the stable ''middle way'' in every aspect of life. That family is nice, isn't it? So you should respect them and say that ''I need time..& I wish to remain pure for this life and walk in the path of Spirituality..''. By this way, you will save yourself from burden of marriage and also not hurt them by directly saying NO. Yes marriage now only means Burden. Hardly one remains pure after marriage. Something or other difficulties comes. Not only financial but also there are many moral and family responsibilities. God gives advice. Marry to me. I am your most obedient servant. I have come to purify the old world. Give you hands in my hands. Hearing this, you may first be eager to know our Supreme father (God). So go on and you will receive the Godly message through our online 7 days course -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course Present is a test time for you. Time will test your patience. How better decisions can you make. You have to be careful here. Become very sweet. You have to send them this message in such a way that they understand your point of view. They must support your way of thinking. For this, you should have NO desire even in your mind, to marry. Just because you are willing to marry GOD, the most benevolent and beloved personality. It is God's message to remain pure for this last birth. This is our last birth. It is time to return back home, from where we all souls came... Who am I? Who is God? and What is our relationship with God? This is initial lesson to learn. This is the essence of knowledge. This is the 7 days course of Raja Yog. First may you know About Us -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us *** Special Gift *** Audio shrimat - ''Balance in family life'' -> https://drive.google.com/open?id=1O1emkO2aZrA5YVe4VxTxiOLq91P44nBT Source: BK Google -> www.bkgoogle.com Waiting for your response In Godly World Service 00

Parents are also a teacher who teach the child the way of living. In today's time some parents do not or could not give enough time in upbringing of their children due to variety reasons. Here was such case where a girl child born in a wealthy and educated family feels if she is not loved or cared enough by her parents. Here is our guidance for upliftment. Original Email Received Hello ma'am, this is padmasna. I m highly inspired by your thoughts .I always look for your videos whenever I am trapped in any situation .To start with, I m a 24 yr old girl and I am so much trapped in my thoughts and I cannot find a conclusion. I have been staying in Delhi (India) since last 9 years but I come from Bihar... my parents stay in Bihar only. My parents were never there in a needful time. Neither physically nor emotionally... like not even 4 words of generosity on phone. Not understanding is one thing but they don't even try to understand the problems I face... infact it feels like they r not interested. They just want to give money nd escape all other responsibilities of being a parent. Sometimes I also feel pichle janam ke karm honge... I will be really grateful to u if u guide my thoughts and give it the right direction. Our Email Response + Guidance To: Asker & Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) Good morning Aapka patra mila. This is the response to your email letter received on 8 March 2019. Described your story but you didn't clarify the reason of having any problem. Yes it can be understood that every child should and must receive love and acceptance from their parents. You have written your thoughts and now you are in safe hands. Dear Divine Sister You concluded by saying that you feel ''Yeh ichle janam ke karam honge..'' Yeh satya bhi hai. Har atma me yeh andruni shakti hai - jise ''6th sense'' ya sadharan shabdo me ''atma ki aawaz'' kaha jata hai. Aap apne prasno ka javaab pehle se hi jaante ho. Yeh dekho ParamAtma ki wonderul gift hai. Kisi ko bhi puchne ki zarurat nahi. Lekin aaj aapko Sandesh jaroor denge ki aap apne Jeevan ka faisla kar sake. Kaha jana hai... Dekho jo beet gaya so beet gaya. Aaj behtar hai aur Purusharth karke aane wale kal ko aur bhi behtar banana hai. Jo bhi hua, acche ke liye hi hua. Jo bhi hota hai, vo humare pichle karma ka 'result' hi hai. Yeh universal law hai. Reference: Karma - Law & living Jab aapko apne loukik mata-pita dwara pyaar na mila, tabhi to aap sabhi atmao ke pita (Parampita ParamAtma) ke connection me aayi na. Aise hi samjho ki jo bhi hua, accha hi hua. Abhi aapko yeh Paramatam Sandesh diya ja raha hai ki ''Vo aa chuka hai, jisko sabhi manusya khoj rahe hai, prarthna karte hai..'' Vo hai humara Baap (father) - unka yeh part hai - vo aate hai vishwa me Satyug ki sthapna karne - sukh ki duniya banate hai. Phir usme koun ayenge? Vo ayenge jisne Baap ko pehchana - Those souls will come in the new world who recognised the father when he came at the end of Kaliyug. MahaBharat Geeta me bhi likha hai - ''Yada Yada Hi Dharmasya...'' Jab duniya me adharma ki pradhanta aur dharma ki glani hoti hai, tab aata hu... Sab kuch yaha nahi likh sakte. Yeh website par sab jaankari hai - About Us (Introduction): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Bhagwan humara mata-pita hai (Spiritual parent hai). Yeh Geet sune: Tu Pyaar Ka Sagar Hai To aap ab Pyaar ke sagar dwara unlimited Pyaar ka anubhav karo. Yeh humara par-loukik mata-pita hai. Bhavna se sabhi bhagwan ko yaad karte hai. BK Shivani ko aap sunte honge. ''Awakening with BrahmaKumaris'' ke sabhi episodes aapko yaha milenge -> http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Shivani.htm Audio episodes (playlist) -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/awakening-bk-audio-episodes * Videos Gallery (must visit): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/videos Mobile apps -> For Android: http://bit.ly/BkAndroidApps For iPhone: http://bit.ly/iPhoneAppsBk Waiting for your response. Namaste On Godly World Service 00://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us

The true meaning of certain marriage customs (eg: Kanyadaan) are explained in this post. To get the background, it is important that you know What is Gyan Murli? Original Email Received I am getting married on 8 Dec 2019 and i wish to know about 'Kanyadan' as my to be wife has done some research and she doesn't want Kanyadan to happen. Since i dont know what is right/wrong i wish to know the reality... Is Kanyadan good? Is it needed or its something to be not done? The science behind Kanyadan? I will be highly grateful for ur knowledge. Email Response + Guidance Om Shanti, The rituals of any religious ceremony have spiritual origins. The similar goes with the ritual of Kanyadan. When God, the Supreme father (Supreme Soul) came to the world to bestow upon the ignorants the pure knowledge. He took help of pure chaste Kanyas, who gave up the world of vices, world drowned in vices of body consciousness, and surrendered themselves to the supreme being God. These pure kanyas willfully left their past maligned beliefs and surrendered wholly to the will and directions of God. These kanyas gave daan of all their vices, bad habits, worldly wishes and immersed in everlasting bliss of God, and became the Gopis of Shiva (Krishna as per Geeta). This is remembered even know in a form that father gives his daughter in the hands of bridge groom (future husband) to always protect and nurture her. In the present time we are witnessing that many Kumaris (unmarried girls) surrender their life This divine Kanya became so knowledgeful that each Kanya could make fortune for 21 generations and help bring Satyug on earth. This event was copied by people in marriage ceremonies where father would do kanyadan of his daughter to her husband , which is not a welcomed concept by girls as it represents female a mere thing being owned and transferred. And reflect misogyny. But the underlying truth is more divine. Therefore the custom has lost it's true sense and is mere superficial. So performing or not performing the ritual may not have effect as far as there is a consensus of mind between both families. To know more about how bk sisters are transforming their lives and of millions, donating their vices and making true to the ritual of Kanyadan. Visit nearest brahma kumaris RajYog center and take the 7 day Rajyoga Meditation course or online (https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course Have any other question? Email us OR use BK Google - www.bkgoogle.com for more info and resources. On Godly World Service 00

We all are souls (tiny points of light) playing our roles on this huge World Stage since births now. Once this World Drama comes to an end, we all go back to our Home (beyond galaxies, the land of complete Peace). We, the souls can enter this region only if we've become completely pure (which is our innate quality). KarmaYog being taught directly by God helps us settling our Karmic accounts and regaining our originality (complete purity and peace). But what happens when the drama is over and if we still have some impurities left within? Original Email Received: Dear brother/sister, Baba talks about 'Dharamraajpuri' in the Murlis often. I heard in a program that it is the Aadhyatmik court where the aatmas, who couldn't attain the Sampoorna stage, get to clear their evil karmas. Please give more clarification on the concept of Dharamraajpuri. Is it a real place? Or a representation of saakshatkars of our bad karmas? Om Shanti Our Email Response / Answer To: All the viewers From: Shiv Baba Service, Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) Dear Divine Sister, Good morning! This is in response to your email on 29 May 2019 (Wednesday) Firstly, we would suggest not to go in too much detail of this. You do not wish to be there ever, do you? Since you've asked, here is the answer. But better not keep such vision for the self/anyone else in mind. Think about the New World - Satyug which is Heaven - a perfect place beyond description (Satyug introduction video -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ct6f6kSSgKs) Answer: Dharmarajpuri is not a physical place, but a region in Sukshma Vatan (Subtle World) where those souls who have any kind of impurities left are being washed. It is as simple as - a parent washes the children who are dirty. Because to enter the Soul world, the soul MUST become completely pure (original state). So there will be a region made in Sukshma Vatan (middle world) to wash away all the dirt (if any) of a soul. Be clear that this washing is not like Yog. Baba says - ''Meri Yaad se tum (atma) Pavitra banogi''. But Dharmaraj will use his powers to settle all Karmic Accounts in just 1 second. This 1 second will be very very painful for souls who have many impurities. Of course, all souls are numberwise. Not all souls will be punished. You can see the newly arrived souls (having just 1 or 2 births in the entire cycle of 5000 years) are enjoying in this birth. They would hardly have done any bad Karma yet. Baba has given clear & detailed Shrimat so that we can avoid going near Dharmaraj. In essence is said: ''Children, if you constantly stay in your original Dharma (purity, peace,etc.), then you will not see the DharmaRaj.'' Also, know that Shiv Baba cannot give pain to ANYONE ever. Thus there is no DharmaRaj as a PERSON. But it is only an IMAGE of Drama - where souls have to settle the karmas in 1 second. This concept of DharmaRaj is used only to make children aware, not to make mistakes / vikarmas in Sangam Yug... We hope it is clean and clear. Visit - Revelations from Murli -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/revelations Special -> Articles -https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/articles * Get mobile apps -> https://play.google.com/store/apps/developer?id=Shiv+Baba+Brahma+Kumaris On Godly World Service, Om Shanti

Title of Conversation: Winning over stressful depression by changing the thinking pattern. Sometimes it seems that one has stress due to troubles in office or home. It may be trouble created due to differences with colleagues or boss in the office or with other family members at home. One need to understand that stress, which may be the root cause of several form of pain or discomforts like depression, insomnia, anxiety etc., it comes to tell us that there is something one need to change within themselves, not in the others. All stress is self-created regardless of the circumstances. That’s why some people appear to be emotionally devastated by some situations whereas others sail on through without a second thought. So, one need to bring just a little change in perception. Original Mail Received Hello I had suffered from depression at the time and it stayed for six months and things got back to the normal. Again some symptoms rose in 2017 because of too much work pressure along side lesser food consumption. So how do i first get the confidence to stay/have the power within me to stay stable in situations? That confidence level has become weak. Kindly advise. Email Response + Guidance Good morning Dear Divine Sister First of all you must understand that you are a strong person and you can handle all situations of your life. You are blessed with a beautiful family and you are responsible for them. So you have to take charge of your life and stay happy so that you can remain happy and give happiness to others also. The situation demands your stability at first because if you are stable and are able to accept the situation as it is then only you can help your relationship to survive and blossom. You need to be very strong and understanding. Realize that you are a peaceful, pure and stable being ( SOUL ). Practice this consciousness and then come into action. While you do this, you will create positive vibrations field all around you and it will definitely have an effect on the people around you.   Suffering is always self created so take charge of yourself and transform any such feelings and then you can help yourself and your loved ones.   Always remember that a powerful soul is 'self-controlled', has the awareness that they have a choice in their every situation. They can maintain a calm, positive, stable attitude, regardless of whatever happens around them, even to their physical body.   Also, understand that the cause of many psychological problems like depression is simply negative thinking which has taken root deep inside the subconscious mind. The statement, "As you think, so you shall Become" accurately portrays the pattern of life. Meditation can erase negative thought patterns and enable a person to reprogram his mind. Come and learn - Raja Yog meditation Positive thinking is developed with constant attention and practice. Throughout the day, stop in between for a minute and watch what is going on in your mind, if it is not the right kind of thought- stop and change it. Start talking to your mind gently, guide it and it will listen to you. Whenever any unnecessary or waste thought comes - tell your mind this is not useful for you or for your relationships and change it. Try and look at your mind for at least 1 minute in every hour. In the morning when u begin the day sit in silence for 5 minutes and program your mind with positive thoughts. For example: 1. I will remain peaceful today irrespective of whatever happens today. Anger will not come to me. 2. Whomever I meet, I will only look at their qualities, not weaknesses. I will not criticize anyone. 3. I am a powerful soul, I can do whatever I decide to do..... When your thoughts are positive, the concentration will be also higher. Some suggestion for you to apply in 'practical life' – * VIDEOS * 1. (video) Thought To Finish Depression: BK Shivani (Hindi): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_I5EAhuCVyw (Video) by Sister Shivani - No One Is Responsible For How You Feel (English) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TXGgGsZVnU8 2. One of the most important factors that will help you, is the creation of pure and elevated thoughts. Purity is the main pillar of human life. You can start by practising and feeling deep inside these statements of self-respect like "Mei Atma param Pavitra hoon", "Mein Atma Pavitra farishta hoon", "mai atma sarva shaktiman hoon". This is called 'Swamaan'. -> Learn about Swamaan Abhyas (BK Suraj bhai) - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z6DXFp06m6E -> Watch SAMADHAN series on Youtube to know more about Swaman.. Samadhan episodes: a) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GZNnEKJCTb4 b) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hAwgmI96ijY c) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SBNygiJ-5iM 3.- We welcome you to take our 7 days course online where one gets the introduction to the Self, Who GOD is, what is our relationship to him and much more... Save this link to the online course -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course (The 7 day course guides to Self realisation, God recognition, Law of Karma and RajYog.) If you are happy for this service, we welcome you to come and know ABOUT US -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Namaste On Godly World Service 00

Since the world's energy level is low, thinking negative is easy if we do not take care of ourselves. To keep ourselves protected, we need to take care of what we consume in terms of Information (Read, Watch & Listen) & what we eat & drink. From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidhylay (Godly University) To: Everyone reading this Question/message Hello.. My name is lipisha. Muje ye puchna he ke aaj kal muje bahot heavy, headache hota he, negative thoughts aate he. Apne hi bareme muje negative thoughts aane lage he. I feel like i lost my self, my smile, my courage. I dnt knw why but andar se naturally khush nai reh pa rahi hu jo me naturally rehti thi. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- "We at Prajapati Brahma kumaris daily do collective Yog/meditation for the world souls & send to them vibrations of peace, purity, love, and power. Let good happen to all" Our Email Response + Guidance Good Evening Devine Sister, We hope you're doing fine! To find the answer to your question, please begin with below message: हम जो कुछ पढ़ते, देखतें, सुनते, और खाते-पीते है, उसके आधार पर हमारा मन विचार क्रिएट करता है।  मन के लिए जब हम healthy emotional diet ही अपनाए, तब हम बिना किसी महेनत के अच्छा महसूस कर सकते है। हम सभी जानते है कि आज के समय में हमारे आसपास में और सारे विश्वभर में ज़्यादातर नेगेटिव घटनाएँ ही घट रही है।  तनाव, चिंता, डर, अशांति और डिप्रेशन घर-घर में है।  बहोत बार बिना किसी बात के ही मन परेशान महसूस करता है... क्योंकि ज़्यादातर मन चिंता में है, इसलिए वातावरण की ऊर्जा नीची है।  ऐसे समय में ख़ुद को वातावरण के प्रभाव से बचाने के लिए हमें हम क्या देखतें, पढ़ते, सुनते, और खाते-पीते हैं यह ध्यान रखना होगा। READ, LISTEN, WATCH - HIGH ENERGY CONTENT सुबह का पहला घंटा अपने लिए निकाले।  इस वक्त मन की ग्रहण (absorb) करने की ताकत सबसे ज़्यादा होती है।  कुछ ऐसा पढ़े/सुने जिससे आपको मोटिवेशन मिले, पॉज़िटिविटी मिले।  आधा घंटा मेडिटेशन करें कि जिससे आप शांत, रिलैक्सड और पॉवरफुल महसूस करें।  सुबह-सुबह की हुई मन की चार्जिंग सारा दिन काम आएगी।  (अगर आपने राजयोग मैडिटेशन नहीं सीखा है, तो अपने नज़दीकी ब्रह्माकुमारीज़ सेंटर जाकर ज़रूर सीखें।)  दिनभर में भी ध्यान रखे की हम किस प्रकार की इन्फॉर्मेशन अपने अंदर ले रहे है।  World News और Social Media में ज़्यादातर नेगेटिव और wasteful इन्फॉर्मेशन ही होती है जो हमारी शक्ति घटाती है। अपने पास कुछ अच्छी क़्वालिटी के मैसेजिस और वीडिओज़ रखें जो आपको इंस्पायर करें, प्रेरणा दें। (हमारी YouTube Channels से आपको बहोत प्रेरणादायी videos मिलेंगे) EAT & DRINK - HIGH ENERGY साथ ही, खाने से पहले भोजन की वाइब्रेशन को क्लीन करें। हो सके तो मैडिटेशन करके अच्छे मन की स्थिति में खाना ख़ुद बनाये। क्योंकि जैसा मन वैसा अन्न,और फिर जैसा अन्न वैसा मन। आपको अपने बारे में नेगेटिव सोचने की बिलकुल ज़रूरत नहीं।   जब आपको अपने बारे में बहोत ही अच्छी और प्यारी हकीकतें मालूम होगी तो आप ख़ुशी से नाच उठेंगे... क्या आप जानना चाहेंगे God आपके वास्तविक स्वरूप के बारे में क्या कहते है? क्या कहना चाहता है वो आपके भविष्य के बारे में?... वास्तव में आप बहोत ही प्योर, दिव्य, शक्तिशाली, प्यारी और सुखरूप आत्मा हो।  स्वयं ईश्वर आपका पिता है, जिसके वरसे के आप अधिकारी हो... The great news is that - God Himself has descended on this earth, and He has revealed real treasures in front of His beloved children! [To know more: God's Incarnation, God's Message, Online RajYoga Course] Reply to us on this email if you have any questions regarding overcoming negative thinking OR regarding God's arrival & His divine task. * USEFUL VIDEOS * Overcome Negative Thinking: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3D2OfmJaxEw How To Delete Negativity From The Mind Immediately?: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6LEJWeVmOXw Quieten Your Mind: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gihcJGSg7Ew&t=26s Thinking Right No Matter What: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WcDeEf6cJHU Energize Your Mind While You Sleep: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WA_FRBxdXAY Your Mood And Your Food: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TeEKM0NzsOQ ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- This is God's creation for the New World (Heaven). We welcome you to learn ABOUT US -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Here is our Further advice -> You should do 'Swamaan Abhyas' Swamaan = Self true respect of the soul which is Peaceful, Pure, Loveful and Powerful. HOW TO DO? Early morning - wake up around 5:00 am and focus your mind and listen to these commentaries -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 (FULL Playlist) While you listen to these guided commentaries above, you should focus the attention to the middle of the forehead, where me THE SOUL reside. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- On Godfatherly (Godly) World Servicewww.bkgsu.com (The Shiv Baba Service Initiative) oo

A sister writes to us asking if she and her husband should try to have another child - since they already have one child, while they also wrote that they had 2 miscarriages after being pregnant. Since they asked us, we responded with God's message of pure living (celibacy) and guidance on how to sustain their 7-year-old child. Original Message/Email from You I have been married for 11 years and we have a 6.5 year old son. We have been trying for another baby for almost 3 years. We had a miscarriage 2.5 years ago. After much persuasion, my husband agreed to 3 rounds of fertility treatment. We got pregnant in out second round and are miscarrying right now. My husband does not want to try anymore and is telling me to accept it as God's will. I am 37 currently and my husband is 41. My brain wants to agree with him, but my heart still wants to try 1 last time. Please help us to take the best decision. --- "We at Prajapati Brahma Kumaris daily do collective Yog/meditation for the world souls. Let good happen to all" Our Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone Reading This From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly University) Good morning Dear Divine Sister 1. You have contacted us and thus we believe that you must know about us. Please visit this page to learn more. 2. You want our advise whether you should try to have a second baby or not. We ONLY SAY THAT - God himself has commanded us to remain pure for this life. In common words we can call it celibacy or Brahmacharya. This means - one should NOT indulge in physical relationship with ANYONE. Because this LUST is our greatest enemy. It is the root cause of all evil.  You MUST understand this wisdom. See also that 2 miscarriage also mean 2 deaths - so why do you want to go against the will of nature? THUS, please be patient and live a HAPPY life with one child as gifted to you. Give all your love and sustenance. If you follow celibacy for rest of your life, you wills see your spiritual energy growing and making you powerful from within. This pure living re-energize the soul and cleanses the past life sanskaras. ✤ CHILD ✤ You already have a child. So as a parent it is also your duty to make sure he/she gets a good personality and moral values right from the childhood. Parents are everything for a child - a role model, teacher and a friend. Here is a help ✦ Please Watch below given videos to understand the spiritual significance behind right parenting. Give RIGHT vibrations to your CHILD : BK Shivani Change HABITS in children : BK Shivani Develop Personality of your CHILD : BK Shivani Please do follow the videos to get valuable guidance from Sister Shivani. Namaste On Godly World Service The "Shiv Baba Service Team" BKGSU, Madhuban