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- Why to do Good Karma?In Question Answers┬╖7 June 2021Why to do Good Karma if in case the World Drama (life) is predestined? Here is the clarification on Shiv Baba's Murli. Topic: Soul and World Drama Cycle. Original Email Received Om shanti. It is mentioned in murli that the drama is predestined and that every second is identical to the previous cycle. Then what is the significance of doing good karma if the future is already decided upon? Also who has decided the predestined drama? Our Email Response/Answer To: Tanvi & Everyone reading this From: On behalf of Shiv Baba (The spiritual Godfather) As explained in that Shrimat Audio response, the future is NOT predestined. The part is predestined. Think with your intellect (buddhi). How can God, who is so great to make this world this beautiful can create a Drama in which souls have no option? ! Definitely, there is an option whenever you do a Karma. Firstly - option to whether to DO or to NOT TO DO that karma. God has gifted us with intellect (buddhi) to decide what is right and wrong. So the future will depend on the present karma. If you have already done a karma, the consequence is now destined. You must and will definitely get the fruit of THAT karma which is already done. This is a law. Every soul gets the fruit of its own past karma. It is not that the future is predestined. I hope the answer is now very clear. It is simple. Just open the gates of mind and it is as simple to understand life. * The Role of GOD * The role of God is to awaken the souls from ignorance and save them from sorrow, from the old world. For this, he is called - 'Liberator'. God is a helper of all souls, to decide and take ''better'' decisions and thereby enjoy better consequences (fruit of karma). This is beautiful. Many believe that God interferes in everything. In your life, in your family, in world. But no. God is aloof. He does not participate in the corporeal world at all. He is 'incorporeal'. His role is subtle, hidden from your eyes. That is why we have this feeling of connection with God and we remember and pray him when in need. God is there in need and disappear in completeness. This is a great secret just revealed to you. Because you were searching. Those who search, will get. Also see this small PDF that answers questions on Soul, God and World Drama: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1VnyW9FvhgGoflaRZxkmZMv-bXC7icm55/view?usp=sharing ************************ Questions on World Drama ************************ Q1: If the whole world except India will be drowned in the coming years, is it that only people of India will survive? Answer: No. India also will be transformed. Except Bharat continent (not India), all other continents will be submerged under the ocean . Bharat will face earthquakes and tsunamis and internal wars on other side. This way everyone will leave the body. When this happens, Bharat will be then cleaned (physically) by the heavy Rains. It is remembered in ancient scriptures. (When vinash happened, Shri Krishna appeared on a leaf floating on ocean.' The shape of Bharat continent is of a peapal leaf. Watch: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1WGKCRSixT8 Q2: when one says awaken the God within yourself, is it wrong because you said God is not omnipresent and calling him so is an insult to him? Answer: In last email, it is explained- God is the father of all souls. Creator of heaven. We all are devotees (bhagat). If one says - God is everywhere - then whom do they call and remember. If he was omnipresent, there would be no sorrow. They call him - Ocean of love . Listen from Shiv baba's murli directly in this 1965 record: https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/bapdada-sakar-murli-class-1965-with-english-translation (original recording) Q3: As soul is imperishable, is it possible to become liberated from the cycle of life and permanently stay in paramdhan as said by many yogis?? Answer: Soul is imperishable. And that is the reason why sou cannot and never by merged in the supreme soul. Yogis of Bharat thinks that our souls will be merged in Nirwan and we shall not take rebirth. Then soul becomes perishable. Then drama would not make sense. Drama is created on basis of our Karma . As one's karma in this life, he will take the rebirth. No one can live without doing anything, even for a second. Refer: Who am I? - Self realisation Souls are eternal actors in this Eternal World Drama. Hence we all must exist forever. Even when we are in Paramdham (while waiting for our part to start), we exist as points of light. Tanvi ji, do follow all above points of Gyan and links . Watch video and audio murli. Here are useful links . Save below links if you wish What is Murli: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/what-is-murli *Revelations of Murli: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/revelations Namaste On Godfatherly World Service 00000
- I loved a GirlIn Question Answers┬╖7 June 2021Love is very beautiful feeling, but is it always so? What is someone you love with heart is separated? This will instead create sorrow. Hence God teaches the way of detachment with a natural love and that for everyone (all souls). The love between 2 souls is derved from past birth relationships. This is a guidance for anyone with ANY question about love, relationship and family. Original Email Received It was written in the note not to message about love or marriages, but these problems are only problems which are close to heart and sometimes we find no solutions to it. I loved one girl we were together form the last 3 years as we moved to different college and we are apart now. I never thought this will happen but karma played its game. When I realised my mistakes I involved many of our friends in this problem and slowly person to person it reached to all which created a big mess. Desires and Greed are still over me that's why I guess I'm still thinking much about myself. At the same time, I miss her !! I miss her every time in every breath, I want to do things normally, I again want to be with her. I've one request with Divine, can divine make her my best part. I don't want to live all those moments again with any other girl again. I just want to be with her only in life. There is a various problem in my house also, my family problem I don't know how to address it for now but shows me the way if blessing can work then bless me. I'll do anything to bring her back... show me direction. Om Shanti Our Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godfatherly University) ( This is a special letter for you. Do read with ATTENTION.) Good morning Dear Divine Brother This is the response to your email received on 14 March. The reason why we declared a no to love relationship questions is that in present time, such souls who are body conscious enters in such relationship and they end up realising that it was the source of sorrow. we wish to encourage every way the way of living God himself have taught to us children. Here you will know. Purity or celibacy is the true way of living - this purity of soul (in thought, words and actions) is the source of true and eternal Bliss. Think. When were you most happy in this life? Answer is ''childhood''. Because a soul when in childhood (of body) have no knowledge of any bad. Hence cannot do any bad. Purity even in thoughts was natural. This offered you inner happiness. Now can you live like this again? Yes. With the power the Supreme soul (divine/ God) give us. The source of those powers is God, our father. How can we get? - Through RajYog. This is taught to us by him. It is so simple that every one can connect. HOW? - Learn in detail here -> Learn Raja Yog meditation Now again coming to your question. If you think that something bad happened to you, then wait. Then wait and re-think. What if that soul (girl) never left you. Would you take a time to come here to us and ask for a solution? Would you then connect to God? As you derive the answer, you know that ''Everything happens for Good, for a good reason.'' We generally because of not knowing the whole picture, will derive short term misfortune and become sad. But there is always a long-term fortune. One can simply have faith in God, a heartly love or can also KNOW this as a fact - that yes - Everything happen for a reason. Refer: Law of Karma Finally coming to the way of living one should have. Please MUST also visit below 2 articles. 1. Celibacy - A way of living: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/celibacy 2. Day to Day life timetable: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/day-to-day-timetable Watch Videos - Video Gallery -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/videos Do follow the guidelines. We hope you shall receive a great benefit - perhaps life transforming. Need anything ahead? Contact us. namaste On Godfatherly Service 00000
- How to Approach Us for Service?In Question Answers┬╖7 June 2021This our advice on how to approach for sewa which involve support from headquarters as well. Here is our step by step advice. Original Email received I have been following brahmakumaris practices since the past 8 years. I am a Chartered Accountant. I have recently started my own venture in the field of children's publications. One of the offerings is a digital platform for daily current affairs in which only positive news will be reported for children. I do believe that the teachings of Shiv Baba will greatly benefit children. I wanted to connect with the relevant person in your organisation who could possibly understand my offering and see we can collaborate to take the teachings of Shiv Baba to children on a daily basis. Email response + Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapati BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidhalaya Dear Divine Sister, Good to know about your plans for sewa. It's a wonderful and appreciable effort. God (Shivbaba) feels proud of serviceable souls like you. First of all congratulations for your new venture. If children are taught Gyan Yog right from the beginning, it helps in framing their mindset spiritual and stronger will power. 1. Firstly it is important to remember Shiv baba and discuss your plans for seva with Shivbaba. Baba says, ' рдорд╣рд╛рд╡реАрд░ рдмрдЪреНрдЪреЛрдВ рдХреА рд╡рд┐рд╢реЗрд╖рддрд╛ рдпрд╣ рд╣реИ рдХрд┐ рдкрд╣рд▓реЗ рдпрд╛рдж рдХреЛ рд░рдЦрддреЗ рдлрд┐рд░ рд╕реЗрд╡рд╛ рдХреЛ рд░рдЦрддреЗ '. This will ensure success in sewa. 2. You must discuss your plans for this seva with the sister/brother incharge of your nearest brahma kumaris center (sub center/ Main center/ zone center). They shall assist you further.┬а Center finder->┬аhttps://www.brahmakumaris.com/centers/ 3. Wings of brahma kumaris are established to target a particular sect of society. You shall become member and discuss your plans with in-charge of relevant wing as you like. We recommend you should approach Business wing, Media wing, Education wing or Youth wing. See here->┬а Sites of each wing-> ┬а┬аhttp://bk.ooo/all-wings/ Contact details of each wing (pdf)-> ┬а┬аhttp://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-Database/All%20Wings%20Details.pdf ~~ ADVICE ~~ You are in Gyan since few years and would hence know the importance of murli in our brahman life. Murli is the only medium where God father (Shiv baba) speak to us directly. Hence to make us equal to himself. Do you realise this? There are many places where Murli is served on internet. So here are selected good sources to listen/read daily Murli: 1. Hindi murli -> babamurli.com 2. Audio murli daily on SoundCloud ->┬аhttps://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk┬а(follow this channel) 3. Madhuban murli ->┬аmadhubanmurli. org 4. On YouTube ->┬аhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCY0tVDjHZ7F1zHu2Jj9uDTQ 5. Get mobile┬аapps For Android:┬аhttp://bit.ly/BkAndroidApps For iPhone:┬аhttp://bit.ly/iPhoneAppsBk Contact again to ask more. In Godly World Service 00000
- Positvity to Attract what you wantIn Question Answers┬╖7 June 2021Positive thinking does attract the desired result. Plus it feels good even while thinking positive. In this case, a student wants to go to USA to complete Post Graduation (degree). Here is our advice and the right approach of thinking and doing to get success and peace of mind. Original Email Received My name is Shivkumar. I am a post graduate in Computer Science graduated from TamilNadu,India.┬а I am a Senior Software Test Automation Solutions Architect and a free lance Global Corporate Consultant. Couple of Years back, I was doing my Post Graduation in Computer Science ┬а(M.S. in Computer Science) in an University based at Harrisburg, capital of Pennsylvania, US. Completed 8 subjects and came back to India for some personal reasons, however when I have to return back to US to continue and complete all of my remaining 4 subjects, my Visa stamping was rejected, now all of money and time invested is really at stake, however now I am at India, but my ambition is to complete remaining 4 subjects and get the post graduation.This very thought is really in my Mind back ground and I am also quite eager to complete the post graduate degree. Is there a way, I could attract positive energies which could get me back to US and complete my Post Graduation. Thanks and With Best Regards Our Email Response To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidhyalay (Godly University) Dear Divine Brother ''Is there a way, I could attract positive energies which could get me back to US and complete my Post Graduation.'' Answer: The simple and direct way is ''positive thinking'' or ''think what you want to happen''. For example, if you want that you can complete the studies, then develop a constant and powerful wave (of thoughts) that this WILL HAPPEN. Watch both video->┬а 1. Affirmation to Attract what you want ->┬аhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uP7Ez-R7rXM 2. Four simple habits to develop ->┬аhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aDIrnR9y-j8 Have you tried all ways to get the visa? Is yes, then now you should relax, wait and watch what happen next. Just as today Science teaches that every action has an equal and opposite reaction - Spirituality teaches and shows that our karma will be paid in the future. Hence whatever will happen is to happen and will be for good. Did you realise that many times in life, we think that something didn't happen very well. But as time passes, after we realise that it happened for good. Right? Maybe your not going to US has a good reason. Morever this connected you with us. What better could happen... If you are a new,┬аplease do visit our┬аAbout Us┬аpage┬аto know about the story of how God created this Yagya for ''world transformation.'' Rest to know our┬а4 subjects,┬аvisit ->┬а┬аhttps://www.brahma-kumaris.com/four-subjects Hope this will guide you ahead. MUST visit our about us page and 4 subjects. Have any question? Contact again. namaste On Godly World Service 00000
- Extra-Marital Affair - How to solve?In Question Answers┬╖7 June 2021In a husband-wife relationship sometimes problems arise due to lack of trust/honesty/loyalty. What should one do when s/he finds the spouse to be cheating? Feeling hurt/taking revenge depletes the soul's power. To realize the mistake & chose the right path, the soul needs power, He needs forgiveness, trust, unconditional love & acceptance. From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidhylay (Godly University) To:┬аEveryone reading this Original Email I am married for the last 6 years. I have a very happy married life. I have a 4-year-old daughter. My husband is very loving and caring. But I have proof of phone recordings that my husband goes to prostitutes. He was talking to his close friends about it And after listening to those recordings I am almost in depression that how can he go for such things. I am unable to concentrate on anything. Not even in my work. Please help me on how can I handle this situation and how can I stop him from doing such things. -------------------------- "We at Prajapati Brahma kumaris daily do collective Yog/meditation for the world souls & send to them vibrations of peace, purity, love, and power. Let good happen to all" Our┬аEmail┬аResponse┬а+ Guidance Good Morning Devine Sister, Any person originally is full of purity, peace, happiness, bliss, joy, knowledge and powers. To highlight the main thing here - Purity, any person originally is completely pure i.e. s/he would not even create a single impure thought about any other being! These innate virtues and powers have nothing to do with physical senses i.e. the true nature of any person is to remain in this supersensuous joy. But gradually we have drifted away from our original nature and have been trapped under the influence of vices (lust, anger, greed, attachment, ego). [Please refer Our 7 innate Virtues to understand this clearly] [Also, The 8 Powers Of Us] HELP SOMEONE EMERGE HIS VIRTUES We have the power to help someone bring back his/her innate nature of Purity & Honesty (in this case) and also the power to discern between right & wrong & the power to do the right. For that, you first need to experiment to empower yourself with complete peace & positivity. Because to empower someone firstly we ourselves need to elevate ourselves. You cannot help him until you heal yourself... Detach yourself from whatever is happening around you... Leave behind all the thoughts related to the situation, because self-care is the top priority, everything else is secondary... You have the right to feel great irrespective of the circumstances... He may have lied to you, he could have even hurt you physically, but he cannot hurt you emotionally. The hurt is the creation of yours, by seeing his deeds the thoughts you create are the cause behind the hurt. The point here is - once I realize that it's nobody else but 'me' who created the hurt, I stop blaming people for making me feel how I'm feeling. And most importantly I stop expecting them to do something to heal my hurt. I take the responsibility to heal myself. Once this understanding is clear, I also find the ways How to heal myself! THE HEALER WITHIN How we feel is completely dependent on what thoughts we create. (Yes, it doesn't depend on the people/situations) (Moreover, thoughts just don't come up, I AM the creator. Based on my knowledge, belief systems and experiences I create the thoughts.) This means if I create the right thoughts always, I would feel happy always. The only thing that I need to do is cleansing the wrong knowledge/belief systems, and train my mind to think in the right direction whenever I find it thinking wrong. - You're a peaceful & powerful being... You've forgiven your husband for his mistake and trusting him again... - You're full of love... You need just one person to love you - you yourself! - You're full of trust, you trust your husband irrespective of his behavior/actions... Your unconditional acceptance and trust empower him... - Your every single high frequency thought about your husband increases his honesty & purity... With increased energy, he realizes the quality of his Karma... If you haven't learned RajYoga Meditation, please visit a nearby BrahmaKumaris center and learn the meditation for free. You'll surely be able to increase your stability, peace of mind and powers. With this high mental power, spare at least an hour early in the morning to sit in meditation and radiate high energy to your husband (by creating elevated thoughts). You can create a miracle by doing this consequently at least for 21 days, meditate for yourself & for him, also visualizes in your meditation that absolutely everything is (not 'will be') perfect between you two. Things have fallen in place! You can use your own creativity& mind power to think the best for your relationship, not just during meditation, but from now every single moment. * Useful Videos * Forgive And Trust Again: https://youtu.be/r9p8garDIgM Soul Reflection - Betrayal And Forgiveness: https://youtu.be/4lc0e3IEwok Extra-Marital Affair - What To Do About It?: https://youtu.be/J-AIx6ra1t4 Feeling Great No Matter What: https://youtu.be/7UiuI7qrLRU Need Only One Person To Love You: https://youtu.be/AuUMU4JREgk Healer Within - a wonderful video series: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL6mmKavEt551EU5-eIR0UiqPYMWZbhwh9 Manifest Desires Into Reality: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E_A0XAWwO8Y ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- This is God's creation for the New World (Heaven). We welcome you to learn ABOUT US ->┬аhttps://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Here is our Further advice -> You should do 'Swamaan Abhyas' Swamaan = Self true respect of the soul which is Peaceful,┬аPure, Loveful and Powerful. HOW TO DO? Early morning - wake up around 5:00 am and focus your mind and listen to these commentaries┬а->┬аhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1┬а(FULL Playlist) While you listen to these guided commentaries above, you should focus the attention to the middle of the forehead, where me THE SOUL reside. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- On Godfatherly (Godly) World Service www.bkgsu.com (The Shiv Baba Service Initiative) oo001
- How to Finish Karmic accounts with someone?In Question Answers┬╖7 June 2021How do I finish Karmic account with someone? Question for BK Shivani is answered with guidance on living Brahman (BK) life and following the Shrimat of Shiv baba in Murli. Original Question via Email: Dear Didi, I have heard many videos of Sister Shivani. I just want to know, even if I am giving positive energy to the person who has issues with me then also I am getting negative energy from that person. I have tried to say sorry to that person through my thoughts.. but nothing is working out.. instead situation is getting worst day by day.. Please guide me how to complete all the karmic accounts with that person.. My life is getting worst day by day.. even verbally I have tried to say sorry to that person but by doing that she is behaving worst with me.. I am keeping myself motivated by saying that this is the part of drama.. Please help me didi.. just let me know how can I finish my all karmic account with that person.. coz I donтАЩt want to carry forward.. Thanks. Our Email Response (on behalf of BkShivani) From: BK Shivani, Prajapita Brahma Kumaris Ishwariya Vishwa Vidyalaya (Godly Spiritual University) To: Ami (and everyone reading) Dear Sister Your letter is received and read. You discussed that you have karmic account with someone. You may be are following the Awakening episodes (on Karma, being bliss, happiness unlimited, etc) which are based on your life situation. Firstly, will tell you to listen them: Audio episodes: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/awakening-bk-audio-episodes Video episodes: https://www.youtube.com/user/tvpeaceofmind/playlists?sort=dd&view=50&shelf_id=6 2. Karmic account develops slowly-slowly birth by birth. One soul may have a relationship with another soul since many births. Hence, in this last birth we all have to finish our accounts. So Shiv baba comes and teach us Raja Yog (Yog with Shiv baba). Raja Yog has 2 words Yog means 'Connection' or 'Relationship'. Here the relationship is not bodily, but intellectual. We know that Shiv is the name of 'Supreme soul', who is my father. We are one world family. Then we know that he is an Ocean of knowledge, of peace, purity and love. Thus when a soul remembers the supreme soul as the father, teacher, friend and Satguru, & knows the World drama and its Laws, the soul is awakened. Now you know why the TV series is named 'Awakening'. 3. Practice Swamaan (swaman means to emerge and use our original qualities). HOW? : With help of these commentaries: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 4. Personal advice: Do not think about ''I have to finish my karma account with this person''. No. Instead think: ''I am a completely free soul. My all karma bondages are finished. Now i am with my father Shiv baba.'' Clear ? #Slogan: With faith and patience, with purusharth and will, you shall also cross the ocean of sorrow and the new world is awaiting across this ocean. God has come to re-create the new world (heaven/satyug). Need anything? Visit and explore our main website's Sitemap: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/sitemap Learn Raja Yog through guided commentaries: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary When you know, understand then you tell and explain others. Do service. In God Fatherly World Service 00000
- Love, Relationship and Break Up, Our GuidanceIn Question Answers┬╖7 June 2021Received an email about love from an 18 year old girl from India. She fell in love with someone and then had a break up in their relationship. She was a regular listener of BK Shivani's spiritual lectures and hence writes to us for a solution as she is feeling down. Original Email received: I am Nilanjana Das. I live in Kolkata and i am of 18 years, a student. I recently had a bad break up and this was my first relationship. Though it was the guy who first professed his love to me, at last he ended the relationship by saying that he does not love me at all and blamed me for no reason. Maybe, i did not come up to his expectations but i really loved him and tried to make him happy. But i failed. I am a regular follower of sister Shivani's youtube videos and trying to come out of the situation but i am not able to forget him. His words and promises are ringing in my ears. Please help me. What must i do to come out of this situation. And one more question is, are good deeds really rewarded? Our Email Answer Nilanjana You are a regular listener of Brahma Kumari (BK) Shivani and hence you would have watched Awakening episodes. It is seen that today's young children having disinterest in life after failing in love (called break up). When they don't get what they want, they believe it is the end. This is because of not knowing what ''love'' means. You need understanding of What love is and what love means. Here is a nice explanation by Sandeep Maheshwari: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s_1bFkC2tRY and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u6gEkCp0f08 Watch both videos and you will understand the true meaning of love. Now that you know, Do you think such a relationship exist between you and anyone else? Of course, a parent has immense love for their children. But can you think of anyone like this who can love you unconditional and yet you need not to even see him? What is love? - Love means to become one with someone and there is NO separation - there is unconditional acceptance and always there for each other. Only one GOD can love you like this. He is the ocean of knowledge, an ocean of love. Know about God (the Supreme soul)> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/god-the-supreme-soul-shiv-baba Our invitation to Marry to God: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/marry-to-god-shiv-baba-a-message-for-kumaris ---- Useful videos ---- Attachment is not love - BK shivani: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IPUMUcaBIxE Spiritual in Life - FULL playlist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KHupP3idhQ0&index=4&list=PL6mmKavEt550gQnky1pg88MKiX9cZSz2L Do watch all provided videos and the last playlist given of 'Spirituality in life' to learn the way of living. We hope you will get the aim of this great human life through services given like Awakening, PMTV, Website and more. PMTV live: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/pmtv-live Awakening Audio episodes: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/awakening-bk-audio-episodes Do save above links to visit when you get free time. Need anything? Email us. Accha namaste In Godly World Service 00000
- How to escape Marriage?In Question Answers┬╖7 June 2021Should i marry for the sake of family dignity? or what should i do in this situation? What is the middle way through which everything becomes calm? Here is our given response. The Shiv Baba Service. Original Email Received in Feb 2019 Om Shanti, At present I am finding myself in a crucial mode that I really so confused how to deal with the situation. Fortunately or unfortunately my marriage has been fixed in the last months of this year. I love someone else. But his family was ready on that time so I have to say yes to arrange marriage. But at present the person to whom I get marry his family members are ready to accept me. now I am in confusion what should I do. Should I tell my family members about the real situation. Should I opt arrange marriage for the sake of family reputation ? I am so much worried that if I would say no to arrange marriage that it would not for my family members. I wouldn't able to face them. Is it morally right or wrong ?? How should I deal with this situation ?? Would you please guide me there if it is possible for you? Even I am feeling bad for that family too to whom my marriage has been fixed. They are not people they are too good .. but may be I am not right person for them. Please tell me should I go against for myself,my happiness or should I not ?? What would be right decision this time ? Our Email Response To: Kumari Anjali & all Kumaris From: On behalf of Shiv baba, your spiritual father You described the life story is short. Saying that your maternal uncle and aunty brought you up. You are confused if should accept the arranged marriage or not. Heart or mind? There is equal shrimat (God's advice) upon marriage in this time. You have to escape from this matters. Aim must be clear in your calm mind. Shiv baba asks us children: ''This is your final birth. Now it is the time to return home, from where you all Souls initially came.. So become and stay pure for this birth and i shall give you the fortune of heaven for many many births..'' In your situation, you should apply the Balance or the ''middle way''. Neither should you marry to them, nor you say no. Them means arranged marriage. Also to tell you that according to the godly knowledge we received, whatever happens, it happens for a reason. Nothing is just happening. It was pre-planned and well organised. Shortly speaking, our Karma decides our future. Hence to think that arranged marriage much have a link to your past life karmic accounts. Maybe that's why all came in your life. So to solve the accounts, you need to walk step by step. Very carefully, like an angel. Follow the stable ''middle way'' in every aspect of life. That family is nice, isn't it? So you should respect them and say that ''I need time..& I wish to remain pure for this life and walk in the path of Spirituality..''. By this way, you will save yourself from burden of marriage and also not hurt them by directly saying NO. Yes marriage now only means Burden. Hardly one remains pure after marriage. Something or other difficulties comes. Not only financial but also there are many moral and family responsibilities. God gives advice. Marry to me. I am your most obedient servant. I have come to purify the old world. Give you hands in my hands. Hearing this, you may first be eager to know our Supreme father (God). So go on and you will receive the Godly message through our online 7 days course -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course Present is a test time for you. Time will test your patience. How better decisions can you make. You have to be careful here. Become very sweet. You have to send them this message in such a way that they understand your point of view. They must support your way of thinking. For this, you should have NO desire even in your mind, to marry. Just because you are willing to marry GOD, the most benevolent and beloved personality. It is God's message to remain pure for this last birth. This is our last birth. It is time to return back home, from where we all souls came... Who am I? Who is God? and What is our relationship with God? This is initial lesson to learn. This is the essence of knowledge. This is the 7 days course of Raja Yog. First may you know About Us -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us *** Special Gift *** Audio shrimat - ''Balance in family life'' -> https://drive.google.com/open?id=1O1emkO2aZrA5YVe4VxTxiOLq91P44nBT Source: BK Google -> www.bkgoogle.com Waiting for your response In Godly World Service 00000
- Advice to Progress in LifeIn Question Answers┬╖7 June 2021Solution to a general life situation/problem. Advice on taking important decision in life. And guidance on practicing Rajyog to empower from within and emerging Soul's original virtues. Original Email Received I am a 16 year old my name i Shreyanshi . In my 11 th class my parents and sisters send me to kota for my further studies but after coming here i realise that i don't want to live here this was my first time coming away from home without my family i told them pls let me live with you or my any sisters for my 11th and after that i will live wherever you say,i tell them i can't live here but they tell me after time pass you will like to live here they totally ignored me. I was never be able tell what I want to anyone but when I saw your online videos I think I can tell you comfotably pls solve my problem tell me to what to do I don't want to go there. I want to study a lot a get into IIT's and return the money I have wasted, and I want to show them that in order to live a good life you don't need large money if your soul is pure and good you will be able to live happy. Please tell me a way to overcome my mistakes and to realise money can't buy happiness. Our Email Response To: Shweta & Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) Topic: advice to progress, make life better ( save this email. This is advice for your life journey) Topic source: Law of Karma: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/karma Dear Divine Sister We take care of every soul who once raise their hand towards God. Late because we have many other services to do + many emails come daily. Now to advice you that nothing needs to be done externally. The only way to change something in your life is to change your karma. Because our karma creates and shapes our future. Once the future is created, no one can change it. Hence it is always said that human beings should do each karma carefully. Use your intellect. God has given you mind and intellect to think, decide and hence create your own life. Do not be influenced by other's thoughts about you. Refer: Original 7 virtues of Soul -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/7-virtues-of-soul You must know yourself. You must know what you want to do in life. Your intention is good that you wish to firstly return the money your parents has spent on education. Then you wish to stay with your parents. Everyone is unique. So you ask yourself - ''will i study better staying with my parents OR should i stay away?''. It is your will and your parents should support you. They also wants good for you. So if you are 100% sure that you will perform beter if you stay with parents, then try convincing them. Remain positive. Do your best and leave the result. Result is NOT in our hands. Simply enjoy the life. Only be aware that Whatever you will do, will be returned to you,,. Why be sad? God is with us. Always remember - the only thing - 'Never Give sorrow to anyone. Never take sorrow from anyone'. Make this your slogan. ~~~ Some tips for Study ~~~ 1. Practice Swamaan - Swamaan will uplift your mental stage and empower from within. This practice has helped many many souls. Here are commentaries you listen DAILY MORNING and before sleep. Save this link -> http://bit.ly/Swamaan 2. Meditation. Learn meditation -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation 3. Listen Relaxing Music in background while studying -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/relaxation-music-nature-sounds Hope you will folow. This will definitely help you. Know about us. About Us -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Namaste In Godly World Service 00000
- Overcome Exam FearIn Question Answers┬╖7 June 2021In present time, there is lot of burden of education in schools and colleges in India. A student writes to us to seek advice upon this. How to give exams without fear? How to get success in exams? Here is our response and guidance to Overcome exam fear. Original Email Received in Feb 2019 I am preparing for govt sector. Therefore giving several exams. But the result is not in favour. Everytime the result announced my parents says like- 'what kind of study u doing,not clearing any exam' ,'others child how they do' etc etc.. After hearing these comments I get demoralized. And now I suspect myself to be a fail... What to do? Our Email Response TO: Ankit & Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay Topic: Exam, success, overcome fear Dear Divine Brother/Sister It is explained also in Shrimat Geeta that - ''Human being should only focus on karma (work) and leave everything else upon fortune and God.'' What it means for you is - ''Do your best. Put 100% effort in writing the exam. Study and rest do not worry about results. This result does not represent your ability to understand. It only represent your ability to 'remember.'' Learn in an intellectual manner - revise everything once and then focus on individual chapters. The best way to learn is to 'see' it. Visual explanation is useful. Moreover, it depends on the memory power of brain. Guidance How can you Develop memory power? Answer: Learn meditation. On our website, you can not only ''learn'' Raja Yog meditation, but also we have music and guided commentaries to support to learning. Plus listen below given 'Nature Relaxing Sounds' while you study. 1. What is Raja YOg meditation? https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation 2. RajYoga music + Commentaries (to Learn) (Wake up early morning and listen these guided commentaries.) https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary 3. Nature Relaxing Sounds (while studying) https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/relaxation-music-nature-sounds * Related Article /post * How to focus and enjoy study?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/how-to-focus-and-enjoy-study Hope you will follow the given guidance and walk the path to divinity in Life. Also then visit 7 virtues of Soul On Godfatherly World Service 00000
- Not loved by Parents?In Question Answers┬╖7 June 2021Parents are also a teacher who teach the child the way of living. In today's time some parents do not or could not give enough time in upbringing of their children due to variety reasons. Here was such case where a girl child born in a wealthy and educated family feels if she is not loved or cared enough by her parents. Here is our guidance for upliftment. Original Email Received Hello ma'am, this is padmasna. I m highly inspired by your thoughts .I always look for your videos whenever I am trapped in any situation .To start with, I m a 24 yr old girl and I am so much trapped in my thoughts and I cannot find a conclusion. I have been staying in Delhi (India) since last 9 years but I come from Bihar... my parents stay in Bihar only. My parents were never there in a needful time. Neither physically nor emotionally... like not even 4 words of generosity on phone. Not understanding is one thing but they don't even try to understand the problems I face... infact it feels like they r not interested. They just want to give money nd escape all other responsibilities of being a parent. Sometimes I also feel pichle janam ke karm honge... I will be really grateful to u if u guide my thoughts and give it the right direction. Our Email Response + Guidance To: Asker & Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) Good morning Aapka patra mila. This is the response to your email letter received on 8 March 2019. Described your story but you didn't clarify the reason of having any problem. Yes it can be understood that every child should and must receive love and acceptance from their parents. You have written your thoughts and now you are in safe hands. Dear Divine Sister You concluded by saying that you feel ''Yeh ichle janam ke karam honge..'' Yeh satya bhi hai. Har atma me yeh andruni shakti hai - jise ''6th sense'' ya sadharan shabdo me ''atma ki aawaz'' kaha jata hai. Aap apne prasno ka javaab pehle se hi jaante ho. Yeh dekho ParamAtma ki wonderul gift hai. Kisi ko bhi puchne ki zarurat nahi. Lekin aaj aapko Sandesh jaroor denge ki aap apne Jeevan ka faisla kar sake. Kaha jana hai... Dekho jo beet gaya so beet gaya. Aaj behtar hai aur Purusharth karke aane wale kal ko aur bhi behtar banana hai. Jo bhi hua, acche ke liye hi hua. Jo bhi hota hai, vo humare pichle karma ka 'result' hi hai. Yeh universal law hai. Reference: Karma - Law & living Jab aapko apne loukik mata-pita dwara pyaar na mila, tabhi to aap sabhi atmao ke pita (Parampita ParamAtma) ke connection me aayi na. Aise hi samjho ki jo bhi hua, accha hi hua. Abhi aapko yeh Paramatam Sandesh diya ja raha hai ki ''Vo aa chuka hai, jisko sabhi manusya khoj rahe hai, prarthna karte hai..'' Vo hai humara Baap (father) - unka yeh part hai - vo aate hai vishwa me Satyug ki sthapna karne - sukh ki duniya banate hai. Phir usme koun ayenge? Vo ayenge jisne Baap ko pehchana - Those souls will come in the new world who recognised the father when he came at the end of Kaliyug. MahaBharat Geeta me bhi likha hai - ''Yada Yada Hi Dharmasya...'' Jab duniya me adharma ki pradhanta aur dharma ki glani hoti hai, tab aata hu... Sab kuch yaha nahi likh sakte. Yeh website par sab jaankari hai - About Us (Introduction): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Bhagwan humara mata-pita hai (Spiritual parent hai). Yeh Geet sune: Tu Pyaar Ka Sagar Hai To aap ab Pyaar ke sagar dwara unlimited Pyaar ka anubhav karo. Yeh humara par-loukik mata-pita hai. Bhavna se sabhi bhagwan ko yaad karte hai. BK Shivani ko aap sunte honge. ''Awakening with BrahmaKumaris'' ke sabhi episodes aapko yaha milenge -> http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Shivani.htm Audio episodes (playlist) -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/awakening-bk-audio-episodes * Videos Gallery (must visit): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/videos Mobile apps -> For Android: http://bit.ly/BkAndroidApps For iPhone: http://bit.ly/iPhoneAppsBk Waiting for your response. Namaste On Godly World Service 00://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us000
- On KalyadaanIn Question Answers┬╖7 June 2021The true meaning of certain marriage customs (eg: Kanyadaan) are explained in this post. To get the background, it is important that you know What is Gyan Murli? Original Email Received I am getting married on 8 Dec 2019 and i wish to know about 'Kanyadan' as my to be wife has done some research and she doesn't want Kanyadan to happen. Since i dont know what is right/wrong i wish to know the reality... Is Kanyadan good? Is it needed or its something to be not done? The science behind Kanyadan? I will be highly grateful for ur knowledge. Email Response + Guidance Om Shanti, The rituals of any religious ceremony have spiritual origins. The similar goes with the ritual of Kanyadan. When God, the Supreme father (Supreme Soul) came to the world to bestow upon the ignorants the pure knowledge. He took help of pure chaste Kanyas, who gave up the world of vices, world drowned in vices of body consciousness, and surrendered themselves to the supreme being God. These pure kanyas willfully left their past maligned beliefs and surrendered wholly to the will and directions of God. These kanyas gave daan of all their vices, bad habits, worldly wishes and immersed in everlasting bliss of God, and became the Gopis of Shiva (Krishna as per Geeta). This is remembered even know in a form that father gives his daughter in the hands of bridge groom (future husband) to always protect and nurture her. In the present time we are witnessing that many Kumaris (unmarried girls) surrender their life This divine Kanya became so knowledgeful that each Kanya could make fortune for 21 generations and help bring Satyug on earth. This event was copied by people in marriage ceremonies where father would do kanyadan of his daughter to her husband , which is not a welcomed concept by girls as it represents female a mere thing being owned and transferred. And reflect misogyny. But the underlying truth is more divine. Therefore the custom has lost it's true sense and is mere superficial. So performing or not performing the ritual may not have effect as far as there is a consensus of mind between both families. To know more about how bk sisters are transforming their lives and of millions, donating their vices and making true to the ritual of Kanyadan. Visit nearest brahma kumaris RajYog center and take the 7 day Rajyoga Meditation course or online (https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course Have any other question? Email us OR use BK Google - www.bkgoogle.com for more info and resources. On Godly World Service 00000
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