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Love begins with a good friendship. But how to differentiate between true ''made for each other'' love and a good friendship? In this case the parents were against their marriage and they also didn't intend to hurt their parents or go against their will. So the Kumari (unmarried girl) asks advice to deal with this - Should I marry? and How to convince our Parents? Original Email Received Dear sister shivani, I am Misba 25 yrs old, from my childhood I feel i am never happy in my life. When ever I try to be happy something happens. Now, when I was in UK for studies I cried everyday thinking this is not for me. I wanna go back home. There I met my classmate Faizan and we really became close in short amount of time, that time I thought he is just my close friend and we used to fight alot, so I was thinking I don't want a partner like him. Now my parents got me engaged in Oct 2018. I was never interested in this proposal. When I told my parents they said " accept this because ye dua ka rishta hai", should marry a man whom parents have chose. But no I don't want this. They say if i marry someone else i will never be happy. I feel now m missing faizan and want to spend my life with him, but my parents are not agreeing neither his parents , the reason they say is society. I don't wanna hurt my parents nor I wanna leave faizan. Please guide me what shall I do? Regards. Our Email Guidance To: Anyone who needs this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godfatherly University) About: Decision making on a Relationship Dear Divine Sister This is about your feelings, isn't it? Have you not observed that your own feelings are not constant? Sometimes you feel that one person is good for you and in second moment you feel the opposite? 1. The reason why you may are not feeling touched by anyone even when surrounded by many is - that you soul is not fitting, you are not fitting into that atmosphere. You the soul desire something else deeply, while the body lives. You sometimes wish to have another way of living. Do you feel like that? Recognise and Love the self: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FF7KnU5uEHw and Feeling Depressed?: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xY2Ha_HqHR0 2. To make a decision, first, our mind needs to DECIDE the better choice among 2 or more choices. And for this, we must understand clearly all the choices we have. It is YOU who are making a choice and hence you must know YOURSELF first. What is my inner desire? What do i wish to do in this life? Remember that life is s precious gift. You are the painter/designer. 'Marriage' is a great value. One cannot and should not go in the flow of feelings and get married to a stranger. The word ''stranger'' is for anyone whom you don't know completely. In today's time you also know that it is very difficult to judge. Your parents must have thought more about this. Family's support is VERY important for ''after-marriage life''. Isn't it? Even the boy's parents have to accept you. CONCLUSION (PRACTICAL ADVICE) Seeing this all, you should consider what to do. You have always seen 'faizan' as a 'friend'. Right? So you can still remain a friend. If you still believe that you have a deeper connection with that soul (Faizan) then go ahead and talk with your parents. Explain them calmly about your feelings for him. Apply every good way to convince and see the result. If they are convinced for your this relationship, then know that you both are really ''made for each other''. If not, then conclude that this all was only a play of our ''Past life karmas''. Refer: Law of Karma & Living It is assured that if you follow sincerely it will forever change your life, as it did for many. You have come in connection with us and hence it is our prime responsibility to give you the God's message - that God has come. Come and know more about us -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us To do anything in life, one needs one or more of our 8 powers (Refer: 8 powers of Soul). So how to develop these 8 powers? - Through RajaYog or Rajyog meditation. Also that it is God's shrimat to live as in purity (celibacy). This purity is the mother of peace, love and spiritual powers. * Celibacy (article): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/celibacy Do visit all given links to learn more. This may and should change your life forever. Take this opportunity. Flowers of fragrance. On Godfatherly World Service 00

Someone emails us giving a suggestion to provide our regular spiritual Classes and our Videos (and BK Shivani's videos) in Spanish language. As a response, we provided them current services in Spanish and information on future services: more videos will be available in more international languages (like Spanish, French, German, Russian, etc) in future, as God's message reaches to all. Original email we received in early 2021: Hello, I very much admire your initiative, and if I may suggest for BK Shivani, to please, have her videos on youtube available in spanish, hopefully over voiced in spanish, as those who can't read can at least hear here, ..if this were possible of course. On the other hand, if it is of any interest to you, I can also offer this kind of service, but even it is not my services, BK Shivani's videos should be available in spanish as it is greatly needed by this group. Thank you very much! Our Response Divine Soul, As you may know, currently, our series "Awakening with Brahma Kumaris" (where BK Shivani speaks on behalf of the Brahma Kumaris organisation) is only available in 2 languages: Hindi and English. It is not translated into Spanish, as you suggested. But in future, as God's messages reaches to all souls, as services grows, our important videos would definitely be translated into many languages to spread the message of God's arrival and the essence of spiritual knowledge. Right now, we are giving you these 4 useful links. Must visit: 1. Spanish Audio playlist (SoundCloud) 2. Daily Murli in Spanish Our Spain (España) website - https://www.brahmakumaris.es Welcome Letter (in English) (Our Welcome Letter provides all information and useful links to progress on spiritual journey) Good day On Godly World Service, SBSI team

Need of spiritual help about Pulwama attack and the atmosphere it created. We received some emails asking the help we as a Spiritual NGO can provide both financially and spiritually to those souls in need. Can be seen that it is a matter of two country and its innocent residents. Nothing should create hatred in your mind for those innocent brothers who live in Pakistan. Here is our view on Pulwama attack by some terrorists and how we as an individual can help to maintain peace in world - giving spiritual light (Sakash) to heal and calm souls. Original Email Received in Feb 2019 I wanted to raise a very serious question and its an hour of need in which our country is grapling with a major communal issues. Today what's happening with our Kashmiri brothers and sisters in our country don't you feel that being a spiritual lead you should inititate and help them giving shelters and protection. With your branches all over India why can't you support and help them? What today are you teaching is the God's lessons and its implementation but does this knowledge means only helping spiritually not at all working towards physical help? Khalsa aid can come to rescue, why can't you? Does helping means there will be a blot on you. If you are so tuned to knowledge and its path then I think you should follow the same what dadis and elder sisters did to spread Baba's message without thinking anything in their earlier times. Om Shanti Our Email Response Dear Divine Sister, Giving priority to your letter because you mentioned a present situation of our Bharat. Here is a clarification of your doubts. So listen. Prajapita BrahmaKumari organisation is doing and has been always doing such services whenever and wherever needed in the world. This is reason why Prime Minister of India announced this organisation as first hand of God in doing good to world. They undrstood the nature from outside. Narendra Modi ji did not receive God's knowledge however, but they did experience real spiritual peace. They have visited Mount Abu 2 or 3 times. So said that it is ALWAYS that God's Yagya must and should support the world souls. Here also, we did support in BOTH - Physical and Spiritual way. Physical -> During natural or man made calamity, we donate food and clothes. Plus give moral support by personally visiting. This was also done during man natural calamities around the world. Spiritual -> Almost all our centres - during the Amritvela or evening Yog, give Sakash to souls who are disturbed (in need of Peace). Giving spiritual light to souls calms their mind and give them an experience of peace. Realise that spiritual support is needed much more than physical shelter. Also, in such times, many wealthy persons and NGO donated. Hence the received donations are more than enough. Our support is ''incognito''. Not to display. We are ''spiritual'' servants. Hence every act of help mush be hidden and lovingly performed. “Never judge unless you know the whole truth” See dear Juhi. Every religion passes through 3 stages - Satto, Rajjo, Tammo. Even the Brahman religion will pass through this. God alone is capable to do good to his children. Even if no one helps physically, God alone is ingenious and powerful enough to uplift his children in need. So why feel bad for anyone ? DRAMA. Everything happens for a good reason. Have patience and you will understand. Yes. Yagya at present has reached a body conscious stage. I know. And we also know what will happen next. Therefore giving you the light of hope. New word has been created under the curtains. Have hope on your father dear soul. So how in your opinion should the Yagya (organisation) help - do you think physical help is needed to those for whom many are giving the help? It is possible that Shiv baba gave inspiration to those who donated wealth and support. So this indicates that now time is that Baba will guide worldly souls more than Yagya souls. Now baba is preparing for inner transformation in non Gyani souls. Do you get this way? God is so great. So never doubt. As Baba is emerging goodness in worldly souls, they also will be attracted to Gyaan. Think - if nothing bad happens in world - how will good happen? How will good souls get a chance to show their ''goodness'' if there is nothing bad. This is the accurate reason why everything happen for a reason. You are very wise soul. Caring for other souls, our brothers. But in doing so, you need to give them Sakaash. Not to waste time. You can become GOD's hand in giving light. in World Transformation. Are you willing ? Remember: ''Will is the best friend. Will is the best enemy'' Hence, control your 'will' power. What is Sakash? : https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/How-to-Give-Sakash-and-Dhristi Welcome to visit our website and find out more. About Brahma Kumaris - Introduction 7 days RajYog course online Namaste On Godly World Service BK team

Having onion and garlic in our diet is common. Why do spirituality keep us away from having this kind of food? Here is our answer with scientific and spiritual guidance so that you can yourself decide the life you wish to live. Original Email Received Om Shanti Sister Shivani,I too believe that onion and garlic are not food for the soul and they hinder your path of complete soul evolvement but at times things are not in my control. Sometimes I am not left with any other option rather than consuming it. But I fear that it would slow down my pace of evolvement.I am going to live in a hostel after one month and there I won't be left with any other option apart from having food in the hostel mess. What should be done in such cases? Our Email Response+ Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidhyalay (Godly University) Dear Divine Sister,  Good morning It is well known that We become what we eat. This only means that the vibrations we intake from our diet remains in our stomach and hence it creates same vibrations around us (also impacts our mood). This is a common fact well experienced by many. Now - eating anything is not bad. But when one becomes spiritual aware, one chooses not to intake anything that puts a hurdle in his progress towards the spiritual journey. So as you are. Eating onion and garlic is not at all bad for health. In fact, today's doctors promote having garlic in the diet. But we have forgotten that we are not this body and our purpose is not only to satisfy hunger and urges of our tongue. We are a soul. The purpose of this life is much higher. So with this realisation, sages in ancient times have renounced good tasty food and lived in jungle to fulfil their spiritual desire (to meet God).  WHY NOT ONION & GARLIC? Answer: As science now found out, the continuous diet of onion and garlic reduces the count of brain cells in human body, which are resposible to keep a connection between the brain and the whole body. So if you think practically, it makes one unstable and having lesser control of sense organs (as the cells are less). CHOOSE If you choose not to eat something - you must have a clear knowing WHY are we doing this and not that. This applies in all things. Spiritual growth is not connected to our body. Our body is instead merely a costume or a medium for me the soul to perform the karma which I choose. I AM THE MASTER. This one should always remember. * Conclusion * If you find hard to apply this diet in your life, please not to force it. It is explained by God himself - that Soul gets what was given outside. Most of our life is made only of the fruits received of our past karmas. Hence what we eat does not matter a lot. However, this definitely contributes. If you finally decide to follow the diet that we at BrahmaKumari ashram (centres) follow, visit -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/Yogi-Diet-and-Brahma-Bhojan (The Yogi's Diet) AND follow our Day to Day Timetable * Also do read our Articles on: 1. Self transformation (general): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/self-transformation-general-guidance 2. Negative to positive -> https://bkarticles.blog/2019/04/09/changing-self-from-negative-to-positive/ Need anything? Search on BK Google -> www.bkgoogle.com (our divine Search engine) namaste On Godly World Service 00

'I made a huge mistake.' Yes, not me but some BKs who have taken the gyaan since few years and are good at dharna and service - they also make mistakes for which they feel really bad about and hence one of them writes an email to us accepting and seeking for guidance. This Kumari was in Gyan through her loukik family since childhood. We give guidance with the full understanding that God has come and explained the accurate meaning of 'Shrimat'. Original Email we Received I know Baba since a child.. my whole family follows him. But today I have done a terrible mistake. I was doing that mistake since a long time... It became like a habit.. now I am realising it.. that I was wrong.. though I knew it before also.. I want to change myself now. I can't take the guilt of that mistake. I know I can't change the past.. but is there anything which I can do to feel less guilty .. I want to rectify that mistake.. I don't know what to do.. I have promised myself I won't ever do it again but still I am not feeling good.. please help.. I m feeling restless. I m worried.. I am having exam in 3 weeks and I want to change myself n study. Please help.. Om Shanti Our Email Response + Guidance To: Anyone who need this OR have a similar situation Your letter is received. You can tell any mistake you did. You should never hide it.  'If you hide your mistake, it will grow.'  Understand this. When you tell your weakness to baba and ask for forgiveness, you yourself will first feel light. Shrimat is already given on what should be done. Maya comes to take the test. If you surrender your intellect to Shiv baba and follow the shrimat, maya salutes you and goes away. This is the procedure. Shrimat says: ''Keep your mind busy. Always. Such mistakes happen only when you free your mind. Then maya enters and if you are weak at that time, then maya wins.'' What should be done? Answer: Knowledge is very important. Murli is the source of spiritual knowledge. Baba has given this advice to study (read or listen) Gyan murli atleast 2 times a day. Also, you said that you have exams in 3 weeks. So this is also a way you can use to keep safe from maya (5 vices). Put your intellect and mind focussed in studies and if you feel bored, then here are Rajyoga commentaries & Swamaan commentaries - listen for 10 minutes and you will feel ''recharged''.  RajYoga commentaries: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary Swamaan Commentaries: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 Swamaan means 'Self respect'. Realising the self as a soul, our power is unlimited. My original virtues are Purity, Peace, Love, Bliss and Power. And when you study, listen these Relaxing musics to experience calm and freshness and helps also in focussing: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/relaxation-music-nature-sounds ---- Useful links ---- 7 virtues of soul: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/7-virtues-of-soul 8 powers of soul: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/8-powers-of-soul Do save all links and use (visit) when get free time.  Essence: 1. Relaxing music while studying 2. 10 minutes break for meditation 3. Swamaan practice in early morning Have a question in mind? Contact us. Accha In Godfatherly (Godly) Service 00

A sister facing relationship problems with husband after 25+ years of marriage. Asks for guidance on how to give good vibrations to life partner so that they can heal the anger. This is our advice. Original Email Received Om Shanti, I have been having strained relations with my spouse for over last two months ( this is after 27 years of marriage). He is a good soul but is not ready to reconcile /does not want to reconcile, does not want to talk. I have apologized many times ( for things that I felt right at given situations and I did not mean any ill will) but he still holds anger towards me. I have been seeing and following videos by sister Shivani, BK Suraj Bhai and have been following the advice to send him the vibrations of peace and love. I have been trying but many times it hurts thinking about it and thinking about the reason why such a drastic reaction. I want him to be peaceful and happy and free from anger. How can I make myself powerful to create a positive aura and send peace to him and help him heal? Om Shanti, Our Email Response+ Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidyalaya Topic: Relationship with life partner Dear Divine Sister It is good that you have been learning from videos of Sister Shivani and BK Suraj bhai. You have mentioned that he (husband) is a good soul and yes all God’s children are good souls. But, your Spouse’s behavior changes after 27 years of marriage and he was not behaving in this way before. We advise you to follow these steps to overcome the situation. 1. First of all you must understand the Karmic pattern of Relationships. Due to our past Karmic account two souls come together to perform the role of spouse. Hence whatever we had given in the past either in the past lives or present life we do not know when it will return back to us. This is the energy exchange between two souls that we are unaware of. Watch the following video on: Relationship are an Energy Exchange of Thoughts: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rY7uVY5En4U 2. You have mentioned that as per your Sanskar you find that some of the behaviors are not appropriate. But different people have different Sanskars and whatever is wrong for you may be right for him. But you should remember there is a folder of original Sankars of each soul. Try to open that folder through giving positive vibrations. For this watch this video on  5 Types of Sanskars we all carry: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8v722i8WS3Q 3. You want to heal him, but when you think that you do not want to absorb any negativity from other soul, itself is a negative energy that you are sending to the other soul. Do not focus on his negative reactions. From the mind itself you need to clean that feeling. If possible sit silently and write down all his good qualities and good times that you have spent together during last 27 years, and be grateful. Do watch/listen the below videos: a) When relationship breaks (Bk Suraj bhai)- https://youtu.be/ZDPSkLITUhQ b) Thoughts create a relationship- https://youtu.be/jrHV3jW-PCk c) Cure your relationships- https://youtu.be/LucIJ6Usw4M d) Steps for a strong relationship- https://youtu.be/1CHHfwtEMr8 e) healing relationship- https://youtu.be/hWvWT3zdXa8 4. It is recommended for you to send him healing vibrations daily. Start with half or one hour daily. This is called SAKASH.. Choose an appropriate hour of day, either Amritvela(between 2 am to 5 am) or 3:30 am to 4 am is recommended or any other as per your convenience.  You can also do it in evening- between 6:30 to 7:30.. You must do both in Amritvela and evening for fast results. Refer: How to Give Sakash: https://bkarticles.blog/2019/01/18/how-to-give-sakash/ (article) 21 days Yog Bhati: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/why-21-days-yog-bhatti) Follow the links on our forum (QandA) Husband and Wife -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/husband-and-wife If you have not taken any Raj Yog meditation course, Join in any of our centers nearby your area. Follow these steps. Contact again if needed. On Godly World Service 00

Clarification on the Law of Attraction as explained in Awakening program by BK Shivani. Further guidance. Question asked via Email: Hello, I am a follower of sister BK Shivani, I followed her words, if I get positive outcomes I believe in it. One thing I tried for a long but it's not happening, how can I believe it ? Sister said that think what you want not what is happening. What we think that will become our reality. But I started it with small things like my friend msgs me today with whom I have no contact. I just tried. It didn't work. How? Could you please explain me how can I make this rule applicable in life? Regards Our Response (Answer to Email): Pooja (and Everyone reading) Your message is received. You are following the Awakening series and in that, you heard of Law of atttraction and then you tried. See, this is a universal law. But it doesn't work like that.! - example - if a hungry poor person imagines that tomorrow i am sitting in a palace - this is NOT possible. Similarly - few things which are not permitted by our Karma and Karmic accounts, will not happen. Atleast not immediately. It will also depend on our ability to make our imagination in reality. So first one must make the self 'Able' before or while using this law. Yes. If your thinking is in RIGHT direction, you have ability to overcome all challenges and reach the goal, then Law of attraction will helpand you will attract what you wanted. Mind should be clear and focussed. Intention has to be pure - These are 2 laws. How does Law of attraction work?: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NnCnjqA2lgI Law of attraction - Being Bliss: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=59OraAT7B_U ALL Awakening Audio Episodes: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/awakening-bk-audio-episodes BK Shivani Biography: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/bk-shivani Articles: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/blog-murli/category/BK%20Articles Accha In Godly World Service 00

Topic: The cause of all causes ( How to Judge and Decide, Is terrorism highest crime?, How does God see our Karma? ) Email/ question received via email **************************************** Q: We know that forgiveness is one of the greatest art of bravery but should we forgive the terrorists who kill so many people? Our Email Response To: Everyone reading this There is no reason not to forgive. What is there is that you don't know the whole picture. If you wonder why GOD would forgive those who kill others, it is because God knows and can see the whole picture. Human beings themselves decides, judges what is wrong and what is right. Then they decide the same for God also. Everyone is a child of God. He loves all his children. The second point of seeing is that - THIS IS A DRAMA. A real drama. World is a stage. Hence you understand that all souls are merely playing their part in this. Now some souls have got a part of 'Villian' in which they need to kill one another. The very act of killing the other is NOT bad or good. For instance, if you kill a terrorist, you consider it as GOOD. If you kill a normal person (as you call), it is BAD. So how to judge? Source: Law of Karma GOD judges at the end. The basis of judgement is INTENTION. Yes, the intention behind what you do matters. You cannot kill anyone. The Soul is eternal. If you kill his body, the soul takes another body. So there is no killing involved here. But on other hand, if you kill innocence, the moral values and virtues in a soul - that is a crime. So a bigger crime in God's eys is to harm the soul. Harming anything in world is not right. But knowledge of being a Soul is needed. This is how a Soul conscious being sees the world, the way God see. Refer: Who am I, the Soul Anyway, said that there is a REASON why a normal person has to become a terrorist. Do you see that reason? Reasons are many like: 1. Poverty in family 2. Bad and corrupted government 3. Social pressure 4. Lack of money to buy food and live 5. In the wrong name of religion If they get food to live, they join the terrorist group. Whose fault? The corrupt government of the country? OR Country's army? Who waste milions of rupees in weapons, leaving the innocent people in poverty? OR Those who does not help who are in need? OR Religion's misusers? -> Who in the name of religion (Islam) spread violence and empower innocent people to take up weapons? The reason of poverty is corruption and bad governance (politics) The reason of corruption is lack of moral education The reason of this is Population explosion * Conclusion * So the root cause of all troubles is the 5 vices , and especially the lust (body consciousness). This makes the soul helpless, powerless. While let you know the we the Soul is powerful enough to fight and overcome ANY problem. But this vice is our enemy who covers our wisdom to understand. Hence explained that the very nature of soul is peace, purity, love and being happy. So if someone does something against thei own nature, this is a Bad karma. The most important virtue of Soul is peace. So we always search for peace, we appreciate peace, because WE ARE PEACE. Om Shanti. Hope you not only got your answer, but also the way to solve Visit below given links Satyug - New World of Peace -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/satyug-world-of-peace 7 days course online -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course ABOUT US (introduction) -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Accha namaste In Godly World Service 00

How does an Animal soul follow the Law of Karma? How does it get decided -Happy or struggle life? -Revelation on the life of souls of animals and birds, upon how their life is lived. Question was asked by P V Laxmi on 27 Aug 2018. Original Question via Email: Why some animals get comfortable living while some have a very difficult one, for example some stray dogs r not getting food and comfort properly whereas some livs in comfortable houses , get good food and luxury .How can we judge there karmic account when they have no proper brain to think like human beings. what and how does the karmic account work in animals?. Our Answer (response) Dear Divine Sister, Your letter was received and read. Here is the explanation. Your thinking is right in terms that animal's soul is not got the property of ''Intellect'' (buddhi) to think and decide . They only do what other animals do. They grow up, eat, sleep and give birth. HOW IS LIFE of animals decided? Answer: Every soul of animal and bird, will get happiness (a good birth at a good place or enviournment) for half the lifetime and other half births in sorrow (struggle). For example, if a soul of dog have to take 2 births , then 1 birth it will have in a good place and may be somebody adopts the dog and the dog gets to live at a palace. The other birth will then be at streets, etc. The first birth is the best birth . This is universal law - for all beings. Hope your question is answered. The Law of Karma (course page) Explore About Us page to learn about Prajapita Brahma Kumari IshwairyaVishwa Vidhyalay About Us - Introduction Accha namaste 00

Husband got found cheating and having an extramarital relationship with a colleague. Wife requests us to provide spiritual help to this so as to bring out her husband from this, to heal and to get him on the right path with the help of spirituality. Here is our detailed guidance (We advise you to read this guidance if you have a similar problem in family. This is suppose to help you in many other ways also.) Our Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidhyalay (Godly University) Dear Divine Sister Good morning You very well explained your story and what help you expect from us. Since you emailed here, we take that you would be connected via a regional BK RajYog centre OR via 'Awakening' TV series of Sister Shivani OR via our Peace of Mind TV We do get such emails which reflects the happenings in the world. Do you know that GOD has already concluded in one line - ''Lust or body consciousness is the root cause of all evil, and thus of all your sorrow''. This I remember and realised better when read your email. The question is more accurate that since you both are married and have children. Marriage usually promotes and makes sex look natural (which is not). Our original nature (of Soul) is ''purity''. This purity sponsors 'peace', which brings 'happiness'. Thus this virtue of celibacy or purity is the mother of all other virtues. This is the origin of a good meaningful life.  On the other side, even if lust is limited between husband and wife, it is still a cause of downfall (spiritual). Yes, the body feels pleasure, but the soul cries. The soul says - the other is also a Soul - we are Brothers. We both are originally pure. Some religious people feel guilty after sex. Because initially when they did Bhakti (worshipping), they felt very near to God, very divine. But after they did this, they felt caught up in bodily feelings and no longer could connect to the holiest (God). ''Purity is worshipped''. See why the Devi-Devta are worshipped in Bharat (India) - because they are pure. God explains - ''When you are pure, there is an aura of divine light around'' --- Your Question --- Your email reflects that the husband is or was really honest. But this vice of lust destroyed his virtues and brought his image down. See this is why God himself has to say - 'Become Soul consciousness. See every other as your Soul brother'. One mistake led him to a downfall, while he has so many virtues. You should not leave him for this reason. But definitely ACT and show him that you made this mistake. Now see how honest and pure you were before. Did you feel good about yourself? Ask this. You have to be very gentle and calm in your tone. This can happen to anyone today. The world is such. Internet allows all dirty things on 1 click. It is not his great mistake. But always restrict him to remain alone and put his interest in spirituality and other positive aspects of life. This is YOUR DUTY as a good wife. Isn't it? HOW TO FORGIVE? Easy. Now you know his perspective. Also now that at the end, he himself realised that it was wrong. This means -this was not intentional. Now watch given videos - Hurt in relationships - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uWxhhkHWRhk Forgive and Trust again - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r9p8garDIgM How to stop doubting - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q9zfrJWc1d0 ( watch all 3 videos ) * Conclusion * Lust is our enemy. Greatest enemy. Your life is so good. You have no clear struggle, have a good relationship, have children, money, so why pollute the life with this sex lust?! You may find it unusual, but it is true that 80% of healthy relationships are broken because of this only. Life was peaceful & after this bodily attraction, it became unrewarding. Since you have now realised this, we welcome you to a NEW WAY OF LIVING - please read our article on Celibacy - A way of Living Purity should also be in thoughts and words. When you will follow 'celibacy' for 1 month, you will observe a clear betterment in within and outside. Remain in family life, but become Soul conscious. First you have to understand the Godly knowledge. So we welcom you to take our online 7 days course. We then welcome you to know ABOUT US (introduction) - God's creation of new world & the aim of BKWSU. Please MUST learn on page ABOUT US. If have any other question, email us. Do visit all given links. Let us know your progress after 15 days. ** Gifts ** Refresh your mind with these Nature scenes -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TdpBRZ0dZhw (Add to a Playlist) and Listen our audio songs while cooking food, etc. -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/bk-songs-playlist (Bookmark) Accha On Godly World Service 00

A mother writes to us asking for help for her daughter who was born with autism, and is now showing hyperactivity. She also had other issues related to personal life. We guided her on How to keep mind stable while solving the problem, crossing day to day challenges. We invited her to learn RajYoga meditation and practice it daily whenever gets time. This will make mind calm, focussed and powerful to overcome any and every challenges. Original Question asked: Om shanti. I am just saddened by so many little things. I have been trying to listen constantly to videos for guidance. Distressed about my daughter's health issues , autism & hyperactivity. People around me. My friends have also let me down. They have used me. Betrayed me. Hurt me. Completely changed their behavior. I am just so fed up. I wish I was not affected by people. Can you please show me a way for peace. Response+Guidance Divine Soul, We understand that you are concerned about you daughter who is suffering from mental health issues. And you are also disturbed because certain friends of yours hurt you. And you wish to learn how to become unaffected by someone`s behavior. ➥Sister, i would ask you to immediately consult a psychiatrist for your daughter if her situation is serious. Because sometimes when brain is low on certain chemicals such disorders arise and which can be treated with medicines. And moreover along-with medicine, meditation will work great for her. Just as medicines heals our physical body, meditation heal our inner self. So we invite you to learn and practice RajYoga meditation daily. How to Heal your Daughter? ➥ Even easier practice is what we call Swamaan Abhyas (Self-respect affirmations) which is quietly the first step to RajYog meditation. We advise you to practice this in early morning as you wake up (and night, before sleeping) and then send powerful healing vibrations to your daughter, visualising her also as a soul. This works, as we have thousands of people benefitted by this practice in various ways...So keep complete faith. What is Swaman Abhyas? In Swaman Abhyas, we visualise the self (Soul) sitted in the centre of forehead (see below picture) and visualising the soul, we revise positive powerful affirmations (in mind) and thus experience them. For example: As we revise in mind "I am a Peaceful Soul", we also 'experience' the same "I am Peace" Guided: Here are our guided Swaman Abhyas commentaries (YouTube playlist) ➤ Swaman guided in Hindi ➤ Affirmations guided in English You seem to be in a better condition, but still when the mind is weak, we are easily disturbed and affected by someone`s behavior. The solution is to empower the mind. How do we do that? Answer: Mind is like a small child. It has certain needs , demands and cravings too. Now you need to take care of this child with love. Give it what it actually needs but not everything it demands or crave for. Discipline it. So next time whenever your mind is crying like a child next time tell him with love: "No my dear child, they cannot hurt me , it is me who is taking their words seriously". ➥We need to remember that if the appreciation uplifts us then criticism will destroy us. So we should not be attached to someone`s perspective about us. ➥Start meditating seriously to gain extraordinary results. Meditation is something that has overtaken this generation as a mandatory routine in the life of most of the people. It is helping the souls around the world to transform themselves into a being of Pure Love, Purity, Bliss and Power. ➥We at BhramaKumaris practice RajYoga Meditation daily and radiate the vibrations of Peace , Purity and Love for all the worldly souls. The Raj Yoga Meditation is a simple and easy to do meditation which can be practiced anywhere and anytime. It is full of spiritual wisdom about the subjects like Soul, God, Cycle of World, Secrets of self transformation etc which shall definitely help you both to transform yourselves. ✱Sharing useful links below. Please do follow all videos/links to get maximum benefit: ➤ (video) Raj Yoga Meditation (guided) by BK Sister Jayanti ➤ Raj Yoga Meditation 7 Days Course online ➤ (video) Stop getting affected by Other people (BK Shivani) ➤ (video) Empower the Mind (by BK Shivani) ★ V.useful: Guide to finish Depression Please follow all above given videos to take maximum benefit. Learn and practice RajYog and experience peace. Talk to your mind and empower yourself with powerful Swamaan (affirmations)... doing this will make you the soul powerful enough to overcome all challenges. ✱Then, we welcome you to learn about Bhrama Kumaris (ABOUT US, purpose, history) namaste On Godly Service, SBSI team

Many of us have had a bitter childhood memory which still pulls us back to those times or bites our conscience, or bitters our relationship with the known family. So what is right to do? To confess or confront the past? or to forgive, forget, and start a new journey? Ofcourse, our advise here is 'specific-given' to a sister who wrote to us. While in general, we do believe and know that everyone is unique and has a unique story, and thus they must judge their current situation and decide accordingly, what is best to do. Original Email we received in Dec 2020 Om shanti, Someone in my family did something very wrong years back but at that time I was a child & couldn't tell anyone as I was scared. Now I realise how wrong the person did & is living as if he did nothing. Now I want to tell the truth , even though I don't have any proof. But I am scared people might not believe me & more than anything it will hurt everyone in the family. But speaking the truth is the right thing to do. I have 2 choices: 1) Tell the truth to everyone, which may hurt family. 2) To not say anything & live like nothing happened because it is too late to speak. Now I can't decide which one is the right decision to take. Both of them are so difficult: To remain silent feels like I am doing something wrong, AND to speak the truth feels like I'll be hurting people. What should I do? Our Response + Guidance Divine Sister Follow this guidance STEP by STEP in your mind first, and then outside. Read with 'Attention' and then follow your inner feelings. 1. To clean your heart and memory is first priority. So take a plain sheet of paper and write down whatever you remember happened in your childhood. This letter can be subjected to God. Put all your memories to God, as if you are giving all your burden away... 2. Now go to one of your parents. Mother or father- you choose. Select a time when they are not busy and are ready to listen to you. Calmly tell them everything. Answer their questions which they will ask. Open your heart. 3. Ask them not to have any relationship with that person (whose complaint you just told). But yet dont spread this news to anyone else. Keep it upto you and your parents only. 4. Telling your parents is important so that they know the TRUTH about their child. BUT DO NOT spread this as a news. Our aim is to forget the past incident, and that to happen, one must not curse any soul... ★Forgiving is another thing"... Watch these videos (on FORGIVENESS, by Sister Shivani) ➤ How to FORGIVE someone? (video) ➤ How to RELEASE the PAST? (video) And there are many more videos on the same YT channel which will guide you to live a better and happy life. ✤ Please accept this ➤ Welcome Letter for You (this letter will guide you ahead in Spirituality and support in your life in general) On Godly World Service Shiv Baba Service team BKGSU