Extra-Marital Affair - How to solve?

In a husband-wife relationship sometimes problems arise due to lack of trust/honesty/loyalty. What should one do when s/he finds the spouse to be cheating? Feeling hurt/taking revenge depletes the soul's power. To realize the mistake & chose the right path, the soul needs power, He needs forgiveness, trust, unconditional love & acceptance.

From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidhylay (Godly University) To: Everyone reading this

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I am married for the last 6 years. I have a very happy married life. I have a 4-year-old daughter. My husband is very loving and caring. But I have proof of phone recordings that my husband goes to prostitutes. He was talking to his close friends about it And after listening to those recordings I am almost in depression that how can he go for such things. I am unable to concentrate on anything. Not even in my work. Please help me on how can I handle this situation and how can I stop him from doing such things.

-------------------------- "We at Prajapati Brahma kumaris daily do collective Yog/meditation for the world souls & send to them vibrations of peace, purity, love, and power. Let good happen to all"

Good Morning Devine Sister, Any person originally is full of purity, peace, happiness, bliss, joy, knowledge and powers. To highlight the main thing here - Purity, any person originally is completely pure i.e. s/he would not even create a single impure thought about any other being! These innate virtues and powers have nothing to do with physical senses i.e. the true nature of any person is to remain in this supersensuous joy. But gradually we have drifted away from our original nature and have been trapped under the influence of vices (lust, anger, greed, attachment, ego). [Please refer Our 7 innate Virtues to understand this clearly] [Also, The 8 Powers Of Us] HELP SOMEONE EMERGE HIS VIRTUES We have the power to help someone bring back his/her innate nature of Purity & Honesty (in this case) and also the power to discern between right & wrong & the power to do the right. For that, you first need to experiment to empower yourself with complete peace & positivity. Because to empower someone firstly we ourselves need to elevate ourselves. You cannot help him until you heal yourself... Detach yourself from whatever is happening around you... Leave behind all the thoughts related to the situation, because self-care is the top priority, everything else is secondary... You have the right to feel great irrespective of the circumstances... He may have lied to you, he could have even hurt you physically, but he cannot hurt you emotionally. The hurt is the creation of yours, by seeing his deeds the thoughts you create are the cause behind the hurt. The point here is - once I realize that it's nobody else but 'me' who created the hurt, I stop blaming people for making me feel how I'm feeling. And most importantly I stop expecting them to do something to heal my hurt. I take the responsibility to heal myself. Once this understanding is clear, I also find the ways How to heal myself! THE HEALER WITHIN How we feel is completely dependent on what thoughts we create. (Yes, it doesn't depend on the people/situations) (Moreover, thoughts just don't come up, I AM the creator. Based on my knowledge, belief systems and experiences I create the thoughts.) This means if I create the right thoughts always, I would feel happy always. The only thing that I need to do is cleansing the wrong knowledge/belief systems, and train my mind to think in the right direction whenever I find it thinking wrong. - You're a peaceful & powerful being... You've forgiven your husband for his mistake and trusting him again... - You're full of love... You need just one person to love you - you yourself! - You're full of trust, you trust your husband irrespective of his behavior/actions... Your unconditional acceptance and trust empower him... - Your every single high frequency thought about your husband increases his honesty & purity... With increased energy, he realizes the quality of his Karma... If you haven't learned RajYoga Meditation, please visit a nearby BrahmaKumaris center and learn the meditation for free. You'll surely be able to increase your stability, peace of mind and powers. With this high mental power, spare at least an hour early in the morning to sit in meditation and radiate high energy to your husband (by creating elevated thoughts). You can create a miracle by doing this consequently at least for 21 days, meditate for yourself & for him, also visualizes in your meditation that absolutely everything is (not 'will be') perfect between you two. Things have fallen in place! You can use your own creativity& mind power to think the best for your relationship, not just during meditation, but from now every single moment.

* Useful Videos *

Forgive And Trust Again: https://youtu.be/r9p8garDIgM Soul Reflection - Betrayal And Forgiveness: https://youtu.be/4lc0e3IEwok Extra-Marital Affair - What To Do About It?: https://youtu.be/J-AIx6ra1t4 Feeling Great No Matter What: https://youtu.be/7UiuI7qrLRU Need Only One Person To Love You: https://youtu.be/AuUMU4JREgk Healer Within - a wonderful video series: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL6mmKavEt551EU5-eIR0UiqPYMWZbhwh9 Manifest Desires Into Reality: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E_A0XAWwO8Y

----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- This is God's creation for the New World (Heaven). We welcome you to learn ABOUT US -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Here is our Further advice -> You should do 'Swamaan Abhyas' Swamaan = Self true respect of the soul which is Peaceful, Pure, Loveful and Powerful. HOW TO DO? Early morning - wake up around 5:00 am and focus your mind and listen to these commentaries -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 (FULL Playlist) While you listen to these guided commentaries above, you should focus the attention to the middle of the forehead, where me THE SOUL reside.

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