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Email received from Ujjwal (India) who is in Gyaan since 8 years and wish to marry and asked for advice upon an obstacle he faced during marriage. Here is our complete guidance as directed to us by beloved Shiv baba in Murlis. Original Question asked via Email: Om Shanti Brother / Sister I have done the 7 day course in 2010. I read Murli as well on a daily basis. I am from Meerut (Uttar Pradesh). Please advice on the following: I love a girl and wish to marry. She also loves me. We both talked with her parents and they shown our Kundli to a Pandit who then refused for our marriage because our rashi didn't match. That was the day we separated. The communication in our relationship has reached to no contact. It's been 3-4 months now. From the day she came to know about the unfavourable match, She said she cant live in fear for her life. Maybe because her mother is not agreeing or she is not willing too. I tried to convince but then she was not willing. I also left the situation as is and walked away. Now after doing too much of introspection in these 3-4 months. I found that I also did a negative karma by walking away as suggested by friends. From the last few days I have been practicing Swamaan by detaching myself from this situation and giving it to Baba. Please conclude. Om Shanti Our Email Response (Answer) To: Everyone reading Your message is received. You have done the course 8 years ago. Hence you have taken the Gyaan. You also are studying the Gyan murli everyday. Isn't it? Hence you must know that marriage is not permitted in this time. Shiv baba only gives advice. Then it is children's choice. This time is difficult for everyone. Many changes are coming and will continue to rise till the transformation takes in place. Murli has all this information. We not only should read murli, but churn (think about). Who is speaking? Is a human being speaking this divine knowledge? Murli is uploaded in MP3 also on babamurli.com OR if you use Sound Cloud app, here is our channel where complete sustainance is given daily: https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk About: your question: As much information you provided, it is clear that your both karmic accounts are NOT deep enough for life long relationship. That is reason why this happen. It was only a temperary milan. So you should accept this and move ahead in life. You have taken Gyan and that is not ordinary. Now you are one in thousands who have a key to change your fotune for next many many births.. Beter is that you forget about this and learn what was there to learn. You are already a special soul. In thousands, there is one who came and got the inheritance from the father (Shiv baba). Advice: 1. Daily listen atleast 1 clip from these Avyakt Murlis: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/avyakt-bapdada-murli 2. Practice swaman with these commentaries: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=2 3. Resources for everything (very useful): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/resources Do save all above links on your phone and access anytime when free. This is a boost in Purusharth of self transformation. Anything else? Good Day 00

A wife write us email letter that her ''Husband is Alcoholic and beats his own mother. I cannot bear this, what should I do?'' Here is our complete 2 emails guidance for her and for those who have similar family problem. Original Question asked via Email in Oct 2018 : Di I am greatly troubled at the present situation in my family. My husband is alcoholic and beats up his 70 yrs old mother frequently. His mother refuses to take any legal step. I am unable to tolerate this. This type of environment is affecting my daughter's education, mental and physical health. She is 11yrs old. My husband gets extremely violent after he drinks and the situation is very scary for me to face. Please Guide me. Our Email Response 1 Namaste Sister Your letter is received and read. We will surely guide you and your life will become better. For that, you have to first follow the guidance given. You are already watching Awakening programs - that is a benefit. So you can also ask your duaghter to watch Awakening. Change happens slowly slowly. If you start becoming powerful from within, start giving vibrations in food which your husband eats, and even then you can convince your husband to once visit a nearby BK centre. Centre have a divine atmosphere. There ask a sister to explain the 7 days course to both of you. You do not have to fear. You are a Shivshakti. You are very powerful. Unless you do a sin, you do not need to fear. Become viceless. Devi is worshipped in temples because of Purity. Advice: Practice 'Swamaan' - this is making the mind powerful. For this, Soul consciousness is the first step. ''I AM A SOUL''. This 'consciousness' is neeeded. Vidhi (method): Wake up early in morning (5 am) and sit in silence and imagine yourself as a tiny pont of light (image is attached). Then listen these commentaries: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=2 Guided RajYoga (music + commentaries): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary You yourself will experience. Do let us know your experience in few days. Our Email Response 2 Divine Brother/Sister Here is the further guidance. As advice was given to learn Raja Yoga meditation and then practice Swamaan for 7 days daily morning. Hope this you have done. Now guided commentaries are also given here: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary This is a guide to how to learn raja yog. As you told, family condition is improved. As adviced, please wake up ealry and give Sakaash to your husband and mother in law. They both need the powers to heal their wound. You have to first become powerful. Where does power stay? Power stay in mind and intellect. KEEP YOUR MIND PURE and intellect lean and focused. Think positive or atleast don't think negative of anything. If something happens, just withdraw yourself and sit for meditation for 5 to 10 minutes. OK? 2. As now your spiritual stage is better, now start listening Murli . First know what murli is: What is Murli of Shiv baba?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/what-is-murli Listen Murli daily in mp3 on this website: babamurli.com OR download apps for Murli: https://play.google.com/store/apps/developer?id=Shiv%20Baba%20Brahma%20Kumaris 3. As you now know What is Murli that we study daily and start listen murli, you will get direct sustenance (paalna) from Parampita Paramatma (Shiv baba). How to listen murli? Answer: I am a Godly student and God, who is my beloved father has come in this time to teach us the TRUE knowledge. - Sit with this consciousness. Waiting for your progress. Accha Namaste 00

Tips to catch Baba's directions. Improving the Yog and clarity of knowledge (Gyan). How to keep the mind and intellect clear? Original Question asked by Sumita ji in Nov 2018 Om shanti... please suggest me how to catch clearly baba's direction. Guide me about how to keep the line clear of intellect at the time of meditation. I succed only one time ... and got baba's direction , but now i am unsuccessful. I remain silent to get his directions but after that it is not happening successfully . Can you also suggest me that after asking a question in how much baba reply's? Please guide me... Our Email Response To: Sumita ji & Everyone reading this Your letter is received and read. You wish to know How to catch baba's directions (prerna) with a clear intellect (buddhi).. There are many ways one can develop a clear intellect. But this clarity in mind needs to be divine. Only a divine intellect can get clear information from God. How intellect can become Divine? Answer: 1. Knowledge - Baba himself is teaching us now. This is the ''spiritual'' knowledge for the spirit (soul). Through this knowledge, the light of soul is emerged. Intellect stops wandering and become stable . Understood? So listen/study Murli everyday: babamurli.com 2. Yog - As there is knowledge in intellect, the Yog (with Shiv baba) becomes natural and loving. 'Yog is the source of everything of life.' Yog stables the mind and hence it is said - Yog is talking with God. You want to get inspiration from Shiv baba. Know that Shiv baba gives inspiration for Purusharth and for world Service to those souls who are following the shrimat and have a divine intellect (soul conscious). More to this, a divine intellect is a gift of God. Opposite to this is material intellect - this on this. Accha Soul Talk episodes (for clarification of Murli): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/soul-talk Need anything? Explore the Sitemap: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/sitemap OR Search on BK Google: www.bkgoogle.com (A personal divine search engine for BKs) In God Fatherly World Service 00

Can we control our mind? How to control the negative thoughts? How to develop mind for our success? Sometimes thoughts come beyond control. So what is the best way to bring peace and stablity in life? - Such questions may also come in your mind. Many ask for the solution. Hence here is our detailed explanation, answer and guidance with a shared personal experience. Email Response (Answer+Guidance) From: Prajapita Brahma Kumaris Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhalay (Godly Spiritual University) To: Everyone reading Om Shanti, To begin with I would like to add my personal view cum experience that our mind is a great magical gift imparted to us by Creator. It has tremendous power to materialize our wish like an Alladin lamp or Kamdhenu cow mentioned in our Scriptures . Since it is a store house of thoughts it works what type of thoughts we feed and accordingly it creates our destiny. Hence, it is rightly said Our destiny is what our thought make or As we think so we become. You have rightly identified that it is due to old sanskars. Sanskars are formed out of habit and habit is formed out of repetitive thoughts and actions. Once the habit is created either good or bad, it is difficult to break. Now, since your are Baba’s Child you must be very well aware of the hard sanskars formed due to vikarmas perfomed in our last 63 births from Dwarpar yuga to Kaliyuga. Now, the only way to stop these negative sanskars which you have mentioned is to change it to positive or elevated sanskars. But remember, it need not to be suppressed but transformed. Just as a pot of muddy water is replaced with the clean water if the tap water is continuously flowing, the old muddy thoughts of our pot which is brain will get replaced if we go on pouring positive and elevated thoughts . For BK’s Baba has given us beautiful Swaman practice and 5 Swarup abhyas. If we practice it regularly and sincerely, I am sure it will benefit you after tirelessly continuing it for minimum 3 months. Any thing if practiced for 3 months gets absorbed in our blood and becomes an habit. I had a similar problem before coming in Gyan as my mind was beyond control. At that time I tried to channelize my thought energies in reading spiritual books and making notes of it. Then after coming to Gyan I started churning murlis and writing it segregating it topic wise. After Baba gave the practice of 5 swaroop, I have been religiously practising it which has really helped to bring mind under control and keep it calm in any adverse situation. Recently, Baba had made me to prepare a project on 10 different methods to practice 5 forms which you can get from the link. It is really very effective and beneficial. It will try to put a break on the thoughts and try to bring you mind on 5 various forms. Besides traffic control practice is also very effective which I follow regularly. Lastly, one must not stop mediation with a fear of thinking negative. We must face it through our will power. Once our positive thoughts and aura increases these will go on subsiding. Besides, we have baba’s shakti and support in addition. So be positive and hopeful. If you are hopeful and do not loose your zeal and enthusiasm ( Umang & Utsah ), half the battle is won and with the practice and faith on baba I am sure you will won the battle in few months only. --- Useful Links --- Can you control Mind?: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjG9776Njj4 How to control mind?: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GZNnEKJCTb4 5 Forms of Soul: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/10-methods-for-practicing-5-forms-of-Soul-Panch-Swaroop Atma ke 5 Swaroop: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/5-swaroop-abhyas-avyakt-bapdada-hindi Search anything on BK Google: www.bkgoogle.com (A divine search engine for BKs) In Godly World Service 00

Email received from a new child of baba. They are trying for self transformation and regular in study of Murli. On Purusharth, here is our point wise advice (guidance) on what effort you can make to make Self transformation easy. If you liked, do SHARE to other souls :) Original Email Received. My Purusharth is a bit slow right now but a lot has changed after i entered in gyan. It changed my whole conciousness from being a body to being a soul. It taught me and made me realise the real meaning of love. It also made experience the close bonding with the supreme wich is the ultimate solutions of all the problem.can you suggest me some ways to elevate my stageto next level. Our Email Response Point wise guidance You asked for Purusharth that will improve your stage ... here it is: 1. First Purusharth - Panch Swaroop In Sakaar Murlis also, Shiv baba has directed us to practice the 5 forms of Soul (panch swaroop abhyaas). In Avyakt Murlis, baba special pointed out the benefit of these mind exercise (panch swaroop abhyas) * Resources (save given links to visit daily) Audio - Avyakt drills - http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Bapdada%20Dwara%20Karayi%20Gayi%20Drills.htm Video - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d4UKNoa2ARQ Article (5 forms of Soul): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/10-methods-for-practicing-5-forms-of-Soul-Panch-Swaroop 2 - Second Purusharth - Swamaan Swamaan Abhyaas - Daily wake up early in morning and listen these swamaan commentaries. You may also listen whenver get time - afternoon, evening and also before sleep Swamaan Playlist - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 3 - Third Purusharth - Traffic control During the day, whenever you get time, sit for 5 minutes and focus your mind. A short meditation. A reminder that ''I am a Peaceful, Pure and Powerful Soul''. This will keep the soul charged during the day and whatever you will do, success will follow, whether it is service, self puruharth or other responsibility. 4 - Amritvela Meditation (Jwala-Mukhi Yog) When you wake up and sit for Amritvela time (4am) meditation, sit in Soul conscious stage. Forget other things. Then come and experience a loving relationship with Shiv baba. Brnig alive your spiritual stage. Experience peace, love, purity and powers coming into you from that Supreme soul (Shiv baba) * RajYoga meditation guided commentaries: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary ** Special Gift ** Best selected videos - YouTube Playlist - https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9QW4z9EuG-9PXNEpnyVyd8Hb2Tg9TYq- & Mobile apps (android) - http://bit.ly/BkAndroidApps Do save all given links on this email. It is useful for your journey. Need anything else? Search on our 'search engine' - BK Google - www.bkgoogle.com Accha namaste In Godly World Service 00

After the 7 days course, many would have questions in mind about - Has God really come? Is Godfather the speaker of these Murlis? and How to connect to him through RajYog... Original Questions came via Email I came to BK very recently i.e January 2019 (took the 7 days Rajyoga course).  Before that, I used to watch Sister Shivani's lectures and I got motivated to gain further knowledge and learn meditation. Both me and my husband have done the course during that time period. However, before that I was associated with a different spiritual organisation. Some of the knowledge though same like BKs, some of them were different and they also used to claim all the knowledge was from God. After listening to the lectures of BK Sister Shivani, my life got a spin. I felt her teachings made sense, and even before doing the meditation course, I implemented the points and it changed my pattern of thinking and now I am trying to get rid of depression completely. But when it comes to the authenticity of knowledge that Paramatma is teaching through Murli and all, my mind is unable to accept. Though I know that Sister Shivani's lectures are also extracted from Murli itself, but when I read them separately, I get doubtful. Hence, you might understand my dilemma and that is the point where my faith becomes shaky. I think because of that, I am not able to get proper experience in meditation as my intellect gets blocked. My intellect says if God is only one, then why the knowledge varies from organisations to organisations! Paramatma should guide all organisations equally and knowledge should be identical.  If you could suggest me some points to get out of this dilemma and the ways to experience Paramatma's love and power, it will be very helpful for me. Also, how to check if the guidance I get from meditation is truly Paramatma's or it's just an illusion! Om Shanti Our Email Response /Answer To: Everyone who wants the answer From: On behalf of Shiv Baba (our Spiritual Father) Dear Kumari/Kumar You have asked that is ParamAtma (God) is one and is working for world transformation through many means (including Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidhyalay) then all knowledge should be similar. We are delighted to tell you that yes Shiv baba is or has done impact to world through many means (souls) God comes to give his inheritance (of Satyug/golden age) to his children. For this Shiv baba has to create children. To create means to re-emerge the original virtues in the souls. Knowledge is the source of all virtues. Hence this Godly knowledge is given through the mouth of Prajapita Brahma (read on page: What is Murli) or page: History of Yagya The world is with differences of opinion. Every religion sees God differently. Hence to do good to them, God has to reveal himself in such different forms. For some God has to reveal as a Father (loving) and for some God has to reveal as a teacher (knowledgeful) and for some as a friend. For example, for us children, God is our father (loving and caring) and also is a teacher (gives knowledge) THINK If all points to the same then what is the real purpose of them? If someone copy and follows the same wisdom as served at PBKIVV (BKWSU) then they won't be able to establish their unique identity. You can think like this - those who take knowledge from Shiv baba but does not join the Gyan Yagya are of another religion (Islam, Buddhism, Christian, etc.). Those souls are not a part of the divine Brahman family and thus they go and create their own group. This is very subtle to understand and it gives immense spiritual joy to know all this picture happening now. World is very big and you cannot know everything happening right now. So have faith in Shiv Baba. Follow the Shrimat and love everyone. Even if someone decides to follow other's wisdom, he is actually following God's knowledge but indirectly. It is definitely Baba's shrimat to take this Gyan directly through Murli. Refer: Revelations from Murli -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/revelations Hope this clears your doubts. After this, our Video Gallery will guide you ahead. Do visit. * Soul talk (advance): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/soul-talk (Gyan clarification audio series) Save all links given on this email on your phone. namaste On Godfatherly Service 00

Q: Last so fast kaise jaye? Koun From: On behalf of Godfather (Shiv baba) Divine Soul Last so fast jaane liye - accurate Shrimat par chalo. Bahut Atmae ab aati hai unka part abhi ke samay me ''vishesh'' hai. Chahe vo mansa ho, Karmana ho ya ho vacha (awaaz dwara). To aise shresth bane hue ko phir sewa' ki field milegi. Aap aisi hi ek vishesh last so fast wali atma ho na..? ''So how knowledge leads to purity and purity leads to peace and peace leads to happiness and bliss.'' Jaise murli me kaha hai - ''Ab tumhe dahi (makhan/butter) mil raha hai - arthat bana banaya hua bhojan sirf khana hai.'' Is benefit ke saath maya bhi abhi kam nahi. Full force me hai na. England is next to Bharat. Ek chote se England ne kitna bada rajya kiya.. Bharat ke baad England me hi bada 'center' hai. Yeh kyuki England se bahut sewa honi hai. Abhi plot (base/adhar ban raha hai, phir iske par building banegi. Aapko jo RESOURCES section send kiya hai, vo ek bahut badi chiz hai. Audio services hai. Selected classes, Sakar aur Avyakt murliya, aur bahut kuch. Daily use kare. Koi bhi WhatsApp group join karne liye, visit kare -> https://www.bkgoogle.com/whatsapp-group Another gift -> Revelations from Murli (advance): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/revelations ________________ Email 2 -------------------- ''I have a question to ask- I saw briefly baapdada milan dates for 2019-20 season and for Rajasthan zone it is perhaps 15 December. I just wondered, to whom to contact to go to madhuban and serve there for Rajasthan zone. Actually I am from Jaipur and I did course from Jaipur Vaishali Nagar Center (Sushma didi and Chandrakala didi are main centre incharge and Divya did taught me 7 days course). I did my course in 2018 January. Since then I have been listening murli and doing morning and evening meditation  and following guidance given in shreetmat. Should I be contacting my centre first or ??? I go to Jaipur once in a year during Christmas break so wondered if I could take advantage and do some service at madhuban during Rajasthan zone service turn.'' Our Email Response 2 Q: How to join in turn for Avyakt milan (Baba milan) in madhuban? To join this zone, you have to be a regular student from a regional centre or as you said - would have taken the 7 days course from there. You will need a permission letter from the sister in charge at that centre. They know and will guide you ahead also. To know more about this, visit https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/Mount-Abu-Madhuban-Accommodation (Guidelines) One can stay for 5 days during this milan. Sewa of your choice you can do... It is shrimat for this time not to be attracted to any comforts. Shrimat is to live in loukik and stay in Yogyukt stage, do both loukik and aloukik service. Keep a balance. Balance will bring ''blessings'' of baba. So even if you go to madhuban, do keep in mind that boost in Purusharth is the reason of this visit. Madhuban is a place of blessings for those souls who are really surrendered. To forget everything and remember the truth - Shiv baba and our New world (Satyug) Revelations on New world - https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/revelations-of-coming-new-world-golden-age-by-bapdada You should have an aim for anything you do. Now that baba is calling you to madhuban, remember that you have nothing to do with outward pleasures of eyes or beautiful gardens and comforts - you are going to visit Baba's home for blessings and a boost in Purusharth. This is a sign of great soul - that always keep focus on the aim. (like Arjun) * These articles will help much in Purusharth -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/articles Also, have you got the mobile apps: http://bit.ly/BkAndroidApps Our Email Response 3 How is dadi Gulzar ji's health now? Answer: It would be good. Now Baba's Avyakt part has also ended. So there is better time coming... how can people who are not in gyaan abroad watch 'God of gods' Brhamakumari movie? Answer: I am not aware of this. However if you contact your nearby BK RajYog centre, they can arrange a CD of this movie which you can watch at home. * ADVICE for You * You may also listen original clips from Avyakt Murlis here -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/avyakt-bapdada-murli and Original Sakar Murli - https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/sakar-murli-bapdada-madhuban Also, to understand the Gyan accurately, do listen a personal audio series - ''Soul Talk'' -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/soul-talk On Godly Service 00

If you are a doctor and wish to serve through our Global Hospital of Mount Abu, here are the guidelines to get connected and begin the journey. First to take the 7 day course and then how to proceed ahead and using RajYoga meditation to heal body, mind and the soul. Original Email Received I am a Doctor and want to serve the people through your medium. Please let me know how I need to approach you & what will be the procedure. Our Email Response + Guidance Divine Brother, I am happy to introduce you to the diverse service done by the Brahma Kumaris in the medical science impacting millions of lives in a better way. From the free nursing services for poor at the Global hospital to Research work bridging science & spirituality, a bouquet of opportunities are present. You can register for membership with the medical wing of Brahma Kumaris. ★ Medical Wing website -> https://www.bkmedicalwing.org/ You can - - attend medical seminars and tours at Mt. Abu conducted by the medical wing. - volunteer at de-addiction awareness programs - volunteer at research work and tv shows. - contact senior BK doctors: Bk Dr Sachin, Bk Dr Satish Gupta, Bk Dr Girish Patel, Bk Dr Shreemant Kumar and connect to their projects. You can contact above named persons via your nearby BK RajYog centre. They will guide you. But first, you must take the basic spiritual course - the 7 days RajYog course for deeper understanding of spiritual identity (Who am I) and know the Supreme being (god) and our relationship with him. With this, you will also learn How to heal our body's health using RajYoga meditation. ❀ Here is a video commentary for Healing meditation -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fgChzlOt3XI (by BK Shivani) ❀ (video) 7 rays Healing RajYog meditation (English): https://youtu.be/3xJFqdal8p8?t=26 Use 'Centre locator' to find your nearby BK centre - https://www.brahmakumaris.com/centers/ (India only) Need anything else? Contact again or use BK Google -> www.bkgoogle.com (our 'search engine') for more information and resources On Godly Service Signature : On Godfatherly (Godly) Service to the World Souls BKGU (BrahmaKumaris Godly University) www.bkgsu.com Mount Abu, Rajasthan, India 00

Some relationships face high conflicts due to past Karmic accounts with each other. God's Knowledge & Yog (connection with Him) has the power to fix any sort of conflict & create a miracle. It needs just one to think, act & behave the right way! From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidhylay (Godly University) To:  Everyone reading this Original Message Received Om Shanti, I am writing this letter to Baba in an absolute urgency, as I have faith in Baba that my question will get answered and hope is there. So my story in this world drama is, I am a married man since the last 5 years and have been introduced to this Gyan by my parents and I been following this path with full dedication since then. Actually I stared "living" after that only. Now that I am trying to fully follow Baba's shrimat by practicing soul consciousness and trying to bring purity and celibacy in my life. But my life partner is having issues with that. And we are having some serious arguments because of this otherwise before that our relationship was very good. Now it's on the verge of break up. I am not able to think how to handle this. I have a 4 year old daughter. Please guide me. Om Shanti... ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- "We at Prajapati Brahma kumaris daily do collective Yog/meditation for the world souls & send to them vibrations of peace, purity, love, and power. Let good happen to all" Our Email Response + Guidance Good Morning Baba's lovely child, Sorry for the delay in responding. We hope you are doing better in progress with time. Your part in this drama is unique and very special! Before swarg (the Golden Age) arrives in this world, it has to arrive in your world i.e. in your household. It is certain. As you shared your script (story) in this drama, your wife is just becoming an instrument to help you emerge your divinity i.e. your virtues & powers! The virtue of determination that your victory is definite, so remain unshakable; your virtue of patience that you remain detached & watch the drama bring its wonderful side; your power of acceptance that you accept your wife's role as-is, your power to face every single scene keeping the original divine nature of yours & of your wife in your intellect. 1. Check yourself that you're accepting your wife as she is, i.e. not a single thought should be there in your mind questioning Why she's doing like this/that. Loving her unconditionally is your true nature. 2. Parallelly, keep her eternal 'complete form' in your mind. Dear child, you know well that originally your wife too is completely pure & loveful (she unconditionally loves you). Practice churning this reality as much as you can. The divine perspective that you'll carry about her will radiate higher frequency energy to her, which will heal her & your relationship. The current nature/behavior of that soul is temporary (and not original, not 'real'), and the problems arrived in the relationship are due to the past karmic account which is settling down. The more you bless the soul and your relationship, the sooner Heavenly time will blossom in your house. Do not create thoughts according to what it is at present, create what you want to happen. What we think manifests in reality. Pay gentle attention to your thoughts, & whenever you find yourself uncertain about your relationship or fearing - PAUSE - CHECK - CHANGE the thought to a positive one. (Find links to some helpful videos at the end of the email: Settling Karmic Account, Creating Your Miracle, Energizing Your Home etc) Dedicate half an hour early in the morning to connect with Baba & togetherly (with Him) create beautiful thoughts about your relationship. Energize the food and water with beautiful, elevated thoughts & then serve it to your family. Before you sleep, visualize your home transformed into Heaven, become worry-free & be certain about your victory! Since your parents also have received Baba's knowledge, they too can be part of this holy transformation. The power of thoughts (sakaash) can create miracles! Your relationship is as pure and as strong as that of Laxmi & Narayana... Both of you're God's divine creation... Both of you love each other unconditionally, accept each other as-are... There's absolute peace, love, harmony, comfort, and bliss that flows through in your relationship... All the past karmic energies have settled down. From today, from this moment, there's only & only divine powerful energy exchange between you two... God Himself is present to serve you both day & night... His love and powers are transforming your relationship... Your relationship is being transformed... It is transformed! His healing energy is falling on the bond of you two, and it's making it strong, unbreakable, completely proof... Your relationship is absolutely perfect and protected under Baba's shelter... This relationship is certainly a practical example of a divine couple... Many Congratulations on your victory! * Useful Videos * 1.  Energize Your Home ("Mera ghar swarg hai...") - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=py-ACRfUYAg&list=WL&index=30&t=0s 2.  Fill Your Home With the Highest's Energy - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ap4TvzO1lNw 3.  Create Your Miracle - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g62Dq4jXB3g&t=466s 4.  It Needs Just One Person to Fix Any Conflict  -  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-aHoCJ-PGWI 5.  Meditation for Karma Cleanse -  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h2v2REr8O4M&t=307s 6.  Energize Your Food - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5SIpVdKaCPw&t=19s 7.  Energize Your Water - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a_OySuuXTlg ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Here is our Further advice -> You should do 'Swamaan Abhyas' Swamaan = Self true respect of the soul which is Peaceful, Pure, Loveful and Powerful. HOW TO DO? Early morning - wake up around 5:00 am and focus your mind and listen to these commentaries -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 (FULL Playlist) While you listen to these guided commentaries above, you should focus the attention to the middle of the forehead, where me THE SOUL reside. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- On Godfatherly (Godly) World Service www.bkgsu.com (The Shiv Baba Service Initiative) oo

Most of the times, our belief system directs us to understand Relationships by labels, making us Role conscious. Spirituality explains to go by Soul Consciousness, making it easier to have mutual respect and regard for people as they are, a Human BEING. Here is our advise to a brother who wishes to develop a pure Brother-Sister relationship and get rid of the negative thoughts/feelings he gets throughout the day. Original Message/Email Received in Nov 2020 I am having sisterly feelings with one of my female colleagues. I do imagine her face while affirming to our Brother Sister relationship. But I am facing a problem of the insecurity of losing her. While affirming I visualize about us having a pure Brother Sister relationship. But the rest of the day I get negative feelings about her and the relationship. Will having negative feelings impact my affirmation. How to get away with this negative feeling and continue with the positive feeling of the brother sister relationship and make the relationship happen. Please help me to get rid of the negative feeling of losing the person. Email Response + Guidance Divine Brother We believe that you are a beautiful pure soul who is little struggling with emotions and maintaining a 'control' over the thoughts inspired by soul (& created by the mind) Yes. As written, our thoughts are inspired by the nature of the soul (the self/being). The soul whose very nature is beautiful, will definitely inspire beautiful thoughts. Mind is only our 'medium'. Now coming to a specific scene - you have a sisterly feeling with someone who works with you. This suggests that you 'definitely' had a relationship (probably a Sibling-Sibling relationship) with that soul in one of your previous lives. That is the reason why you immediately catch that vibrations and thoughts come immediately when you see a person. Isn't it? For example, if you had a bitter relationship with someone in your previous life, then when you meet that soul in even this birth, you will FEEL that vibrations and that can make you feel uneasy in his/her company. This same is true for a soul with whom you had a 'beautiful' relationship. ✤ SOLUTION ✤ How To Control thoughts? Well. The most you CAN do is to "be conscious" of what thoughts are being created by your mind. When you become "conscious" you simply "command" your mind to think right. Here ➜ These videos will help ➜ 1. Put A Full Stop to Your Thoughts: Awakening episode 2. How to Finish Negative Thoughts: Awakening episode 3. ONE Way to Finish Negative Thoughts: Special Talk (PLEASE WATCH ALL GIVEN VIDEOS to benefit yourself with the wisdom in general shared by Sister Shivani) After this, we invite you to go & visit the ★ Welcome Letter for You ★ On Godly World Service Shiv Baba Service Team BKGSU

Question was asked via email by uknown on 26 July 2018 about 'in Gyaan since 5 years.. family life.. how to best handle husband, relatives according to shrimat? Original Question: Om Shanti I can been in Gyan since last 10 months and tfollowing Baba's srimat as much as I can. Sometimes I face some difficulties while dealing with my family members, friends or relatives. I have been trying to change my old pattern of living. I'm no more liking noise and crowded areas. I don't like to talk too long over telephone which I used to do before I was in Gyan.  Hence my query is if my friends or relatives calls over phone, they keep on talking. I know they love me and want to share their feelings. But I feel depleted after talking too much. I want to withdraw from this in a gentle way by not hurting anyone.  2nd query is that I feel that my decision making power has been improved and I can choose what is best for me. Sometimes pressure from esp my husband comes to take such a path that is not right. My instinct says no. When there is direct dealing Ivan handle very well. But when he interferes in my work it becomes difficult to say him no Icant do this esp when the matter is against my values.(to be more clear some govt official want to do some illigal works relating to money. I've applied for an NGO registration 5 yrs back. They didn't process. I changed the path bcos I didn't want to go against my value). Now I'm very happy with my profession n career. Raj yog meditation has made everything easy. ) Now my husband putting his efforts to do the registration getting done. Govt is demanding some false documents which I don't want to give. For this reason there has been conflicts between my husband n me. How to handle? Please give some guidance. Om Shanti. . Our Answer: To: unknown spiritual warrior Dear Brahma Kumari/Kumar 1. Your letter is received and read. Your first question was on feeling depleted after long talk. It is a normal happening. If one observes this, then he would not talk what is not important. Most of us talks too much and that what is not of importance. That is the reason of feeling body conscious, due to which we feel depleted. In the Gyaan Murli only, Baba has given an answer of all the questions. If you listen the murli daily, you will know.  The solution of this is quite simple. It is not that you should not talk at all. But you should best avoid the useless talking. But what is somehow necessary, you should definitely talk. For example, about health, your day, etc.  If you will remain in Yog , this all will happen smoothly. You will receive much energy and your stage will remain stable. For this reason, baba says: ''Talk only about the Gyaan.'' You will experience yourself whenever you talk about Murli, think about shiv baba.. you automatically reach somewhere else. You will feel this.  2. Baba will be smiling to hear some children are very happy after coming in gyaan . Baba knows that good children are everywhere. They are doing the service of making the world pure in whatever they can do. You can do more service. Purity of a soul will greatly help in World Transformation . This is eplained by baba in murlis. Purity of thoughts words and action will grealty help in service. Nothing you need to do. Just remain alert . Follow the shrimat. Daily listen murli. Raja Yog made you powerful soul. When you become powerful, you can face all challenges. You can never do anything against the spiritual law. You are a direct child of GOD himself. You do not need to worry about anything. No one can trouble you if you folw the shrimat. There is a great secret in this. If a soul completely folow the shrimat given by Shiv, no matter what situation come, nothing can influence. Everything will be solved automatically. There is so much power and secrets in Gyaan. You can live with your husband but with detachment. Take care of everyone. Fulfil your duty. Become pure. Develop virtues within yourself. This is shrimat. There are 7 virtues: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/7-virtues-of-soul and 8 powers: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/8-powers-of-soul Do explore. Your mind is your child. Whatever you teach, you are shaping. You are the king of the kingdom. This body is your kingdom. This body is also a temple. Your are the deity. We are becoming worship worthy. Gyaan ka Vichar manthan karna chahiye. Bahut khush hongi.. Mobile apps: https://play.google.com/store/apps/developer?id=Shiv+Baba+Brahma+Kumaris Search anything: bkgoogle.com Accha Namaste 00

Dear friends, here is our response on asked question via email. How to face the opposition and decide the right path and make a correct decision? This will discuss the Power to Decide (judge) and Power to Face. So let's begin Original Question: Om shaanti baba I want to ask a question. If I have taken a decision for myself which I think is right for me but other people even any family member is against it, so negative energy will continuously flow towards me. What should I do at that time? Change my decision to make them happy or stick to my own decision? Our Answer: Sweet Divine Sister Your letter was received. You discussed about a decision you made. Family is against. You wish to know the right path . So listen carefully. Yes, if someone thinks something about us, the vibrations will reach us. But you are internally strong, then those vibrations cannot affect you. You the self is much powerful compare to external. For example, big leaders of nation, etc are very famous and hence millions of souls remember them and send them good and both bad vibrations. But it can affect them as per their own spiritual stage. It is very subtle to understand. The stage depend on how we have done in our life. Our karma. If you do good karma and still many thinks negative of you, then you don't worry. Because that vibrations will not impact you as your stage is high. You have done something with a noble intention. It is intention which matters, not the actual deed. Hence for example if you help someone in need with a good intention and then you find out that they are harmed due to your act. This is not a bad action. The karma is resulted according to the intention behind our acts. If intention is pure, the result is good. So the answer to your asked question is: ''If the intention of what you want to do or become is good (noble) then do that. do not care or give attention to other's thinking. In next birth, your relatives will be changed. You shall have new relatives and relations. But the karma you will do in world, will stay with you forever.'' Take each step in care. Walk on the path shown to us by the God, our supreme father, the supreme soul. Path is easy. Gyaan Murli is the guidance. Power to Face: The power to face is the ability to confront and resolve external and internal obstacles, tests and challenges. Now this a power to face everything. This is one step further from Power to tolerate. On one hand we can tolerate the wrong and on other hand we convey the truth that we hold, but in a peaceful way. Also is power to face challenges in life. Be brave and cross the difficulties. This power only comes when there is 'truth' in our words and actions. --- Useful Links (must visit) --- About Us: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us What is Murli: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/what-is-murli Who am I: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/who-am-i-the-soul Get mobile apps: https://play.google.com/store/apps/developer?id=Shiv+Baba+Brahma+Kumaris Accha namaste 00