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Letter email was received in Oct 2018 from Sneha. About: How to overcome jealousy and how to build healthy husband wife relationship? Original Question: Hello sister, I am following you from last 3-4 months. I have practically experienced the change. I had a past. I was betrayed by a person. I created a lot of pain. It has been years now and I am with other person from 3 years who truly loves me. Past experience has changed me, I am suffering from strong insecurity and jealousy whenever it comes about his female friends. It has been the major reason for our fights till now. I try to control each and every situation according to me so that no bad repeats. I get offended for small scenes wherever I feel neglected even if it may not be the reality. I don't want any female friend of his to be close to him. He knows my past and sufferings. He hear me out when I feel low again, but now he decides what he wants and leave it a choice for me to accept. I feel alone when he leaves me to deal with it. Most importantly I am not able to trust him even if I want to. I have created hurt, cried a lot. Sometimes I really feel it would have been better if I was alone. I don't want to be dependent on him emotionally. I want to stay away from him so that I can focus on myself instead of expecting love and attention. I know these are very basics of life but I find it difficult to let go without hurting myself. Can you please help me out to overcome these negative feelings of insecurity and jealousy? Do you think staying away will help? Please guide me a way so that I stop hitting on myself weakening my soul. Waiting for you reply. Our Response (Answer) To: Sneha (and Everyone Reading) From: Prajapita Brahma Kumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay Your letter is received and read. Here is the response. You discussed that you are married since some 3 years, and you feel they love you. Then you also created jealousy and hurt. Then you felt that it was better to be alone. OK. Now the most important is: You have realised that you made a mistake by depending on other soul for love and happiness. We daily study and experience through Raja Yog, that I the soul is peace, is love and is power myself. I AM EVERYTHING THAT I NEED. 1. You will see that peace and love is our identity, our own inner nature. But as time has passed, body consciousnes has come and we forgot ourself as the Soul. Hence we also forgot our own nature. Then we began to search outside. There are 8 powers within Soul: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/8-powers-of-soul and There are 7 virtues of Soul: www.brahma-kumaris.com/7-virtues-of-soul (do visit to read above pages, then come back here) 2. When you experience yourself, then there is NO doubt. Right now you are searching for love, acceptance, etc. These you DO NOT NEED. You just need Self realisation. That is the key to unlimited: Soul - Who am i?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/who-am-i-the-soul ADVICE Practice Raja Yog meditation for only 21 days and see the difference. Learn Raja Yog here: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation Hope you follow all steps as given. Go and read the knowledge, and then learn meditation. You do this for yourself. Just 21 days of sincere surrender to God. Need anything?, just search on www.bkgoogle.com OR email us. Accha namaste 00

A question was asked by 'unknown' on our website's chat service box on 8 Oct 2018: 'How to be detached? How can one not be attached to their children or parents? What is meaning of detachment?' Our Response From: Prajapita Brahma Kumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly University) To: Everyone who are reading Now your question is: Attachment and Love There is one thing - attachment to someone. Second is love. They are not same. When there is attachment, there is feeling of receiving something from others, getting their love, acceptance, support and time. One will feel as a dependent on them for happiness. Second is love. Love means to give and JUST TO GIVE. Not to accept any returns. Nor a feeling of pain when someone else is in pain. Who is a good doctor? 1. Doctor who feels pains and injury of their patient and become a patient himself. 2. Doctor who heals the pain while remaining stable. Attachment can be with many and even with non-living things. But love can only be with living BEING. That itself clarifies the difference. Love is when two beings find a feeling of being more complete when they both are together. But when separated, they will not feel pain, because they are connected from inside, in their deep feeling and thoughts. This is love and purely a love in which there is no vice or weakness. Hope your doubt is clarified. Essence: 1. Love > A natural feeling of belongingness, to sacrifice for the other, to always support and empower. Love means TO GIVE without expecting any return. 2. Attachment -> A human made feeling of possessiveness for someone (person) or something (a thing), where there is always an uncontrolled fear or happiness, or both. Attachment is when there is expecting of love from others. Understand more on this Awakening episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IPUMUcaBIxE (BK Shivani will explain) Now you are welcome to our website for all service: www.brahma-kumaris.com :) Do save some time for God and self realisation daily and watch this life transforming videos: This is a special gift from your Godfather (Shiv baba): RESOURCES section: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/resources Videos Gallery: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/videos Search anything you want on www.bkgoogle.com (a personal search engine for BKs) Accha Namaste 00

Rajyoga is taught directly by God, the supreme surgeon. This has the power to solve any type of health problems. This is our step by step advice here. Original Email Received My brother(18 years old) is suffering from Schizophrenia. Please explain what my parents should do in this kind of situation. They are turning old and we don’t want them and my brother to suffer. Our Email Response + Guidance To: Nikita arora  From: Prajapita Brahma Kumaris Ishwariya Vishwavidhalaya Dear Divine Sister, Your love and concern for your brother shows you are a kind-hearted person. What he is facing today is the result of his past karma. Our past bad karma are destined to result into Bad outcomes.. While reading your email, it was easy to make out the reason.. It is the rule of nature 'as you sow, so shall you reap'. As a family member is can be difficult to see him in such a condition. Be compassionate towards him but you must remain detached in order to help him better. Through Rajyoga, as taught by God, we can solve this issue. 1. Whatever BK Shivani teaches are the direct versions of God. So it is most recommended for your whole family (including your brother) to attend 7 days Rajyoga course at your nearest center and connect to God, the supreme surgeon. Center finder-> https://www.brahmakumaris.com/centers/ (India) Facility of online course is also available. 2. You said you all are giving him good vibes but no improvement is seen. This is because alone good vibes are not enough. To send REAL good vibes it is important to create an environment of purity around.. God told that Purity is the highest virtue - Purity of food- Satvik bhojan (vegetarian diet excluding tamsik vegetables onion and garlic) + Offer this food to GOD (Bhog) purity of water- charge water (most recommended, magical results) Purity of Body- bk suraj bhai class + bk shivani behn class Refer to our Article on Yogi Diet -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/Yogi-Diet-and-Brahma-Bhojan3. Take good vibration to next level, i.e give sakash. You can wake up early in the morning and give sakash to him to heal from this disease-> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5C4_a03BSSM.  Commentary to give sakash -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-6dahIHAK_o 4. Take Help from the hospital of Brahma Kumaris at headquarters. There are many surrendered doctors in Yagya who has given their lives for service. Two such names are BK Dr. Sachin Bhai and Dr Satish Gupta. They will treat your brother through both medical + Rajyoga. Contact the hospital here-> http://www.ghrc-abu.com/ 5. Swaman meaning self respect through soul consiousness. This practice has helped many to come out of worse situations. Make your brother and parents do this.  Guided Commentaries to listen daily ->  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 6. Don't skip on medical treatment. Gyan Yog is 70% and medical treatment is 30% ~~ USEFUL LINKS ~~   Karma Philosophy - Law of Karma Healing disease Healing though rajyoga and swaman Improving Health Guidance on solving health problems Do follow all guidance and contact again to ask more On Godly World Service 00

This is advise given to solve various problems arising between family after marriages.. Original Email Received Gud eve  I m 9 month married girl myself komal.my husband is in defence force.i m living with his family . In our family there is only my husband who is the source of proper income. My father in law nd brother in law also doing jobs but overall family depends on my husband. On our marriage my husband took loan and now he is not able to afford to pay for whole family.because its financial crisis.       This issue is disturbing my life.they put blame on me for this. That i m refusing to give money at home.they neglected me.their behaviour towards me was not good. For their comfort i left my job nd served at home.but they dont care.my husband said they are my parents i dnt do anything.now i m 4 month pregnant nd i m living with my own parents.      Kindly give me solutions  Our Email Response + Guidance To:  Komal Satish ji and Everyone reading this From: Prajapati Brahma kumaris Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalaya (Godly Spiritual University) Dear Divine Brother/ Sister, Your email is received and thoroughly read. Here is our suggested solution to your problem. Omshanti,  For in-laws and husband- It seems a lot of misunderstandings have arisen between you and your in-laws. If possible then you and your family should verbally try to sort out. And at the thought level, you must be positive. Don't create negative thought or don't send the negative energy and vibes to your in-laws and husband..  Try this- Consider yourself and themselves as Souls, a point of light . Close your eyes and send them good wishes.. Keep God (incorporeal God Shiva, sweetly called as Shivbaba) with you. And tell him everything you want to. Keep giving them water of healing vibrations.. This will help you clear your Bad Karmic Debts with your in-laws. Watch this video : 1. . Faith in God (Bk Suraj bhai): https://youtu.be/Xc9dyb7rK4E 2. Settle Karmic Accounts (Bk Shivani) https://youtu.be/SPY1-biTzhs For financial matters-  To overcome financial problem then you should join back your job, if possible and help your family.. If this is not possible then do 21 days yog bhatti (https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/why-21-days-yog-bhatti ).. but before 21 day bhatti, you must attend Rajyoga Course at your nearest center or online.. then only you'll be able to do bhatti. For unborn child- You are carrying a soul (child) within you. Not only what you eat affects the child, but your thoughts and the atmosphere at home will have a deep impact on the child. So it is upto you to create positive thoughts and vibrations in the house so that everyone is benefited from that. Practice to be detached to whatever is happening around and make a promise to yourself that whatever happens I will be light and happy (at least for the sake of the child). It might seem difficult, even impossible now, but if you practice Rajyog (connection with god) in small steps regularly, it will help you immensely. ~~ What you need to do ~~ 1. Start practising Rajyog. But before that you need to take 7 days course online from here: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course OR visit your nearest BK Rajyog center (Recommended) 2. Listen to Swaman commentaries early in the morning https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 ~~ Links on Mother Baby care~~ Divine Mother Baby http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Divine%20Mother%20Baby.htm Watch all episodes in this series ''Virtue Baby'' when you get time during the day -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y07fjkn7_LY&list=PLjzCBUU9MVAqd7aYJBEDM0CSx7TdxQvkY ~~ Useful Links ~~ About Us: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Who am I?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/who-am-i-the-soul Hope this helps. Do email and let us know of your progress. Namaste In God Fatherly service 00

Email was written by Zeenat on 14 July 2018 Original Question: Your thoughts and words are life changing. I have learnt so much from you. I’m a conscious thinker now. I’m very grateful to u. I just have a query, the souls we met in this life are the souls we have already connected with ? Why two soul meet and the all of a sudden they get separated ? I had a relationship we both love each other. But my family didn’t want me to get married to him as his social status is very low as compared to us and he understand this. I understand that he can’t convince my parents and I understand his pain we don’t have any wrong emotions for each other only love is there. What to do ? And also the concept of twin flames ? Thank you so much. Lots of love BK Shivani Answers: To: Everyone reading You have learned the Universal Law of KARMA, didn't you? Hence you would know that everything in life happening in present, our decisions taken now, will impact or create our future. This is simple law, known as Karma Ka Siddhanti (law). According to this, you and all other souls you have deep relationship with, would have a relationship also in past lives. Relationships in past life can be anything like of a mother and child. And now you met as a friend or lover. This all is creted by exchange of our thoughts with each other.  Hence God teaches us to remain pure and have a sweet relationship with everyone. Not only with 1 or 2, but with all souls of world - Have great good wishes for all. This is nature of an awakened soul. We are getting the knowledge.  --- Insight --- You said - what to do next? Answer: If your love is pure and not an attraction of body, the imagine that person as your friend, your well wisher, rather than a life partner.  See baba explains you smiply - that this world has reached its lowest stage. No one is considered a noble . This all will end very soon. Why have ANY attachment with anything and anyone ?? Have you understood?  Love each other. Love is permitted. But baba does not permit marriage . Because it is clearly said in Murli by shiv baba that living a pure family life is difficult. Their will certainly be a body attraction. Love also has 3 stage - Satto love, Rajjo love and Tammo.  Satto is pure love - of a soul and soul. But we have forgotten that we are souls.  Rajjo is emotional love - of mind and heart.  Tamo is physical love - impure and which separates them from God Love is essential in life. Why not love God, who is the ocean of love.. --- Useful Links --- KARMA: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/karma Who am I (Soul): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/who-am-i-the-soul About GOD: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/god-the-supreme-soul-shiv-baba About Us: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Well wishes In world service 00

Here is a spiritual understanding and a way to heal a friendship if the relationship bond was broken due to some misunderstanding. Original Email Received Unintentionally, I have hurt my best friend and have betrayed her trust by telling wrong about her to one of his friend (gosipping). I tried a lot to say her sorry in many different ways but still she is not talking to me from last 3 months. I don't want to lose my best friend as she is also my soul sister please help me. Our Email Response To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidhyalay (Godly Unversity) Good morning We hope you would have found a way to heal your friendship. This happens and time heals. A good relationship only means - you share good memories, have good feelings and we have good intentions. If all 3 things are right - then the relationship will stay and last. Such events happens and good vision is that this helps you to better know each other. Anyway, more focus is on having such good relationship with EVERYONE that remains stable even after a conflict... * Watch * What makes a relationship (BkShivani): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v7MUA0N00mM How to understand people?: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjUe_6jFwW0 How to finish conflict -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-aHoCJ-PGWI Also listen - GOD friend -> https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/aaj-ka-purusharth-21022018-god-friend Our Relationship with GOD (article): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/2019/01/14/Our-Relationship-with-God-the-Supreme-Soul If you are happy for this service, we welcome you to come and know ABOUT US -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Namaste On Godly World Service 00