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Nowadays it has become common for students to feel depressed due to failure. This is our guidance on how to overcome such thoughts and come out winning with flying colors. Original Email Received Om shanti Mera naam vimlesh hai. me aap se Apne jiwan related Kuch poochna chati hoon. abhi kuch same se Me bahht udaas hoon. me medical ki student hoon aur abhi Maine apni higher studies ke liye exam Diya tha jo ke clear Nahi hua aur pehle bhi me do Baar kabhi ek marks se shortlist ho ke bhi select Nahi hui. MERI maa ke Saath bhi Mera Kisi Baat ko leke ladayi ho gayi jis vajah se me bahht udaas rehti hoon. kitni Baar to Mera Mann suicide Karne ko bhi Kiya. Aap mujhe batayenge me in sab se kaise niklu. Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly University) Dear divine Sister, "Success and failure are the part and parcels of life." However one should never get demotivated with these hurdles but take failure as a lesson and move ahead. If something is not working out according to your plan then its definitely as per God's plan. Watch this~ solution to student's life 1. Sister, don't get upset or saddened. This way you'll lose two things, first your concentration towards studies and second mental peace. And loss of both can cause even more hurdles in your life. This is the reason of increasing tensions between you and your mother. The more you will keep yourself 'झमेलामुक्त' i.e free from confusions, more you will be effective and efficient in every sphere, be it studies or relationship with your mother. 2. Also causing the thoughts of suicide are the lowest and meanest level of thoughts. Suicide is never a solution to any problem but an accumulation of past life problems to the next one. In next life, this life's issue will be carry forwarded. So there's no Escape. Dealing is the only solution now.. (see point 3 for solution) 3. Your and your mother must Attend 7 days Rajyoga meditation course online or at your nearest center. ~ You must practice Swamans. This will help you transform your thoughts- > http://bit.ly/Swamaan (save the link) * Below are articles for you and your parents to read * Role of Parents during exams: https://bkarticles.blog/2019/02/25/exam-fear-role-of-parents/ Duty of parents and the child: https://bkarticles.blog/2018/12/28/guidance-student-parents/  study with concentration:  https://bkarticles.blog/2019/02/19/guidance-to-overcome-depression-and-focus-on-study/ * EXTRA GUIDANCE * Listen the music & guided meditation commentaries to feel relaxed -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary Nature's relaxing sounds -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/relaxation-music-nature-sounds (listen during study and study with concentration) Watch/listen: suicidal thoughts (bk suraj) - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7J8wF4OLZYpy1yPQN08nzA Watch; improve concentration power - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2wqpq3mVZ64 Follow these into your practical life and share your experience with us. On Godly World Service 00

Question was asked by Raja Kilpakkam (parent) on 27 July 2018 on ''Guidance for a 10th standard student who is unable to progress and is slow in studies.'' Original Question: Dear sister shivani, I have a daughter ( single child) and she is in her 10th std and writing her board exams. both parents are working. she is very slow and unable to cope up with studies. we have tried all our best hard way as well as soft way. nothing seems to be working. we feel that the child has great potential,but is not interested or taking it light. need your guidance and support thanks , looking forward to hear from you Our Answer To: Every parent and Every child or students Your letter is received and read. You are a mother . Your daughter is studying.  You are trying and wish that your daughter passes exams/ Certainly, that is what you or many parents wants.  But you need understanding. Understand that every child is unique. Some are good in somethings that others are not. This is a naturally gift of God. For example, a child is naturally good at arts (drawing) by birth  this is a God's gift . Now if his parents forces him to become a doctor, then how would he? There is a need of everyone in this world. Without 1 soul, the World Drama does not run . Parents are the creator of this physical body, but that the soul is immortal. Soul is the child of the Supreme soul  It is a duty of parents to give a few things to their creation: 1. Give them love and nurture  2. Support and guidance 3. Give freedom and well wishes With these 3 thing only, you can become an ideal parent. Now a child has a duty . 1. To respect and be honest with his parents. 2. To listen and think on what their parents advice 3. Become a valuable and loved child. Do good for the world and bring the name of parents and the family .  4. In return of the sustenance given by parents, you must do something for them. Make them happy and never give sorrow.  Everything is now explained. To make a best decision, one need patience and peace of mind. A good decision should benefit and satisfy everyone.  Make a decision which not only make you happy, but the daughter also. ---- Useful Links ---- Daily Swamaan Pratice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=2 Biography of Great souls: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/biography RajYog course online: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course Accha Namaste 00

Dear brother, I'm confused about everything. As my memory I was keeping myself under fear, doubt,strain always.. I was not sure what to do or not. I was borned as poor and so that feeling guilt about it. I'm artistic in the way am I and working as an art teacher;send out of the job recently!! I want to be a successful artist.. But I'm not confident. The family is depending upon me now.. we don't have money... But baba is keeping me always secured..safe.I can feel it. But I am filled with all the vices rather than virtues. I'm wishing for money from lottery couldn't find any other way and want to pursue the career But feeling always doesn't know anything else.. not so courageous doesn't have the feeling that I am worth for anything especially, for Baba's sewa. Can't do the yoga well and feel my soul stage ..anything.. What to do..I don't want to live like this.. being nothing.. When I heard baba said free from your vaibhav.... everything.... feeling I can't do anything else.. Please help me.. I couldn't do the yoga well.. I'm waiting for the reply

This is advise given to solve various problems arising between family after marriages.. Original Email Received Gud eve  I m 9 month married girl myself komal.my husband is in defence force.i m living with his family . In our family there is only my husband who is the source of proper income. My father in law nd brother in law also doing jobs but overall family depends on my husband. On our marriage my husband took loan and now he is not able to afford to pay for whole family.because its financial crisis.       This issue is disturbing my life.they put blame on me for this. That i m refusing to give money at home.they neglected me.their behaviour towards me was not good. For their comfort i left my job nd served at home.but they dont care.my husband said they are my parents i dnt do anything.now i m 4 month pregnant nd i m living with my own parents.      Kindly give me solutions  Our Email Response + Guidance To:  Komal Satish ji and Everyone reading this From: Prajapati Brahma kumaris Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalaya (Godly Spiritual University) Dear Divine Brother/ Sister, Your email is received and thoroughly read. Here is our suggested solution to your problem. Omshanti,  For in-laws and husband- It seems a lot of misunderstandings have arisen between you and your in-laws. If possible then you and your family should verbally try to sort out. And at the thought level, you must be positive. Don't create negative thought or don't send the negative energy and vibes to your in-laws and husband..  Try this- Consider yourself and themselves as Souls, a point of light . Close your eyes and send them good wishes.. Keep God (incorporeal God Shiva, sweetly called as Shivbaba) with you. And tell him everything you want to. Keep giving them water of healing vibrations.. This will help you clear your Bad Karmic Debts with your in-laws. Watch this video : 1. . Faith in God (Bk Suraj bhai): https://youtu.be/Xc9dyb7rK4E 2. Settle Karmic Accounts (Bk Shivani) https://youtu.be/SPY1-biTzhs For financial matters-  To overcome financial problem then you should join back your job, if possible and help your family.. If this is not possible then do 21 days yog bhatti (https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/why-21-days-yog-bhatti ).. but before 21 day bhatti, you must attend Rajyoga Course at your nearest center or online.. then only you'll be able to do bhatti. For unborn child- You are carrying a soul (child) within you. Not only what you eat affects the child, but your thoughts and the atmosphere at home will have a deep impact on the child. So it is upto you to create positive thoughts and vibrations in the house so that everyone is benefited from that. Practice to be detached to whatever is happening around and make a promise to yourself that whatever happens I will be light and happy (at least for the sake of the child). It might seem difficult, even impossible now, but if you practice Rajyog (connection with god) in small steps regularly, it will help you immensely. ~~ What you need to do ~~ 1. Start practising Rajyog. But before that you need to take 7 days course online from here: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course OR visit your nearest BK Rajyog center (Recommended) 2. Listen to Swaman commentaries early in the morning https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 ~~ Links on Mother Baby care~~ Divine Mother Baby http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Divine%20Mother%20Baby.htm Watch all episodes in this series ''Virtue Baby'' when you get time during the day -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y07fjkn7_LY&list=PLjzCBUU9MVAqd7aYJBEDM0CSx7TdxQvkY ~~ Useful Links ~~ About Us: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Who am I?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/who-am-i-the-soul Hope this helps. Do email and let us know of your progress. Namaste In God Fatherly service 00

A sister writes to us asking if she and her husband should try to have another child - since they already have one child, while they also wrote that they had 2 miscarriages after being pregnant. Since they asked us, we responded with God's message of pure living (celibacy) and guidance on how to sustain their 7-year-old child. Original Message/Email from You I have been married for 11 years and we have a 6.5 year old son. We have been trying for another baby for almost 3 years. We had a miscarriage 2.5 years ago. After much persuasion, my husband agreed to 3 rounds of fertility treatment. We got pregnant in out second round and are miscarrying right now. My husband does not want to try anymore and is telling me to accept it as God's will. I am 37 currently and my husband is 41. My brain wants to agree with him, but my heart still wants to try 1 last time. Please help us to take the best decision. --- "We at Prajapati Brahma Kumaris daily do collective Yog/meditation for the world souls. Let good happen to all" Our Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone Reading This From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly University) Good morning Dear Divine Sister 1. You have contacted us and thus we believe that you must know about us. Please visit this page to learn more. 2. You want our advise whether you should try to have a second baby or not. We ONLY SAY THAT - God himself has commanded us to remain pure for this life. In common words we can call it celibacy or Brahmacharya. This means - one should NOT indulge in physical relationship with ANYONE. Because this LUST is our greatest enemy. It is the root cause of all evil.  You MUST understand this wisdom. See also that 2 miscarriage also mean 2 deaths - so why do you want to go against the will of nature? THUS, please be patient and live a HAPPY life with one child as gifted to you. Give all your love and sustenance. If you follow celibacy for rest of your life, you wills see your spiritual energy growing and making you powerful from within. This pure living re-energize the soul and cleanses the past life sanskaras. ✤ CHILD ✤ You already have a child. So as a parent it is also your duty to make sure he/she gets a good personality and moral values right from the childhood. Parents are everything for a child - a role model, teacher and a friend. Here is a help ✦ Please Watch below given videos to understand the spiritual significance behind right parenting. Give RIGHT vibrations to your CHILD : BK Shivani Change HABITS in children : BK Shivani Develop Personality of your CHILD : BK Shivani Please do follow the videos to get valuable guidance from Sister Shivani. Namaste On Godly World Service The "Shiv Baba Service Team" BKGSU, Madhuban

Question was asked by Madhuri Chauhan on 20 July 2018. Om Shanti. I have a long story to tell so please be patient because i really need your help..My father and mother were following gyan and baba for more than 15 years and we have geetapaathshala in our home. They have two daughters, me and my elder sister. My father wished me and my sister to become brahmakumaris. Though he never forced us to go to ashram or to do anything. He left the decision on us. My sister got married in 2010. In 2016, i told my father that i want to marry a boy and that boy does not belong to our caste. My father was very upset with my decision, still he supported me and advised me to do court marriage. Only I and my parents knew about my marriage and i came to canada after marriage. Our relatives had no idea about my marriage. But my father shared his pain with brahmakumari sister of the ashram which we used to visit. He was very upset at that time but very soon he realised that the boy i married is really a good boy and my father and mother were happy for me. We used to talk daily on phone. Then on 21st may 2018 my parents passed away in a car accident. People who were at that place where accident happened told that it was the truck driver’s fault who came from wrong side and hit my parents car. It took me 24hrs to reach india but by that time their antim yatra had already been done and i could not even see them for the last time. Two days later, the brahmakumari sister from the same ashram came to meet me and in front of all my relatives blamed me for sudden death of my parents. She started shouting at me that because of me my father was depressed. The way that sister was talking to me was like i am responsible for that car accident that took my parents lives. I know initially my parents were upset about my love marriage but now they were really happy with my husband and me. My father himself said to me that initially we felt bad but now we are glad with your decision. I just want to know should i believe my father’s words that he said to me or i should believe that brahmakumari sister. Am i really responsible for my parents death?  Our Answer: To: Madhuri Sweet divine Sister This is a response to your question and also a Godly sandesh (message). First of all, your father was not upset because of the person with whom you married, but because of that  you decided to marry instead of becoming a brahma kumari . Father was in Gyaan and knew that God has directed to us of complete purity . This is our last birth. World is changing. You can see. But Shiv baba has told never to force your children to not to marry. Hence you father made a correct decision. All is good. You were also happy after marriage.  Secondly, the one who can go against the Shrimat given in Murli and perform a wrong action (shout in anger), cannot be called a Brahma Kumari.  No one is called a bk only because they live in center away from their family. No. Instead a BK is one soul who follows the godly advice completely and do purusharth of self upliftment and do world service. One who has left all 5 vices forever (lust,anger,ego,greed,attachment). Only those are BK.  Third: You are not responsible for anyone other than yourself. Forget the past is past. Whatever happens, is for good only. You will soon get the answer - why was it for good. Trust the World Drama. This is a drama . We all are actors. This has happened 5000 years ago and it is just repeating. Nothing New.. So dear Madhuri, live with your family, with husband, but now you do 1 thing. You parents were a true BK and have followed the shrimat. They wished you to take you inheritance from Shiv baba. So will you not fulfil their dream?? You have to take a vow of purity in rest of your life. Living with husband with purity and see each other as a child of same parent (our supreme father, supreme soul) - this is a challenge. Can you take?? Here are guidelines for you: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/how-to-join-bk About Us: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us What is Raja Yog: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation Do visit all above pages . This was a Godly sandesh (message) to you.  *Relief. You are not responsible for anything. You are just an actor. And most important, your parents souls take received the knowledge. Wherever they will go and take their next birth, it will be a very good place. This is for sure. Accha Namase 00