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How can I live a life of a Brahma Kumar while living with my family? How to convince my family that I don't want to marry. This is our guidance on Purity/celibacy or Brahmacharya. A way to live the life as great in the line of Shiv baba's Shrimat. Guidelines for Brahma Kumari or Kumari living with their loukik family Original Email we Received Dear Sir, My Body name is Bhaveesh Kumar. My body is 28 years old, I am working as a computer engineer in a company of Gurugram, I am very fortunate to write this letter, because I am writing a letter where God Himself Come and give knowledge. I have a very complex problem. I believe that the correct answer can be found only from you, so I am writing the letter directly to you. My problem is that I do not want to get married because I want to live my life in the spiritual path in celibacy and I am insisted by family to marry, but I do not want to marry in any condition.Sir My request is to guide me - that I should not even get married and the family is also happy. And also tell me how live a life of a Brahma Kumar Thank you Our Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone reading who have similar question From: On behalf of Shiv baba It is very nice that you are aware and know the greatness of Celibacy / Purity / Brahmcharya in life. Hence you wish to remain a kumar. Is it your strong feeling? The answer is simple and direct - Shiv baba has said - ''You must not have even a little wish to marry.'' To marry, means to invite and challenge Maya (5 vikar). In this great time of Sangam yug, a soul marries with the Supreme soul (Shiv baba). This is called 'Sangam' This is also a Sangam (confluence) of Kaliyug (old world) and Satyug (new world). God comes in this time to re-create the new world. We are his children. Till the end of this email, you shall understand how you can become a Brahma Kumari. So focus and read. Brahma Kumari means a Kumar of Prajapita Brahma, through whom Shiv baba gives us the inheritance of heaven. ''Brahma dwara Satyug ki sthapana'' Shiv baba gives the knowledge (speaks the Murli) through the medium of Brahmababa and adopts us and hence we are called Brahma Kumari or Kumar. Hence, as you follow the shrimat given in murli by Shiv baba, you are a Brahma Kumar. Shrimat is also simple - Purity and RajYog - ''Pavitra bano, RaajYogi bano'' - ''Become pure, Become a RajYogi''. So can you become pure and follow the shrimat while living with family and fulfilling all your duties? It is difficult according to the karma accounts one has with their family. But when we connect our buddhi (intellect) with Shiv baba, this becomes easy. With time, the path to victory will be cleared. This is the best way. The aim of this last Sangam yug birth is to become like a deity (Lakshmi and Narayan) and service to the world - to establish the religion of peace in entire world. How to become a BK - Guidelines: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/how-to-join-bk Celibacy - A way of Life: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/celibacy-is-raja-yoga-way-of-Life About Us: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us If your intention is strong towards Purity, then automatically obstacles will finish and family will also agree that yes purity is the way of life and shrimat of God. You should explain the Gyaan to your family also. Videos: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/videos Need anything? Contact us. Accha namaste In Godly World Service 00

Clarification is given on some points from Gyan Murli on Paramdham, Satyug, Krishna, Yog stage and more. To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) About: Clarification on Murli points 1. Vishnupuri Is the coming new world where the 2 forms of Vishnu (Shri Lakshmi & Shri Narayan) will rule the divine kingdom. Satyug is called Vishnupuri or Swarg (heaven). Puri - means a place. Vishnupuri - a place where Vishnu rules. Paramdham The Soul world. Our original residence is paramdham (Supreme abode) where we souls live before coming in the corporeal world to play our part. Soul is a tiniest point of light or consciousness. Scientifically, the Soul world is zero dimensional. There is no sound, no motions and no time. This is what the seekers (sansayis/sages) call - the Ultimate truth or Nirwana. Paramdham is our supreme home and the permanent residence of the Supreme soul (God). References: Three World and Satyug Golden age 2. Krishna and Radha - Are childhood names of Lakhmi and Narayan. It is explained in Murlis. Krishna is the first child born in the age of Satyug (first child born with the power of Yog). Radha follows. After their marriage, their names changes to Lakshmi and Narayan and they are the King and the Queen of Golden age in Bharat. Their Kingdom is still remembered as the ''Perfect world''. 3. Karma-Ateet Meaning: Ateet (away/above) from the results of our own Karma. One who below aloof (above) of experiencing the result of karma. This is the highest stage of Soul. Closest to the supreme soul - Karmateet sthiti. This stage can only come when the soul is in complete knowledge of Drama and Yog power is at its peak. There is no worldly attraction. In such way the soul joins its intellect with Shiv baba. 4. God is the Father, Teacher and Guide Father: Gives us the inheritance of new world (heaven), loves us and gives sustenance. Teacher: Teach us the knowledge of truth (of Soul, Supreme Soul and World drama) Guide: Takes us back to our the supreme home (home of eternal peace and light - Paramdham /Nirwana) Read Articles -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/articles Revelations from Murli (advance): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/revelations Save above links * Mobile apps * For Android: http://bit.ly/BkAndroidApps For iPhone: http://bit.ly/iPhoneAppsBk Accha namaste On Godfatherly Service 00

It is very important to remain POSITIVE during a setback in life (eg: illness or a disease). While you have to care for your body, also give positive vibrations so that the body is healed quickly. Here is our guidance on this. Do read and SHARE to those who need it. Email received on 31 August 2019: My mom is in cancer. And I am unable to take this setback. All thoughts of sometimes disobeying her as children come to my mind. She is the most purest soul ever. Can't get a hold of myself nor sleep. Our Guided Response We at BK RajYog centres, daily give sakash (vibrations) to all souls of world. ''Let good happen to all'' Dear divine Sister/Brother, You are observing such thoughts as a 'cause'. This is caused by the underlying thought that - 'I am going to lose my mother now'. To love someone means to have only and ONLY POSITIVE thoughts for them. So in love, only think that whatever will happen will happen for our good. This is the best way to live. In fact, even if you think that mother will survive from cancer, you are 'expecting' that to happen. But what if it doesn't happen? All happens for good for the soul. This is the nature of world drama. Also be aware that by giving her POSITIVE vibrations, you are helping in recovery. Do NOT and never create sorrow or negative thoughts. If such thoughts come, counter them with help of a 5 mins setback meditation. ''Your good thoughts have power to do wonders'' Raja Yog meditation has given wings to the souls of world. Through this Yog, we get a mental connection with GOD, our spiritual father, the Supreme soul. Thus receive peace, purity, love and powers from him. Please learn here -> What is Raja Yoga meditation? ----------- Also, we have a TV series called ''Awakening with Brahma Kumaris''. Sit with family to watch. VERY beneficial for your life. Here are ALL episodes -> http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Shivani.htm or Watch on YouTube -> https://www.youtube.com/bkshivani * Useful links for you * Our Videos -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/video Articles in English & Hindi-> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/articles Explore Sitemap -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/sitemap Need anything else? Use BK Google - bkgoogle.com (Our search engine) namaste oo Signature: On Godfatherly (Godly) Service to the World Souls BKGU (BrahmaKumaris Godly University) www.bkgsu.com Mount Abu, Rajasthan, India 00

Dealing with in-LAWS is sometimes difficult because they are new to you. You are new to them. There lacks an understanding or acceptance. There can occur a difference in opinion. Thus here is our advice on How to deal with everyone of your New family with love and patience. Do listen till end. Original Email Received OM SHANTI! I am listening to BK Shivani from long back. I am facing some problem to which I am requesting a solution. I am married (arrange marriage) since 3 years, me and my husband's job is also in chandigarh now from last 1.5 years. My parents and in laws are not sharing a good relationship which is affecting my personal life with my husband and my stress level. My mother in law is having some problem with depression so we have to ask each and everything before doing anything, i.e. we cant do anything of our own. I am not able to think what to do? how to do? How to handle situations tactfully without hurting anybody and without letting do whatever only my mother in law wants. Please provide me solution of this. Many thanks. Our Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) Dear Divine Sister, Your email is received and read. Here is our answer. Become light. You are a light. Soul is a point of light. YOU ARE A SOUL. So let us begin. Your situation is fairly sensitive and it needs you to become very 'sensible' to stablise the life. So if you explain your mother in law about that you need to go to your family, if you can convince them with your extra good behavior and some smile. See this works. If they are sensible and give respect to your thoughts, then there is no reason to stop you. OK? You seem to be in a position which feels like it is suffocating you. As you cannot discuss your situation with anyone, it is the right time to make the real connection with God. He will listen to you and you can share all your problems with him. He hears you and even gives you solution, provided you are ready to listen to it. Meaning that, your mind must be silent, not in turmoil to hear what he has to say. He will start guiding you as to how you should handle this situation at home in the right way. You are carrying a soul (child) within you. Not only what you eat affects the child, but your thoughts and the atmosphere at home will have a deep impact on the child. So it is upto you to create positive thoughts and vibrations in the house so that everyone is benefited from that. Practice to be detached to whatever is happening around and make a promise to yourself that whatever happens I will be light and happy (at least for the sake of the child). It might seem difficult, even impossible now, but if you practice Rajyog (connection with god) in small steps regularly, it will help you immensely. ~~ What you need to do ~~ Start practising Rajyog. But before that you need to take 7 days course online from here: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course OR visit your nearest BK Rajyog center (Recommended) 2. Rajyog guided commentaries + music https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary 3. Listen to Swaman commentaries early in the morning https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 ~~ Links on Mother Baby care~~ Divine Mother Baby http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Divine%20Mother%20Baby.htm Watch all episodes in this series ''Virtue Baby'' when you get time during the day -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y07fjkn7_LY&list=PLjzCBUU9MVAqd7aYJBEDM0CSx7TdxQvkY ~~ Useful Links ~~ About Us: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Who am I?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/who-am-i-the-soul Hope this helps. Do email and let us know of your progress. Namaste In God Fatherly service 00

Nowadays it has become common for students to feel depressed due to failure. This is our guidance on how to overcome such thoughts and come out winning with flying colors. Original Email Received Om shanti Mera naam vimlesh hai. me aap se Apne jiwan related Kuch poochna chati hoon. abhi kuch same se Me bahht udaas hoon. me medical ki student hoon aur abhi Maine apni higher studies ke liye exam Diya tha jo ke clear Nahi hua aur pehle bhi me do Baar kabhi ek marks se shortlist ho ke bhi select Nahi hui. MERI maa ke Saath bhi Mera Kisi Baat ko leke ladayi ho gayi jis vajah se me bahht udaas rehti hoon. kitni Baar to Mera Mann suicide Karne ko bhi Kiya. Aap mujhe batayenge me in sab se kaise niklu. Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly University) Dear divine Sister, "Success and failure are the part and parcels of life." However one should never get demotivated with these hurdles but take failure as a lesson and move ahead. If something is not working out according to your plan then its definitely as per God's plan. Watch this~ solution to student's life 1. Sister, don't get upset or saddened. This way you'll lose two things, first your concentration towards studies and second mental peace. And loss of both can cause even more hurdles in your life. This is the reason of increasing tensions between you and your mother. The more you will keep yourself 'झमेलामुक्त' i.e free from confusions, more you will be effective and efficient in every sphere, be it studies or relationship with your mother. 2. Also causing the thoughts of suicide are the lowest and meanest level of thoughts. Suicide is never a solution to any problem but an accumulation of past life problems to the next one. In next life, this life's issue will be carry forwarded. So there's no Escape. Dealing is the only solution now.. (see point 3 for solution) 3. Your and your mother must Attend 7 days Rajyoga meditation course online or at your nearest center. ~ You must practice Swamans. This will help you transform your thoughts- > http://bit.ly/Swamaan (save the link) * Below are articles for you and your parents to read * Role of Parents during exams: https://bkarticles.blog/2019/02/25/exam-fear-role-of-parents/ Duty of parents and the child: https://bkarticles.blog/2018/12/28/guidance-student-parents/  study with concentration:  https://bkarticles.blog/2019/02/19/guidance-to-overcome-depression-and-focus-on-study/ * EXTRA GUIDANCE * Listen the music & guided meditation commentaries to feel relaxed -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary Nature's relaxing sounds -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/relaxation-music-nature-sounds (listen during study and study with concentration) Watch/listen: suicidal thoughts (bk suraj) - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7J8wF4OLZYpy1yPQN08nzA Watch; improve concentration power - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2wqpq3mVZ64 Follow these into your practical life and share your experience with us. On Godly World Service 00

I am 21 years old and in the last year of my college....... My mother has always complained that my father does not care for her and has total disdain for her; he prefers to be more outside the house than inside the house. But to me, my father has always been quite loving and caring. My mother was waiting for the past 20 years, that once my son is able to stand on his own feet, then I will take a decision. As I will sit for placements this year, and most probably land a job, my mother is losing her patience that she kept for so many years. During the lockdown, I have been home for the past few months and have witnessed fights happening between my parents at an interval of every 4-5 days. These days, even my father does not seem to think about what words he is saying to my mother, in front of me. In midst of all this, I have to prepare for my exams and placements too. Now, how do I deal with this situation and how do I support my parents emotionally and spiritually? Pranaam.....