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Letter email was received in Oct 2018 from Sneha. About: How to overcome jealousy and how to build healthy husband wife relationship? Original Question: Hello sister, I am following you from last 3-4 months. I have practically experienced the change. I had a past. I was betrayed by a person. I created a lot of pain. It has been years now and I am with other person from 3 years who truly loves me. Past experience has changed me, I am suffering from strong insecurity and jealousy whenever it comes about his female friends. It has been the major reason for our fights till now. I try to control each and every situation according to me so that no bad repeats. I get offended for small scenes wherever I feel neglected even if it may not be the reality. I don't want any female friend of his to be close to him. He knows my past and sufferings. He hear me out when I feel low again, but now he decides what he wants and leave it a choice for me to accept. I feel alone when he leaves me to deal with it. Most importantly I am not able to trust him even if I want to. I have created hurt, cried a lot. Sometimes I really feel it would have been better if I was alone. I don't want to be dependent on him emotionally. I want to stay away from him so that I can focus on myself instead of expecting love and attention. I know these are very basics of life but I find it difficult to let go without hurting myself. Can you please help me out to overcome these negative feelings of insecurity and jealousy? Do you think staying away will help? Please guide me a way so that I stop hitting on myself weakening my soul. Waiting for you reply. Our Response (Answer) To: Sneha (and Everyone Reading) From: Prajapita Brahma Kumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay Your letter is received and read. Here is the response. You discussed that you are married since some 3 years, and you feel they love you. Then you also created jealousy and hurt. Then you felt that it was better to be alone. OK. Now the most important is: You have realised that you made a mistake by depending on other soul for love and happiness. We daily study and experience through Raja Yog, that I the soul is peace, is love and is power myself. I AM EVERYTHING THAT I NEED. 1. You will see that peace and love is our identity, our own inner nature. But as time has passed, body consciousnes has come and we forgot ourself as the Soul. Hence we also forgot our own nature. Then we began to search outside. There are 8 powers within Soul: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/8-powers-of-soul and There are 7 virtues of Soul: www.brahma-kumaris.com/7-virtues-of-soul (do visit to read above pages, then come back here) 2. When you experience yourself, then there is NO doubt. Right now you are searching for love, acceptance, etc. These you DO NOT NEED. You just need Self realisation. That is the key to unlimited: Soul - Who am i?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/who-am-i-the-soul ADVICE Practice Raja Yog meditation for only 21 days and see the difference. Learn Raja Yog here: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation Hope you follow all steps as given. Go and read the knowledge, and then learn meditation. You do this for yourself. Just 21 days of sincere surrender to God. Need anything?, just search on www.bkgoogle.com OR email us. Accha namaste 00

Another Husband Wife relationship guidance. Here a sister writes about her husband having anger problem where suddenly mood changes. So how to handle the situation - should I heal that soul with good vibrations or should we take divorce? Original Email Received Good morning Sister/brother, My husband is aggressive and short tempered. He has no control over himself when he gets angry. Other than that he is very good. But because of his sudden mood changes, I am always in constant fear and have to talk very carefully and be very calm. Is it wise to stay in a relationship even after knowing the other person wouldn't change and keep hurting? I keep thinking of divorce frequently, I try telling myself to be/think positive and things would change. I have waited with patience for 3 years and I have been hoping for a change in his behavior. Please suggest me a solution. Thanks & Regards, Our Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godfather's University) Dear Divine Sister Your email letter is received and read. Here is our response. You are already listening the Awakening TV series. However, for this, we suggest you to save below 2 links which are about the Awakening series 1. Awakening series All episodes (section wise): http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Shivani.htm 2. Awakening Audio episodes (Selected best): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/awakening-bk-audio-episodes NOW, To your question -> Seeing your situation, giving you personal advice. You are educated, so you can sustain yourself without a need of someone else. Usually, sisters and mothers have to tolerate because of being financially dependent. Power to tolerate is needed. But it is understood that each soul is different. This power is not seen in the majority nowadays.! Hence the only solution remains is to abandon the relationship - that is divorce. However, this is not the best solution. The better solution is to heal the relationship in a spiritual way. So instead make convince your husband to sit and listen to the awakening series on ''Relationship'' which is VERY beneficial for you both. Shortly saying that each and every talk guides the family relationship - How to manage, tolerate, love and transform... Awakening series on 'Relationship' How to have Happy relationships (Hindi) (video): Healing Relationship: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hWvWT3zdXa8 ADVICE: Do watch the series and videos with your husband together. They will surely like the way of explanation. However, the key is with you. Always be maturated, tolerating and accept him. Love begins with acceptance. Healing begins with loving. All Souls are unique and are loveable in God's eyes. If explained with love and wisdom, anyone can be brought to the right path. Weakness can be 'transformed' into virtues. We all have virtues and today we all are some or other weakness. So what is needed? Acceptance is needed. Helping each other, being a support and guide with a feeling of true and unconditional love. This is the direction of GOD. We also welcome you to please come and know About Us -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us (introduction) God has come. If you are following Awakening series, you would know the task of God and our relationship with him. Please please come and know your Spiritual father who is waiting for you. Series on GOD's revelations *About GOD - Supreme Soul Hope you are completely satisfied with this response. The main aim of this was to bring you near to God, your Spiritual father. Come now he says. Do visit and watch given 2 series and 2 videos. Do email us about your progress in 15 days. Need anything? Contact us again. namaste On Godfatherly Service 00

This forum is made for those children of Shiv baba who live far away physically from each other. This forum is a connection for them. This is a link where you all will be now able to write, question and answer to each other easily on this website. This forum's 'Question Answers' section provides guidance and answers to life and relationship-related and also Gyan related questions that we received from you all via emails. This will be very helpful for everyone as it covers almost all possible problems we face in daily life and gives the advice as given by Shiv baba in Murlis, with practical and step by step guidance. Visit this Q and A forum for any question you have for your own life OR related to Gyan and Brahma Kumaris. SHARE this forum link to your family and connections. No matter how you are in present time, but your Supreme Father - God loves you. Always remember that. Namaste and Welcome...

This email was responded by BK Suraj bhai. About: Guidance for teen aged daughter to help overcome depression and focus on studies. Swamaan Abhyas (self respet) was adviced. Original Question via Email: Respected Suraj bhai ji I have been listening your programmes through TV as well as Youtube for the last 2 years.I personally appreciate your endeavours for shaping the mandkind in right direction. During last few months i observed different behaviour of my teen aged daughter.Who is is career class i,e 10+2.This may be because of pressure in studies,hormonal changes,peer pressure etc.I have tried a lot of my own to solve the problem.(though personally counselling or to make her understand the way of spirituality).But all the efforts remain in vain.She told me that she is in little bit depression phase.Some time I try to give her tips given by you that " Main Aatma Master Sarv shaktiman Hun".But she do not want to practice this mantra. I Humbly request to your goodself that Please guide me in such a manner so the problem of my daughter could be solved and she can further concentrate in her studies to make a shinning career. Yours sincerely Our Response (Answer): From: Prajapita Brahma Kumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay Your letter is received. You want advice for your daughter. Many times we have discussed the solution in Samadhan programs and Awakening program. Actually, you already understand - that in this age, many changes occur. Secondly - today's education system is a pressure to children. So this causes depression in mind. HOW TO OVERCOME 1. Wake up early in morning around 5 am and do this Swaman Abhyas: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=2 2. After Swamaan, the mind becomes silent and powerful. This is the best time for filling in knowledge (studying) 3. Studying is important, BUT it is not everything. Children should be allowed to play OUTSIDE for atleast 1 hour daily (not on phone) 4. The most important power of mind is ''concentration''. If you achieve concentration, then you can acheive ANYTHING in life. For this, mind should not be allowed to wander here and there. Waste or negative information SHOULD NOT be taken from tv news, etc. (This is also for parents - in general) 5. REFRESH the mind by watching nature videos. Best is 'sunrise on a beach'. Here is a taken video that myself watch while eating. Will advice you and your duagther to wacth this for refreshing the mind: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A2_yg19Pu7Y So - to follow the given 5 guidelines, you have to convince your daughter. Definitely if for once you try, you will yourself follow this for your life. Essence: 1. Wake up 5am 2. Swaman 3. Study 4. Practice concentration (meditation) and avoid TV, news, facebook, etc. 5. Refresh mind In God Fatherly World Service 00

An email as to report an activity going on a BK centre - A Sister was taking money in the name of Brahma Kumaris and events management. Here was our response and guidance for the asker and his family who is a faithful child of Shiv baba, a regular godly student. Original Email Received in Feb 2019 Dear concern This is for your kind information that my mother used to go in local om shanti center in near by area from last 1yr, and feel like those Didi's are available in the center ,force almost everyone to give more then required money to them for going to mount Abu or any near by City like they are going to gurgaon tomorrow i.e. 20/9/2018 for janki Dadi satsang, they almost made my mother cry for not agreeing to give dakshina amount of RS. 500 exactly in addition to convince, and daily they make people feel insulted by any of the reasons. I just want to know is it necessary Everytime to give dakshina exactly you want, is this thing is in policy of brahma kumaris? I will let you know the complete address once get any revert. Regards! Our Email Response Dear Divine Brother/Sister Your letter is received by us. You are received. No Gaurav, it is not permitted by Shiv baba to demand money, not even a single rupee for any cause. It is law within our family of Brahma Kumari and Kumar, to arrange money for service by ourself. We never should ask anyone from outside for money. They may give a room for daily murli class. Money should not be asked. But if those sisters at any centre are doing this, they are doing a GREAT disservice in Yagya. They are unaware of God has come. They should and will be punished. While you or me are not a judge to announce the judgement. There are many things we do not know - Why do a good soul does an inaccurate karma? There must be a reason. But surely now as we have knowledge of both good and bad, we must choose the good always. The purpose of this knowledge given by the God father (Shiv baba) is also to make us pure and divine souls, which we were initially. All souls are pure and perfect when they first come into the corporeal world (to play their part in World Drama). Then they do karma and according to their karma is decided their next birth. No one goes back until the end of the cycle. Now is that great time of ''transformation'' You wish to know more, please read the History page to know the complete history and hence you wil know the truth and the life of a true Brahma Kumari: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/history Also know that there are very very few complaints like this. Because mostly we know that all surrendered sisters (or say most of them) are selflessly serving. But yet, it is certainly possible that such a wrong person may have entered the centre who is going against the Shrimat. I surely know the present condition of some Baba's centres. Some souls are being living at centres but not following the Shrimat of Shiv Baba (God). But do you know more? Only 5% of such souls exist. 90 to 95% are making efforts according to the shrimat by their own extent - to transform the self first and then guide brothers and sisters. Here is an example you may know - BK Shivani: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OO8BPHSHSlg (live event) Above is a video clip which is from Delhi where this spiritual meeting was organised and this is a speech from bk shivani. So as said, a majority of souls are good. Only a few are so who are going on wrong path against the shrimat. They will surely suffer in the end. You DO NOT need to see them. Do not look to them. Do not go near them. Your attention is and should be towards God, our eternal father who has come here and teaching us this knowledge. This is called Murli. What is Murli?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/what-is-murli 108 points of Shrimat (Hindi): http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Pyare%20Bapdada%20Ki%20108%20Shrimat.htm Please read on website pages and listen the videos also. If you have any question, visit FAQ page OR Search on our Search engine: www.bkgoogle.com On God Fatherly World Service 00

Question: Using the power to co-operate at Work place? Our Answer with Guidance: John came over to my desk. He needed a substitute teacher for the after-school training in two hours' time, as the trainer had rung in sick. I knew I was free to help, but, in my heart, there was reluctance. I could sense right now I was not filled with any spirit of co-operation and was searching for an excuse. Then I remembered my predicament last week – a flat tyre on the motorway - and the brave driver who pulled up to assist me. This quick reminder reset my thinking and I found a path of no resistance, and said a hearty, "Yes, I can be there." True co-operation comes where there is no resistance, no wishing for something different in any shape or form, where I am happy to help in whatever way I can, no matter what. I am glad I found that space. —DS

How to discover the inner desire? What do you wish to do and be in your life? - Here is our advice on how to discover the ''Soul Desire'' and to proceed in this direction. Original Message/Email Received Dear brahma kumari, I have always heard that in order to do something in life you need to know what you actually want... But the biggest problem is I don't have any idea what I want n many times I have tried to find that but I don't get any clear idea about it. Please suggest me how to find out what I really want please suggest any tips or methods. Regards. Our Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone Reading This From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly University) Dear Divine Brother In truth, what I want in life is called my ''Soul Desire''. So when you think you are in a good mental state (mind is peaceful and clear), then go within and ask only one question - What am I searching for? - Such feeling should come - What is needed... What am I searching for? Have no judgements and do not stop your mind from bringing you all possibilities of your ''Inner Voice''. This inner voice is of Soul. This is YOU. So what you feel which is right to do for yourself, that should be done. Every soul desires - 'Peace and Love'. These 2 are intrinsic desire or needs actually of every soul. It is natural. If there is peace in life, we certainly feel life is beautiful. Plus there is love in our relationships, life is meaningful. WHAT TO DO? One should have no dream to become something. There should be dreams to do something for the self, family, community, country and for the world. When one overcomes selfish desires and life for the world's benefit, that one comes closer to God. That is surely the aim of life. ❈ Essence ❈ Do what you love, do what is present (Pre-Sent) in your heart. Soul already knows the best wanting of life - why it came in the world, for what... The soul knowns within. Do visit and read below articles/posts and pages as a Guidance for you: 1. Advice to progress in life (related forum post) 2. Take our Online "RajYog course" (Essence of entire Godly knowledge of creation and the creator- in our 'online' 7 days course) 3. We invite you now to come and learn ABOUT US (Introduction to Brahma Kumaris World Spiritual University) 4. Watch Videos - Useful selected videos. Do visit all given links. If have any question, contact us. Namaste On Godly World Service The 'Shiv Baba Service' Initiative BKGSU

Prayag (a brother) asks for spiritual guidance for his sister who seems to be lost in her own world and have some emotional or mental problems. Here is our guidance and advice given via email. Original Email we received Om shanti !!! I am Prayag currently from mumbai maharashtra sister/ brother I need spiritual help to recover my 30 year old unmarried sister ( currently from satara Maharashtra) having a bit mental disturbance in her life & she has no awareness about it ( as I have taken Professional help) she is not ready to take Professional help & so whole family is in pain. As per my view from last 6 to 7 years she has difference in opinions with mother & father from last few years she uses wrong words for father and mother also she is not ready to leave village and using repeated thoughts about father and mother about abuse thoughts are same from last few years about abuse (according to her perspectives) she is not ready to let it go. Can you will help me ( spiritual help) in group meditation. I used to think positive for her but i think collective vibrations can help to her to out from all issues. I know that if one Person in family change whole family changes & I am ready to be that one. Hope for your ans as early as Possible. Regards, Prayag Pawar Our Response with Guidance From: Prajapita Brahma Kumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly University) Dear Divine Brother Your letter is received and read. Here is our response. You have a noble purpose of learning Raja Yog (that is: to heal your family's present situation). And you will certainly transform yourself. But you are a new born child and needs to know few truths. 1. Everything that happens is for a reason - it happens as a result of something. If one decides to change his future, he can - by taking right decisions in present Karma. 2. You wish that your sister should become like before. More than that can happen. Sister can become better than ever (spiritually). "Knowledge is the source of Self-transformation". Hence you mst first take the godly knowledge. We all study the gyan murli everyday. Murli is not only the source of entire spiritual knowledge, but also a source of joy and enlightenment. Shiv baba becomes my Father and loves me like no one. Then becomes my teacher and speaks the knowledge to me. Then becomes my Guru and takes me where he lives (praramdham) HOW? Take your sister and whole family to visit the nearby RajYoga centre for our introductory 7 day RajYog course. This course is the essence of all knowledge of murli. Or you can now also take this 7 day course online Also, if needed - convince your family or only sister to visit the Retreat centre (email us if you want the address of a Retreat centre near you) We welcome you to visit our About Us page to know the coming of God (our supreme father) and the establishment of the BK godly university. About Us - Introduction What is Gyan Murli? namaste On Godly Service SBSI team

Husband got found cheating and having an extramarital relationship with a colleague. Wife requests us to provide spiritual help to this so as to bring out her husband from this, to heal and to get him on the right path with the help of spirituality. Here is our detailed guidance (We advise you to read this guidance if you have a similar problem in family. This is suppose to help you in many other ways also.) Our Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidhyalay (Godly University) Dear Divine Sister Good morning You very well explained your story and what help you expect from us. Since you emailed here, we take that you would be connected via a regional BK RajYog centre OR via 'Awakening' TV series of Sister Shivani OR via our Peace of Mind TV We do get such emails which reflects the happenings in the world. Do you know that GOD has already concluded in one line - ''Lust or body consciousness is the root cause of all evil, and thus of all your sorrow''. This I remember and realised better when read your email. The question is more accurate that since you both are married and have children. Marriage usually promotes and makes sex look natural (which is not). Our original nature (of Soul) is ''purity''. This purity sponsors 'peace', which brings 'happiness'. Thus this virtue of celibacy or purity is the mother of all other virtues. This is the origin of a good meaningful life.  On the other side, even if lust is limited between husband and wife, it is still a cause of downfall (spiritual). Yes, the body feels pleasure, but the soul cries. The soul says - the other is also a Soul - we are Brothers. We both are originally pure. Some religious people feel guilty after sex. Because initially when they did Bhakti (worshipping), they felt very near to God, very divine. But after they did this, they felt caught up in bodily feelings and no longer could connect to the holiest (God). ''Purity is worshipped''. See why the Devi-Devta are worshipped in Bharat (India) - because they are pure. God explains - ''When you are pure, there is an aura of divine light around'' --- Your Question --- Your email reflects that the husband is or was really honest. But this vice of lust destroyed his virtues and brought his image down. See this is why God himself has to say - 'Become Soul consciousness. See every other as your Soul brother'. One mistake led him to a downfall, while he has so many virtues. You should not leave him for this reason. But definitely ACT and show him that you made this mistake. Now see how honest and pure you were before. Did you feel good about yourself? Ask this. You have to be very gentle and calm in your tone. This can happen to anyone today. The world is such. Internet allows all dirty things on 1 click. It is not his great mistake. But always restrict him to remain alone and put his interest in spirituality and other positive aspects of life. This is YOUR DUTY as a good wife. Isn't it? HOW TO FORGIVE? Easy. Now you know his perspective. Also now that at the end, he himself realised that it was wrong. This means -this was not intentional. Now watch given videos - Hurt in relationships - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uWxhhkHWRhk Forgive and Trust again - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r9p8garDIgM How to stop doubting - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q9zfrJWc1d0 ( watch all 3 videos ) * Conclusion * Lust is our enemy. Greatest enemy. Your life is so good. You have no clear struggle, have a good relationship, have children, money, so why pollute the life with this sex lust?! You may find it unusual, but it is true that 80% of healthy relationships are broken because of this only. Life was peaceful & after this bodily attraction, it became unrewarding. Since you have now realised this, we welcome you to a NEW WAY OF LIVING - please read our article on Celibacy - A way of Living Purity should also be in thoughts and words. When you will follow 'celibacy' for 1 month, you will observe a clear betterment in within and outside. Remain in family life, but become Soul conscious. First you have to understand the Godly knowledge. So we welcom you to take our online 7 days course. We then welcome you to know ABOUT US (introduction) - God's creation of new world & the aim of BKWSU. Please MUST learn on page ABOUT US. If have any other question, email us. Do visit all given links. Let us know your progress after 15 days. ** Gifts ** Refresh your mind with these Nature scenes -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TdpBRZ0dZhw (Add to a Playlist) and Listen our audio songs while cooking food, etc. -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/bk-songs-playlist (Bookmark) Accha On Godly World Service 00

A mother writes to us asking for help for her daughter who was born with autism, and is now showing hyperactivity. She also had other issues related to personal life. We guided her on How to keep mind stable while solving the problem, crossing day to day challenges. We invited her to learn RajYoga meditation and practice it daily whenever gets time. This will make mind calm, focussed and powerful to overcome any and every challenges. Original Question asked: Om shanti. I am just saddened by so many little things. I have been trying to listen constantly to videos for guidance. Distressed about my daughter's health issues , autism & hyperactivity. People around me. My friends have also let me down. They have used me. Betrayed me. Hurt me. Completely changed their behavior. I am just so fed up. I wish I was not affected by people. Can you please show me a way for peace. Response+Guidance Divine Soul, We understand that you are concerned about you daughter who is suffering from mental health issues. And you are also disturbed because certain friends of yours hurt you. And you wish to learn how to become unaffected by someone`s behavior. ➥Sister, i would ask you to immediately consult a psychiatrist for your daughter if her situation is serious. Because sometimes when brain is low on certain chemicals such disorders arise and which can be treated with medicines. And moreover along-with medicine, meditation will work great for her. Just as medicines heals our physical body, meditation heal our inner self. So we invite you to learn and practice RajYoga meditation daily. How to Heal your Daughter? ➥ Even easier practice is what we call Swamaan Abhyas (Self-respect affirmations) which is quietly the first step to RajYog meditation. We advise you to practice this in early morning as you wake up (and night, before sleeping) and then send powerful healing vibrations to your daughter, visualising her also as a soul. This works, as we have thousands of people benefitted by this practice in various ways...So keep complete faith. What is Swaman Abhyas? In Swaman Abhyas, we visualise the self (Soul) sitted in the centre of forehead (see below picture) and visualising the soul, we revise positive powerful affirmations (in mind) and thus experience them. For example: As we revise in mind "I am a Peaceful Soul", we also 'experience' the same "I am Peace" Guided: Here are our guided Swaman Abhyas commentaries (YouTube playlist) ➤ Swaman guided in Hindi ➤ Affirmations guided in English You seem to be in a better condition, but still when the mind is weak, we are easily disturbed and affected by someone`s behavior. The solution is to empower the mind. How do we do that? Answer: Mind is like a small child. It has certain needs , demands and cravings too. Now you need to take care of this child with love. Give it what it actually needs but not everything it demands or crave for. Discipline it. So next time whenever your mind is crying like a child next time tell him with love: "No my dear child, they cannot hurt me , it is me who is taking their words seriously". ➥We need to remember that if the appreciation uplifts us then criticism will destroy us. So we should not be attached to someone`s perspective about us. ➥Start meditating seriously to gain extraordinary results. Meditation is something that has overtaken this generation as a mandatory routine in the life of most of the people. It is helping the souls around the world to transform themselves into a being of Pure Love, Purity, Bliss and Power. ➥We at BhramaKumaris practice RajYoga Meditation daily and radiate the vibrations of Peace , Purity and Love for all the worldly souls. The Raj Yoga Meditation is a simple and easy to do meditation which can be practiced anywhere and anytime. It is full of spiritual wisdom about the subjects like Soul, God, Cycle of World, Secrets of self transformation etc which shall definitely help you both to transform yourselves. ✱Sharing useful links below. Please do follow all videos/links to get maximum benefit: ➤ (video) Raj Yoga Meditation (guided) by BK Sister Jayanti ➤ Raj Yoga Meditation 7 Days Course online ➤ (video) Stop getting affected by Other people (BK Shivani) ➤ (video) Empower the Mind (by BK Shivani) ★ V.useful: Guide to finish Depression Please follow all above given videos to take maximum benefit. Learn and practice RajYog and experience peace. Talk to your mind and empower yourself with powerful Swamaan (affirmations)... doing this will make you the soul powerful enough to overcome all challenges. ✱Then, we welcome you to learn about Bhrama Kumaris (ABOUT US, purpose, history) namaste On Godly Service, SBSI team

Many of us have had a bitter childhood memory which still pulls us back to those times or bites our conscience, or bitters our relationship with the known family. So what is right to do? To confess or confront the past? or to forgive, forget, and start a new journey? Ofcourse, our advise here is 'specific-given' to a sister who wrote to us. While in general, we do believe and know that everyone is unique and has a unique story, and thus they must judge their current situation and decide accordingly, what is best to do. Original Email we received in Dec 2020 Om shanti, Someone in my family did something very wrong years back but at that time I was a child & couldn't tell anyone as I was scared. Now I realise how wrong the person did & is living as if he did nothing. Now I want to tell the truth , even though I don't have any proof. But I am scared people might not believe me & more than anything it will hurt everyone in the family. But speaking the truth is the right thing to do. I have 2 choices: 1) Tell the truth to everyone, which may hurt family. 2) To not say anything & live like nothing happened because it is too late to speak. Now I can't decide which one is the right decision to take. Both of them are so difficult: To remain silent feels like I am doing something wrong, AND to speak the truth feels like I'll be hurting people. What should I do? Our Response + Guidance Divine Sister Follow this guidance STEP by STEP in your mind first, and then outside. Read with 'Attention' and then follow your inner feelings. 1. To clean your heart and memory is first priority. So take a plain sheet of paper and write down whatever you remember happened in your childhood. This letter can be subjected to God. Put all your memories to God, as if you are giving all your burden away... 2. Now go to one of your parents. Mother or father- you choose. Select a time when they are not busy and are ready to listen to you. Calmly tell them everything. Answer their questions which they will ask. Open your heart. 3. Ask them not to have any relationship with that person (whose complaint you just told). But yet dont spread this news to anyone else. Keep it upto you and your parents only. 4. Telling your parents is important so that they know the TRUTH about their child. BUT DO NOT spread this as a news. Our aim is to forget the past incident, and that to happen, one must not curse any soul... ★Forgiving is another thing"... Watch these videos (on FORGIVENESS, by Sister Shivani) ➤ How to FORGIVE someone? (video) ➤ How to RELEASE the PAST? (video) And there are many more videos on the same YT channel which will guide you to live a better and happy life. ✤ Please accept this ➤ Welcome Letter for You (this letter will guide you ahead in Spirituality and support in your life in general) On Godly World Service Shiv Baba Service team BKGSU

Healing any disease (eg: cancer) with practice of Raja Yog and Swamaan abhyas. This is guided and explained in this post. It is for all who need this help. Your Email/ Urgent message on 3 Sept 2019: I don’t know where to begin. Right now I am going through mix emotions, afraid, scared, fearful, hopeful but feeling helpless as I have recently learned about my husband’s sickness. I have been practising Rajyoga meditation since last year and a half. …my husband Hitesh have recently been diagnosed with Rectal Cancer. It is a stage 3 cancer and per doctors, he will have to go through Chemo-radiation and 3 surgeries. It has been 3 weeks since we have come to know about his sickness and since then we have lost our peace and our hearts are filled with fear and helplessness. I feel like if there is any faith and true love in my request then he will send someone to give us that strength, hope and solution out of this situation. Our Guided Response We at BK RajYog centres, daily give sakash (vibrations) to all souls of world.  ''Let good happen to all'' Dear divine Sister/Brother, You have found God and whom else is needed? Yet until the soul becomes completely pure, it needs guidance from Baba's murli. This is pure knowledge through which soul gets the wings to fly anywhere. Know everything. This world is yours my child. Having bounded by the 5 illnesses (5 vikar), a human being becomes limited and unempowered.  You know that every Soul has to finish his Karmic account before we all return back to home. Your present life's mate (husband) have been supportive to you for this 1.5 years of your New life. You have experienced living a pure family life. As baba says in Murli, 'become pure while you live with loukik family'. You have done this now. But the soul has to go somewhere else to finish his other karmic accounts. What is best for you is to empower him by giving vibrations, BUT not to try to stop him from leaving your life. By demanding him to stay, you display 'desire' and 'greed' in the sense. But as a GOD's child, you are a 'bestower' for all world souls, aren't you? ✤ Solution is Swamaan Abhyas ✤ By practice of Swamaan and RajYog, many have recovered from such illness. What is Swamaan? It is a practice to become 'Soul conscious' and experience the self as a 'healer' and all-powerful. This practice empowers our mind to heal the body. Imagine yourself as a point of light 'soul' sitting in the centre of your forehead and then imagine the soul is giving powerful vibrations to the body and experience that the body is getting healed... HOW TO DO? Watch these videos to practice Swamaan in early morning and before sleep: 1. Master Sarva Shaktivaan -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m1hIMx74UgQ 2. All Swamaan -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xHqE2-7jCLo AND Read: Article on Swamaan -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/Swaman-in-Hindi AND watch this episode of Samadhan -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SOoPmpF8KFg (topic: Healing body through RajYog) ------------- Raja Yog meditation has given wings to the souls of world. Through this Yog, we get a mental connection with GOD, the Supreme soul. Thus receive peace, purity, love and powers from God. Please learn here -> What is Raja Yog meditation? Also, we have a TV series called ''Awakening with Brahma Kumaris''. Sit with family to watch. VERY beneficial for life. Here are ALL episodes -> http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Shivani.htm or Watch on YouTube -> https://www.youtube.com/bkshivani * Useful links for you * (Save/Bookmark) Our Videos -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/videos Articles in English & Hindi-> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/articles Explore Sitemap -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/sitemap Need anything else? Use BK Google - bkgoogle.com (Our search engine) Accha namaste oo Signature: On Godfatherly (Godly) Service to the World SoulsBKGU (BrahmaKumaris Godly University) bkgsu.com Mount Abu, Rajasthan, India 00