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Learn here How to forgive or seek forgiveness in a family relationship and thus make it stable and fruitful. Original Email Received Dear Sister Shivani, I am from Pune. I see your videos everyday and have started implementing in my life. My question is do forgiveness exercise for my dad but I am not seeing any change or improvement in our relationship. He doesn’t speak to me since 6 years as I have broken the marriage. I keep applying your tips on food and give him positive vibrations early morning. Can you please guide me where I am going wrong and what else I can do to make this relationship work? I am low at confidence n alone in life. I try my best to charge myself but I am failing at every movement. Thankyou Om shanti   Our Email Response+ Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: BK Shivani, Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidhyalay (Godly University) Dear Divine Brother You are following the guidance given in 'awakening' program episodes. This is explained in essence - '''Relationship is made not at a bodily level, but inside - in mind and spiritual level.'' Thus what we think of someone will definitely impact the ''inner'' relationship. It is also sure that you must have experienced deep satisfaction after you forgave him and sent love energy. But how the other person responses back depends also on your both's past life karmic accounts. If the account is very deep, then it is more difficult to resolve. But pure positive energy is 4 times stronger than the other. Hence you will see the difference slowly and steadily. FURTHER -> Have patience and keep the same procedure going. Now realise that this (POSITIVE THINKING) not only helps to correct the relationships, but also to develop your character. ''Keep giving without expecting a return'' - as giving is the reason to form a relationship. God the being of light (Supreme soul) teaches us the most powerful way to become free from all evil. This is called ''Raja Yog or meditation''. Come and know here -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation A relationship is Soul to Soul. This 'consciousness' is needed. Learn about - Who am I? * SOLUTION * Next here are guided commentaries on 2 of our main practices. 1. Swamaan -> https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY 2. RajYog -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary Need anything else? Use our 'search engine' - BK Google - www.bkgoogle.com On Godly World Service 00

A lot of Emails are received to meet BK Sister Shivani. Here is our 'official' response. Essence: BK Shivani has a busy schedule. But everyone of Brahma kumaris family is approachable. Sister Shivani may meet you at a suitable time and place, but for that to happen you will have to connect to a Brahma Kumaris centre (take the '7 days introduction course'). Here are 4 ways to contact via email or visit her in person. Please read this post to know more. 4 ways to Meet or Contact BK Shivani You wish to know how can you contact or meet Sister Shivani, who is a senior Rajyoga teacher and a student of Prajapita Brahma Kumaris Godly University. Here we will guide you where to contact and for what purpose. And how to meet sister if needed after this. Option 1: Through Email If you have ANY life challenging problem or a Gyan related, or a Personal question to ask BK Shivani, the main place to contact her, is through our official "auto-response" form service: Ask a Question (via the Shiv Baba Service Initiative team) *NOTE: If you want a reply from sister Shivani, please mention this on the 'Subject' or the first line of your message. Please know that she will answer only if your message is credited by us (SBSI team) as 'valid' according to our guidelines. Our email service can take upto 14 days. We answer emails on both Gyan related questions (about Murli and BKWSU) and Life-related (personal advice on your life challenges). We recommend you to first visit our Forum to reach the questions already answered. Contact us ONLY IF you don't find a solution/answer on our Forum. Option 2. Through a BK centre First visit your nearby BK RajYoga Center (find using Centre locator). Take the introductory, 7 day RajYog meditation course from that center. All your questions will be answered and problems will be solved with getting this godly spiritual knowledge (which is also the source of wisdom of BK Shivani which she shares on Awakening series and other platforms). The 7 days course is an essence of all godly knowledge. After taking this course, if you want, you can ask the sister in charge of that centre to contact BK Shivani on your behalf to arrange a short meeting. (Please know that her day to day schedule is fixed due to which you can meet her on specific locations only and only if you really need to. Because it is not really needed to meet her in person.) NOTE: You can discuss your problems with Brahma Kumari sister or Brahma Kumar brother incharge of the BK centre nearby to your home. They can guide you in the journey, or explain the Gyan (godly knowledge) as they also have the same knowledge as sister Shivani, as we all are studying the same Gyan Murli everyday. So to begin, please learn the Introduction to the 7 days course: Online course: 7 days course online and Refer: What is Gyan Murli? Option 3: Meet during a Seminar If you follow Sister Shivani's events and programs, then you would know that she is regularly invited to many colleges, hospitals, university, and other campuses to speak on spirituality, self management and living values. Also many seminars are directly arranged by a local BK centre where sister Shivani is also invited. You can meet her at such locations in person. Find out the event happening nearby your residence and visit. There, you will need to speak to someone and arrange a short meeting. ( Please know that visiting an event of bk Shivani is only to 'encourage you' to find out the source of her wisdom, which is God's direct given knowledge taught and studied at Brahma Kumaris. Our purpose is to make you strong enough to overcome any problem that you don't need any other human being in help, as you connect directly to God by learning RajYog ) Personal Note With all love and respect, we advise you to first learn about Brahma Kumaris and about BK Shivani before you believe in anything. Please know that BK Shivani is one of the many Rajyogi students at this Godly University who is only sharing the knowledge which she learnt from God's murli. Refer: What is Murli? Even Sister Shivani will say you to connect to God, the source of all spiritual powers and not to her (a human being). So as we advise you not to insist to meet her for silly reasons because it is not meeting her which can resolve your problems. Only god's knowledge and his powers can help you at every stage of life. So connect to the Father (Shiv Baba) Sister Shivani will also advise you to visit the nearby BK RajYog center first. There you will get an introduction of the Self (soul) and the Father (Supreme Soul) in a short 7 days course. This itself will give spiritual support to your soul. So instead of depending on a person/human being, connect to the source - God. Shiv baba (Parampita ParamAtma) is the ocean of knowledge, peace, love and powers. He has a medicine of every disease whether for body, mind or soul. Connect to Him by learning RajYoga Meditation. ✣ Related & Useful Links ✣ 1. BK Shivani's biography 2. Email answered by Sister Shivani 3. Brahmakumaris Introduction On Godly World Service The Shiv Baba Services Initiative team

To protect ourselves from the virus, along with taking care at a physical level (practicing respiratory hygiene, maintaining social distance, etc) we also need to strengthen our emotional immunity. Sharing some important points one can practice during this epidemic and even afterward. AFFIRMATIONS FOR EMOTIONAL PROTECTION The combined powers of affirmation and visualization which means meditation, keep us emotionally protected. Let's think and talk of the reality we want by creating affirmations and visualizing them as first thoughts every morning, last thoughts at night, once after every hour and before eating and drinking anything. Watch a video along the lines TALK CAREFULLY ABOUT CORONA VIRUS Our thoughts manifest so we need to pay attention to what we say. Today we extensively discuss about the epidemic. Let’s change our conversations and start saying that the virus is finished. We can ask people to take care but instruct with blessings. Our every word needs to be a blessing. Watch a video along the lines FINISH YOUR FEAR Perhaps the whole world has lived with a belief - As will be the situation, so will be our state of mind. So when there is a challenge like an epidemic, we feel fear and anxiety are obvious. Situation does not affect our mind. Our mind influences the situation. When we remember and revise this daily, our vocabulary, thoughts and feelings change. We become fearless. Watch a video along the lines MEDITATION FOR PROTECTION Meditate to remain powerful and emotionally protected from the Corona virus. Sit back, relax the body and start this Guided Commentary. As you listen to each thought, visualize it and start feeling it. Repeat this every morning and every night before you sleep. Also repeat these thoughts each time before you consume food and water, to energize them. Watch a video along the lines Is it a LOCKDOWN or LIBERATION? Let's explore meaningful ways to utilize our time and energy, while at home. The first letter of each activity spells out the word 'LOCKDOWN': L - Love yourself & everyone to save the world O - Observe Social distancing and exercise self-control C - Connect to God and create a protecting shield K - Kindness & gratitude for all D - Daily Meditation & Exercise O - Offer help everyone around you W - Wake up early and create a healthy lifestyle N - NO to Complaining, Criticising and Consuming too much information Watch a video along the lines 5 Ways To Energize Your Home A daily routine to utilize our time wisely, so that we remain energized, and also energize our home and family. We need to begin our day with spiritual study and meditation, keep our thoughts and words pure throughout the day and empower them. This is also a good time to clean our minds and change unhealthy sanskaras. Watch a video along the lines Stay healthy, Stay positive & Utilize the opportunity the time has given!

This question was asked by Mihika Vyas on 21 July 2018. Original question: Om. Shanti. I just want to know is it true that our vibration reaches the other person. Life if we are missing someone they are also thinking about us ? If are thinking all good and positive they too are thinking the same ? Are vibrations really these strong ? Thank You. Our Answer: To: All who are reading Dear Divine Sister/Brother Yes. This is true. Our vibrations reaches the one whom we are remembering. For example you remember your mother, than the quality of your thought/s would influence the stage of your mother's soul . If you send love, then that soul will receive.  BUT. The extent u pto which some soul receives other's vibration depend upon many things: The kind of relationship between the two, the present stage of both souls, etc.. If 2 people knows each other since 20 years, then they will receive each other's vibrations more, compared to those 2 who knows each other since only 1 year. Understood? Awakening episode - How does mind communicate? - by BK Shivani : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3FGFmqR5a9E Law of Karma: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/karma Accha Namaste 00

Q. How to reduce mental stress? Ans. Actually when the possibility of two opposite matters are equal then we gets  maximum stress. It's may be profit and  loss, survive and death, qualify and disqualify or win and loss. In such type of situation you have to established three important things in your believe system. 1) Whatever is going to be happen that already fixed by my past karma. Now I can't change it. 2) It must bring something better for me. 3) If I stand on my own foot, how narrow the road is, I will definitely reached my destination. Om Shanti. Tushar Das Durgapur, W

Question /Problem of a wife who lives away from husband and in-laws, who keeps away from her and wants divorce. Sister needs advice on how to go forward in life. Original Question asked via Email : Nister , I am 29 years old married since 3 years.right from marriage there been many disturbances in our relationship.2 years ago we were about to separate but compromised. now again we are in the same situation.i am ready to compromise but my in-laws are not in a position to understand me.due to some of my health conditions I am living near to my office as I can't do journey daily.visiting my inlaws in holidays and weekends. My husband is not ready to live with me as that is little far from his office.but my in laws have made that as a point to give me divorce from my husband.they are creating rumours also that I have extra marital affairs and so I am living separate. They are believing a horoscope written by a pandit that I will have extra marrital affiar with someone after having a child with my husband. They have strong feeling that I should give birth to only a male child not at all a girl child. I am struggling from weeks with this, not able to dare to take divorce as how my life will be after divorce? What my colleagues think of me? How to go forward in life? Our Email Response (Answer) Dear Sister, your letter about - ''Family, husband and in-laws..'' is received and read. Here is our response. Now what is the state to your relationship with wife and family? It is better? 1. You are living alone and that is also a good thing. You can use this as in your benefit. Self awareness, Introversion and meditation are divine aspects of ife which are more easily experienced in solitude. 2. Why? No matter what difficulty in life one have, if one makes the self powerful then obstacles will be finished. 3. How? Try and wake up little early in morning - sit in silence and practice 'Swamaan'. If you are connected to Brahma Kumari Ishwariya Vidhyalay, then you would know the meaning of this word, otherwise also it is easy. You can practice this Swamaan - Swamaan means self respect. Our Swamaan are - I am a peaceful soul, Pure soul, Powerful soul, Loveful Soul.. (Pavitra Atma, Shanti Swaroop Atma, Shakti swaroop Atma...) Swamaan commentaries (playlist): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 * Every morning - wake up early (around 5 am) and listen these above commentaries. Here are more Raja Yog music & guided commentaries: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary What is Raja Yoga?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation (save above links) Shiv baba is always with you till you chose to be Pure (celibacy). Pluse we always are with you, to guide you. ok? Awakening episodes in Audio: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/awakening-bk-audio-episodes (( Awakening episodes speially helped MANY families to solve relationship problems..)) How to handle and sustain family and family life, is all explained in the Awakening with Brahma Kumaris TV program by Sister Shivani. Awakening Website (for TV program times): http://awakening.in/ Fo general guidance on Husband-Wife relationship, visit here: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers Accha namaste In God Fatherly World Service 00

Many new children of Baba shared their life story through emails and message. They say that they wish to 'surrender' in the Yagya, live at a BK RajYog centre and practice Gyan and Yog and do godly service from there. They ask us for guidance... In truth, it is Shiv baba's shrimat to stay with loukik family and study this Godly knowledge (murli) and follow the shrimat as much as possible. This is most beneficial time advise of the Supreme father: Original Email Received on 2 Jan 2019 Om Shanti, I want to reach out to Brahma Kumari’s to seek help for keeping my life together. My wife is trying to follow the path of “Shri-mat”, and for doing that she has decided to move out of our relationship. I don’t understand if this is the right path (to leave family and home) for her to follow. I have listened to Murali and other bk teachers regularly but I don’t think brahma Kumari’s suggest that one should leave their household to follow Shiv baba's shrimat. I am sure brahma Kumaris does not teach anyone to leave their responsibilities and life. I am not sure what is the right path. But it does not feel right to me that she should denounce married life to live a “pure” life. Please let me know if it is possible for someone at BrahmaKumari’s to guide us in the right path. Thanks. Our Email Response From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) May we ask you to read this email to your wife and hope she will understand the real meaning of what is Shrimat. Shrimat of Shiv baba (our Spiritual Father) is to remain Pure (celibacy, aka Brahmacharya), while staying in the family life and take this Gyan and do Purusharth of Yaad and self-transformation. This is the foremost direction of the highest of the high father, Shiv baba. Purity is the mother of peace and happiness. Lust indeed is our greatest enemy, who has given us the taste of sorrow. God is all knowing, and he knows this; and hence keeps us children in his holy arms. What is Purity? Purity simply means: to consider the self as a divine soul (a point of light) and all of us human beings are brothers and sisters - when we know and realise that GOD, the supreme soul is our spiritual father. Rest, if you can stay pure and follow the shrimat and benefit yourself and your loukik family, while staying in family life, you should. But if it becomes hard, or if there is a lot of opposition, only then you should think to stay at Baba's centre. Baba's direction is to stay with your family. The reason is - We all have a Karmic account with our family members. In this last birth, we must finish all those accounts so that liberation is achieved without sorrow. This is a path of Karma-Yog. Baba empowers us children to remain in a Yogyukt stage while doing necessary activities (karma). You can do anything you love to, - do a job, go outside for a picnic with family, and fulfill all your responsibilities. But in your mind, you always remember that ''I belong to the One who is our most beloved spiritual father. He has come and became our teacher and teaches us the knowledge of creation and the creator. I am God's child.'' ✦Keep a Balance in Loukik Life The RIGHT PATH is the path of 'Balance'. Here is a special audio from us on topic: "Balance in Shrimat and Family life". Must listen♪ https://www.babamurli.org/uploads/2020/12/Balance-in-Shrimat-and-Loukik-Responsibilities.m4a Shrimat is - "To remain pure and to do Purusharth of Yog, always to listen the daily Gyan Murli and if possible, do the service of giving the message of Shiv baba and his coming and give the light of Sakaash to the souls in need." This is also a 'responsibility' of us God's direct children. Godly student is one who daily studies the Gyan Murli and do the 'dharna' in practical life. They become divine with divine virtues (Refer to: 7 virtues of soul) Also the good reason baba asks us, children, to stay with our loukik family is -- This is an opportunity to do service to loukik family members, to give them Gyaan and make their fortune also. If there is any difficulty in staying with loukik family, then use the power of Yog to overcome the problem. When we souls connect to the powerhouse (the Supreme Soul/Shiv baba), we emerge our inner 8 powers. (Refer: 8 powers of Soul) Advice So you should accept this challenge that you can become an obedient Godly child and Godly student while staying with loukik family. In fact, I also live with loukik family and most of the BK (Brahma Kumar/Kumari) also live at their loukik homes and does Godly service via various means. Everyone has a responsibility in this world to fulfil. How can God tell us to leave all our responsibilities? God is a perfect being, and he has come to make us 'perfect'. To become a perfect soul, one will have to face all kind of challenges. Remember that God, our most beloved spiritual father is now with us. Shiv baba guided us in Murli everyday. Just follow what is said in Murli. Rest all things are meaningless. So dear sister, you should do Dharna of Gyaan. ✤Further advice Make a notebook and write down important points from today's murli so that you can always 'revise' those points. Also, writing down main points will help in your Purusharth. You will remember those points when challenges come in life. We hope the letter helps you and your family. ✲Download and use our Android mobile apps. If you use iPhone, get our iOS app. Our mobile app/s will be your assitant in Purusharth in many ways. Do visit or save the given links on this email. Accha. Namaste On Godly World Service Shiv Baba Service Initiative team, BKGSU

Letter request to open a BK centre in Pakistan. God's message can be spread, Rajyoga meditation can be taught. Here is our response according to the present time. By now (2019), only 2 countries have not got Baba's centres. They are Pakistan and China. But soon, as the godly message will be spread, they will also be attracted towards this. There is a divine plan which is explained here as a response to an email of January 2019. Original Email Received Assalam o alikum, I am from Pakistan. I am a student of Karachi university in computer science department. Mein chahti hun ki Pakistan main abhi aapke centers ho jahan yeh RajYoga meditation seekhaye jaye or logn k maslun ka haal diya jaye. Shiv baba ka parichay diya jaye. I really want to work with you all as a volunteer. I follow sister Shivani's lectures. Agar aesa possilbe ho to zaror initiate kare. I really will to work hard for this purpose. THANK YOU. Our Email Response Dear Divine Brother/Sister Good evening ( There are links in this email to guide you ahead. Visit and explore ) Your email letter is received and read. Here is our response. As you know, by now (2019), there is no Rajyoga centre in Pakistan as their government did not permit as they only want to strictly believe in Islam. So because of such governance, souls are still untouched by God's message. However, we know that at the right time, such things will change. The state of Pakistan will soon merge with its neighbour to be called 'Bharat'. Gates will open. God's message will be hearb to all corners of the world in all possible ways. --------- Aapne likha ki Karachi se hai aap. Jaante ho, is Gyan Yagya ki saruvaat Karachi se hi hui thi. Aapka bhagya ki aap bhi aaj vahi ho. Shayad isliye aapko yeh Prerna (inspiration) aayi hongi. Aapki good wish hai ki Pakistan me bhi centres ho. Lekin abhi to centres nahi hai. Baat hai badi wonderful - puri duniya me yeh Ishwariya University ke centres hai, lekin vaha nahi hai jaha Tapasya ki gayi thi from 1938 to 1950. (Source: History of Yagya) Centre locator: http://www.brahmakumaris.org/centre-locator Agar positive direction me hi dekha jaye, to aap ek bahut acchi service kar sakte ho. Jaha par aaj bhi Khuda ka sandesh (message) nahi mila hai, vaha aap yeh service karo - Letter print karke sabhi ke ghar post karke aana, internet aur social media dwara service bahut ho sakti hai. Yeh sab aap kar sakti ho thode hi time me. There are many Internet services available with that you can learn everything sitting at your home. Visit Online Services: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/online-services Sabse behtar service hai Yog ka daan. Iske liye Soul consciousness ka bahut abhyas chahiye aur Pavitrata. Atmao ko Yog se Shanti, Pyaar aur Shakti ka daan dena -isko Sakaash kaha jata hai. (Visit: What is Saskash?) Tell us when and How did you come to know about Prajapita Brahma Kumaris. How did you go ahead ? Tell more about yourself, your history. *** IMPORTANT *** You may know about the basic 7 days course which is the introduction in essence of the Godly knowledge given by God in Murlis. You may take this course online (as there are no centres near you). 7 days course online: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course This course has been guided with images, audio and videos in both Eng and Hindi. First transform your life and be an example. Remain in touch in emails. Whatever you need, search on BK Google www.bkgoogle.com (A divine search engine for BK) Accha namaste Khuda Hafiz On Godly World Service 00

How to settle karmic debts with husband? Sister Shivani ko Awakening TV series me sunte the. Yeh email hume likha gaya ki unke pati (husband) cheat kar rahe the aur iski jaankari hue. Ab kya kiya jaye? Kya relationship ko bachaya ja sakta hai ya phir kya kiya jaye? Original Email Received (in Essence) Mein Shivani behn ke awakening program ko sunti hu. Mere pati ke bare me kuch kehna hai. Pata chala ki unka kisi aur se relationship hai... Vo ise maanne se mana karte hai, kabhi kehte - galati ho gayi. To ab yeh accept to nahi kar sakti - to kya kiya jaye? Unko morally aur spiritually kaise samjhya jaye? Our Response + Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: BK Shivani, Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) Aapka daily me likha patra padha. Spast itna jaroor hai ki aapko relationship arthat sambandh ke liye advice mangi hai. Vastav me hum Brahma Kumari or Brahma Kumar bhi advice kisse lete hai? Hum advice lete hi hai hum sabhi atmao ke Parampita nirakar ParamAtma se. To hum aapko vahi shrimat (advice) de rahe hai ho hume ParamAtma se mili hai. Pehle to aapko Yog dwara (meditation) dwara apne pichle janmo ka hisaab us atma se jo baki hai, use tod dena hai. Koi bhi hisaab kaliyug ke annt ne dukh deta hai. Ab kaliyug ka bhi annt (end) hai na. Ab hi sabhi atmao ke Karmic account chuktu hone hai. Sabhi ko paramdham (ghar) vapis jana hai. Yeh Gyan jab hume milta hai, samaj me aati hai, to dukh nahi rehta. Kyuki jaante hai - sab acche ke liye hi hota hai (Everything happens for Good). Dekho yaha bhi aap humare connection me tab aye jab aapke sath vo situation hui. To accha hua na? Karma ke accounts kaise end (chuktu) kare? - Yeh Awakening series me bhi samjhaya gaya hai. Aapko niche kuch Useful links de rahe hai - jaroor dekhna.. (part 1) How to Settle Karmic account -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SPY1-biTzhs (part 2) How to Settle Karmic account -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9YaEleD2844 (article) How to finish karmic account -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/how-to-finish-karmic-accounts-with-someone (article) Celibacy - A way of Life: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/celibacy * Video Gallery -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/videos * Karma - Law & Living -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/karma * Live event speech - BK Shivani: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OO8BPHSHSlg ( Do 'Subscribe' to above channel - YogiYouth ) Do visit all above linked pages aur sabhi videos bhi jaroor dekhe. Hope this will help you to overcome limited feelings and fly in a stage of Soul consciousness. if you need anything else, or more guidance, contact us again. ************** Useful links ************** Sound Cloud channel -> https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk (Subscribe) Mobile apps -> http://bit.ly/BkAndroidApps Accha On Godfatherly Service BrahmaKumari Shivani 00

I have completed the 7 Day Raja Yoga Course online. On a couple of YouTube videos I heard references to an advanced course. Is this available online?

Husband was not taking financial responsibiliy and wife needs to tolerate his behavior. Which is the best way to handle the situation and save the relationship? Here is our guidance. Original Email Received Om shanti, I m vandana, n i m very confused to take right decision, even i so depressed that wanted to suicide, but i have a small 5 year baby so i m really very upset please help me. My husband is not taking responsibilty financially n everything i m doing , jb bi paise mango to bus ladayi n ulta mujhse paise lete. Bus sab kuch sehti rahu aur jiti rahu ya divorce le lu but i have a baby uska kya hoga. Please please guide me. Thank you. Our Email Response + Guidance To: Anyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) Good morning Aapka patra mila. This is the response to your email letter received on 8 March 2019. Jaise aapne kaha ki aap financially independent ho, to aise acchi sthiti me bacche ke saath reh sakte hai. Lekin isse bhi accha hai ki pati ko samjhaya jaye. Parivaar ko ek saath rehna chahiye. Usually, sisters and mothers have to tolerate because of being financially dependent. Power to tolerate is needed. But it is understood that each soul is different. This power is not seen in the majority nowadays.! Hence the only solution remains is to abandon the relationship - that is divorce. Please refer to 8 powers of Soul page However, this is not the best solution. The better solution is to heal the relationship in a spiritual way. So instead make convince your husband to sit and listen to the awakening series on ''Relationship'' which is VERY beneficial for you both. Shortly saying that each and every talk guides the family relationship - How to manage, tolerate, love and transform... Awakening series on 'Relationship': http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Shivani-7009-03.htm How to have Happy relationships (Hindi): http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Shivani-7009-18A.htm (video) Healing Relationship: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hWvWT3zdXa8 ADVICE: Do watch the series and videos with your husband together. They will surely like the way of explanation. This is easy and will uplift both of you. However, the key is with you. Always be maturated, tolerating and accept him. Love begins with acceptance. Healing begins with loving. All Souls are unique and are loveable in God's eyes. If explained with love and wisdom, anyone can be brought to the right path. Weakness can be 'transformed' into virtues. We all have virtues and today we all are some or other weakness. So what is needed? Acceptance is needed. Helping each other, being a support and guide with a feeling of true and unconditional love. This is the direction of GOD. We also welcome you to please come and know About Us -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us (introduction) God has come. If you are following Awakening series, you would know the task of God and our relationship with him. Please please come and know your Spiritual father who is waiting for you. Series on GOD's revelations: http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Shivani-7009-14.htm *About GOD - Supreme Soul: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/god-the-supreme-soul-shiv-baba Hope you are completely satisfied with this response. The main aim of this was to bring you near to God, your Spiritual father. Come now he says. Do visit and watch given 2 series and 2 videos. Do email us about your progress in 15 days * Healing Relationships (article): https://bkarticles.blog/2019/02/16/healing-past-relationship-hurt/ Get & use our Mobile apps: For Android: http://bit.ly/BkAndroidApps For iPhone: http://bit.ly/iPhoneAppsBk Need anything? Contact us again. namaste On Godfatherly Service 00

This is the advise given to all the parents who resist the decision of their children to marry according to their choices in other caste. What is best to be done? Here is the step by step spiritual healing. And a way to find peace in the parents - child relationship. Original Email received from you Hi Didi, I have a question. I am a very conservative and traditional hindu. I come from a family where we practiced a lot of pooja and katha at home. Both my kids are atheist. They are oppose to marrying in the same faith. For them love is the priority and they can settle with other races. They both are dating from other races. Me, being so religious and conservative it really bothers me. What can I tell myself so I get peace or how can I handle this situation? Thanks. Our Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapati Brahmakumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalaya (Godly Spiritual University) Dear Divine Brother/ Sister, Your email is received and read. Here is our response and advice for you. First of all we must clear our minds with the very true fact that 'Our Karma leads us to our Destiny'. No matter what we plan, decide, or foresee but our past karma will reap what we have sown.. So everyone we meet through the journey of our lives are the product of our Karmic Accounts. Only a Gyani and Yogi have the power to turn their Destiny because they have Shivbaba and power of Yog. But there's an exception to this too i.e the Gyan of Drama.. what is fixed in Drama will happen. As far as the choices of your children are considered.. You must keep this in your mind that their (your children's) karmic accounts will pull them to the path of settlement.. So be it a marriage in other caste or whatsoever like that. You are here powerless. You can't control anyone but yourself.. you can only control and change the line of your own thoughts.. You can't interfere in anyone else's Karmic Accounts. We understand, as you said, you belong to conservative Hindu background and it becomes difficult to accept leave alone intercaste marriages but even love marriages. To find more guidance, we advice you to search our forum (this forum) using the search box - search for related posts that will further guide you. You must understand and accept lovingly everyone because we are all are souls. Every soul in the world are child of one God ( incorporeal God Shiva). So please don't tangle yourself with the thoughts that you are very religious, belong to upper/lower/middle hindu class etc.. These are the titles of body. Your 'to be daughter in law or son in law from other caste' are a Soul. And if your children choose to marry them - it is their Karmic Accounts pulling them.. and at the end parents want their children to be happy.. So you should not go against your kids. Let them choose. We understand, there are a lot of insecurities related with inter-caste marriages- 1. Culture and upbringing of other soul 2. Food habits (veg/non veg) 3. Less or no knowledge of family's background 4. No power to control an adverse situation, as is no common relative/intermediary, in case of some issues 5. For the male family, no or less dowry (though dowry system is banned) & is the wife of adjusting nature or not? 6. For females, if other family is safe for her and is accepting her? 7. What other people in our society say or think or react about this? They may be other reason bothering you or some of these. Visit: Day to Day timetable to learn about our lifestyle which you can also adopt and see the transformation in life. Well marriages in same caste are also no guarantee nowadays because it is kaliyug, the end period of Drama.. What is bound to happen will happen.. I've personally seen many same caste marriages failing and leading to divorce. If other family's parents are against the marriage then you should counsel your kids. But If everyone is okay with it then you can let it. But the need of the hour, for now, is to be Happy and Content. You must not disturb your state of mind. You are a Soul, consider yourself a Soul and accept lovingly everyone who is going to be part of your family. Do also watch these videos : 1. https://youtu.be/3NRMm452JbQ 2. https://youtu.be/LiBSGIQqiFs 3. https://youtu.be/6v1rmYtjPM0 Please watch given videos. Also, You also should visit brahma kumaris center and take the 7 days free rajyoga meditation course.. you'll feel powerful about dealing with your own self and others... Need to ask more? Contact us again. Omshanti On Godfatherly Service 00