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A conversation with Shiv baba' -response to an email sent to us by Shreya Jain on 21 Aug 2018. Original Email: Om Shaanti. Mene baba se pucha ki Baba aap ka Naam to 'Shiv' hai par mein ek Aatma hun to mera kya Naam hai? .Baba ne kaha ki mera to bas ek hi Naam hai naa 'Shiv' par tumhare to 7 Naam hain...Khushi, Pyari, Mithi, Aanandi , Gyani, Shaanti, Shakti. Thank you baba. Namaste to all the divine souls. Baba ka karya karne me sabko safalta mile. Our Response: To: Shreya Jain Your letter is received. This experience ois result of a direct connection with Shiv baba. It is happy moment for you. You had a conversation with one to whom the entire world is calling.. Baba gave you introduction of the 7 virtues of Soul - our original qualities (our name as a Soul form). The most deep concept of the knowledge is the first concept -of Soul - what is Soul ? One understands more and more as one goes within and thinks. How is a subtle point of light can have a record of 84 births with all 84 body and relationships with other souls... all this is recorded. There is a secret is this. That soul the point has a field - a field is invisible but acts as an identifier for that soul - For a simple example, if you reach to a person who is a divine soul, a RajYogi - you will will the vibrations of peace or power.. This is the field of Soul which cannot be seen but be experienced. So in all, it is certainly possible to have such an experience of talking with someone who remember the most. Here this is with the supreme soul (God). Baba gives response not in words, but we understand it in words, in language that we know. This is beautiful. In higher consciousness, conversation happens through signals, scenes (visions) and vibrations. Then when we relate it to the corporeal word, with our powerful mind, we can convert that conversation in the language that our brain knows. With this, have a very peaceful, lovely day. Visit below page to find all the revelations from the Gyaan Murli. Revelations: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/revelations Accha namaste 00

Shrimat is to live a pure family life and becoming a Godly student. Here is one of a fine question asked by Rekha on 22 Aug 2018 on 'How to forgive others and use of power to tolerate and power to accommodate while we live with family?' Original Question: Om Shanti my problem is I forgive people but still thoughts come due to their dumb behaviour .I have stopped giving importance to their any sought of attitude towards me so what can I do as well I m not able to focus now on my career .It's been past 15 months I'm sitting at home but I don't feel like going out or working any where please do help me om Shanti. Our Response (Answer): To: Rekha Dear Divine Sister We have received your letter. Here is the response. You stage of forgiveness for others is very good. But forgiiveness should come with 'understanding' (knowledge). What should we understand? Answer: We are brahman souls, who are in direct sustenance given by God himself. We have knowledge that the present time is the end of cycle. Every soul is now in their lowest stage (tamo). Hence they will make many mistakes . We were also the same before we came in Gyaan. Hence it is now our prime responsibility, to give them support, love and power so that they can overcome their weakness. Yes. Sometimes someone may behave in an improper manner which may be be acceptable easily. But you should understand the reason of why they are such. They are many reasons, knowing which you will instead have mercy on them. Today, human beings do hard work to earn for their family and self, as they also have growing material desires to fulfill. They believe they get happiness in this. When one fulfills a wish of physical senses, they start becoming a slave of the senses. ''There is NO end of desires'' So you and me, the brahman souls have a greater aim of life - that is - to become pure (conquer the vices) and to show other souls the path. You can do the service. Anyone can, there are many means. Share to your family, friends, on internet via Blogs and forums. And there is service of mind (mansa sewa) PERSONAL You asked to advice upon - 'I cant focus on work and dont feel like going outside' Advice: Everything has happened for a good reason. By the way, you will be thinking that what is good to stay at home, not working. But it is to know that in this time, outside is such atmosphere that to remain untouched from negativity is getting difficult. Hence first you have to make yourself capable powerful enough to face that atmosphere by remaining untouched. Understood? That is reason why you are staying at home while you becoming powerful from inside. Learn RajYog (Rajyoga meditation). --- Useful Links --- Resources: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/resources Sitemap: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/sitemap Mobile Apps: https://play.google.com/store/apps/developer?id=Shiv+Baba+Brahma+Kumaris Accha namaste 00

Made a mistake? God has said: 'Lust is your greatest enemy'. Here is healing for you the soul. How to recover from past Karma, sin or mistakes? The way to Self realisation and Self transformation. Original Email Received in January 2019 I did a sin. I am in love with my best Friend who has a girlfriend. I just can't see him sad. I feel jealous of their togatherness. Day before yesterday we shared an intimate moment. We hugged and he kissed and rubbed his cheek on my cheek. How could I allow him for this! He kissed on my forehead too. I am feeling like a culprit. I disowned myself. I cheated on my parents and his girlfriend. I broke my vow of not being intimate with someone other than my future husband. Please advice me how can i forget all these things and my bestfriend too? I want to move on but don't know how. I want to be pure again. Please please advice me. I have done the 7 days rajayoga course and started practicing meditation also, but still am thinking about it. Please advice me a way so that i will not repeat these type of mistakes. Wish I could be pure again. Please help. Thank u Our Email Response To: Monali (and Everyone Reading this) Good morning Your email letter is received and read. Here is our response. You subjected the letter as 'sin'. But you must first know if it is really so. It is difficult to accurately understand the accounts of karma - what is right action (punya), what is wrong action (sin) or what is in-action (that which does not give any fruit). God sits and explains. In essence, those karma (action) which gives you and others 'peace of mind', which gives inner-satisfaction, is the right Karma. You have judged and concluded that it is a sin. But it is not. It is instead a ''mistake''. Mistake may lead to a sin - so be aware. Mistake s when you first encounter a new experience. Then you judge if that is right or not. This is essential so that you understand completely the way you want to live. Every soul is here is experience what it is. Soul has virtues of Peace, Purity, love, bliss and powers. But these all are in merged form. When we make use of these, they come emerged. Life is making choices at every step. However choice you will make, you will become. Great thing is that the creator (GOD) is so great that he placed 2 choices after every choice - that is - even if a Soul makes a mistake, still you will have a chance to re-create. You will have this choice till the end. God is soo great. Shiv baba has come. To understand the essence of this divine knowledge, you first have to take the 7 days course. You can take this course at any NEARBY cente OR online. Whatever happens is always for benefit. See here also, as you made a small mistake, you came towards God, towards us and now you are more stable in purity. Baba has given the first shrimat - Purity. This is our last birth. It is last birth for all the souls. The play will last until the end. World drama is of 5000 years. ''I want to forget him completely and dedicate my life towards spirituality...'' Answer: In such a situation, advice is given that you should direct your mind towards something productive. Learn something important to keep mind busy in spiritual knowledge. I am sharing you how I started the journey - step by step. Hope you will find inspiration. There are many good ways to start. Here are a few: 1. Start by knowing the history of Yagya - here is a playlist on SoundCloud where the history is told in Hindi (audio): https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/sets/history-of-brahma-kumaris 2. Then watch these videos - https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/videos - Videos not only is easy to understand but also is useful to bring clarity in Gyan (knowledge) 3. Now you have received an introduction of God - our spiritual father. Hence now we can understand the Murli. It is time to study. So I started listening to Murlis everyday and also taking important points in a notebook. Murli website: babamurli.com Mobile apps (MUST install and see) - http://bit.ly/BkAndroidApps 4. Making a chart every day before sleep - On Shiv baba's direction's i started making a 1 page small chart for my daily activities. - Did i make any mistake today? - confession. - What did baba say in today's murli? - What service did i do today? - What new i learned? 5. When you complete all 4 stages of Purusharth, you will become a mature child of Shiv baba. You don't need guidance from me. When you start, email us. As you go ahead in this journey, you shall find divine inspirations from Shiv baba and Drama. You will become what you ''will to''. Always remember - 'This is the only time when we can 'create' our fortune for many many coming births...' Good wishes --- Useful links (do 'save' on phone/PC) --- About Us - https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us 7 days course online - https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-course EXPLORE THE SITEMAP - https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/sitemap Need anything? Search on BK Google - www.bkgoogle.com namaste In Godly World Service 00

Official Guidelines on: How to join the Godfatherly Spiritual University (Prajapita Brahma Kumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay). *Updated on: 21/05/2021 The following are our "3 steps to join" as per the directions given by Shiv Baba in Sakar and Avyakt Murlis. To view the most updated information, please visit our official page: How to Join Us. Step 1: Take RajYoga course The 7 day Raja Yog course is a foundation and the essence of entire spiritual knowledge taught and practised at Brahma Kumaris Spiritual University. And this will be considered as the first step in becoming a BK student. You can take this course at any nearby BK centre (Rajyoga center) or even while staying at Home (via our Online Course section) In the introductory 7 days course, the basic points of God-given Spiritual knowledge will be explained - Day 1: Soul (me) Day 2: the Supreme soul (God, our father) Day 3: Three worlds that exist Day 4: World drama cycle Day 5: Story of 84 births of human souls Day 6: Law of Karma Day 7: Raja Yog meditation & its practice Step 2: Study Murli and vow of Purity When you have cleared the first stage (course), then you will also understand what is murli. It is said that the milk of a lioness only stays in a golden bowl (meaning: Divine knowledge only stays in a pure intellect). So now, one must follow the first advice of God, which is to 'become pure'. In common words - complete celibacy or brahmacharya. Purity is the mother of all virtues. And without such purity (in thoughts, words, actions), one cannot be called a Brahman (a BK). For many, purity in thoughts is difficult. But with time following other directions in the murli, the stage of our inner purity also improves and gradually it becomes a natural way of living. The easy way of bringing purity deeply into our lives, is to remember that "We all souls are brothers (or brothers and sisters), the children of one spiritual father (Supreme soul /ParamAtma)" Now you are ready to taste the eternal nectar. What is Murli? We daily listen to Shiv baba's Gyan Murli. These are the loving words of knowledge and directions by God through his corporeal medium Brahma (those murlis are known as Sakar Murli). God's murli covers the entire knowledge of creation and the creator, and our own story of 84 births. This is food for the soul. The soul imbibes the food of knowledge and becomes powerful. When we churns this knowledge, it becomes our wisdom. Know more on: What is Murli? Step 3: Surrender your Intellect Many ask us: How can I join and be one among you? How can I surrender in the Yagya? So it is important to know that 'surrender' doesn't mean to live at a centre. In fact it is Baba's Shrimat that you should remain pure and do spiritual effort (purusharth) while living at your homes (with your loukik family) ''I will listen only you, I will walk, eat, sit and sleep only with you (in your remembrance) - this is the promise you children have made to me'' - Shiv baba (Murli, 1967) To surrender your mind to God means, to follow his given advice (shrimat). What is Shrimat? Shrimat is directions of God to us children, as given in the Murli which we daily study (listen/read). Murli will be divided into 4 subjects (knowledge, yog, dharna and service) out of which, the third subject (dharna) is considered as the advice of God i.e.: how one shall inculcate the spiritual values and virtues in practical life and remove the 5 vices (lust, anger, greed, ego, attachment) and other subtle weaknesses. Realise that it is God himself who is speaking the Murli and teaching us children to make us equal to himself. When you realise this, it is a matter of time to surrender your mind to God and listen/follow his elevated directions/advice. The one who follows the advice (shrimat) given in Murli, is the one whom we call - a surrendered Soul, a BK. This is called as a surrender of the mind. ✤Step 1: Clarification How to take the Course? There are 2 ways to take the free 7 days RajYoga course: 1. Via your nearby BK RajYog centre Visit your nearby local centre and ask the sisters to give you the introduction of this. They will also guide you ahead. The pure meditative atmosphere of RajYog centre will uplift your spiritual stage and you will experience being a practical form of peace, purity and love. 2. Via our 'online' 7 days course system For those who live very far from a BK centre or those who cannot or do not wish to visit a centre for the course, we have our online system for 7 days course: Visit ➙ Course in English Course in Hindi Course in Telugu and Also available to print the course in PDF ➙ https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/7-days-course-pdf OR If you wish to listen or watch, the course is also available in video➙ Video course (in Hindi) Hope this guides you ahead on your spiritual journey. God, our spiritual father awaits you. ✱ If you need anything in between the journey, the best place is BK Google ➙ www.bkgoogle.com (our 'search engine'). Visit (save/bookmark this link on your phone) Signature: On Godfatherly (Godly) Service to the World Souls, The Shiv Baba Services Initiative team

I am 21 years old and in the last year of my college....... My mother has always complained that my father does not care for her and has total disdain for her; he prefers to be more outside the house than inside the house. But to me, my father has always been quite loving and caring. My mother was waiting for the past 20 years, that once my son is able to stand on his own feet, then I will take a decision. As I will sit for placements this year, and most probably land a job, my mother is losing her patience that she kept for so many years. During the lockdown, I have been home for the past few months and have witnessed fights happening between my parents at an interval of every 4-5 days. These days, even my father does not seem to think about what words he is saying to my mother, in front of me. In midst of all this, I have to prepare for my exams and placements too. Now, how do I deal with this situation and how do I support my parents emotionally and spiritually? Pranaam.....

Anger is just like a fire which burns first itself then to others. So why we get angry?  When situations are not according us then we get angry. So who are responsible for this? Stop,  be quait and think the reality, whatever is happening around me, only I, I'm responsible for that. If you believe it you will easily cross all the situation. Namaste.

Giing up addiction is a matter of simple understanding, which is acheived by Self realisation (who am i). Nowadays, many are suffering from this addiction, either of smoking, drinking, etc. Addiction is just a temporary feeling of detachment from sorrow, which later causes more sorrow both physical and mental. Hence it is important for them to realise what life is, what is the true happiness of life, how can this precious life be lived.. So here is a story of someone who emails us about his son who was suffering from addiction, asking for help and advice. Original Emailed Question: Respected sister I have a son who's age is about 32 yrs but his doings are just like a boy of 18 yrs. He use to drink wine every day and do nothing even he discontinued to go office where he doing job . He use to quarel with his mom when he is drunk . I tried to correct his wrong doing with friendly manner but in vain. Pl suggest me how make him correct. Your sincerely Our Answer (Guidance or response) TO: unknown Dear Brother/Sister Your letter is received and read. You wish advice for your son. Advice: With your son, visit the nearest centre of Prajapita Brahma Kumari Ishwariy Vishwa Vidhyalay. There, they will guide you in this. The enviournment is divine and pure, which will help your son to understand what he is missing and how life should be lived - and what is true (real) happiness of life. Let your son to visit the centre regularly (2 or 3 times a week). Second: When you go to the center, ask the brother or sister for 7 days RajYog course. This is for your whole family. Do visit together. 3rd: You may also take the RajYog course online now here: 7 Days Raja Yog course Resources that will help in your case: Do listen ALL episodes (for your son) Awakening episodes on ''Giving up Addiction': http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Shivani-7009-08.htm Vyasan Mukti section: http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Vyasan%20Mukti%20Section.htm Accha Good luck and hope you will follow the guidance given 00

How to overcome feeling of being inferior and comparing the self with others? A spiritual guide and princles in life that matter the most. How to think? What is the right path to walk in life? Original email we received from Vaishali Sharma on 28 Sep 2018 Om Shanti! My name is Vaishali Sharma and I am a first year MBBS Student. The problem that I am facing currently is related to comparing my life with a girl who lives in my colony. She's a BA Graduate and gives home tution as a part time course and has an average income. She doesn't have a very strong financial background and her family doesn't give her financial support. But despite all this she's able to afford to travel here and there almost every day and that too in a car ;eat at expensive restaurants ; drinks expensive beer; wears branded clothes and makeup. And a huge credit goes to her boyfriend for the kind of lavish lifestyle she lives. Her mother and brother despite knowing all this don't scold her, rather they promote her for doing this. I on the other hand have never betrayed my parent's trust and I have always been a sincere girl. But for the past 1.5 to 2 years I have been comparing my life with hers. And during this time I was actually viewing her Instagram account almost regularly which further destroyed my self esteem because I was able to see that she was having fun in her life. I struggled a lot just to earn my MBBS seat and the journey was never like a cakewalk but I couldn't help comparing my life with hers because she was always chilling around with her friends and boyfriend. Whereas I faced tremendous pressure, criticism, failures, disappointments and a wave of conflicting emotions. I still feel sometimes that God has been unfair to me and has been kind to her for he didn't gave her a struggling life. My teachers and parents used to say that after passing 10th one should work hard and focus on career and studies or else you will have to live a struggling life for the next 50-60 years. She didn't work hard but still she's enjoying and happy. I know that I have so much to be grateful to God but I'm just not able to appreciate the things and people he has blessed me with. How to deal with this? Please help. THANK U VAISHALI SHARMA Our Response Vaishali Your message is received and read. Read with attention. Very strange to see how India, a country of culture and religion, the most ancient and important land has changed in few years. Before, good life was considered to be the one in which we get peace of mind, in which we stay away from all bad, in which we fulfill our responsibilities and then we struggle, work hard, but at last get the real success. This is called ''life''. Going here and there, drinking, etc. is a task of a human beings who has lost the way of life. There is no real happiness in this. Person may only look happy. Real happiness lies in doing what is not against the Dharma. Always remember Vaishali, in your life, at every single point, you will have 2 choice. One of those 2 is right and better. Mostly the right choice looks difficult. A wise person should not be attracted in temporary pleasures. And see, it is not your bad fortune, that you are safe and away from such a life, but it is a better fortune. This you should know that one who walks on right path, does not indulge in bad karma, shall definitely get everything that life has to offer. Hard work is best for this. Hard work is dharma. Celibacy is your dharma. Helping to the needy, serving parents and thanking God is our Dharma. Cleanliness, not harming anyone (non voilence) is our Dharma If you walk on this path, there shall be temporary pain, sacrifices. After this, is bright light, which is great reward. We wish to know - ''How did you come to know about Prajapita Brahma Kumaris''? - Say in detail. Here are some very useful pages you should visit. About Us: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Celibacy: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/celibacy-is-raja-yoga-way-of-Life Do visit both pages. What do you think now? Accha namaste 00

We received a complaint for a regional centre's incharge sisters, that they demand for money for facilities that they themselved need or to arrange visits to madhuban. This is our response. Original Email as we received fromGuarav on 19th Sep Dear concern This is for your kind information that my mother used to go in local om shanti center in near by area from last 1yr, and feel like those Didi's are available in the center ,force almost everyone to give more then required money to them for going to mount Abu or any near by City like they are going to gurgaon tomorrow i.e. 20/9/2018 for janki Dadi satsang, they almost made my mother cry for not agreeing to give dakshina amount of RS. 500 exactly in addition to convince, and daily they make people feel insulted by any of the reasons. I just want to know is it necessary Everytime to give dakshina exactly you want, is this thing is in policy of bharma kumaris? I will let you know the complete address once get any revert. Regards! Our Response adn Guidance Dear Divine Brother/Sister Your letter is received by us. You are received. No Gaurav, it is not permitted by Shiv baba to demand money, not even a single rupee for any cause. It is law within our family of Brahma Kumari and Kumar, to arrange money for service by ourself. We never should ask anyone from outside for money. They may give a room for daily murli class. Money should not be asked. But if those sisters at any centre are doing this, they are doing a GREAT disservice in Yagya. They are unaware of God has come. They should and will be punished. Baba is seeing everything. Give the address of the local centre. You wish to know more, please read the History page to know the complete history and hence you wil know the truth and the life of a true Brahma Kumari: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/history Please read and listen the audios also. If you have any question, visit FAQ page: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/faq OR search on www.bkgoogle.com Waiting for your response. In God Fatherly World Service 00 Further Conversation Email from Gaurav on 20th Sep Respected concern Om shanti BK Sunita is her name from sector-15 centre sonepat, Haryana. 04 old and middle age people left going in centre after that janki Dadi concern in gurgaon only because of the sister sunita and her pathetic behavior towards people, someone come today in evening murli time to my mother at my place and she literally cried that she want to go at the centre but she will not go only because of her extremely rude behavior towards people. Hoping for the required action and kindly not share my mail I'd or name against same Regards! Our 2nd Response Dear Gaurav, Understand this. May be you are right about. Know that there are very very few complaints like this. Because mostly we know that all surrendered sisters (or say most of them) are selflessly serving. But yet, it is certainly possible that such a wrong person may have entered the centre who is going against the Shrimat. But you HAVE TO give evidence of this. Make a small video of BK Sunita when you go and meet at the centre. Go in the evening time. Please do this. Proof is must. Yes, baba knows. But we human souls do not know and need proof. You are the medium Will you send a video in proof? See how sisters do services: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2sdEBtjQAcQ 2nd: As said, you do not need to visit centres. Science has given a device (mobile phone) in which at present, there are MANY ways to listen Gyan murli. 1. Website for murli: babamurli.com 2. YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCY0tVDjHZ7F1zHu2Jj9uDTQ 3. Mobile Apps: https://play.google.com/store/apps/developer?id=Shiv+Baba+Brahma+Kumaris Accha namaste 00

Questions on Murli, God and Shiv Baba. How does God come in world? When and for what reason? Original Question via Email: Respected Authority, Myself Deepayan Dutta asking you about who is god & what is it doing in this world? Why it make this ruthless world where creature have to alive by killing another? After all of this sin work why everyone says god is gracious? Why everyone worship it, only for fear? I will glad if you respond on my email. Yours Faithfully, Deepayan Dutta Our Response (Answer): Good Morning Deepayan Your letter is recieved and read. To get the perfect answer, you have to understand MANY things. What you need to know is: 1. Who is called as GOD? 2. What is our 'relationship' with God? 3. What does God create and when does he come in world? 4. Does God control the behavior of animals and human beings? ANSWERS: 1. God is the supreme soul, the creator of heaven the golden age. God is the highest authority, the supreme truth that exist without a reason. It is a point of light and energy - a tiny point of spiritual light and might (energy). God does not have a body or a form like us. 2. 'Father'. God is the father (creator) of all human souls (us). Just as a father gives inheritance (property) to his children - so God gives his property of Peace, Purity, Bliss, Love and Powers to us. God is the ocean of 7 virtues (knowledge, love, purity, peace, happiness, bliss, power). He gives us all this virtues as an inheritance. 3. God comes at the end of kaliyug (old world) and creates NEW WORLD. This is a detail explanation. Visit History page: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/history 4. Does is one - ever detached from world. He DOES NOT interfior with anyone's part in world drama. He is world benefector. Only comes 1 time in entire cycle - at the very end, when all are in sorrow. He frees us from sorrow and takes back home, our sweet silence home. Visit World Drama Cycle page to learn more. Animals have this nature of killing other animals to live - this is NOT given or decided by God. It is a nature of animal souls. We human souls are all different in our nature. Some are extremely wise and good, while some are not wise or not good. This all is results of our own Karma. Hope you have received the knowledge of truth. --- Useful Links --- About God (Shiv baba): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/god-the-supreme-soul-shiv-baba World Drama Cycle: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/world-drama-cycle About Us: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Accha In Godly World Service 00

Email letter received from Kavita (Australia) who wish advice upon how to ulift her nature so well that no one should physical attract to her and how to imbibe the virtue of Purity (celibacy) in life? Original Question asked via Email: Namaste, I am living in Australia right now and arrived just 3 months ago. I am married for ten years and 29 years old and also have two lovely kids. I was only 19 when got married and faced many ups and down in my married life, even many times I decided to commit suicide and my in-laws want me to get divorced from my husband and whenever I talked to any boy in relatives they started to question on my character just because I have a smiley face. In Australia, we are not financially strong and live in a house share and our owner also attracted to me after a small informal chat and always cared for me. Four days ago, he told like me that he like me, and tried to hold my hands forcefully. I denied because I know it is a big sin. He is also a married and a very nice man even his wife is also a friendly lady and they have a kid. I managed to convince him that I don't have any wrong intention about him. I don't understand why people misunderstand me if I talk to them with a smile. Is really my character is not good? Because internally for the first time I also feel attracted to him but I always stay away from him and stop talking to him. I don't want to cheat my husband. But I still think about my identity and character, attracted to another man is not a sign of a good woman. Is I gave them any signal that attracts them to me? Our Email Response (Answer) From: Prajapita Brahma Kumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay To: unknown soul -- YOUR PERSONAL RESPONSE -- You are cheerful and that is a virtue. If you create such thought for someone - definitely that thoughts will reach them and they will react if that soul is not powerful enough. This is how thoughts can influence. Second - this all can be overcomed. A powerful tree is not shaken even in midst of tsunami. Because its roots are deep and trunk is strong. Similarly - if Soul's pure sanskars are deep and the mind is made powerful, then stabilty is seen in practical life. HOW? Advice: Start Swaman Abhyas (practice of self respect). DAILY - wake up early in morning around 5 am, sit in silence and listen these commentaries and follow. Swaman in Hindi: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=2 Swaman in English: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fhr4ChV3EEM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtEe4C2MOHQT_tMLu0AuPJot Save above playlist. Here are Guided Raja Yog commentaries in Hindi & English: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary --------------------- * Conclusion * Practice given advice for atlleast 21 days and see the results in yourself. You have 2 children. Mother has natural feeling of belongingness to someone - for you - you should focus only on YOUR family or children. Do not even try to make any happy. JUST BE YOURSELF at your best. Always remember - Lust is the greatest enemy of human being. NEVER you should surrender to any feeling that is risen by this lust. Read this article on Purity - as a way of Life: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/celibacy-is-raja-yoga-way-of-Life This is our advice. Waiting for your response and progress. Accha In Godly World Service 00

My family doesn't allow me to follow Brahma Kumaris (Shiv baba's shrimat) nor allow to surrender. I want to live a BK lifestyle, do world service and live with celibacy. Also not wish to marry, as my parents says..' We receive such emails regularly where Kumari or Kumar shares their life experience and seeks for guidance. We give a personal response to eveyrone. But generally, the solution is the same. In this article cum Q and A, you will learn the true meaning of Shiv baba's shrimat and How should a soul follow this shrimat in life? Everything is explained + links are given for more information. Original Question via Email Om Shanti bhaiji Myself Harshita and I am in this Gyan since 6 years but my parents are totally against this Gyan ..Neither they will allowed me to go center nor allowed to follow shrimat such as food... they want to marry me but I can't do.... Bcoz for me, baba is everything & I want a Bk lifestyle.... I tried a lot but not able to convince them... Now a days they are not allowed me to go outside the home.... What should be done by me to convinced them? Because center incharge di gave me a shreemat that U will come at center after convinced them. I don't want to stay at home.... I want to do service... live a pure brahmakumari life... What should I do to convince them ? Please Bhaiji suggest something by which I will convince them. Your sister Harshita Our Email Response + Guidance For: Brahma Kumari Harshita (and Everyone reading, who has similar situation in life) Good Morning Your letter is received. You are in Gyaan since 6 years. You showed your wish to surrender fully in Yagya. Now listen this. You already are a surrendered soul. As you follow the shrimat, the one who follows the shrimat are surrendered. Is it possible to follow the shrimat 100% while staying with loukik family and fulfiling loukik responsibility? Yes. Definitely. There are many examples of this. Most of baba's children stay at home and study and also do a good service. I am writing this. I also live with loukik family and do all these services. So can you not? If you find it hard to do Purusharth while staying at your loukik home, then is it a weakness or strength of soul? Who is better? 1. One who does service at centre 2. One who does service while staying at home (with balance in both - loukik and aloukik) Who will be better? What does shrimat say? Shrimat says: Become pure and take the Gyaan while staying at your place. Freedom is given to all - some are comfortable to stay at home and follow 100% shrimat & some are unable to do this and hence they prefer staying at a centre. One more thing to know - if you stay at centre, then your responsibility increases - because you are now eating from baba's Bhandara and stay at baba's home. So you MUST never go against the shrimat or against values of Brahman jeevan . Your life then only is for Purusharth and Service. If you can do this, then you are free to join the ashram. Baba gives permission. Yet shrimat is given for balance of Loukik and Aloukik. Listen this audio: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1O1emkO2aZrA5YVe4VxTxiOLq91P44nBT/view?usp=sharing ~ MESSAGE ~ Make your decision - where will you like to stay? What does your intellect (buddhi) say? Then we will guide you ahead. Accha namaste In Godly World Service 00