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What should I do to convince her for marriage? Should I think of marriage or should wait or should I forget and move ahead in life? Question was asked by Ujjwal from UP, India on 15 Oct 2018 via email. Original Question: Om Shanti. I am a 27 year old working as an engineer with an IT firm in India. I fell in love with a girl working with me. It took some time for me to convince her for marriage and eventually she agreed. Her mother showed her horoscope somewhere and they said she is manglik and she can't marry me as I am a non manglik. They say this combination is not favourable for marriage. The communication in our relationship has reached to no contact. It's been 3-4 months now. From the day she came to know about the unfavourable match, She said she cant live in fear for her life. Maybe because her mother is not agreeing or she is not willing too. I also left the situation as is and walked away. From the last few days I have been practicing Swamaan by detaching myself from this situation and giving it to Baba. I have done the 7 day course in 2010. I read Murli as well on a daily basis. I am from Meerut (Uttar Pradesh). Please conclude. Our Response (given Answer): Ujjwal Dear Divine Brother Your message is received. You have done the course 8 years ago. Hence you have taken the Gyaan. You also are studying the Gyan murli everyday. Isn't it? Hence you must know that marriage is not permitted in this time. Shiv baba only gives advice. Then it is children's choice. This time is difficult for everyone. Many changes are coming and will continue to rise till the transformation takes in place. Murli has all this information. We not only should read murli, but churn (think about). Who is speaking? Is a human being speaking this divine knowledge? Murli is uploaded in MP3 also on babamurli.com OR if you use Sound Cloud app, here is our channel where complete sustainance is given daily: https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk About: your question: As much information you provided, it is clear that your both karmic accounts are NOT deep enough for life long relationship. That is reason why this happen. It was only a temperary milan. Hence in every way, waiting for right time is necessary. If you BOTH believe that you both can live rest of life together, THEN ONLY should you think of marriage. Do not hurry. Always be patient and peaceful. You should keep talking with her. As you said, the Nakshatra (kundali) did not match and hence your marriage was not accepted. Beter is that you forget about this and learn what is there to learn. You are already a special soul. In thousands, there is one who came and got the inheritance from the father (Shiv baba). Advice: 1. Daily listen atleast 1 clip from these Avyakt Murlis: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/avyakt-bapdada-murli 2. Practice swaman with these commentaries: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=2 3. Resources for everything (very useful): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/resources 4. Visit 'Revelations from Murli' page for many secrets revealed: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/revelations Do save all above links on your phone and access anytime when free. This is a boost in Purusharth of self transformation. Anything else? Good Day Accha

Life is changed after watching Awakening with Brahma Kumaris TV program where BK Shivani guided on how to calm your mind and solve small small family and relationship problems. Now I am more calm, polite, understanding and forgiving. Here is our Response to above topic email we received from Pooja on 30 Oct 2018. Original Email: I am Pooja Sarkar, from Kolkata, I am psychologist by profession. I don't know whether this mail check by Shivani didi or not. But I want to give this message to her, I got married on 18th February, 2018. I am staying separated from my husband. I faced mental torture in my in-laws house. After that I started listening Shivani Didi's shows. By one week I could feel the change inside me. But now after 3months. I changed myself fully. Last day while I went to our advocate for filing divorce matter. He met me third time. He told me that you became so positive, you cannot handle this case. Let tell your family or friend to talk to your husband. You became poilte so much. I could even feel that I can't get angry easily. One objective I have now that I want to share my experience to the whole society. It's miracle and absolute magical. I used to get angry so easily. But I don't want to do patch up with my husband, I just want to close our karmic account fully. I did even. But legally it left. A thank you is very little for this change to Shivani didi. Noone makes me understand life's things so logically. Regards Our Response: Pooja (and Everyone reading..) Your letter is received and read. About: ''I got married on 18th February, 2018. I am staying separated from my husband...'' Response: Do you know how GOD function? Some worship him by making idols of Devi-Devta, some worship him as a oval shaped stone, religions are different... God fulfills wishes using other human beings. So, do not mistake that Sister Shivani has helped you. It is God's task. Do not need to praise the creations, because the Creator himself should be praised. Nice to know that your life is changed after Awakening. As the name is given, awakening has really given a direction of life to many - How one should life, How to think and how to settle our Karmic accounts? Life is shaped by our karma - hence understanding this is MUST needed for human being. You are lucky that you have feedom to chose to remain alone. Whatever happened was for your good only. Now no one can put obstacle in living a life of Purity (celibacy). Advice: Read the below articles and posts and see your wisdom growing. What is Life & What is the Purpose?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/what-is-life-and-its-purpose-where-to-find-peace-happiness Celibacy - A way of life: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/celibacy-is-raja-yoga-way-of-Life BK Shivani's source of wisdom: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/BK-Shivani-Source-of-Wisdom-is-Murli ---- You also said - you wish to SHARE your experience with others --- HOW? You can write an article like above ones and send to us. Please write is ''detail'' and give a conclusion at the end. We will post it on our Blog. We cannot be everywhere, that why BK Google is made. Search anything you want to on BK Google, a personal divine search engine: www.bkgoogle.com Accha namaste 00

A kumari, who recently came in Gyan shares the story of Self transformation. How she accepted Purity (celibacy), learned Raja Yoga (RajYog) and her life entirely changed. However asks advice upon how to keep a balance in Shrimat and family (in general). Original Email received I was in a relationship but after i learnt rajyoga i got to know about the importance of purity. As a result my thoughts about relationships and love completly changed. I was not the same person anymore this created a lot of difference between me and my partner and now we are not together but he was severly affected by this separation. He got adversly affected. What should i do? Which decision should i take? Please reply as soon as possible! Om shanti. Our Email Response + Guidance To: Khushman Kaur and Everyone reading From: Shiv Baba Service, Prajapita Brahma Kumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay Your email letter is received. Here is our response. It is time that your luck is awakened and you received the godly message. Maybe you have taken the 7 days course. If not, the link is given: 7 days course online Purity or celibacy or Brahmacharya is the first shrimat (advice) of Shiv baba. Hence most important. You have followed this shrimat - there is nothing wrong. Baba has already told many times in murli, that when you do dharna of purity - then you would have to face oppositions. You have faced nothing compared to many souls faced during the beginning of yagya. This was because they accepted and followed Brahmcharya. You may like to know the history of Shiv baba's yagya - https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/history What you should do ? You may give Sakash to that soul during meditation. Sakash means giving light or vibrations of peace, purity, love or powers. Study the Murli. Firstly, know that you when you follow the shrimat given from Shiv baba, there should be no doubt in mind. There is a benefit in whatever happens in this time (Sangam yug). This is a great secret how God created a great design ni which all souls can be benefitted, not only few. You can see how Shiv baba is serving everyone in many many ways - giving inner powers, virtues, giving wisdom to some souls so that they can serve others, etc.. So you know time is less. You have to do much purusharth to get a good position in coming new world. There are 4 subjects in which a soul is marked - 1. Gyaan (knowledge) 2. Yog (connection with Shiv baba) 3. Dharna (adoption of divine virtues) 4. Sewa (service you do to others) At the end of samgam yug, the marks soul got will decide their fortune. Such important this time is - Anmol. What is service? - Connection intellects of many souls to their spiritual father (supreme soul) is the highest service. Spread the message of God. Give them Shiv baba's knowledge and create their fortune. ` ---- Useful links ---- Celibacy - A Book: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1XfxSK-v3JgOMe5r3IZGH30yPxwY2YcqK/view Explore the Sitemap - https://www.bkgoogle.com/sitemap Need anything else? Search on our search engine - BK Google - www.bkgoogle.com Accha namaste In Godly World Service 00

From a BK perspective, is there such thing as a soulmate? A person that you connect with on many levels, including spiritual? Or is this a myth? Om shanti Julie

Many emails are received asking to hear from Sister Shivani. This is a response regarding the same. Original Email received Hello, I am based in Copenhagen. we are a large Indian community and would very much like to hear Sister Shivani speak. We can organise a lot of people and believe it will be very good to spread the message of Brahmakumaris to the international and global Indian audience. Pls. contact us back. thanks Email response + Guidance To:  Anirudh Daga ji and everyone reading From: Prajapati BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa-Vidhalaya (Godly Spiritual University) Omshanti divine brother, It is an appreciable effort for service from your side. However, to invite Sister Shivani for a seminar, you must first get connected to your nearest brahma kumaris center..Visit Brahma Kumaris Introduction Discuss your plan for seva with sister/brother in charge at the center. And then only they can forward your request to sister Shivani and team. It is the only procedure. ~ Your nearest center's address ~ Brahma Kumaris Åndelige Verdensuniversitet Vodroffsvej 9, 1900 Frederiksberg, Denmark Phone: +45 33 31 04 21 Map: https://goo.gl/maps/Mh7HFozQzm42 ~Facebook page~ https://m.facebook.com/bkcopenhagen/ ~ Sites ~ a) Centre locator: http://www.brahmakumaris.org/centre-locator b) Denmark website: https://brahmakumaris.dk/ c) Denmark website 2: http://denmark.bk.ooo/ Need to ask more? Contact again On Godly world service 00

A small guide for parents or family member of someone who is at a young age suffering from a mental disease or in common terms - Change of Behavior (abnormal behavior). Here is our guidance. MUST read till end. Original Email Received Dear Sister Shivani, Apologies for the long email but I wanted to explain the complete situation so that we can get the guidance accordingly. Situation is very critical as my little brother has been diagnosed with SCHIZOPHRENIA (characteristic of schizophrenia: delusions, hallucinations, disorganized speech, disorganized behavior, and the so-called “negative” symptoms). He sometimes become violent with my parents and also threatens them. As my parents are not that physically fit so it is becoming difficult for us to handle the situation and also his future is at stake. Please me and my parents want to meet you sister Shivani so that we can understand and get the proper guidance regarding on handle this critical situation. It will be very difficult for us to convince him to do the meditation at this point of time. Looking forward to seeing you soon. Thanks & Regards Our Email Response + Guidance To: Any reader you need this From: Prajaita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) Dear Divine Brother/Sister Whatever term doctor's give to it - there i simply a need to look after the children when they are in this age. If parents are not strict enough - especially the city children who are exposed to such much negativity can be harmed like this. So parents are responsible to look after - if needed - very strictly. Secondly - we have given a spiritual guidance, healing of mind and intellect through rajyog meditation - anyone can learn and daily practice. Will is all needed. Third - You or parents can take him to attend lectures - spiriutal lecures held at many Rajyog centres, and even the main centre (Madhuban) or even BK Shivani's program. This will atleast make him think what he really wants from this precious life. It seems that this is more because of the age. In this age, it is seen that some children gets away (emotionally) from their parents due to reasons you know. The spiritual solution is the best solution - but this is only possible if your brother supports. This requires him to willingly do meditation - learn a good day to day lifestyle (which includes many things) So ask and convince him - if willing, we can guide you towards the spiritual healing. See- since the age of body is such that even hormonal changes can affect the mind. So whatever you speak to him -very careful. Do not say that ''You have a problem''. Instead say 'You can feel much better as a person is you learn spiritual wisdom or adopt a good day to day lifestyle.'' After this, if your brother is ready - do let us know. As you are connected to the Awakening TV series - also visit the link below for all episodes which are in an organised way: ALL Awakening TV series episodes: http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Shivani.htm OR ''Parenting'' episodes - Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dbSe7_vTgdc&list=PLw4vwEuI7Q3ov6mIbEPNbb9W5YS2WIDBj OR Audio episodes -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/awakening-bk-audio-episodes These episodes - you can and should forward to your parents also. They are in a need of this - whatever you think is best for this situation - forward that episode or series (being bliss, happiness index, healing relationships, etc) Hope you will receive more benefit from Awakening series. PDF books -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/books Accha On Godly World Service 00

When a family member's soul who left its body comes in your dreams for a purpose - there is confusion whether it is real or not. Such rare drama happened and here we responded.  Original Email Received OM SHANTI!!! I am writing this email to find out if you have any thought and solution for a problem my niece is having these days. Few months back, her grandma left her body and my niece was not with her in her last days. My niece could not even attend her grandma‘s funeral. They both had very good bondage. Now, my niece is experiencing that her soul is visiting her every now and then. When she asked - what does she want? The soul said that she wants to take along with her. My niece is puzzled and stressed about it. What should she do to get rid of this situation? Thanks & regards, Our Email Response To: Anyone who is concerned From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidhyalay (Godly Unversity) Good morning As much you said, it can be concluded that because the relationship between those 2 souls was deep, after losing the body also, they can interchange their thoughts. However, this is a personal experience and not that someone is really coming to the niece and telling this. No. He may be able to hear or imagine what his grandma would be thinking. This can happen in a deep loving relationship. HOW TO OVERCOME? Answer: Such things usually doesn't last long. As time passes, these feelings will vanish. Many feelings like - deep attachment, loneliness, overthinking, etc. can cause such experiences. Learn RajYog meditation -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation Guided commentaries -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary Meditation not only brings spiritual awareness but also will directly impact your life in every way. Experience it yourself... Who am I? (soul): https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/who-am-i-the-soul Introduction to Soul -BkShivani class: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F6Q_n03SZYs * Soul Reflections (playlist) -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VuCiTFnFJU4&list=PL457FB082F908E197 namaste On Godly World Service 00

Not wanting to get married, a sister writes to us for guidance on how to convince their parents so that they don't force her to marry. What reason to present them? Sister presents many reasons and a strong will of staying single (Brahmacharya). As this is also God (Shiv Baba's) shrimat given, we are delighted to help.  Original Email Received Sister Shivani, I'm 24 years old. Being 24 years, I have alot of dreams and aspirations for myself, and I have clearly explained the same to my dad. However, inspite of which, without informing me he has created my profile in a marriage site to get me married. I was really disturbed by this, the reasons being thus: a) Dad never asked for my consent before this. b) Based on my previous experiences and what I've seen, I don't really want to get married because I have made a conscious decision as to not carry an emotional bondage and get attached to another being. c) According to my parents I have not kept them happy so I don't see how I would make another stranger happy and I have decided not to get attached to another human being ever. d) And the main being: I want to spiritually progress in my life and thats my sole motive, with that being said I also envision to impact the lives of millions of unprivileged people. That's my one and only goal and I am 100% certain that marriage would destroy this purpose. So how can I resolve this issue and convince them? Om Shanti. Our Email Response+ Guidance To: Kumari or Kumar (you) From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidhyalay (Godly Unversity) It is GREAT virtue of you that you have realised that marriage is an invitation to many hurdles towards our spiritual progress. Soul's original nature is purity. But today's world is vicious and marriage invites lust - which is our greatest enemy. So God says - now become my bride (wife) and follow my Shrimat (elevated advice). So what is the advice? Know - God's 108 Shrimat (Hindi): http://bit.ly/108shrimat You are really wise and understanding soul. You can also feel the parent's side - their way of thinking. We have already provided the audio of our advice on Marriage -> https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/shrimat-on-marriage-soul-talk-episode-18 You can take points from here and creatively repeat the same to your parents. If they are religious and if you find difficult to explain - then bring this aspect that ''GOD himself has asked us souls to now remain pure. This is your last birth. World has become impure. I have come to purify the souls and the entire nature. Now follow my Shrimat and you shall receive the fortune of the coming new world...'' Shiv Baba's first shrimat is ''Become pure''. Please read the article on Celibacy -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/celibacy ''We all are Brother and Sister. We all are children of One GOD'' So how can now we marry or have any ill feeling?? When our father is one, the aim of life is one (to become like Dev and Devta) then our way of living is also One. That is - Complete Purity. ''Thus my dear parents, it is advice of God our spiritual father - we all need to follow'' This way - you convince them. Remember that - No one can force you if you have 100% will not to marry OR to remain pure in walking the spiritual path and to become of one Shiv Baba (our eternal parent). Refer: Day 2 - About GOD (Shiv baba) As you are walking on the path shown by Shiv Baba, his blessing and powers are for you. Plus we the godly family are with you. There may be a physical separation, but we are 'spiritually' connected. namaste On Godfatherly Service 00

Nandighosh Ashiyana wrote to us the following question on 3 July 2018 : ''How to remain in peace if one is surrounded by a number of negative people in the work place, doing all the negative works and expecting the same from you, failing which they try to put you in trouble.'' Our Answer/Reply: Dear Brother We have received and read your message. So listen .  Peace is something which is internal. Soul is full of peace.  It is surely a challenge to remain peace and pure in such situation also. But it is possible with the power of Yog.  Only RajYog (Yog with Almighty father- god) can help me to easily cross any situation. So we advice you to learn and practice Swamaan and RajYog both. Swamaan will help you to bring self respect and empower you.  Swamaan Abhyaas: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=2 Swamaan in English: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fhr4ChV3EEM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtEe4C2MOHQT_tMLu0AuPJot * Learn Raja Yog meditation: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation * Music and guided commentaries: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary --- ADVICE --- Do 'Save' all above links on your phone or PC. Listen Swaman and Yog music and comentaries. Learning Raja Yog will definitely empower the soul. Do swaman abhyaas 3 times a day atleast. This wil be the start. Then you can learn Raja Yog with help of given links (commentaries). Practice and see the result. Write email to us when you do this. Accha Namaste 00

Question was asked by Pratichi on 18 Aug 2018. General: 'How to understand the relationship of parents and children and resolve misunderstandings?' Original Question: My parents love my brother(We are 3 sisters and 1 brother) . They don't want any of us girls to go ahead of him. Mom calls and visits me even though we live in different countries. The fact that she wants my brother to be ahead of us and at the same time she wants to keep contact with me makes me sooo mad. I know shes my mom but she says things that make me so angry like girls should not be money minded and says the opposite to my brother. How do I deal with her? I want to cut off completely. Our Email Response TO: Pratichi (and everyone reading) Dear Sister Your message was received. In actuality, there is no problem here. Your mother is doing her responsibility to praise the goodness in their children. She wants you not to become money minded, because of a good reason, isn't it? Is money mindedness good? So it is not to worry - a relationship of parent and child (especially with mother) isvery very noble. Mother always tries best for children. Yes ther may be a sense of favoritism for the son, because she have only 1 son compare to 3 daugthers.. But love is love.. one cannot say that my mother doesn't love me..but today's children are moving away from truth. Instead one should always think with a peace of mind.. Do not hurry taking decisions . Calm the mind. Mind is the best friend and the best enemy.. So train the mind and make it yours. Use the mind to feel happy. Sometimes there is nothing outside and we create imaginations with the brain. We also feel then that the imagination is the truth. So be careful. Just be free in mind. Speak with your mother and father. If not speak to God. What we do? We daily either write or speak to Shiv baba (our Spiritual father) 'How was my day, what good or bad i did.'' This GREATLY helps in Self-transformation. Very good for you to read is: Soul consciousness vs Body consciousness: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/body-and-soul Who am I?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/who-am-i-the-soul Best wishes. Try and see. Accha namaste 00

This Fear of Death is a state of body consciousness. If one realise that I am an eternal Soul who is in a journey and an actor playing its part in this world drama, and God the supreme soul is my eternal father - this is called 'Self realisation', which leads to an inner Awakening which resolves our life and let us enjoy the great gift of God to its fullest. So come and learn. Email Received in Feb 2019 Om Shanti sister, My mind is really upset. I get worried for my small health issue. A fear of death or is created in my mind as I lost my 2-3 friends all of sudden through deadly disease. I am not able to come out of it since past more than a year. I fear that my negetivity will get converted into reality. Please please guide me. Thank you. Our Email Response TO: Vaishali From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) Dear Divine Sister, Your email is received and read. Here is our response. You are an immortal eternal Soul. And what happened to your friends is a natural process in this world cycle. Birth and death is a truth of life. But this does not stop your to live the life to the fullest, enjoy every second of it and inspire others to. Let me to elaborate. You should first understand that you are a soul and not this physical body. It is a universal law that if anything takes birth then it must die. So they body goes through a process of life and death. Whereas soul is an energy. Energy can neither be created nor destroyed. Hence it is immortal, meaning that it lives on forever. This drama of birth and death goes on. Now why you feel fear is because, maybe you think it is a very painful process or what will happen to your loved ones after you are gone and so on. There is another law you must understand which is the law of Karma. Your birth and death is already fixed by you before you were born and no one can change that. How you are going to leave the body is also fixed, for eg. disease, accident, natural death etc. So no one can change that either. Instead of thinking negatively, focus on what you can do in the present. A human soul takes the human body to express itself completely through all it’s qualities such as love, peace, purity, joy… Try to stay true to this nature and all your fear will be removed. When the soul performs actions bringing and using its original virtues (peace, purity, love) then they experience inner bliss, a stage of self satisfaction. You do this and see yourself. ~~ What you can do ~~ Learn about who you are: Who am I? - Self realisation, Self awakening: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/who-am-i-the-soul * Related Post * Overcome fear of death -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers/overcome-fear-of-death Namaste On Godfatherly Service 00

Here is our complete guidance on How to finish the Karmic cycle or to overcome bondage due to past Karmas. Especially within family, many faces such situations in which Sanskaras collide among family members creating intolerance and odd behaviour which lead to dismiss the loving relationship. Hence here is our guidance to not only resolve this but also come out of the Karmic account cycle and bondage and shower peace and unconditional love on our near ones. Original Email Received in Feb 2019 Om Shanti There are lot of worries regarding our home condition. My mother's emotional state is declining and it eflects in our family relationships. Home we are living in was given by my grandmother (that elderly-my mother's mom) who became a cause of problems in our home. My mother's brother doesn't keep his mother. Means we're trapped and how can I see my mother and whole family sucked in pain all time because of my elderly grandmother... I meditate for them but there is always tension and torture in everyone's minds because of her. How would we study or focus if atmosphere is always same. My mother doesn't want to quit even though her health isn't too great. There's a record that where ever that elderly lives for certain time creates nuisance and disrupts peace .Please please help. Our Response + Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godfatherly University) Dear Divine Sister/Brother This is complete guidance for your life. So please preserve this email letter. After thinking about your situation, the best advice we can give is the following. You need to first understand the karmic cycle here. It is another matter that the Soul (your grand-mother) had a deep karmic account especially with your mother (since they are in a close relationship in this birth). Hence there is certainly a reason of such behavior of her towards you all. Also, the present time is the time when the weakness deep present in souls are getting emerged. Not threatening you, but definitely you can see around in the world how the 5 vices are prevailing. This only adds to the past karmic account. Now you know the cause of their behavior. Later we shall talk on how to finish the karmic cycle. Lets now talk about this present birth and life in your family. Firstly the soul (your grandmother) was weak and hence created chaos and unenjoyment at home. Secondly that after seeing this from her, you all sent to her a thought that she isn't doing right or that she is a PAIN. Since that soul was already weak, and now receiving this thought from you all, the pain increased within her and that she returned to all of you. So this is the cycle here. How to finish the cycle? Answer: By re-creating peace and loving relationship. Firstly by sending pure and peaceful thoughts to her soul. Think good about. Give blessings. I know it is difficult in the beginning as this doesn't reflect her actual behaviour. That's why you need to practice Good thinking. When you are full of peace, then only you CAN donate it. However you must do this peace donation with willpower and love for everyone. Forget the past and start a new. Maybe this video will help you to - Sunrise at Beach For example - become like a doctor. A doctor faces a critical patient who has a little hope of recovering. But the doctor MUST ALWAYS think positive and make efforts. At last the good-will doctor will success. ~ GUIDANCE ~ 1. Swamaan Abhyas - Wake up and sit for 10 mins with eyes open and mind focused. This is the first step of meditation you see. In these 10 minutes, go deep within. Practice introversion. To become 'Soul conscious', you may take help of link given in (2). ( Swaman means having recognition of our TRUE nature. That is Peace, Purity, love and powerful. These above commentaries helped a lot of souls ) Swamaan (Positive Affirmations) guided commentaries: Hindi: http://bit.ly/Swamaan English: http://bit.ly/AffirmationsBk 2. Now to learn RajYog (meditation), take guidance from these ''RajYog guided commentaries'' 3. Take audio & visual help from the RESOURCES section -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/resources Above 3 steps are for your life and will definitely show you practical results. However, keep in mind that you the Soul are in a journey of life where favourable and unfavourable situations may and will come which will test your''patience'' and ''will power''. You have to have patience and faith. Give sakash to your mother - She definitely need power to tolerate. Refer to The 8 Powers of Soul * Useful Article * How to Give Sakash?: https://bkarticles.blog/2019/01/18/how-to-give-sakash/ This is a complete guide for your entire life. No matter what situation come, you will overcome. YOU ARE MUCH POWERFUL than any challenge. And also GOD is with you. We are with you. Do save all given links to visit daily or once. namaste On Godfatherly Service 00