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A question was asked by Ruby Roy Chaudary on 24 July 2018 about 'How to take best care of my child of 5 years old with a speaking problem?' Original question: Respected sir / madam I was wondering whether I could reach out for bk Sivani didi s email I.d. but since I was encouraged to write my query in this I.d I am doing so I am a mother precisely working mother of a 5 year old boy who has speech language delay. I am into Ayurvedic Medical profession so I have tried to treat him with every medical management available to me. It is not that he hasn't improved...but still he is unable to express himself in other language I am in immense pain for this ... when ever I see children around articulating vividly my mother ' s heart bleeds and sink into depression...I am into positive affirmations also recently. But really really really want a miracle...... Perhaps I am not able to express myself logically since I am under over whelming emotional stress...but people of God can understand other's pain. So with great hope I am writing this email. I am very introvert in personal issues and it has taken a lot of courage to open up my feelings. So please please please help me.... but don't ask me to be detached about my child. I understand he is an aatma playing the role of my child and stuff...but as a mother my role becomes useless if I can't give him the basic requirements like ability to speak out in life. So please please please help me...Will you...won't you Thanking you, Ruby Roy Our Answer: To: Everyone Reading Your letter is received and read . Here is our response . 1. It is natural for a mother to be caring for a child. And we do never say that be completely detached . Instead detachment only means to care without worrying.. See. If you keep worrying for that child, then that soul is receiving the energy from you. If you keep thinking that 'my child is less than other children, etc..' - this thoughts will badly influence your child. Hence this way detachment, yet caring.  2. You should instead send positive energy, think positive. See virtues in that soul. Appreciate small small achievements. For example, if he eats a roti, then appreciate hit. Say - Wah wah well done . You are very good child. In every small small acts, appreciate with your heart. See ONLY virtues. This is true love.  3. Love does not mean to sit down at keep worrying about someone. No. Instead this is an act of harming via thoughts. Love is to care, to sacrifice and to appreciate the virtues in that being. Think this. If God is called an ocean of love.. does him sit down and keep worrying about the world?? No. God knows everything. Everything happens for good. That is how much importance of knowledge is life.  Gyaan says- ''Everything happens for good. Just understanding sight is needed.'' and - that a child has some problem in speaking is NOT any bad. Instead it is far better not to speak or speak less. This nature saves us from many misfortunes. Hope you understood. So the entire point of your worry is baseless. You have nothing to worry. If you love your child, then we have explained you What love means.. You should start to appreciate. A mother's role is to shape the nature of the child in best way possible. The way is shown to you. Make him do good jobs. For example - to give a chocolate to someone, make him stable within,.. teach the learning of Murli.  You can also listen the Murli, that we listen daily. Murli is the source of our wisdom.  How to Heal the child? Answer: You can give powerfull vibrations (we call 'Sakash') to that soul. Imagine the soul with the body and imagine the powerful vibrations of love and peace is entering the soul and empowering. There is a vidhi (guidelines) for this here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5C4_a03BSSM You may also have heard Awakening episodes by Sister Shivani. You can both watch together. A childife is the best life to learn and whatever is embed now by the mind, will stay forever. Hence be careful. The way is shown.  Essence: What is true love, How can you develop the nature of your child, How will you both progress, listen Murli daily, watch Awakening episodes when possible.. Here are all resource for the journey. Do see the list: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/resources Visit the main website: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com Accha Namaste 00

Husband puts obstacles and challenges for the wife who just came in Gyan (became a BK) and wife writes to us for a solution. Here is our detailed response with guidance. Original Email written to BK Shivani: Om shanti shivanididi I am married for 27 years and my husband is angry in nature and unpredictable. He has disputes with my family my children, myself, for long time and he doesn't attend most of the gathering with positive approach. He also fight with our friends on small issues. Now he expects that I shouldn't attend to any functions or get together where he is not comfortable. As a wife what is right approach? Is it to be loyal to his emotions or manage all the relations without him. And how to explain him as he starts scolding in a very bad way. I am trying truly from my heart and practice the original sanskars of soul. Please guide me shivanididi. Our Email response (answer and guidance) From: BK Shivani, Prajapita Brahma Kumaris Ishwariya Vishwa Vidyalaya (Godly Spiritual University) To: Lina (and everyone reading) Dear Sister Your letter is received and read. You discussed that you have a trouble of sanskar with your husband. You are doing Purusharth to transform your sanskar while your husband is a challenge for you. You should now know that you are now in a different line. You know do not expect anything from others. Now you know that whatever you need, is within you. You are PEACE, you are POWER and you are LOVE. If someone give you sorrow, show them mercy, If someone hurts or anger with you, then give them vibrations of peace. We brahmans who live in family also face such situations. Baba has given us Shrimat on how to handle everything. This is the best advice (advice of God himself) - Learn to tolerate. Life is to learn. Life is there and we have come here to LEARN. You become a child of God and God is your father, and a teacher. So you have a responsibility - you CANNOT give sorrow to anyone, for any reason. Consider everyone equal. Knowledge helps us to understand the reality of life. Why does something happen? When you know that ''Everything happens for a good reason, then you put a smile on face and love this life.'' You know, this is the final moment of World Drama and the cycle of 5000 years is just about to end. Hence all souls shall be liberated. Before this, many changes has to happen. Relationships changes, climate change, change in beliefs, etc. During this, we Brahman souls, whom God is giving the knowledge and we are becoming deity like - would have much service to do for the world souls. We are the direct creation of God (Shiv baba) and hence we are his medium for World Transformation. ADVICE You are new in Gyaan and everyone faces such problem when they first come in Gyan. So be calm and follow the Shrimat given in Murlis. Listen Murli EVERYDAY here: babamurli.com (if you know Hindi, it's better) What is Murli or Shrimat?: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/what-is-murli With some time, your husband will begin supporting you. For this, you need to follow the Shiv baba's shrimat. Murli is our food and a guide for life. Always be patient and watch whatever happens. Do NOT have any attachment for husband or anyone else. See them as a victim of Maya (5 vices) and you being a doctor. Clear? Need more guidance? Here is our Question-Answers forum: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/forum/question-answers Need anything else? Search on BK Google: www.bkgoogle.com (A personal divine search engine for BKs) Accha namaste In Godly World Service BK Shivani 00

Feeling of suicide as wife left him. We received this email from Nagaraj in Nov 2018 and given the guidance on living a new life with a better purpose and caring his old aged mother. Original Email Received Dear Sister BKs I felt like committing suicide 3 times when I was with my wife ...Now after leaving her for 8 months ..she is calling me back ..got the feeling of suicide again ....and she will not take care of my mother who is 86 years old ... Regards Nagaraj Our Email Response Dear Divine Brother Your letter is received and read. So in such a situation, you should keep away from your wife if she does not want to take care of your mother. You are definitely better in taking care of your mother. Whatever occupation you have, when you come home - sit and spend some time with your mother -even in peace (not necessary to speak). Because you contacted here, means you know about 'Prajapita Brahma Kumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay' and about 'Raja Yog' we teach. There are thousands of souls benefitted by learning this RajYog. How can you learn? Answer: in the 7 day course via : Centre or Online 1. Centre: Find nearest centre to your home and visit. They will guide you. 2. Online: Take the course via the online course section Learn Raja Yog meditation here: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation ~~GOD's message~~ ''This is your last birth. Now you become pure for this birth and remember me alone. It is time for you to go back home.'' Soul becomes pure through remembrance of the supreme soul (Shiv) About Us: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us Accha namaste In Godly World Service 00

Just as knowledge without action is useless and Action without knowledge is meaningless, in a similar way worrying with a reason but no action is useless, and worrying for no reason is both meaningless and useless. It may be only due to weak and unstable mind that can not remain in present and concentrate on action. So stop worrying or overthinking, and start 'living' in the 'present'. Steps for RajYoga Meditation 1. Sit relaxed. (Tip: Use our Nature's sounds audio collection to relax and calm your mind) 2. Focus on breath. (Take 'deep' breath, hold for 4 to 5 seconds, and exhale out slowly) 3. Repeat Om lightly for 3 to 5 min. (Tip: Listen to our SoundCloud playlist on RajYoga music to focus and prepare for meditation) 4. Visualise yourself as a tiny point of conscious energy at the centre of the forehead. (Tip: listening the RajYoga music does help to experience 'soul-consciousness'. 5. Then visualise Supreme soul, who is our spiritual father, who is the power house. Visualise the supreme soul is just above your head or in soul world. (If you need help with experiencing a connection with God (the Supreme Soul), or visualising this, we do have some guided visual videos on YouTube for RajYoga meditation. For example, here are our official videos: RajYoga: Guided in Hindi and Guided in English.) Guidance Imagine that white light of virtues and red light of powers are penetrating through your top of the head from him and flowing through all 7 Chakras and body parts. You will start feeling energetic and light . Your mind will also get stabilized. Practice this short meditation exercises (of mind) and listen to Raja Yoga meditation music (from here or from Youtube) whenever you get time or need an upliftment. Om Shanti.

This question was asked by a brother who is studying for IAS and discovers knowledge shared at Brahma Kumaris. Email received on 1 July 2018. Original Question is below ''Om Shanti, Respected Brother/ sister, I am from Vizianagaram, Andhra Pradesh.. Now I'm preparing for IAS exams in Delhi.. Crack IAS exam is not my want its my aim of life. Now I would like to start my life as Brahma Kumar.. I want to go towards spirituality. And I'm ready to leave this society. I request you Please suggest me how to join Brahma Kumaris. I hope I'll get reply soon. Thank you. Our Answer: Good morning divine brother, Firstly, If you have watched the video on our About Us page, you will know that majority of BK lives at home only. Only few those who are surrendered, lives at Centres.  So you can do your loukik study and work, should fulfill all your family responsibilities . While doing so, you regularly listen or read Murli. You can access Murli in 25+ languages on babamurli dot com and here: babamurli.org (daily uploaded) Officially, you can listen to Today's Murli on this page. and Read Daily Murli on babamurli org To become a BK, you do not have to stay at a centre, but have to follow these guidelines given by Shiv baba: How to Join - Guidelines and  Also whenver get time, do use these Godly Resources In resources, we have everything that will guide you in this spiritual journey (Classes, Sakar and Avyakt Murli audio, guided Raja Yog, eBooks, online store, etc..) Get Mobile Apps (for Android): https://play.google.com/store/apps/developer?id=Shiv+Baba+Brahma+Kumaris App for iOS (iPhone) - https://apps.apple.com/app/brahma-kumaris-sustenance/id1515178981 Namaste On Godly World Service BKGSU

Here is an Email in Hindi received and responded from BK Shivani. This is clear guidance for life as asked by them. Please ensure you read. Original Email Received Om shanti didi, दीदी मैं और मेरे पति आप के वीडियो देखते है ,सुनते है,टीवी पर भी आपका प्रोग्राम देखते है,एंड पिछले एक साल में काफी चेंज लाये है अपनी life में।दीदी मेरे पति बहुत डेडिकेटेड है फैमिली के लिए पर वो बहुत गुस्सा करते है ,ग़लत शब्द भी बोलते है,उनकी कोई बात को नही माने तो शायद उनका ईगो हर्ट हो जाता है,इसी वजह से मैने फील किया है कि बच्चों के मन मे उनके प्रति सम्मान नही है,बच्चे ही क्या हर रिलेटिव भी इनकी बुराई करते है ,बहुत होशियार है ,सभी की मदद भी करते है पर अंत मे अपने व्यवहार से सभी की बुराई ले लेते हैं ।मेरे घरवालो से शादी की शुरुआत में झगड़ा रहा फिर कुछ सालों बाद सब नार्मल अब पिछले कुछ सालों से फिर से वही..ग़लती किसी की भी हो,मेरी तो नहीं ना,पर में दोनो की सुनती हूँ, कहते है मेने उनको सकाश भेज कर माफ़ी मांग ली अब में उनसे कोई रिश्ता नही रखना चाहता बस।मेरे घरवालो से ही नही खुद के भाइयों से भी दूर ही रहते है।ऐसा तो नही की सभी ग़लत है।आप प्लीज मुझे मार्ग दिखाइए?नही तो में पागल हो जाउंगी,में बहुत परेशान हु दीदी मुझे सही suggestion दीजिये। Our Email Response To: Arya From: BK Shivani, Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) यह आपके ईमेल का प्रतिउत्तर है। आपने जैसा बताया, उससे इतना मालूम पड़ता है की आपमें परमात्मा की श्रीमत पर चलने की ताक़त है।  धैर्यता, शांति, दिव्यता - यह हम आत्मा के natural संस्कार है। आपको धीरज से काम लेना है और राजयोग सीखना है। बाकि छोटी छोटी बातो को देखना नहीं है। यह अव्यक्त मुरली से clips है - जरूर देखे ->  सहन करने की विधि -> http://bit.ly/2SbKr7C All Avyakt Murli clips (search and find) -> http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Avyakt%20Murli%20-%20Mahavakya.htm सहन करना और दुसरो के संस्कारो को accept करना - यह तो आत्मा की शक्ति है।  आज सभी आत्माए कमजोर होने के कारन माया के वशीभूत होकर अयथार्थ कर्म करती है।  लेकिन जिन आत्मा में ईश्वरीय ज्ञान है - की हम सभी आपस में भाई भाई (आत्मिक रूप में) व कहो भाई बहन है जो इस सृस्टि पर अपना अपना पार्ट बजने लिए अपने निराकार घर से आते है - यह ईश्वरीय ज्ञान से भरपूर आत्मा किसी भी परिस्थिति को 'सह्ज' पार कर लेंगी।  क्युकी वो जानते है की जो होता है उसीमे कल्याण है। Everything happens for Good  अच्छा। अब आपको राजयोग अभ्यास लिए यह कमेंटरीया भेज रहे है।  आपको मुरली भी रोज सुननी चाहिए।  RajYog guided commentaries -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation-music-commentary Swamaan abhyas -> http://bit.ly/Swamaan Download apps -> http://bit.ly/BkAndroidApps Need anything else>? Search on BK Google --> www.bkgoogle.com अच्छा  नमस्ते  ईश्वरीय सेवा में  ०० 

A letter received in email to get information about Accommodation procedure for Mount Abu (madhuban) centre. They wanted to come with family to live for a few days. Here is our response and guidance. Original Email Received Me alongwith my three family members have made a programme to visit Baraham kumari's Ashram and other monuments at Mount Abu. Therefore I request you to kindly book two rooms at the Ashram or tell me the procedure to do this myself. I shall be grateful to have your cooperation in this regard. Om Shanti Our Email Response To: Everyone reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay Topic: Mount Abu stay, course Dear Divine Sister You are welcome to visit the centre (Madhuban) and take the course also. You may also do 2 or 3 days Bhatti (you will know when you come here and ask someone). However the ashram is NOT for anyone. It is only for regular Godly students. But you can come and know if a room is available. The 7 day course is for everyone new - you can come with family. For this, you can come anytime. Doors are always open. However, because you are not a member of the brahman family (you are not surrendered at a BK centre), you have to arrange the stay. There are many hotels nearby. However, if you and your family wish to take the course, ask someone and you may be allowed to live in ashram also. There are strict Guidelines for those who wish to stay in madhuban. You must follow the below procedure. Guidelines + Procedure: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/single-post/Mount-Abu-Madhuban-Accommodation (Accommodation) Shiv Baba is with everyone. In bhakti marg also it is remembered and praised that God is blissful with all. But you have to take the 1st step. Come and know the essence of all Godly knowledge through the 7 days course and as this recognisation occurs in mind, you will know that God (Shiv) has come. It is possible that Shiv baba called you to his home (madhuban). Then you dont need to worry for anything. Come with all your heart. As the Accommodation guidelines are given, do call Shantivan and ask them to book you 2 rooms. PDF books in Hindi & English -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/books Source: BK Google: www.bkgoogle.com Get apps for your Android phone: https://play.google.com/store/apps/developer?id=Shiv+Baba+Brahma+Kumaris Welcome and Flowers On Godly World Service 00

Our journey of Self transformation goes through rise and fall. Sometimes you may feel demotivated towards your spiritual goal. So here is our uplifting guidance for you and everyone who needs. So SHARE this special article/post. Original Email Received I'm working on me, understanding and crossing life situations with spiritual knowledge. I intend to remove my negative Sanskars and use original ones only. I must say I'm much successful in eliminating high intensity reaction I used earlier. There still comes atleast one situation in a day I fail in my mission and register either some hurt inside not saying it out and rarely a mild argument or entangling. This demotivates me sometimes. Help me in removing that rare time situation in day too so I emerge inner beauty completely forever. Our Email Response + Guidance To: Everyone reading this From: On behalf of Shiv Baba Good morning You intend to remove weaknesses. That you said you have success in removing many weakness. This is a guidance letter for you. Please read with total ATTENTION. In essence, the way of self transformation is Shiv baba's Murli. So listen the murli everyday and take notes. Work on that. See what baba explained today - what Purusharth is needed to be done. Even my personal experience says - Murli gives answer to all our questions. You can also follow below points: 1. It is very easy to give up big weaknesses which are clearly visible. But to remove even those small weaknesses and mistakes - requires a ''divine intellect''. How can one get a divine intellect? - through study of the divine knowledge (murli) and Yog (to remember the father shiv baba). Refer: What is Gyan Murli 2. What we do in early morning (our spiritual stage) stays for a long time. So wake up for Yog in morning - sit and practice on Swamaan also. Here are commentaries -> http://bit.ly/Swamaan 3. Do GOOD KARMA everyday. This is a way everyone can and should follow. Do a karma everyday that reflects your original nature (peace, purity, love, bliss). Empower another soul/s or guide them also towards the supreme soul. Help someone with good thoughts (sakash or dhristi), words or action. What will this do for you? This will create a sense of greatness within you - this will sit on your intellect now and everytime you are going wrong or are in a difficult situation where let's say you face something - this image of yourself (as a divine soul, a helper, a lover and an enjoyer (bliss)) shall emerge and this feeling will take you out of ANY situation. So it is simply said that YOUR GOOD KARMA will help you in future. Such deep is the law. You do good, you get good. 4. Today telling you this secret - Soul acts out in feelings. Feelings however have no language - feeling are mainly divided in 2 parts: 1. Love (attraction) 2. hate (repulsion). One can either attract something or repel. However, you are feeling within shall be reflected in action. So the feelings should be 'pure' for all souls. Feelings are translated into thoughts -> into words. Our words can empower a needful soul and also can defeat a needful soul. Just as these written words are empowerment for you. ** Conclusion ** Check and Change We all are in a journey of self transformation in which there is always a need to check our weakness and hence to change - baba says ''look yourself in a mirror''. Not in a physical mirrir, but in the mirror of intellect. Look your chalan (manners). Are you acting out thinking yourself as a soul? If no, then the action is not accurate. Soul consciousness is the key to all treasures. Visit and save this main website for everything -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com AND save the page: Sitemap: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/sitemap * Mobile Apps For Android: http://bit.ly/BkAndroidApps For iPhone: http://bit.ly/iPhoneAppsBk This is a guidance for life. Need anything? Contact again. namaste On Godfatherly Service 00

Water is essential for life. Education should first teach us how important is safe water for our day to day life. How can we sustain the clean water and its sources. So here is our view on the importance of saving water on Earth and in general - all Earth's natural resources. To: Everyone Reading this From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya Vishwa Vidhyalay (Godly Spiritual University) Topic: Saving resources, empathy Dear Divine Brother The way of living with consciousness is a general and better way of saying - save water or save environment. In today's time, the lifestyle of people has changed in a way which is also impacting our nature. We cut down forests to make timber for furniture, for papers, for medicines, etc. Cutting down trees definitely impact our environment. It rains more in some places and less or not enough in some places. With lesser trees, is a lesser production of oxygen, which is essential for everyone. As conscious beings (human beings) we all are equally responsible for protecting the mother nature. Water is life. We have learned this in school, painted such posters in our drawing classes. But do we understand? How many of you follow this 100%? The importance of something is realised in its absence. There are many regions in the world where there is a shortage of water supply or there is no clean water. To add - only 5% of water on earth is drinkable. And from this also, the polluted rivers (through industries, etc) can be cut down. Remaining only 2 or 3% of water reaches our home. Yet it depends on many factors whether or not that water is drinkable. Some uses a 'water purifier'. Not only water, but misusing any of nature's gifts is not a wise way of living. Mother nature is full of grace and ever-giving and we should learn this virtue from nature. Meditation RajYog or meditation have no connection with body or posture of body. You can do RajYog (meditation) even while standing, sitting on a sofa or lying on bed. This meditation is an intellectual connection with GOD. Learn more -> Raja Yog meditation Health To find guidance on solving health-related problems using power of RajYog or Sakash, visit the below articles/posts and videos. 1. Improving health: https://bkarticles.blog/2019/04/04/improving-health/ 2. Health and RajYog 3. Health section: http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Health%20Exercise%20Section.htm (video) Thoughts to heal your body: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YJeL9jOPnCg (by BK Shivani) (video) Create perfect health: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4TRgzvWELLM (BK Shivani) Do visit given articles/posts and also watch both episodes (videos) of Awakening TV series by Sister Shivani namaste On Godly World Service 00

Many of us sometimes wonder How God would have incarnated in Brahma Baba & what all would He have spoken in the early years? What is the History of Brahma Kumaris? Original Email Received on 10/08/2019 I have been listening to baba's gyaan regularly for more than a year. I really feel overwhelmed on listening to the points of gyaan. I saw a video on the history of Brahmakumaris and got to know that Brahma baba felt the incarnation of Shiv Baba in 1936 for the first time. As baba started appearing regularly, he used to give gyaan through Brahma and those lessons were recorded as Murlis. I wish to read the Sakaar Murlis of the very beginning (when shiv baba first appeared through the medium of Brahma baba's senses). Where can I read the Murlis of the earliest dates (1936 onwards)? Are they available online? Please guide. Om Shanti Our Response + Guidance From: On behalf of Shiv Baba (our spiritual father) This divine knowledge is about 'Soul', 'Supreme Soul' and 'Drama Cycle' which touches the very heart of the soul (us) as this is our OWN STORY. And that God whom we worshipped for this long is indeed our own father whose glory is praised. Now we are receiving his inheritance - plus protection from the Kaliyugi World. This all knowledge and experience blossom the soul like nothing else... Shiv baba's incognito part began around 1936 which we know today. But when exactly Murlis started, no one knows. Baba has said himself in Sakar Murli that - ''You children think that Shiv baba came when Brahma started that school (Om Niwas) and Murlis began thereafter. But that is inaccurate. This is a play of drama in which no one can certainly know the timings of events. Only one father knows'' Answer: Those Murlis spoken in Karachi (Pakistan) from 1936 or 1939 to 1950 were burned down as per Shiv baba's direction... So Baba directed to forget the old understandings given during the 1940s that Soul (atma) is Brahm (6th element) and ParamAtma (god) is an egg-shaped light. Now you will not hear this in any Murlis, but this was what Baba explained during the 1940s. Now we understand that the Soul (atma) is even more subtle. We are a tiny point of divine light and so as Shiv Baba - a tiny point. The only difference is in our part in the Drama and in our powers. As more accurate Gyan is given, it is best to forget about the older one. "The knowledge will become more and more refined (clear)." About old Murlis and more, you will know the whole story when you listen to this History series -> https://soundcloud.com/brahmakumaris-bk/sets/history-of-brahma-kumaris or Read on History page -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/history Only Murlis from January 1963 to January 1969 are preserved as an 'audio recording'. These Murlis are still revised every day. Know more on our official page -> What is Gyan Murli and To listen the original Sakar Murli in Brahma baba's voice, visit Sakar Murli Audio. Also, if you just want to 'know' what was taught in the early 1940s Murlis in Karachi, here is the essence: ''Lesson of being a 'soul'' ''Lesson that God is Brahma - 5th element'' ''God is a being of light (not a point of light - which was explained later)'' ''Dhyan Yog and Karma Yog emphasized'' On Godfatherly Service, Om Shanti

A spiritual guide to become Emotionally strong, to awaken our emotional intelligence. Covers: What is emotion, how to use it for a positive purpose and how to use spiritual knowledge (murli) to re-awaken our inner powers and live the life as it is. A brother writes us to help him to become emotionally strong to forgive and forget other people easily and not getting affected by other's behavior. Original Message/Email on 31-01-2020 My problem is that my feelings and mood depend on other's actions and behaviours towards me... I am doing good in studies (college) but fail in controlling my emotions when people misbehave with me... --- "We at Prajapati Brahma kumaris daily do collective Yog/meditation for the world souls & send to them vibrations of peace, purity, love and power. Let good happen to all" Our Email Response + Guidance Topic: Emotional intelligence Dear Divine Brother You are doing great as a student right. But how to control our emotions and not react to other people's comments? This is your question. Here is our guidance for you. What is Emotion? E-motion is ''energy in motion''. Energy is the soul's energy when comes into action through the mind, it becomes 'e-motion'. This such energy if applied to the right place, in a right direction then actually it is a great benefitter. That means - if you use your emotions for a right purpose, they are helpful (a boost). Emotion is nothing but out ability (virtue) to connect to other person's heart. But this is not always beneficial. Sometimes, our emotion overcomes our sixth sense and past experiences, which lead us to make mistakes. Thus to say - we must always listen to our experience and our intellect (buddhi) and not fall into the flow of uncontrolled emotions - whether it is people's behavior towards us or our own judgements. Using Emotion as Positive For example, if you are emotional about that you cannot see others in pain and you cry with them. Ok, this is a weakness in itself. BUT if you are a doctor, then such emotions actually help you to connect emotionally with your patients. This then helps you in healing them better. Spiritual Understanding Anyway, since this is a general feeling, one desires to become emotionally strong. That is the way towards Spiritual awakening. When you realise that you are not this physical body or anything of matter, but a pure ''soul'' and everyone (every living being) is a 'soul' who is using their body to experience life. And that ''we all are brothers and sisters', children of one incorporeal GOD (Supreme Soul) then all such weakness will disappear. Answer: If you get upset for someone's comment on you, then you are just taking it too much seriously. Realise that this does not affect the truth. If 2 people say that left is right, then it wont become true. This is a simple realisation. Have no bad feeling for anyone as every soul is our family and God loves them as much as god loves me. "Spiritual Knowledge is the greatest purifier'' as said also in Bhagavad Geeta. What to Do? We can tell you ways to become emotionally strong. But in essence, we only tell you to do start 2 things: 1. Start watching our 'Awakening'' episodes on Emotional Intelligence -> http://www.bkdrluhar.com/00-htm/Shivani-7009-05.htm 2. Start listening Daily Gyan Murli (that we all BKs study). Firstly, please learn What is 'Murli' and then follow given website to access/get daily murli. What is Gyan Murli? : https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/what-is-murli Daily Murli website -> babamurli.com or Get mobile app -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/mobile-apps ----- Here is our Further advice -> You should do 'Swamaan Abhyas' Swamaan = Self true respect of the soul which is Peaceful, Pure, Loveful and Powerful. HOW TO DO? Early morning - wake up around 5am and listen to this commentaries -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 (FULL Playlist) While you listen to these guided commentaries above, you should focus the attention to the middle of forehead, where me THE SOUL reside. Namaste On Godly World Service 00

Question was asked by Madhuri Chauhan on 20 July 2018. Om Shanti. I have a long story to tell so please be patient because i really need your help..My father and mother were following gyan and baba for more than 15 years and we have geetapaathshala in our home. They have two daughters, me and my elder sister. My father wished me and my sister to become brahmakumaris. Though he never forced us to go to ashram or to do anything. He left the decision on us. My sister got married in 2010. In 2016, i told my father that i want to marry a boy and that boy does not belong to our caste. My father was very upset with my decision, still he supported me and advised me to do court marriage. Only I and my parents knew about my marriage and i came to canada after marriage. Our relatives had no idea about my marriage. But my father shared his pain with brahmakumari sister of the ashram which we used to visit. He was very upset at that time but very soon he realised that the boy i married is really a good boy and my father and mother were happy for me. We used to talk daily on phone. Then on 21st may 2018 my parents passed away in a car accident. People who were at that place where accident happened told that it was the truck driver’s fault who came from wrong side and hit my parents car. It took me 24hrs to reach india but by that time their antim yatra had already been done and i could not even see them for the last time. Two days later, the brahmakumari sister from the same ashram came to meet me and in front of all my relatives blamed me for sudden death of my parents. She started shouting at me that because of me my father was depressed. The way that sister was talking to me was like i am responsible for that car accident that took my parents lives. I know initially my parents were upset about my love marriage but now they were really happy with my husband and me. My father himself said to me that initially we felt bad but now we are glad with your decision. I just want to know should i believe my father’s words that he said to me or i should believe that brahmakumari sister. Am i really responsible for my parents death?  Our Answer: To: Madhuri Sweet divine Sister This is a response to your question and also a Godly sandesh (message). First of all, your father was not upset because of the person with whom you married, but because of that  you decided to marry instead of becoming a brahma kumari . Father was in Gyaan and knew that God has directed to us of complete purity . This is our last birth. World is changing. You can see. But Shiv baba has told never to force your children to not to marry. Hence you father made a correct decision. All is good. You were also happy after marriage.  Secondly, the one who can go against the Shrimat given in Murli and perform a wrong action (shout in anger), cannot be called a Brahma Kumari.  No one is called a bk only because they live in center away from their family. No. Instead a BK is one soul who follows the godly advice completely and do purusharth of self upliftment and do world service. One who has left all 5 vices forever (lust,anger,ego,greed,attachment). Only those are BK.  Third: You are not responsible for anyone other than yourself. Forget the past is past. Whatever happens, is for good only. You will soon get the answer - why was it for good. Trust the World Drama. This is a drama . We all are actors. This has happened 5000 years ago and it is just repeating. Nothing New.. So dear Madhuri, live with your family, with husband, but now you do 1 thing. You parents were a true BK and have followed the shrimat. They wished you to take you inheritance from Shiv baba. So will you not fulfil their dream?? You have to take a vow of purity in rest of your life. Living with husband with purity and see each other as a child of same parent (our supreme father, supreme soul) - this is a challenge. Can you take?? Here are guidelines for you: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/how-to-join-bk About Us: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us What is Raja Yog: https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/rajyoga-meditation Do visit all above pages . This was a Godly sandesh (message) to you.  *Relief. You are not responsible for anything. You are just an actor. And most important, your parents souls take received the knowledge. Wherever they will go and take their next birth, it will be a very good place. This is for sure. Accha Namase 00