Husband-Wife Relationship Healing

Some husband-wife relationships have a deep past karmic connection. To make the relationship harmonious, at least one of them needs to 'change the way of thinking' to settle the past karmic account wisely. It needs patience, determination & powers to bring this paradigm shift in your world. But the way in is the only way out! When I Change My World Changes

From: Prajapita BrahmaKumari Ishwariya VishwaVidhylay (Godly University) To: Anaya & Everyone reading this

Original Email

My husband is very controlling, dominating, doesn't stand up for me, doesn't help at all, verbal insults, I earn good but he has financial control, if I try to talk he always tells me that I am wrong all time and starts yelling, does not provide any emotional support, my mother in law also tries to keep her son under control and create differences, he always listens and do what his side of the family tells him, he is very defensive for himself and his family, he will always take kids side telling them they are right and I am wrong with results my kids also misbehave with me, I am not able to solve/come to any solution for anything with him, please advice. I can leave him but don't want to leave as I don't want my kids to suffer

------------------------------------- "We at Prajapati Brahma kumaris daily do collective Yog/meditation for the world souls & send to them vibrations of peace, purity, love, and power. Let good happen to all"

Our Email Response + Guidance

Good Evening Devine Sister, Sometimes some people who're very close to us behave so strangely that we wonder How could he be like this with me? The energy exchange between the two literally feels very complicated, uncomfortable and peaceless. We may not be able to put it into words but the vibration does feel inside & no matter how much we try to fix it, it gets even more complicated depleting our energy more and more... Now let us understand a truth here, the Universal Law of Karma. We all are souls on a very long journey of probably 50, 60, 80 births. During this long journey, we come in contact with so many souls, we live very happily with each other, spend so good time. Most of our actions towards each other are beautiful (positive Karma) but with some souls in some lives unaware we do wrong Karma. We lied to them, hurt them, insulted them, rejected them... We do not remember what relationship we shared with them in the previous births. For example, you & your husband could be in a mother-daughter relationship in a life, in a husband-wife relationship in the next life, in a boss-employee relation in the next one... The point is - whatever energy (love/hatred, cooperation/opposition, respect/insult) you send to a soul, comes back to you in return from the soul. The interval between you radiating the energy to him & then getting its return may be of a few seconds, a few years or even a few lives. But it does come back, for sure. When I understand the deep secrets of Karma, I understand why s/he is doing what-so-ever with me. I would not expect him/her to change, rather my focus shifts to what I should do at my end to resolve this. Wonderful point is that any past karmic account can be resolved even if just one (one of the two) starts radiating the right energy. Meaning that one person starts thinking the right way, all the time. [Karma - Law & Living] [Watch the videos provided below in the email to learn how to settle past karmic account.]

CREATE YOUR MIRACLE - USE THE POWER OF YOUR THOUGHTS Now, how would you know whether you're sending positive energy to your husband or negative? Simply, by checking your thoughts about him throughout the day because every thought radiates energy to the soul the thought was created for. Are your thoughts... "Why is he like this?" "How can a husband do like this to his wife?" "He always does so!" "He will never change!" "He just doesn't support"

The energy of questioning someone Why he's like this...& so on radiates rejection to him. Negative energy. The energy of He's not supportive, insults me, doesn't care about me also radiates negative energy. "You're no good" Though it is true that he's insulting, he's not supporting, the quality of the thoughts is negative. This depletes him even more, which makes him behave even worse the next time. To resolve the conflict in your relationship, you need to consciously think positively about him. Not seeing the 'present him', just think as elevated as possible. You may think - But how can I lie to myself and think of him being very nice which he is not! The real nature of any soul is - He's full of respect, full of love, full of purity, peace & bliss. Life after life a soul's divinity decreases gradually. It's like every soul has 2 layers of sanskars/traits. (1) original sanskars of complete divinity [this set is highly powerful], (2) negative sanskars gained in the past few lives. The Innate set of sanskars is very powerful but is in 'merged' form in most of the souls since they haven't been used (not brought into practice/practical Karmas), to help someone emerge their innate sanskars, we need to change our perspective for them. When we elevate our vision for them and look at them, think about them as their original divine form, their divinity awakens. This is the power of our thoughts! Our thoughts manifest into reality. If you create 50 negative thoughts about him and create 5 good ones, the result will be? You've to make sure you chose to think good always & create a miracle in your life! ADOPT A HEALTHY MIND-STYLE LIVING To naturally think positively, we need positive mind-style. That is our day should be full of reading, watching and listening to positive, elevated information only. Because that is what becomes the raw material for our minds to create thoughts! We're sharing some videos in this email, such energizing videos will boost your energy. Daily listening to such videos, reading spiritual knowledge feed your mind a healthy diet. Independently (irrespective of people's behavior and situations) you will start feeling great, peaceful and happy. And that is what life is for! To be happy unconditionally, in every single moment. Your happiness is in your hands, the remote control of your mind shouldn't be in anyone's hands. That is - if someone speaks a line or two of disrespect, you will feel insulted? Immediately your mind should speak - "S/he behaved through his/her sanskars, it reflects their depleted energy, it is about them. It is not about me. I love them back, I respect them back, that's the real power. I do not get influenced by their energy, I protect myself with this knowledge and I respond with the right energy." CONNECT WITH THE SUPREME POWER TO FILL YOURSELF WITH LOVE! When you have an unlimited source of Emotional Support, Happiness, Love, Bliss, Powers, Peace... would you need it from anyone else? We souls have an eternal relationship with the Supreme Soul. God, the Almighty Authority, the ocean of Love, Bliss, Peace & Powers... He is our true Husband, Parent, Friend, Teacher & Guide. Since the day He himself has descended on the earth, He has revealed all the secrets about Him (His name, form, residence, how He is, His divine task). He has also revealed wonderful secrets about us, our journey so far, our future, the secrets about The World Time Cycle, The Three Worlds & Karma Philosophy. Most importantly He has taught the way to connect ourselves directly with Him - this is RajYoga Meditation. Sitting anywhere in the world, doing what-so-ever task, we can stay in connection with Him, take his help to solve our problems, use His powers in our tasks and create our miracles! To make your life a blissful one, to make your relationship loveful & harmonious is like creating a miracle for you, right? We welcome you to learn RajYoga Meditation at a nearby Brahma Kumaris center. You will surely be able to transform your life with the Supreme Soul's love & powers. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- WONDERFUL VIDEOS TO HELP YOU. WATCH THEM ALL! :)

----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- This is God's creation for the New World (Heaven). We welcome you to learn ABOUT US -> https://www.brahma-kumaris.com/about-us ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Here is our Further advice -> You should do 'Swamaan Abhyas' Swamaan = Self true respect of the soul which is Peaceful, Pure, Loveful and Powerful. HOW TO DO? Early morning - wake up around 5:00 am and focus your mind and listen to these commentaries -> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_kYVRgC1PFM&list=PLVTJYOj3fHtHjdxqZhniGRCjWUv6MlRMY&index=1 (FULL Playlist) While you listen to these guided commentaries above, you should focus the attention to the middle of the forehead, where me THE SOUL reside. -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

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